When women reach out to me about their affair, they’re often experiencing a whirlwind of emotions: adoration for their new partner, guilt over their spouse’s feelings, and, above all else, utter confusion about how to move forward. For reasons unbeknownst to them, they can’t bring themselves to let go of their marriage, yet ending the affair feels impossible - and maybe they’ve even tried and failed several times before.

“Where do I go from here?” they ask me. “Will I be stuck in this spot forever?”

In this judgment-free episode, I explain what causes decision paralysis in relationships and why more and more modern women are seeking affair partners. Then, I’ll walk you through a 3-step process to decide exactly what you want, whether or not it’s possible to achieve it, and how you can start moving forward toward happiness.

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• What I say to women who are having an affair and don’t know how to stop (hint: it’s not judgment, and it’s not “just end it already!”)
• The real reasons it feels impossible to leave your marriage, even when you’re having an affair
• Why things can never go back to “the way they were” pre-affair (and why that’s okay)
• How to stop giving your power away (and create a healthy future for yourself, with or without your husband or affair partner)
• 3 steps to get 100% clear on what you want (and create a realistic path to long-term happiness)

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• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
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Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

Until the 1970s, women couldn’t file for divorce without hard evidence of abuse or infidelity. Today, divorce rates are skyrocketing - and it’s the women who are leaving in droves.

In this episode, I explain what’s caused this massive shift in modern relationship dynamics. I also explore the biological differences between men and women and what causes imbalanced marriage satisfaction over the years.

If you’ve ever wondered how your husband seems “fine” while you’re falling apart... don’t miss this special episode of The Loving Truth podcast.

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• The massive shifts that are affecting today’s relationships (and causing most marriages to be ended by the woman)
• The differences in how men and women find life satisfaction (and how this impacts relationship dynamics)
• Why relationship coaches (including myself) primarily speak to women, not men
• How today’s relationships differ from those of even one generation ago (and the resulting resentments we need to watch out for)
• Why women struggle to get the connection they want in marriage (even if their husbands genuinely want to appease them)

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

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Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

You might’ve thought that 20 years into your marriage, you’d have it all figured out… but that’s rarely the case. In fact, the divorce rate for couples aged 50+ is skyrocketing, and it’s the women who are serving the papers.

In this episode, I explore why that is and what makes relationships falter after decades spent together. You’ll learn about new challenges to anticipate in a mature marriage and how to navigate conflicting desires and goals with your partner. I’ll also share 5 warning signs that your marriage is in trouble so you can get out ahead of snowballing issues and give your relationship the best shot possible.

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• Why two-thirds of divorces between couples aged 50+ are instigated by the woman
• The unique struggles we face in mature marriages (even if the early days went well)
• 5 warning signs that your marriage is in trouble (and what to do about it)
• Why many men and women are misaligned in their goals & energy levels after the kids move out
• How to renegotiate what the second half of your marriage looks like

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

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Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

Most couples acknowledge the concept of “emotional infidelity,” but what does it actually mean? Flirting? Exchanging provocative photos? Sharing intimate life details that create deeper feelings?

In this episode, I’ll show you two ways to define emotional infidelity so you and your partner are both crystal clear on expectations. I also explore why emotional affairs happen (even to people who never expected themselves to cheat) and how you can avoid infidelity, either by yourself or your spouse, in the future.

Want more help rekindling the “spark” in your marriage - or determining whether it’s possible at all? Click here to sign up for my free on-demand training, Living Like Roommates, where we’ll dive deep into what’s caused the distance in your relationship so you can understand how to move forward in a new direction.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• What constitutes an emotional affair
• How unsuspecting women become involved in affairs (even when they used to judge others for it)
• Why affair partners are typically the opposite of your current partner
• 2 ways to reduce the likelihood of emotional infidelity in your marriage
• How to create your own definition of infidelity with your partner

Featured On The Show:

• Sign up for my free Living Like Roommates training
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

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Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

It’s well known that first marriages end at a rate of 40-50%. But why do second marriages end at a rate of 67% and third marriages at 73% - despite the extra relationship experience accumulated?

In this episode, I explore what we take with us from relationship to relationship and how responsibility is shared in divorce. I also share ways to heal yourself and shift your “background music behaviors” so you can find success in future relationships, whether you stay where you are or seek happiness elsewhere.

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• Why the divorce rate rises with second, third, and fourth marriages
• 3 common concerns of women facing their second divorce
• How to determine who’s really responsible for a marriage ending
• Why trying to find someone who “makes you feel the way you want to feel” is an unproductive goal (and what to do instead)
• How to heal yourself (regardless of whether you stay in or leave your marriage)

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

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Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

In times of desperation, it’s something we ask everyone around us - friends, family, even the internet… “Is my marriage over?”

Unfortunately, as you may have found, getting outside opinions on your marriage will never lead to your own answer. In this episode, I’ll share the one path that will consistently bring you to a place of clarity so you can determine whether it’s time to reinvest in your marriage or lovingly leave it.

If you’re questioning whether you can recover the feelings you’ve lost for your spouse, and you’re serious about putting an end to feeling stuck, lost, and alone… I’ve written a book just for you. It’s called Stay Or Go: How To Find Confidence And Clarity So You Can Fix Your Marriage, Or Move Forward Without Regret. The approach I share in this bestselling book has already worked for thousands of women struggling in lonely, disconnected marriages, and I’m confident that it will work for you, too. If you don’t want to spend another day stuck in indecision, get your copy of Stay Or Go now.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• The one path that will consistently help you find clarity about your marriage
• Why asking friends, family, and the internet won’t lead you to your answer
• What to do if your spouse wants to give up on the marriage, but you don’t

Featured On The Show:

• Can’t decide how to move forward in your marriage? Grab a copy of my bestselling book, Stay Or Go.
• Want even more tools to improve communication in your marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube

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Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

When their concerns are brushed off, women often give up trying to fix the marriage, leaving them dissatisfied for years on end… and leaving men completely blindsided when faced with divorce papers.

The truth is, in most relationships, both parties could be doing more to give the marriage a fair shot. And if we don’t make critical changes sooner rather than later, the decision of whether to stay or go could be made for us.

In this episode, you’ll learn how to improve communication on both sides and use honest, open dialogue to get everyone’s needs met - before the marriage is past saving.

If you’re questioning whether you can recover the feelings you’ve lost for your spouse, and you’re serious about putting an end to feeling stuck, lost, and alone… I’ve written a book just for you. It’s called Stay Or Go: How To Find Confidence And Clarity So You Can Fix Your Marriage, Or Move Forward Without Regret. The approach I share in this bestselling book has already worked for thousands of women struggling in lonely, disconnected marriages, and I’m confident that it will work for you, too. If you don’t want to spend another day stuck in indecision, get your copy of Stay Or Go now.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• My biggest regret about how my first marriage ended (and how you can avoid this for yourself)
• What happens when the small “give-ups” in a marriage pile up
• Why I discourage women from working with me in secret
• How you might accidentally be putting your spouse at a huge disadvantage (and not giving your marriage a full shot)
• Why men suddenly want to change when divorce papers are served (and how to open up this potential before the marriage is over)

Featured On The Show:

• Can’t decide how to move forward in your marriage? Grab a copy of my bestselling book, Stay Or Go.
• Want even more tools to improve communication in your marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube

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• Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on on Apple Podcasts or

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

Society will tell you that marriage is the finish line… but in reality, it’s just the beginning. Too many of today’s marriages suffer from neglect (and, in turn, disconnection) because we place our marriages on a shelf, expecting them to last through the ages without proper attention and care.

In this episode, I share some of my best practices for regular relationship “upkeep” to repair and maintain your bond across the decades. You might be amazed at your relationship’s potential once it’s being regularly prioritized and nurtured!

If you’re struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• What happens to your marriage the moment you “put it on a shelf”
• How to add structure & process to your marriage (this may not sound romantic, but it could change everything for your bond)
• How to rebuild intimate connection between you and your spouse (in just 5-10 minutes a day)

Featured On The Show:

• Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

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Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.

Are you and your partner living like roommates? Do you have love for your spouse, but you’re not IN love with him? Do all of your interactions revolve around logistics - kids, running a household, work, etc.?

Like anything worth having, marriages will suffer from disrepair over time if we neglect them. And if we don’t make quick moves to change things, we could lose our chance to restore the connection we once had.

In this episode, I explore what a disconnected marriage is, how we get there, and whether or not change is possible. Best of all, you’ll get a special tool you use right away to start alleviating resentment and closing the gap between you and your partner.

Want more help rekindling the “spark” in your marriage - or determining whether it’s possible at all? Click here to sign up for my free on-demand training, Living Like Roommates, where we’ll dive deep into what’s caused the distance in your relationship so you can understand how to move forward in a new direction.

What You’ll Learn In This Episode:

• What constitutes a “disconnected marriage”
• A common warning sign that you’re growing apart from your spouse
• How & why we become disconnected over the years
• How to determine whether change is possible for your marriage
• The very first thing you should do if you want to reconnect with your spouse (no, it’s not gazing into his eyes for 20 seconds every day… in fact, it doesn’t require his involvement at all!)

Featured On The Show:

• Sign up for my free Living Like Roommates training
• Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube
• If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you’d like me to answer on the show, email us.

Enjoy the Show?

• Don’t miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.

Love what you’re hearing? Leave a rating & review on Apple Podcasts!

Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you’re serious about finding that answer?

Book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We’ll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there’s a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage.