學英語環遊世界

The world is more beautiful than the world wide web. 现实世界比互联网要美妙多了。我的愿望很简单，就是用我的脚步去丈量这个世界, 在这次环欧旅行中，我试着要省钱和为了体验更多的文化尝试了沙发客的体验！这两个月的火车行我总共经历了19个不同地方当沙发客的体验，在我的couchsurfing档案里，我都会特别强调，我不是用沙发冲浪来约会的，（I’m not using couchsurfing to date!)，我将我两个月的行程公开后，收到了将近上百封的邀约！在每个沙发主人的档案上，你可以看得到他们过去接待的经验还有沙发客留下的评价（reference）。我尽量挑选亲切的留言、有良好评价，还有可以提供独立房间的沙发主。我得说这次欧洲沙发的冒险体验大多都是非常美好的，然而有少数几个让我感觉不是太舒服的，今天我就来分享一个吧！我也在节目最后提出了几个问题希望你们也可以思考一下或告诉我你是怎么想的。My couchsurfing host in Nice, France, who had lived there about 9 years with his family. His apartment was centrally located and it was perfect for my next journeys to Monaco and Geneva. I felt really lucky! During the time staying with him, there were also two couchsurfers from Kazakhstan sharing the apartment. It turned out we were going to the same travel conference those days too. I didn’t know those girls very well, but they seemed really friendly. The host was also lovely and helpful. However, those days the host often complained to me in private that he felt used when the girls had the breakfast he offered and never asked to wash the dishes or cook anything back. He never said anything right in front of them, though. I felt a bit uncomfortable about the situation and offered to make dumplings and buy lunch to compensate even though I was out of their interactions. I was trying to be a good guest however became somewhat uneasy living in his place as the week went on. It seemed that my efforts were interpreted the wrong way as some kind of romantic spark and some comments became uncomfortably flirtatious. In the end, I felt relieved when I finally left his place. 我在法国尼斯的沙发主和他家人住在法国九年了。他的公寓就在市中心，所以对我接下来的要去摩纳哥还有日内瓦（瑞士）的火车旅行会非常的方便。我感到很幸运！在他家住宿的那段时间，还有两位来自哈萨克斯坦的女孩，因为我们同样是参加俱乐部在欧洲的旅行大会，共享了他的公寓。我不是很认识这两个女生，但是她们人看起来非常友善。沙发主人也是非常的好和热心的主人。然而，他则在那几天一直在私底下和我抱怨这两个女生，吃他的喝他的，也没有做饭来回馈他。我则为了补偿他为他做了饺子还有买午餐。即使我和他的互动不是像他们和沙发主那样子，住在他家我还是感觉有点不自在，因为我试着要当一个好客人，然而他以为我们之间有浪漫的火花，在我待的那周言语中有点挑逗。终于离开他的地方时，我真的觉得解脱了。It got me thinking about a couple of questions, which I still don’t have conclusive answers to. I would be interested to hear other people’s views. 这件事让我想了好多问题，到现在我都没有确切的答案，我很好奇，也想听听其他人的意见。What is appropriate behavior for the host and the guest? Is it the same across cultures and how could we objectively understand the meaning behind words and actions? If a guest feels uncomfortable with something they see or with something they experience in a host’s place, is it appropriate to challenge this and if so, how? When we write a reference about an experience do we have a responsibility to write it only from our perspective or should we think about how other people might feel in that situation.到底什么是对于沙发主人和客人适当的行为呢？在不同的文化是一样准则的吗？我们要怎么客观的去理解话语和行为背后的意思呢？如果一个客人对于看到的某件事或他们在主人家里体验到感到不舒服的话，去拿出这件事来挑战对方是不是适当的事情呢？那应该怎么做了？还有我们需不需为对方写这件事的评价负责任？在写的时候我们是完全用我们的观点来写，还是试想别人可能会怎样感受到那个情况来写呢？

The restless race of the traveler's heart before the journey begins, when anxiety and anticipation are tangled together; wanderlust.旅行开始之前，当渴望和期盼缠在一起旅行者的心，如永不停歇的赛跑，旅行让人上瘾。只要每一次可以去探访新的地方，我的心就～～～～兴高采烈的飞呀飞！讲到我的环欧旅行进行了两个月时间，因为要离开西班牙了，才发现有好多地方其实没有去过，但是火车路线太多，所以就选了几个大城市。1.Valencia 瓦伦西亚 火车2.5 小时这一天索性就跳上了火车，第一站到了Valencia，傍晚到了我的airbnb，结果隔天下大雨，因为没有伞，在家里被困了一个早上，就吃了个早点，紧急抢救了我掉下来的鼻环（是一个小钻石），结果那个女刺青师傅没法弄，只好给我一个临时的鼻环（圈圈）我从来没有带过那种，觉得挺奇怪了，而这天为了赶路也没去看我一直很想拜访的海边和科博馆，这是遗憾。I jumped on the train to Valencia and arrived at my airbnb in the evening. The next day it was raining so hard and there was no umbrella in the house so I was stuck for the whole morning. I finally got out and had some breakfast and had to fix the nose stud that fell off when I was in the shower this morning. The girl in the tattoo shop couldn’t fix it so she gave me a temporary nose ring. I'd never had anything like that. I had always found it silly, so it felt so blizzard to have it. It was a pity I didn't get to see the beach and the science museum.2. Madrid 马德里 火车2.5小时下一站是马德里，这也不是我第一次去马德里，而是忽然想去见我很想去见的人，Guille和我认识已经有一年的时间，之前我在做西班牙语挑战的时候他和我联系，见到了西语主播Guille，本人又瘦又帅啊！刚好Guille鼻子上有一个和我相对称的鼻环，顿时觉得亲切了起来，Guille请我吃饭，聊得好深入好开心！记得那天素食菜一道道上来好像艺术品一样，Guille说是为了谢谢我之前给他在线上事业的建议。现在Guille开着房车在西班牙各地旅行中，他说也是那次晚餐受到了我生活方式的启发，让我非常感动。Next stop: Madrid. Though it wasn’t the first time to Madrid, I wanted to see the person I’d been wanting to see. Guille, who I met a year ago online when I was making a Spanish Challenge series on my podcast. I was so happy that I finally met him in person. He is a slim and good looking guy. We were wearing the matching nose ring so it suddenly made us closer. That evening Guille treated me to dinner and we had a really lovely and deep conversation. Gulle said he wanted to thank me for the advice I gave him for his online business. I remember the beautiful set of vegan meals just kept coming one after another and they not only looked like art but also delicious! Now Guille is traveling in his van around Spain all over. He said it was inspired by my lifestyle, and I feel really honored to be his muse.3. Seville 塞维尔 火车 2 hoursSeville的气候相对马德里暖了将近20度，接待我的沙发主人Daniel虽然英语不说，但是非常的亲切！他带我去许多地方，我最喜欢的是西班牙广场（Plaza de España)，就像他说的，绝对是西班牙最美的广场，隔天我自己到了市中心参观了大教堂，我穿了太多了，傍晚时分Daniel来接我，带我去市中心喝一杯到处逛逛，还带我去他发生初吻的小树下，超级可爱。有天晚上我就教Daniel包饺子做晚餐，然后我们一起在客厅唱起了西班牙语的卡拉OK超搞笑的。我想Daniel真的超级喜欢我，但是也很绅士。走的时候，Daniel带我去机场回巴塞罗那还送我他写的一首诗。（这是浪漫）Seville was 20 degrees warmer than Madrid. And the host Daniel didn’t speak any English but was super friendly. He took me to many places and my favorite was Spanish Square. And just like he said, it is definitely the most beautiful Spanish Square in Spain. The next day I was walking around the old town and was amazed by the huge cathedral and the warm weather. Daniel picked me up and took me to a tapa place. He told me many interesting stories about Seville and even took me to the tree he had his first kiss. It was very adorable. I showed Daniel how to make dumplings for dinner and we sang Karaoke in his living room and it was hilarious.He definitely liked me too much but was also very respectful. He took me to the airport to Barcelona and even gave me a poem he wrote as a goodbye present. Guille 的公众微信：Guille 西语说Fly with Lily 网站 flywithlily.comFB、IG、YT：flywithlily公众微信号：iflyclub、englishfit喜马拉雅的Podcast节目名称：学英语环游世界现在在忙什么？Podcast课程：https://hahow.in/cr/lily-podcaster和Lily一起说英语去旅行训练营：加微信iflyclub，回复“训练营”，每月初开营云雀实验室：加微信englishfit，回复5AM喜马拉雅ximi团会员招募：https://reurl.cc/Q30Q6M

The impulse to travel is one of the hopeful symptoms of life. 想去旅行的冲动是一种生活充满希望的征兆。Austin和我认识的故事：I need a sign 我需要一个信号（from the universe）1. 在认识Austin不到12个小时，跳上了他的车子 I jumped on his car after only knowing Austin for 12 hours.2. 开了20个小时从Orlando,Florida 到Independence，Missouri We drove 20 hours from Orlando,Florida to his home Independence，Missouri.3. 让我住在他家一个礼拜，睡他的房间，他自己在客厅地板上。I stayed at his place, he gave me his room and slept on the floor in the living room. 4. Austin那个时候一家美式餐厅担任服务员，我印象最深刻的是，每次去吃饭，他给的小费都好多，而且每次都会看着服务员的眼睛很诚挚的说谢谢。Austin was a waiter at Red Robin. What struck me the most, every time I went to have meals with him, he always tipped a lot, and he always sincerely said thanks to the people who waited on us.5. 我们仍然保持联系。事实上，昨天我们聊天，他跟我说，他开始学习中文了，还和我要了几个学习语言的秘诀。We still kept in touch. Actually, yesterday he reached out to me and said he’s now starting speaking Mandarin and asked me for a few language learning tips!Fly with Lily 网站 flywithlily.comFB、IG、YT：flywithlily公众微信号：iflyclub、englishfit喜马拉雅的Podcast节目名称：学英语环游世界现在在忙什么？Podcast课程：https://hahow.in/cr/lily-podcaster和Lily一起说英语去旅行训练营：加微信iflyclub，回复“训练营”，每月初开营云雀实验室：加微信englishfit，回复5AM喜马拉雅ximi团会员招募：https://reurl.cc/Q30Q6M

My goal is to build a life I don't need a vacation from. 我的目标是创建一种不需要休假的生活。2019 was my biggest travel year. I was in 22 different countries.2019年暴走了22个国家2020 was when I was very frustrated with my travel dreams and business. I found freedom in spirit.2020年旅游梦受挫，但是找到了心灵上的自由2021 I can regroup and learn with full passion and I want to really get to know myself.2021年重新出发，好好学习，认识自己If my podcast has helped you in any way, please let me know!如果我的播客帮助你，请告诉我。You can message me at my FB/IG page @flywithlily or leave a 5 star review on Apple Podcasts or Ximalaya App.你可以直接私信我的FB/IG粉丝页，或者留下一颗五星的评价在Apple Podcasts或者是喜马拉雅的app跟Lily一起说英语去旅行的训练营即将在3.1开营啰！有144节线上课程，针对24个不同的旅游场景循环加深强度，课后你还可以缴交自己的录音还有老师亲自帮助你纠正不好的发音，让你立即开口说英语，在家学习也好像在世界各地游走！现在报名到公众微信帐号iflyclub，回覆训练营，跟我们一起学英语环游世界去！

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Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and go do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive. ～Howard Thurman不要问自己世界需要什么？问你自己，是什么让你活过来？去做吧，因为世界需要的活出自我的人。～霍华德·瑟曼1. What was your favorite thing to do growing up?2. When you were a child, what did you dream of doing when you grew up?3. What is your favorite topic to talk about?4. What do you like doing so much that you lose track of time?5. Whose life do you envy the most and why?6. What would you do differently with your education if you got a chance to start over?7. If you had 5 minutes and the whole world was forced to listen, what would you say?8. What would you do with your life if you had no fear?9. What would you do with your life if you had a guarantee of success?10. What would you do with your life if money wasn’t an issue?1.你从小到大最喜欢做什么？2.当你还是个孩子的时候，你的梦想你长大后在干什么？3.你最喜欢谈论的话题是什么？4.你做什么会入迷的忘记时间？5.你最羡慕谁的生活？为什么？6.如果你有机会重新开始一次你的学校生活，你会么改变它？7.如果你有5分钟时间让全世界听你说话，你会说什么？8.如果你没有恐惧，你会做什么？9.如果你保证会成功，你会做什么？10.如果钱不是问题，你会做什么？**和Lily一起感受清晨五点起床的丰盛仪式，云雀实验室2.15开始22天早起直播活动，报名参加，关注微信号：iflyclub，回复文字：早起。

The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why. ~ Mark Twain你生命中最重要的两天：你出生的那一天还有你找出你为什么出生的那一天。～马克吐温The 9 Keys to Ikigai 找到IKIGAI的九个关键do what you do best 做你做最棒的事情know how to say no 知道如何去说不take care of your energy 照顾你的精力practice continuous personal development 持续个人成长stop and decide to do something fulfilling 停下来决定做有意义的事情align your personal values with those of your company/business 让你的公司还有事业的价值观和你保持一致simplify. don't make things difficult 简化。不要让事情变得困难love the why of your company/business/purpose 爱上你成立公司/开展事业/人生目的的原因trust in others 相信别人**和Lily一起感受清晨五点起床的丰盛仪式，云雀实验室2.15开始22天早起直播活动，报名参加，关注微信号：iflyclub，回复文字：早起。**这次被邀请到Podfest Global会支持中文场，邀请了女力心声的Anne谈播客社群行销、艺术家制造公司的Keno谈创意还有雪瑞说的Sherriel来聊商业模式，http://podfestglobal.online，想要免费的票吗? 这集节目也会教你如何拿到！

The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why. ~ Mark Twain你生命中最重要的两天：你出生的那一天还有你找出你为什么出生的那一天。～马克吐温The 9 Keys to Ikigai 找到IKIGAI的九个关键do what you do best 做你做最棒的事情know how to say no 知道如何去说不take care of your energy 照顾你的精力practice continuous personal development 持续个人成长stop and decide to do something fulfilling 停下来决定做有意义的事情align your personal values with those of your company/business 让你的公司还有事业的价值观和你保持一致simplify. don't make things difficult 简化。不要让事情变得困难love the why of your company/business/purpose 爱上你成立公司/开展事业/人生目的的原因trust in others 相信别人**和Lily一起感受清晨五点起床的丰盛仪式，云雀实验室2.15开始22天早起直播活动，报名参加，关注微信号：iflyclub，回复文字：早起。**这次被邀请到Podfest Global会支持中文场，邀请了女力心声的Anne谈播客社群行销、艺术家制造公司的Keno谈创意还有雪瑞说的Sherriel来聊商业模式，http://podfestglobal.online，想要免费的票吗? 这集节目也会教你如何拿到！

1227 活出ikigai的10个规则One day you will tell your story of how you overcame what you went through and it will be someone else’s survival guide. 有一天你会讲述一个你度过难关的故事，而且有一天它会变成某人的生存指南。1. Stay active; don't retire 保持活跃，不要退休2. Take it slow 慢慢来3. Don' t fill your stomach 不要吃太撑，8分饱就行4. Surround yourself with good friends 让自己围绕着好朋友5. Get in shape for your next birthday 为了下一个生日好好的健身6. Smile 微笑7. Reconnect with nature 和大自然重新连接8. Give thanks 给予感谢9. Live in the moment 活在当下10. Follow your ikigai 活出属于自己的人生意义和Lily一起感受清晨五点起床的丰盛仪式，云雀实验室2.15开始22天早起直播活动，报名参加，关注微信号：iflyclub，回复文字：早起。

Seek the wisdom that will untie your knot. Seek the path that demands your whole being. 寻找那会打开你心结的智慧。寻找那会让你全身心投入的那条路。～Rumi如何找到人生目的IKIGAI？1. 找出这四个问题的答案，写越多越好！2. 是否可以有交错融合之处？3. 用一句话来叙述自己的IKIGAI这四个问题是：1. What you love 你热爱的2. What you‘re good at 你擅长的3. What you can be paid for 你可以赚钱的项目4. What the world needs 这个世界需要的但：结合了1&2你找到了Passion 热情，你会感到Satisfaction, but feelings of uselessness 满足但无用感结合了2&3你找到了Profession 专业，你会感到Comfortable, but feelings of emptiness 舒适但空虚结合了3&4你找到了Vocation 天职，你会感到Exitement and complacency, but sense of uncertainty 兴奋和自满，但是不确定的感觉结合了1&4你找到了Mission 使命，你会感到Delight and fullness, but no wealth 喜悦和满足但是没有财富Happy Chinese New Year's Eve 祝福大家除夕夜快乐！和Lily一起感受清晨五点起床的丰盛仪式，云雀实验室2.15开始22天早起直播活动，报名参加，关注微信号：iflyclub，回复文字：早起。