Today I am answering a listeners question, and many others who have asked me this over the years. This is not an easy topic, it's emotionally charged and can really weigh heavily on those of you who are facing this.
There are absolutely tactics that an abuser will use to gain power over you, get you to do something they want, or avoid responsibility. So how do you know if it's a tactic, or really a threat?
I will answer this today and offer a few suggestions on how to navigate this situation.
No matter what another human you once loved has done to you, they are still a human being and life is a precious gift. Holding onto this humanity in these situations as well as letting go of control and the responsibility to save someone is a balancing act. But it's worth practicing.
I thank the listener who sent this question in, I know it was brave and heartfelt and this podcast is where I hope women can come and feel heard, validated, uplifted and empowered.
*Please call 911 if there is any immediate threat of suicide.
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This episode is not intended to diagnose but only inform. Please seek professional help if you are having suicidal thoughts.
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