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In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian sits down with expert Jack Schafer to explore the intricate dynamics of deception and how it fits into the broader context of negotiation and human interaction. Schafer, with his extensive background in law enforcement and behavioral analysis, shares insights into understanding deception not merely as a negative influence, but as a complex element of communication. The discussion covers the art of deception detection and techniques to manage conversations where dishonesty is present, emphasizing empathetic and respectful approaches that maintain relationships. Listeners are equipped with innovative techniques that integrate strategic questioning, observation of non-verbal cues, and ways to make people feel respected and valued, which can transform the negotiation landscape.
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Connect with John R. "Jack" Schafer
Buy Now: The Truth Detector: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide for Getting People to Reveal the Truth (The Like Switch Series Book 2)
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Why do smart, successful people feel trapped in constant busyness?
In this episode, Dorie Clark — author of The Long Game — joins Kwame Christian to reveal why thinking long-term feels almost impossible in a world that rewards urgency.
They explore the psychology of busyness, how scarcity rewires our decisions, and what it takes to find courage, patience, and joy in the process — even when the world keeps screaming “faster.”
In this episode:
Why “I’m busy” has become the new humble brag
The emotional roots of scarcity and overwork
How to build meaning instead of chasing more
The courage required to think long-term
What AI and technology mean for the future of communication
Connect with Dorie
dorieclark.com
Buy the Book: THE LONG GAME How to Be a Long-Term Thinker in a Short-Term World
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When life shatters everything you thought was safe, what do you do next?
You’ll learn:
How to rebuild confidence when you’ve hit rock bottom
The secret power of changing your inner language
Why self-compassion isn’t weakness — it’s strategy
How hidden personal struggles silently shape workplaces and leadership
Whether you’re healing from heartbreak, burnout, or loss, this episode will show you that your lowest point can become your turning point.
Connect with Louize
www.louizecoaching.co.uk
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Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
In this episode, Jimmy Wales, the founder of Wikipedia, joins Kwame Christian to explore one of the biggest challenges of our time: the collapse of trust. From misinformation and social media outrage to AI deepfakes and short-term thinking, Jimmy shares what he’s learned about truth, integrity, and human connection after decades shaping the world’s largest source of information.
Discover why trust is disappearing—from our politics to our personal relationships—and what it actually takes to rebuild it. This conversation dives deep into how algorithms shape what we believe, how technology manipulates emotion, and how each of us can bring honesty and balance back into our lives.
If you’ve ever felt that the Internet is dividing us more than connecting us, this episode will change how you see the digital world—and what you can do about it.
Connect with Jimmy
Buy the book The Seven Rules of Trust: A Blueprint for Building Things That Last by Jimmy Wales
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Gaslighting isn’t just a relationship issue—it happens at work too. In this powerful conversation, psychotherapist and author Farah Harris opens up about her own painful experience with a toxic hire who weaponized her teachings, blurred boundaries, and tried to undermine her confidence as a leader.
Buy The Book: The Color of Emotional Intelligence by Farah Harris
Fara's website: www.workingwelldaily.com
Together with Kwame Christian, Farah unpacks:
The subtle red flags of manipulation and gaslighting in the workplace
Why emotionally intelligent leaders are prime targets for toxic behavior
How to set healthy boundaries without losing your empathy
Practical tools to stay grounded, reclaim your power, and protect your well-being
If you’ve ever left a meeting or conversation feeling drained, confused, or doubting yourself—this episode is for you. Learn how to spot manipulation early, safeguard your leadership, and build healthier professional (and personal) relationships.
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What do you do when a high-stakes negotiation turns aggressive?
In this episode, Ken Sterling—EVP at BigSpeak, USC professor, and legendary dealmaker—reveals why the loudest person in the room is often the least dangerous. Ken grew up on the rough streets of New York, where he learned that negotiation wasn't just a business skill; it was a survival tactic. He shares a harrowing story of surviving a literal gun to his head at age 15 by using the very principles of leverage and influence he uses to close multi-million dollar deals today.
If you want to move from "amygdala hijack" to a position of absolute calm, Ken’s TILT Framework is your roadmap.
Connect with Ken Sterling:
Website: BigSpeak.com
Book: Tilt: Trust, Influence, Leverage & Timing
LinkedIn: Ken Sterling
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What if the biggest thing holding you back in negotiations isn’t your strategy — but your mindset?
In this powerful masterclass episode of Negotiate Anything, we bring together multiple expert voices to unpack what really drives success in negotiation—and why confidence, belief, and ambition often matter more than tactics alone.
You’ll hear from Wies Bratby, founder of Women in Negotiation, whose clients have achieved an average 93% salary increase, alongside business coaches and legal experts who reveal how mindset shifts, communication skills, and relationship-building can transform your career and life.
This episode goes far beyond surface-level tips. It dives into:
You’ll also learn why negotiation isn’t just about money—it’s about identity, self-worth, and the courage to step into bigger opportunities.
If you’ve ever hesitated to ask for more, avoided a tough conversation, or questioned your value, this episode will challenge your thinking and give you the tools to move forward with intention.
Because at the end of the day, the best opportunities aren’t given—they’re negotiated.
What does it really take to build a $745 million startup from the ground up? Hint: It’s messy, painful, and nothing like the glamorous success stories you’ve heard.
In this raw, unfiltered conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with Cas and Mike Lazerow—the entrepreneurial power couple behind the massive success of Golf.com, which they sold to Time Warner for $745 million. But behind the impressive exit lies a story of relentless struggle, countless pivots, and emotional battles most founders never talk about.
Cas and Mike pull back the curtain on entrepreneurship’s harshest realities, sharing:
How embracing brutally tough conversations transformed their business (and marriage).
The secret mindset shifts that separate those who rise from those who burn out.
Why falling in love with the hardest parts of your journey can become your ultimate competitive edge.
This isn’t just another success story. It’s an honest look at the intense emotional cost that comes with high-stakes entrepreneurship—and a masterclass in how to survive the darkest moments of building something great.
If you’re grinding day after day, wondering why success still feels impossibly far away, this episode offers the reset and insights you never knew you needed.
Welcome to the real journey. It’s time to start shoveling.
Hit play now, and discover what success truly costs.
Buy The Book: Shoveling $h!t: A Love Story About the Entrepreneur’s Messy Path to Success
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You can have the best facts in the world, but if you’re a bad storyteller, your message will never land.
In this special Masterclass edition of Negotiate Anything, we go deep into the art and science of Storytelling. You’ll hear from two experts with completely different lenses: Allegra Salomon, an award-winning fiction writer, and John Moore, a master of LinkedIn communication and IT marketing.
Whether you are writing a book, prepping a keynote, or trying to win a deal on LinkedIn, these strategies will help you move from being "just another voice" to being truly unforgettable.
Connect With Allegra
Book: https://bookshop.org/p/books/there-s-nothing-left-for-you-here-allegra-solomon/7c35def4fe3bc669?ean=9781961897441&next=t
Website: https://www.allegra-solomon.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goldengxl/?hl=en
Connect with John Moore
Follow John on LinkedIn
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Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Conflict doesn’t have to break relationships—it can actually strengthen them when handled the right way.
In this masterclass episode of Negotiate Anything, we explore the art and strategy of building rapport in even the most difficult conversations. Featuring insights from experts across law, business, and high-stakes negotiation, this episode reveals why connection—not control—is the real key to influence.
You’ll learn how top negotiators stay composed in tense situations, use curiosity to uncover what’s really driving conflict, and ask the kinds of questions that make people feel heard and understood . From emotionally charged disputes to everyday workplace friction, the ability to build rapport can completely shift the outcome.
But rapport alone isn’t enough. This episode also dives into the balance between empathy and strength—when to collaborate, when to hold firm, and how to position yourself strategically without damaging the relationship.
Whether you’re navigating tough conversations at work or looking to sharpen your communication skills, this episode will give you practical tools you can use immediately.
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