When someone is upset with you or you suspect they might be annoyed about something you’ve done - do you instantly feel guilty?

When you see someone experiencing negative emotion - do you feel like it’s your job to try and fix it? And feel super uncomfortable until you know they’re okay again?

If so - this episode is for YOU.

I’m talking all about the difference between empathy and taking responsibility for other people’s emotions.

And how to let go of responsibility, while still being a compassionate friend, partner, or family member. 

Mentioned in the episode:

• 1:1 coaching with Rebecca - [email protected]
• Relationship Mind Drama Bootcamp - Use code 'SUN' to get 30% off

When I was at my most anxious in my relationships - I realised I had been depending on things outside of me being a certain way for me to feel safe, secure or calm.

Can you relate?

If so - I’m going to be talking today about the difference between internal and external safety.

And I’m going to offer you concrete exercises to do to start building your internal safety muscle.

So you can feel emotionally safe and secure - regardless of what’s going on outside of you.

Mentioned in the episode:

• 1:1 coaching with Rebecca - email [email protected]

Are you facing rejection?

A setback at work?

A difficult friendship dynamic?

An uncertain outcome?

Someone who keeps crossing your boundaries?

Whatever feels tough right now - I want to offer you a question that is going to transform the way you approach it.


Mentioned in the episode:

• 1:1 coaching with Rebecca - [email protected]

This week, I’m answering two questions from listeners.

The first is all about taking back a cheating, avoidant partner.

The second is dealing with a jealous partner who has very different thoughts around a friendship with an ex.

Mentioned in the episode:

• Join my email list
• Work with me 1:1 - [email protected]

People that work with me learn to STOP using the phrase ‘They made me feel…’

Because they’re finally able to take back responsibility for how they feel and respond to any situation in their life…

And I call this taking radical responsibility for your own feelings.

It’s something I did years ago - and it changed my life and relationships forever.

And in today’s episode I’m going to help you understand what it really means to take radical responsibility AND how to start doing it today!

Mentioned in the episode:

• 1:1 coaching with Rebecca

Are you struggling with resentment in your relationships right now?

• Maybe it’s a friend that’s always late.
• A partner that doesn’t pull their weight around the house.
• A mother in law that keeps asking for too much of your partner’s time.

Whatever it is - this episode is going to help you step out of resentment, and back into self-responsibility and self-empowerment.

Mentioned in the episode:

• Relationship Mind Drama Bootcamp - £99
• 1:1 coaching with Rebecca - [email protected]

Today I’m answering real life questions from listeners covering two topics.

• 1) How do I know the difference between a real red flag vs my anxious attachment?
• 2) How do I navigate jealousy in a friendship trio?

Ready? Let’s dive in!

Mentioned in the episode:

• Get 10% off 1:1 coaching in May- email [email protected]

The fear of settling, of choosing wrong, or of missing out on a ‘better’ partner is one that plagues so many anxious brains in relationships.

So I’m spending today’s episode talking about it.

I’m going to help you define settling vs embracing an imperfect partner...

AND help you call out your anxious brain’s perhaps unhelpful expectations when it comes to romantic relationships - so you can make a decision from an aligned, grounded place.

Mentioned in the episode:

• Enquire about 1:1 coaching opportunities - [email protected]
• Relationship Mind Drama Bootcamp - Digital course

Have you ever wanted to build your self-esteem and think more positively about yourself, but then a little voice in your head says…

But what if I become delusional?

What if I start believing I’m attractive, when the truth is I’m not?

What if I start believing I’m good enough - and it turns out not to be true?

If so, this episode is for you! 

I'm going to teach you:

• Why you're already delusional ;)
• How your current beliefs are creating your identity
• And how to actually change your beliefs so you can become the person you want to be

Mentioned in the episode:

• 1:1 coaching - email: [email protected]
• Relationship Mind Drama Bootcamp

I have struggled with anxiety for over a decade - since I was a teenager.

And finding ways of understanding & managing my own fearful brain, and the fearful minds of my clients, continues to be a fascination of mine. 

So in today’s episode - I’m sharing 7 of the biggest lessons I’ve learned about anxiety over the last few years.

And offering you some perspective shifts to help you change the way you think about your anxiety - and approach in times of uncertainty.

Mentioned in the episode:

• Relationship Mind Drama Bootcamp - discount code [BOOTCAMP]
• 1:1 coaching