Heal from Infidelity: Reclaiming Your Peace, Power, and Self-Trust After Betrayal

As humans, we love certainty. We want to know all the details of exactly how things are going to transpire. Because we are not always privy to that information, we tend to talk ourselves out of goals, desires and dreams.

What if the "how" is none of our business? Are you willing to release yourself from needing to know all the details?

In this episode, you'll learn why letting go of the how will open you up to the magic that happens when we decide we want something and go for it. You'll learn 3 concrete steps that will give you strength and courage to run towards the things you want, even if you don't know how you'll get there. Needing to know how is just a stumbling block, keeping you from the life you want most.

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© 2021 Andrea Giles

It makes perfect sense that our brains scan for things we know. But it can be very misleading. All the best things are in front of us. When we look to the past, we miss out on the opportunity to create the life we want. We have so much capacity to grow, to become, to create. But if we don't know how to envision it and go after it, we fall back into old patterns.

In this episode, I will teach you how to tap into possibility. Every human has unlimited potential that can not be quantified, measured, or capped out. Listen to understand how to tune into yourself and where you are meant to go.

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© 2021 Andrea Giles

Regret is an emotion that we all feel, but that we will do almost anything to avoid. The fear of regret can keep us stalled out, not taking the actions that will create the life we want.

In this episode, you'll learn why you don't need to be afraid of regret. You'll understand how regret can be both useful and harmful, and how to leverage it for your good. When we stop fearing emotions, we are willing to take bold actions, knowing that we will be able to handle whatever comes.

If you want to move forward in your life without fear of regret, or want to learn how to let go of past regrets, be sure to listen to this episode.

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© 2021 Andrea Giles

Who are you? What do you think of yourself? When is the last time you really asked yourself those questions? Where do you go for the answers? Your own thoughts or what you think others believe of you?

Most of us look outside ourselves to determine our self-esteem and self worth. It then becomes a moving target - as long as people tell us what we want to hear we're ok, but when they stop, then what?

In this episode, you'll learn some concrete practices and exercises that will help you develop your own sense of self. There is nothing more important to work on than this as what we believe about ourselves sets the stage for everything we allow and don't allow in our lives. Don't miss this episode!

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© 2021 Andrea Giles

When life throws us unexpected trials and curve balls, it can be easy to slip into doubt and fear. We can forget the hard-won lessons we have learned, become overwhelmed and lose sight of who we are and where we are going.

In this episode, I'll share five things that I know for sure. These five things have helped me throughout my life to navigate those times where everything seems upside-down. My five truths have reminded me what matters, and encouraged me to keep going, no matter how desperate I may feel in the moment.

My hope is that my five truths will help you remember the things you know for sure. Those things can become the anchors that you live by - your constants that never fail you.

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Do you ever cringe when you hear that someone is being "such a victim"? We often carry such harsh judgement around this way of being, although most of us slip into it throughout our lives.

In this episode, I'll explain what victim mentality really is and all the various ways it shows up. It can be sneaky and seem very justified, but in letting it stick around can cause all kinds of unnecessary pain and suffering.

While many of us have been victimized at some point in our lives, we can use the feelings we experienced then to re-create suffering now. It pretends to be useful and true, but is hurting you more than anyone.

Tune in to see if you sometimes experience victim mentality, and learn how you can get yourself back to the powerful person you are.

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© 2021 Andrea Giles

Do you know what your values are or why they matter? We often hear of companies having values but skim over the importance of knowing and living by our own.

In this episode, we're going to dive in to what values are and how they can help guide decisions, know what to say yes and no to, and set parameters around where you will let your mind wander to.

Knowing your values is crucial as you create a future you love. It becomes bigger than you - you are part of a vision. Listen, to understand how to identify what your values are and how they can help you move forward from infidelity.

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© 2021 Andrea Giles

Pain is a natural part of life. We all experience loss, grief, and transitions. Suffering, however, is optional. In this episode you'll learn the difference between the natural pain that comes with life events, and suffering that comes from our thoughts about those events.

A great predictor of the experience of one's life is how well they learn to manage their mind around their circumstances. The more the mind is kept in check, the more peaceful life will be.

In this episode, you'll have an understanding of what kinds of suffering we cause ourselves, why we do it, and how to clean up your thinking to have a more peaceful experience with life.

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© 2021 Andrea Giles

Boundaries are often misunderstood. Many view them as a means to control another person, a way to gain power over someone, or as something that will hurt the relationship. The truth is that a properly set boundary invites intimacy and trust.

In this episode, I will be clearing up exactly what a boundary is, and what it isn't. You will understand:

• How clear boundaries strengthen relationships
• How to set them from a place of love
• What the most important piece of boundary setting is
• Why boundary-setting is a form of self-respect

You'll come away from this episode empowered with the ability to more clearly see boundaries that need to be strengthened, and how you can step into a more honest version of yourself by honoring those boundaries.

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© 2021 Andrea Giles

Forgiveness can be a touchy subject. Why should we forgive someone who has caused us so much pain? I get it. In this episode, I'll shed some light on how forgiveness is not actually for them- it is for you.

I'll go over what forgiveness is, and what it isn't. Some of the ideas people believe about forgiveness are faulty and create additional pain. We'll uncover those and learn what forgiveness really is about and why it's such a gift to give ourselves.

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© 2021 Andrea Giles