Choose To Be with Choose Recovery Services; Betrayal Trauma Healing

Choose To Be with Choose Recovery Services; Betrayal Trauma Healing

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  • The Pitfalls of Making Your Partner's Reality Your Truth

    (Keep listening at 18:04 to hear about our NEW scholarship program. Email us at [email protected] to learn more!)


    Are you struggling to trust your own reality in a relationship? In this powerful episode, Alana explores how we sometimes abandon our truth to align with our partner’s version of reality, when dealing with betrayal trauma.

    Understand why this happens and learn practical strategies to reclaim your inner knowing. If you’ve ever felt foggy, confused, or crazy after conversations with your partner, this episode provides the validation you need to reconnect to your truth.

    Referenced in this episode:

    • Finding Freedom in Boundaries with Laura Fisher - past podcast episode

    Register Now and Get $200 Off!

    • Courage to Thrive Intensive - This in-person intensive is designed specifically for women who have experienced the pain of betrayal and are ready to begin the journey toward reclaiming their lives. Over four transformative days, you’ll gain the tools, skills, and support you need not just to survive, but to truly thrive. The intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT April 23-26.  Use promo code thriveapril2025 for $200 off.

    Coming up!

    • ⁠Unmasked: Paths to Authentic Masculinity for Men⁠⁠ - This is a four-day intensive designed to help men delve deep into understanding integrity, unveiling layers of shame, and reclaiming their authentic selves. Intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT on May 13th-16th.

    • Heal the Healer - Join us June 12–15 in Mapleton, UT for a luxurious, all-inclusive retreat for women who give endlessly to release your burdens and reconnect with yourself. Enjoy restorative experiences like yoga, somatic healing, rafting, hiking, a sound bath, and a salt cave, all while being nourished with delicious meals and relaxing in beautiful accommodations.

    ⁠Watch us⁠ on YouTube.

    ⁠Schedule⁠ a complimentary consultation with us.

    More from Choose Recovery Services

    • Beyond the Facade Podcast - Luke Gordon hosts a podcast geared toward helping men live authentically and in harmony with their values.

    • Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal. First four weeks are free!

    • Believing in You - In this program Amie teaches you how to work WITH your brain instead of against it.

    • Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal. 

    •  Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. 

    • Healing Hearts - For couples seeking healing after betrayal. It emphasizes the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy. 

    • Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. 

    • Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - We help men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. 

    • Choose Renewal - For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior, whether it’s a recurring challenge or a one-time incident. 

    • Betrayal Trauma Recovery Book Study Group - This group provides a safe space for women to discuss books about betrayal trauma, ask questions, and find community support. 

    • Resilient Teens - Ongoing support group for teens ages 15-18 whose parents have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

    • Adult Children Uniting for Healing - Ongoing support group for adult children of parents who have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    • Dating From Within - Learn how to know if you are ready to date again and what a healthy relationship looks like. 

    • Should I Stay or Go? - Self-paced course designed to help you on your journey toward self-discovery and personal empowerment.
    41 min
  • When the Healer is Hurting: Balancing Your Healing While Holding Space for Others

    Are you a therapist or coach balancing your own pain while also tending to your clients' needs? In this special bonus episode Alana explores the complexities of healing while helping others. 

    Tune in and learn how to maintain boundaries, avoid burnout, and embrace your humanity in this challenging dual role. 

    Also, learn more about our upcoming intensive that is just for YOU! Join us June 12th-15th in Mapleton, UT for our exclusive Heal the Healer retreat. This isn't another workshop demanding your mental energy—it's a luxurious, all-inclusive retreat where experienced practitioners will cater to your needs, allowing you to release your burdens and reconnect with yourself among women who truly understand what it means to constantly give to others. 

    Join us to experience–

    • Yoga and Wellness Activities

    • Mindfulness Sessions

    • Somatic Healing

    • Music Therapy

    • Rafting and Kayaking

    • Waterfall Hike

    • Sound Bath and Salt Cave Experience

    • Meals and Snacks

    • Luxurious Accommodations 

    And so much more! Learn more and register HERE.

    31 min
  • Partner, Not Parent: Healthy Ways to Support a Betraying Spouse

    Do you struggle with balancing support versus enabling your partner in your relationship? This week, Amie and Alana clarify how betrayed partners can differentiate between supporting their partner's recovery and over-functioning to their own detriment. 

    They offer insights on how to establish healthy boundaries, seek individual support, and foster genuine healing for both partners. Discover practical advice for maintaining your autonomy while truly supporting your loved one.

    Register Now!

    • Courage to Thrive Intensive - This in-person intensive is designed specifically for women who have experienced the deep pain of betrayal and are ready to begin the journey toward reclaiming their lives. Over four transformative days, you’ll gain the tools, skills, and support you need not just to survive, but to truly thrive. The intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT on April 23rd-26th. 

    • ⁠Unmasked: Paths to Authentic Masculinity for Men⁠⁠ - This is a four-day in-person intensive designed to help men delve deep into understanding integrity, unveiling layers of shame, and reclaiming their authentic selves. Intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT on May 13th-16th.

    ⁠Watch us⁠ on YouTube.

    ⁠Schedule⁠ a complimentary consultation with us.

    More from Choose Recovery Services

    • Beyond the Facade Podcast - Luke Gordon hosts a podcast geared toward helping men live authentically and in harmony with their values.

    • Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma. First four weeks are free!

    • Believing in You - In this program Amie teaches you how to work WITH your brain instead of against it. Learn tools that will help you move forward to trust, love, empowerment, and finding joy once again.

    • Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal. 

    •  Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. 

    • Healing Hearts - This is for couples seeking healing after betrayal. It emphasizes the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy. Available as a support group or a self-paced course.

    • Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. 

    • Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - We help men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. 

    • Choose Renewal - For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior, whether it’s a recurring challenge or a one-time incident. Focus on recovery and healing from patterns of sexual acting out in a safe, nurturing community.

    • Betrayal Trauma Recovery Book Study Group - This group provides a safe space for women to discuss books about betrayal trauma, ask questions, and find community support. 

    • Resilient Teens - Ongoing support group for teens ages 15-18 whose parents have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

    • Adult Children Uniting for Healing - Ongoing support group for adult children of parents who have experienced betrayal in their marriage and who need support navigating their own experience with betrayal.

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    • Dating From Within - Amie Woolsey hosts this workshop which teaches you how to date yourself first. Learn how to know if you are ready to date again and what a healthy relationship looks like. 

    • Should I Stay or Go? - Self-paced course designed to be a companion on your journey toward self-discovery and personal empowerment. 


    Connect with us on Social Media:

    Alana Gordon

    Amie Woolsey

    Choose Recovery Services

    31 min
  • Stuck is Not Your Story: How to Keep Moving Forward in Healing From Betrayal and Infidelity

    Feeling stuck in your healing journey? This week, Alana dives into how to recognize stagnation and regain momentum. 

    Learn the five signs that indicate you might be stuck and discover actionable steps to reassess and realign your support systems. Embark on a path of empowered action and somatic healing to continue moving forward in your recovery.

    Register Now!

    • Courage to Thrive Intensive - This in-person intensive is designed specifically for women who have experienced the deep pain of betrayal and are ready to begin the journey toward reclaiming their lives. Over four transformative days, you’ll gain the tools, skills, and support you need not just to survive, but to truly thrive. The intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT on April 23rd-26th. 

    • ⁠Unmasked: Paths to Authentic Masculinity for Men⁠⁠ - This is a four-day in-person intensive designed to help men delve deep into understanding integrity, unveiling layers of shame, and reclaiming their authentic selves. Intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT on May 13th-16th.

    ⁠Watch us⁠ on YouTube.

    ⁠Schedule⁠ a complimentary consultation with us.

    More from Choose Recovery Services

    • Beyond the Facade Podcast - Luke Gordon hosts a podcast geared toward helping men live authentically and in harmony with their values.

    • Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma. First four weeks are free!

    • Believing in You - In this program Amie teaches you how to work WITH your brain instead of against it. Learn tools that will help you move forward to trust, love, empowerment, and finding joy once again.

    • Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal. 

    •  Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. 

    • Healing Hearts - This is for couples seeking healing after betrayal. It emphasizes the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy. Available as a support group or a self-paced course.

    • Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. 

    • Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - We help men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. 

    • Choose Renewal - For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior, whether it’s a recurring challenge or a one-time incident. Focus on recovery and healing from patterns of sexual acting out in a safe, nurturing community.

    • Betrayal Trauma Recovery Book Study Group - This group provides a safe space for women to discuss books about betrayal trauma, ask questions, and find community support. 

    • Resilient Teens - Ongoing support group for teens ages 15-18 whose parents have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

    • Adult Children Uniting for Healing - Ongoing support group for adult children of parents who have experienced betrayal in their marriage and who need support navigating their own experience with betrayal.

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    • Dating From Within - Amie Woolsey hosts this workshop which teaches you how to date yourself first. Learn how to know if you are ready to date again and what a healthy relationship looks like. 

    • Should I Stay or Go? - Self-paced course designed to be a companion on your journey toward self-discovery and personal empowerment. 

    Connect with us on Social Media:

    Alana Gordon

    Amie Woolsey

    Choose Recovery Services

    25 min
  • Using Healing Tools Against Yourself; Believe Your Body

    Ever feel like your body is working against you after experiencing betrayal? This week Amie discusses the importance of listening to your body's signals and believing its wisdom. 

    Discover how to stop using therapeutic tools to bypass your feelings and start truly honoring your body's messages for genuine healing and empowerment. Learn how to turn your body from a perceived enemy into a trusted guide on your path to recovery.

    Register Now!

    • The Body Awakened: A Brainspotting Journey to Healing - Join Amie for a three-day, in-person intensive for women on April 10-12, 2025. Experience Brainspotting, learn how to get back into your body, and heal somatically. 

    • Courage to Thrive Intensive - This in-person intensive is designed specifically for women who have experienced the deep pain of betrayal and are ready to begin the journey toward reclaiming their lives. Over four transformative days, you’ll gain the tools, skills, and support you need not just to survive, but to truly thrive. The intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT on April 23rd-26th. 

    • ⁠Unmasked: Paths to Authentic Masculinity for Men⁠⁠ - This is a four-day in-person intensive designed to help men delve deep into understanding integrity, unveiling layers of shame, and reclaiming their authentic selves. Intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT on May 13th-16th.

    ⁠Watch us⁠ on YouTube.

    ⁠Schedule⁠ a complimentary consultation with us.

    More from Choose Recovery Services

    • Beyond the Facade Podcast - Luke Gordon hosts a podcast geared toward helping men live authentically and in harmony with their values.

    • Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping. First four weeks are free!

    • Believing in You - In this program Amie teaches you how to work WITH your brain instead of against it. Learn tools that will help you move forward to trust and finding joy once again.

    • Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal. 

    •  Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. 

    • Healing Hearts - This is for couples seeking healing after betrayal. It emphasizes the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy.

    • Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. 

    • Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - We help men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. 

    • Choose Renewal - For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior, whether it’s a recurring challenge or a one-time incident. Focus on recovery and healing from patterns of sexual acting out in a safe, nurturing community.

    • Betrayal Trauma Recovery Book Study Group - This group provides a safe space for women to discuss books about betrayal trauma, ask questions, and find community support. 

    • Resilient Teens - Ongoing support group for teens ages 15-18 whose parents have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

    • Adult Children Uniting for Healing - Ongoing support group for adult children of parents who have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    • Dating From Within - Amie Woolsey hosts this workshop which teaches you how to date yourself first. Learn how to know if you are ready to date again and what a healthy relationship looks like. 

    • Should I Stay or Go? - Self-paced course designed to be a companion on your journey toward self-discovery and personal empowerment. 

    Connect with us on Social Media:

    Alana Gordon

    Amie Woolsey

    Choose Recovery Services

    34 min
  • Untangling Your Worth: Reclaiming Your Value After Betrayal

    Have you ever felt lost or questioned your value after experiencing a betrayal? Join Amie and Alana as they unpack the profound impact of betrayal on self-worth and identity, sharing personal stories and providing insights to reclaim your sense of self.

    Learn how to navigate the complex layers of trauma, heal from within, and build a stronger foundation of intrinsic worth and value.

    Register Now!

    • The Body Awakened: A Brainspotting Journey to Healing - Join Amie for a three-day, in-person intensive for women on April 10-12, 2025. Experience Brainspotting, learn how to get back into your body, and heal somatically. 

    • Courage to Thrive Intensive - This in-person intensive is designed specifically for women who have experienced the deep pain of betrayal and are ready to begin the journey toward reclaiming their lives. Over four transformative days, you’ll gain the tools, skills, and support you need not just to survive, but to truly thrive. The intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT on April 23rd-26th. 

    • ⁠Unmasked: Path to Authentic Masculinity for Men⁠⁠ - This is a four-day in-person intensive designed to help men delve deep into understanding integrity, unveiling layers of shame, and reclaiming their authentic selves. Intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT on May 13th-16th.

    ⁠Watch us⁠ on YouTube.

    ⁠Schedule⁠ a complimentary consultation with us.

    More from Choose Recovery Services

    • Beyond the Facade Podcast - Luke Gordon hosts a podcast geared toward helping men live authentically and in harmony with their values.

    • Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma. First four weeks are free!

    • Believing in You - In this program Amie teaches you how to work WITH your brain instead of against it. Learn tools that will help you move forward to trust, love, empowerment, and finding joy once again.

    • Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal. 

    •  Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. 

    • Healing Hearts - This is for couples seeking healing after betrayal. It emphasizes the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy. Available as a support group or a self-paced course.

    • Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. 

    • Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - We help men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. 

    • Choose Renewal - For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior, whether it’s a recurring challenge or a one-time incident. Focus on recovery and healing from patterns of sexual acting out in a safe, nurturing community.

    • Betrayal Trauma Recovery Book Study Group - This group provides a safe space for women to discuss books about betrayal trauma, ask questions, and find community support. 

    • Resilient Teens - Ongoing support group for teens ages 15-18 whose parents have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

    • Adult Children Uniting for Healing - Ongoing support group for adult children of parents who have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    • Dating From Within - Amie Woolsey hosts this workshop which teaches you how to date yourself first. Learn how to know if you are ready to date again and what a healthy relationship looks like. 

    • Should I Stay or Go? - Self-paced course designed to be a companion on your journey toward self-discovery and personal empowerment. 

    Connect with us on Social Media:

    Alana Gordon

    Amie Woolsey

    Choose Recovery Services

    36 min
  • Red Flags in Betrayal

    Are you navigating the painful journey of betrayal and struggling to identify red flags in your relationship? Join us as we discuss common warning signs that a betrayed partner should watch for and how to understand them. 

    Learn the importance of earned trust, emotional accountability, and why your healing journey matters. Plus, discover our upcoming events aimed at helping you reclaim your power and move towards transformation.

    Referenced in this episode:

    • Deconstructing Gaslighting with Sarah Morales - past podcast episode. Learn more about Sarah’s work HERE.

    • Listen to our seven-part series on Full Therapeutic Disclosures: Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, Part 6, Part 7. 

    • Get our FREE eBook⁠ “Is a Full Therapeutic Disclosure Right For Me?”⁠⁠ delivered straight to your inbox.⁠ ⁠Sign up here!⁠

    Register Now!

    • The Body Awakened: A Brainspotting Journey to Healing - Join Amie for a three-day, in-person intensive on April 10-12, 2025. Experience Brainspotting, learn how to get back into your body, and heal somatically.

    • Courage to Thrive Intensive - Reclaim your power and take the next courageous step on your journey toward healing. This intensive for women will help you gain practical tools to establish boundaries, manage triggers, and reconnect with your authentic self. Experience a blend of psychoeducation, practical exercises, and somatic healing practices. Join us in Spanish Fork, UT on April 23-26. 

    ⁠Watch us⁠ on YouTube.

    ⁠Schedule⁠ a complimentary consultation with us.

    More from Choose Recovery Services

    • Beyond the Facade Podcast - Luke Gordon hosts a podcast geared toward helping men live authentically and in harmony with their values.

    • Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma. First four weeks are free!

    • Believing in You - In this program Amie teaches you how to work WITH your brain instead of against it. Learn tools that will help you move forward to trust, love, empowerment, and finding joy once again.

    • Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal. 

    •  Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. 

    • Healing Hearts - This is for couples seeking healing after betrayal. It emphasizes the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy. Available as a support group or a self-paced course.

    • Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. 

    • Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - We help men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. 

    • Choose Renewal - For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior, whether it’s a recurring challenge or a one-time incident. Focus on recovery and healing from patterns of sexual acting out in a safe, nurturing community.

    • Resilient Teens - Ongoing support group for teens ages 15-18 whose parents have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

    • Adult Children Uniting for Healing - Ongoing support group for adult children of parents who have experienced betrayal in their marriage and who need support .

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    • Dating From Within - Amie Woolsey hosts this workshop which teaches you how to date yourself first. Learn how to know if you are ready to date again and what a healthy relationship looks like. 

    • Should I Stay or Go? - Self-paced course designed to be a companion on your journey toward self-discovery and personal empowerment. 


    Connect with us on Social Media:

    Alana Gordon

    Amie Woolsey

    Choose Recovery Services

    28 min
  • Unlock Deep Healing with Parts Work

    Have you ever felt like a part of you is holding you back? This week Luke Gordon (coach and co-founder of Choose Recovery Services and host of the Beyond the Facade podcast) joins Alana, and together they explore the transformative journey of parts work and the power of self-acceptance in healing. Luke courageously shares his own story of how understanding his protective parts led to breakthrough moments in his recovery. 

    Discover powerful insights on acknowledging and understanding the different parts of yourself to promote deeper connection and authentic living. 

    Ready to do your own parts work? Register now!

    • Men’s Journey to Wholeness: Healing All of Our Parts – Join us March 12th–14th, 2025 in Spanish Fork, UT for a next-level recovery experience designed to help you build a deeper relationship with yourself and others. This intensive offers transformational connection, deep self-exploration, and guided support to help you heal and move forward with greater freedom. 

    Referenced in this episode:

    • No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz

    • Altogether You and Altogether Us by Jenna Riemersma and Dr. Richard Schwartz

    Coming Up!

    • The Body Awakened: A Brainspotting Journey to Healing - Join Amie for a three-day, in-person intensive on April 10-12, 2025. Experience Brainspotting, learn how to get back into your body, and heal somatically.

    • Betrayal Trauma Recovery Book Study Group starts in March! Led by Rachel Strong Smith, this group provides a safe space for women to discuss books about betrayal trauma, ask questions, and find community support. Build connections while deepening your understanding of healing resources.

    ⁠Watch us⁠ on YouTube.

    ⁠Schedule⁠ a complimentary consultation with us.

    More from Choose Recovery Services

    • Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma. First four weeks are free!

    • Believing in You - In this program Amie teaches you how to work WITH your brain instead of against it. 

    • Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal. 

    •  Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. 

    • Healing Hearts - This is for couples seeking healing after betrayal. Available as a support group or a self-paced course.

    • Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. 

    • Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - We help men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. 

    • Choose Renewal - For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior, whether it’s a recurring challenge or a one-time incident. 

    • Resilient Teens - Ongoing support group for teens ages 15-18 whose parents have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

    • Adult Children Uniting for Healing - Ongoing support group for adult children of parents who have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    • Dating From Within - Amie Woolsey hosts this workshop which teaches you how to date yourself first. Learn how to know if you are ready to date again and what a healthy relationship looks like. 

    • Should I Stay or Go? - Self-paced course designed to be a companion on your journey toward self-discovery and personal empowerment. 


      Connect with us on Social Media:

      Alana Gordon

      Amie Woolsey

      Choose Recovery Services

    25 min
  • Full Disclosure - A Step to Healing, Not a Shortcut to Trust

    Why is a full disclosure one of the most feared yet vital steps in recovery? This episode dives into the misconceptions about full disclosure, its importance in rebuilding trust, and why it’s just the beginning of deeper healing and connection. 

    Learn how full transparency lays the foundation for trust and allows both partners to move forward authentically.

    Want to learn more about full disclosures? Listen to our seven-part series: Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, Part 6, Part 7. 

    Get our FREE eBook⁠ “Is a Full Therapeutic Disclosure Right For Me?”⁠⁠ delivered straight to your inbox.⁠ ⁠Sign up here!⁠

    Register Now!

    • Men’s Journey to Wholeness: Healing All of Our Parts – Join us March 12th–14th, 2025 in Spanish Fork, UT for a next-level recovery experience designed to help you build a deeper relationship with yourself and others. This intensive offers transformational connection, deep self-exploration, and guided support to help you heal and move forward with greater freedom. 

    • The Body Awakened: A Brainspotting Journey to Healing - Join Amie for a three-day, in-person intensive on April 10-12, 2025. Experience Brainspotting, learn how to get back into your body, and heal somatically.

    ⁠

    Watch us⁠ on YouTube.

    ⁠Schedule⁠ a complimentary consultation with us.

    More from Choose Recovery Services

    • Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma. First four weeks are free!

    • Believing in You - In this program Amie teaches you how to work WITH your brain instead of against it. 

    • Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal. 

    •  Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. 

    • Healing Hearts - This is for couples seeking healing after betrayal. It emphasizes the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy.

    • Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. 

    • Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - We help men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect.

    • Choose Renewal - For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior, whether it’s a recurring challenge or a one-time incident.

    • Resilient Teens - Ongoing support group for teens ages 15-18 whose parents have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

    • Adult Children Uniting for Healing - Ongoing support group for adult children of parents who have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    • Dating From Within - Amie Woolsey hosts this workshop which teaches you how to date yourself first. Learn how to know if you are ready to date again and what a healthy relationship looks like. 

    • Should I Stay or Go? - Self-paced course designed to be a companion on your journey toward self-discovery and personal empowerment. 

    17 min
  • Breaking Through Denial

    This week Alana joins Luke Gordon on his podcast, Beyond the Facade, as they explore the crucial first step in overcoming compulsive behavior: breaking through denial. 

    Learn about the importance of accepting feedback, taking responsibility, and facing discomfort to become your true self and transform your relationships.

    Intensive for Couples:

    • Rebuilding Us: A Path to Deeper Connection - Register by 2/28/25 and use the promo code rebuildus500 for $500 off! This four-day intensive is for couples in recovery who have completed at least a year of active healing and are ready to strengthen their relationship. Experienced therapists and coaches will guide couples through private sessions and group activities to foster deeper connection and intimacy in their relationship. Intensive will be in Mesa, AZ March 26th-29th. Payment plans available by emailing [email protected]. 

    Register Now!

    • Men’s Journey to Wholeness: Healing All of Our Parts – Join us March 12th–14th, 2025 in Spanish Fork, UT for a next-level recovery experience designed to help you build a deeper relationship with yourself and others. This intensive offers transformational connection, deep self-exploration, and guided support to help you heal and move forward with greater freedom. 

    • Betrayal Trauma Recovery Book Study Group starts in March! Led by Rachel Strong Smith, this group provides a safe space for women to discuss books about betrayal trauma, ask questions, and find community support. Build connections while deepening your understanding of healing resources.

    • The Body Awakened: A Brainspotting Journey to Healing - Join Amie for a three-day, in-person intensive on April 10-12, 2025. Experience Brainspotting, learn how to get back into your body, and heal somatically.

    ⁠Watch us⁠ on YouTube.

    ⁠Schedule⁠ a complimentary consultation with us.

    More from Choose Recovery Services


    • Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma. First four weeks are free!

    • Believing in You - In this program Amie teaches you how to work WITH your brain instead of against it. 

    • Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal. 

    •  Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. 

    • Healing Hearts - This is for couples seeking healing after betrayal. It emphasizes the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy. Available as a support group or a self-paced course.

    • Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. 

    • Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - We help men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect.

    • Choose Renewal - For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior, whether it’s a recurring challenge or a one-time incident.

    • Resilient Teens - Ongoing support group for teens ages 15-18 whose parents have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

    • Adult Children Uniting for Healing - Ongoing support group for adult children of parents who have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    • Dating From Within - Amie Woolsey hosts this workshop which teaches you how to date yourself first.

    • Should I Stay or Go? - Self-paced course designed to be a companion on your journey toward self-discovery and personal empowerment. 

    40 min

About Choose To Be with Choose Recovery Services; Betrayal Trauma Healing

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Choose to Be is about healing, growth, and choosing recovery after betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, and infidelity. Hosts share insights on emotional healing, authentic relationships, and the journey of rebuilding trust. Learn tools for self-compassion, integrity, and trust-building as you heal from pain and reclaim hope, peace, and connection.

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