Dear Dr. Tracy

Why Do We Feel Like Roommates?


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When we first fall in love, there’s an attraction and excitement that sets the person apart from anyone else in the world - yet over time, we shift away from this.

When I polled the community 67% of you said you felt like your partner’s roommate rather than their lover. Conversations feel transactional. There’s a loss of physical connection. The spark feels lost.

But why does this happen? What can we do about it?

 In this episode, I discuss:

  • What the honeymoon phase is [0:30]
  • Reasons why you might feel like roommates [1:30]
  • 7 ideas to try to shift from roommates back into lovers [3:48]
  • Looking for more? Join me in my online teachings so you can feel like a team again

    Get intentional every day with your partner. Grab my Daily Rituals Guide.

    Ready to learn how to repair? Take my FREE masterclass

    Looking to improve your relationship? Join me in my online program, Be Connected

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