Ever find yourself staying in a relationship just because you’ve already invested so much time and energy? In this episode of This Doesn’t Count as Therapy, we dive deep into the sunk cost fallacy—why we cling to things that no longer serve us and how this affects our decision-making in relationships.

If you’ve been feeling unsure about whether to stay or move on, this episode is for you!

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Ever wondered why familiarity feels so safe, even when it’s holding you back? Join us on "This Doesn't Count as Therapy" as we explore the psychology behind comfort zones and the necessity of breaking free from them. Through personal stories of career changes and education pursuits, we illustrate how stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to profound personal growth. Using the analogy of repotting plants, we’ll show you how outgrowing your current environment can be the key to thriving. Learn to recognize signs of stagnation, such as autopilot living and self-sabotage, and discover practical steps like seeking certifications or exploring new career paths to reignite your growth.


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This is not a substitute for therapy and should not be used as a replacement for the therapeutic relationship, individualized mental health or medical care. Please seek professional guidance. We hold no liability for any medical advice given in this space. Please speak to your medical provider.

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Therapy resources:
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Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Christal R Pennic, LPC-MHSP, a licensed mental health therapist who specializes in grief and bereavement. Chris opens up about her journey with loss and how it has transformed her approach to mental health care. Together, we explore the coexistence of joy and sorrow, diving into how acceptance isn't about being "okay" but learning to live with a new reality, and learning to give yourself permission to grieve. Chris shares insightful techniques for addressing negative self-talk and reframing cognitive patterns to tackle the guilt that often accompanies loss.

ABOUT THE GUEST:
Chris is a Licensed Mental Health Therapist that specializes in Grief, Loss and Bereavement. She has experience providing grief therapy and trauma trainings within Metro Nashville Police Department, churches and in her private practice. Her practice, Tittle-Pennic Grief Counseling & Consulting, LLC is a merging of her mother’s last name and her family name. Her family history is the “why” behind the healing work that she provides today. 

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https://www.tpgcc.com/
https://youtube.com/@thegripspot
IG: thegr.ipspot

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until next time,
Carlissa

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This is not a substitute for therapy and should not be used as a replacement for the therapeutic relationship, individualized mental health or medical care. Please seek professional guidance. We hold no liability for any medical advice given in this space. Please speak to your medical provider.

All opinions are mine and mine alone and do not represent my employer.

Therapy resources:
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Make the decision to stop the cycle. Today will take a brief introduction into why we keep dating the same type of person, even when it leads to heartbreak, trauma, or disappointment. We'll explore the subconscious beliefs and habits that keep us stuck in familiar relationship patterns and offer strategies to help you recognize and break free from these cycles.

(This episode is not based on relationships where abuse may be present. if you or someone you know is struggling with an abusive relationship please call 800.799.SAFE (7233) or visit https://www.thehotline.org/)

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This is not a substitute for therapy and should not be used as a replacement for the therapeutic relationship, individualized mental health or medical care. Please seek professional guidance. We hold no liability for any medical advice given in this space. Please speak to your medical provider.

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Therapy resources:
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SURPRISE BONUS EPISODE TO CELEBRATE 100 DOWNLOADS 🎉 In this episode, we explore the importance of finding value in the journey rather than just focusing on the destination.

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This is not a substitute for therapy and should not be used as a replacement for the therapeutic relationship, individualized mental health or medical care. Please seek professional guidance. We hold no liability for any medical advice given in this space. Please speak to your medical provider.

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Therapy resources:
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Imagine if we all treated love as an action rather than just a fleeting emotion. This week on "This Doesn't Count as Therapy," we draw from Dr. Bell Hooks' seminal work, "All About Love," to challenge the conventional wisdom about love and relationships. By redefining love as a verb, we explore how commitment, responsibility, and intentional effort can transform our connections with others. 

This episode is a heartfelt call to show up intentionally in all our interactions, to celebrate the diverse ways love manifests beyond romance.

Grab a copy of All About Love here: https://bellhooksbooks.com/ 

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A brief talk about the desire to control others and the impact it can have on your mental health and well-being.

Some signs of codependency: Extreme and relentless self-sacrifice, hella resentment, a tendency to focus on others, a need for control, and difficulty recognizing and expressing your emotions. 

Get a copy of Codependent No More by Melody Beattie: https://www.melodybeattie.com/books
I love this book so much and this is not sponsored (a girl can only dream) <3

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In this podcast, the host will talk about how to take accountability for your own happiness! You deserve to be happy and don't have to wait for other people to prove it to you. Grab a pen and paper and let's go on this journey together.  

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Therapy resources:
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https://therapyforblackgirls.com
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People pleaser:  a person feels a strong urge to please others, even at their own expense. 

Are you setting yourself on fire to keep others warm? Listen to find out what that means.

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This is not a substitute for therapy and should not be used as a replacement for the therapeutic relationship, individualized mental health or medical care. Please seek professional guidance. We hold no liability for any medical advice given in this space. Please speak to your medical provider.

All opinions are mine and mine alone and do not represent my employer.

Therapy resources:
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https://therapyforblackgirls.com
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