Do you suppress your anger? When you do express these feelings, do you blow up on people, like your partner, children, or coworkers? Looking for practical tools to create change? In this episode of the Men's Self-Help Podcast, Dr. John Moore will teach you two POWERFUL tools from the world of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) that can be used as coping strategies. Learn how to channel your anger into a discussion with the aim of getting your needs met. As part of the discussion, you'll also learn why anger is not a dirty word.

This week's listener email comes from a man who is struggling with an inability to urinate in public places and isn't sure what to do. Learn about shy bladder syndrome, also referred to as paruresis.

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Do you have a partner who never initiates sex? Has this dynamic caused frustration or confusion in your relationship? In this episode of the Men's Self-Help Podcast, sponsored by BetterHelp, Dr. John explores the idea of "It's Always Been This Way" and how reframing the core question can create real change.

You'll also hear from a listener who wants to know if it's OK to start dating someone he previously hooked up with on an app. If you're thinking about strengthening your relationship or building a healthier foundation, you might also find this resource helpful: Premarital Counseling in Chicago.

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Do you struggle with negative self-talk? Has it caused you to derail? Hoping to learn how to combat it? In this episode, sponsored by Better Help, Dr. John Moore creates a metaphor with your mind being a train and how – if you aren't careful – your thoughts can act as objects that can lead to derailment. You'll learn 7 concrete ways from combatting negative thinking, plus several resources. You'll also hear from a listener who is having difficulties with adjusting to life as the pandemic eases. Re-entry anxiety and FOMO are discussed. Show notes for this episode can be found on the Guy Counseling blog.

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You may have heard of the term erotic hypnosis, but does such a thing exist? In this episode of the Men's Self-Help Podcast sponsored by Better Help, Dr. John explores the topic of hypnosis and offers listeners a working definition. He then moves on to explaining what erotic hypnosis is – and what it is not. Examples and resources are shared as part of the experience. You'll also hear a listener email from a man who is having problems with his libido.

Resources Mentioned:

For men exploring their sexuality and seeking affirming mental health support, 2nd Story Counseling offers LGBTQ+ therapy in Chicago with experienced therapists who understand the unique challenges facing the LGBTQ+ community. Additional resources on sexual health and mental wellness can be found through the American Psychological Association and Psychology Today's Therapist Directory.

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Struggling with perfectionism? Looking for practical ways to create change? In this episode, Dr. John Moore explores some of the causal reasons behind perfectionism, which are largely linked to early childhood. In addition, you'll be offered 7 straightforward ways to dial down perfectionism in your own life.

As part of the show sponsored today by Better Help, you'll hear an email from a man who is feeling shame around his weight gain and wanting to exercise but isn't sure what to do. Visit the guycounseling.com website.

If you are in Chicago and looking for therapy and counseling on the nothside, consider 2nd Story Counseling.

Learn the signs and symptoms of obsessive thinking, also referred to as rumination. Click here to access shownotes with informational links for episode 28. You can also visit the show's website at guycounseling.com to access the shownotes.

Searching for ways to create physical intimacy in your relationship? In this show, Dr. John walks listeners through the technique of sensate focus. Learn how to bring that feeling of closeness and intuitiveness back to your love life. Learn about a 10% discount to listeners of the podcast with BetterHelp.

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Do you struggle to find the motivation to reach goals, like exercising, eating healthier or learning a new skill? Does depression get in your way of motivation? In this podcast, Dr. Moore explores goal attainment using the "As If" technique. He also responds to a listener email regarding the idea of moving in together before getting married.

Do you struggle with shame? Are you looking for healthy ways of working through? Trying to up your self-esteem? In this podcast, Dr. John explores the issue of toxic shame and explains:

1. What shame is

2. How it manifests psychologically and physiologically

3. Concrete steps for working through

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In this podcast, learn how to reduce anxiety and cope with stress through Autogenic Training (AT). Discover a new way to create calm from within.

Narrated by Dr. Moore, listen as he guides you through an amazing experience while teaching you a tool for coping with anxiety.

Copy of narration available in show notes. This anxiety podcast is designed as a tool for healthy coping.