The core idea of attachment theory is that humans, as social beings, have an innate need to form close emotional bonds and attachments with others. It has profound implications for understanding human relationships, including romantic partnerships, friendships, and parent-child relationships. 

Valeria welcomes licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Julie Menanno for an eye-opening conversation about our individual attachment needs. We kick things off by exploring the foundations of attachment theory and what it means to parent with an attachment-focused mindset. The different attachment styles take center stage, shedding light on how they shape our emotional bonds and behaviors.

They touch on the typical environment for avoidant attachment and why being dismissive with your partner can be a red flag and the pitfalls of relationship advice found online and why it's often based on conflict. Plus, we'll reveal the intriguing fact that only half of our attachment needs are met in our relationships.

Pre-order Secure Love: 

https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Secure-Love/Julie-Menanno/9781668012864 

You can find Julie on: 

https://www.thesecurerelationship.com/ 

https://www.instagram.com/thesecurerelationship 

https://www.tiktok.com/@thesecurerelationship 

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQxvG_HhlW-IOp0WJgRBcCg 

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Ever wondered how to give your brain a breather? It's not just about rest; it's like a strategic downtime that brings back the pep in your step. Today's guest is the visionary Jim Kwik. Jim was once known as the “boy with the broken brain,” where a childhood head injury at age five left him struggling in school. Jim discovered that, no matter the circumstances, we can rebuild our brains. And after working on himself, he realized his brain was not broken…it just needed a better owner’s manual. 

We chat about strong people who've faced tough times and Jim details areas to tackle, letting you in on the secrets to unlocking your full potential. Along the way, we dive into courage, asking the right questions, and handling triggers with some self-aware questioning. Together, Valeria and Jim explore the nitty-gritty of self-regulation, staying positive with language, and the magic of the 80/20 rule. And oh, and we throw in some colorful thinking hats for good measure! Join us on a journey of uncovering the playful side of understanding your unique thinking style and unlocking your potential by leading a limitless life. 

Limitless Expanded Edition: https://kwikbrain.com/limitless-expanded Available now!

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https://www.jimkwik.com/ 

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https://www.linkedin.com/in/jimkwik/

https://twitter.com/jimkwik 

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A harmonious marriage is like a perfectly tuned melody, where two people find joy and comfort in each other's company. It's the beauty of shared laughter, mutual understanding, and a sense of belonging. 

In this special episode, Gary joins Valeria for an honest and open conversation about marriage and how their relationship started. From a comical allergy to hair dyes, to their age difference challenges and parenting approach, they share an insightful conversation about life, love, and business.  

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https://www.instagram.com/garylipovetsky/ 

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKHLJJd07IhT9DPhxsY-EYg 

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Overcoming life's obstacles often requires a powerful blend of determination and the belief in the potential to manifest and create your own better reality. People with that kind of grit, look fear in the face and move forward.

In this episode, Valeria invites a special guest and friend, the extraordinary Sai De Silva, for a heartfelt conversation about their upbringings, personal hardships, and the remarkable journey of resilience, hard work, and manifestation that has defined Sai's life. Sai De Silva is Founder and Creative Director of Scout the City and cast member on Bravo’s Hit TV Series, Real Housewives of NYC. 

Connect with Sai on: 

https://www.instagram.com/scoutthecity/

https://www.youtube.com/c/Scoutthecity

https://www.tiktok.com/@saidesilva

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Content Warning: The following episode discusses serious and sensitive matters surrounding sexual assault.

What unexpected insights or personal growth did you discover while coping with the impact of trauma? How did you find the strength to navigate through the aftermath of a traumatic experience and emerge stronger than ever? Valeria opens up about how she and her guest got through uncomfortable situations. 

In this episode, Valeria is joined by the inspiring Paige Adams-Geller, the phenomenal founder of Paige, the fashion-forward denim brand we all know and love. Paige takes us on a captivating ride through her life, how she ventured into the thrilling world of modeling and fashion and the hardships she would face, the untold, ugly side of the fashion industry that's rarely spoken about, and her intuitive business strategies and how she trusted her instincts to thrive in the cutthroat world of entrepreneurship. 

You can find Paige on: 

https://www.paige.com/ 

https://www.instagram.com/paige/ 

https://www.instagram.com/paigeageller/ 

Your Perfect Fit 

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How do you handle the pressure of juggling the demands of content creation, engaging with your audience, and running your brand successfully? How do you strike a balance between showcasing your personality as an influencer and maintaining a professional image for your brand? Valeria knows all too well what it is like to be both!

Today, Valeria welcomes one of the OG beauty and lifestyle influencer, blogger, YouTuber, and the co-founder of Summer Fridays, Marianna Hewitt. Marianna opens up about passion as the driving force in her life, the secrets of planning for the future and the transition from influencer to thriving entrepreneur, how she finds balance in what she shares online while setting healthy boundaries. 

You can find Marianna on: 

https://summerfridays.com/ 

https://www.instagram.com/marianna_hewitt/ 

Life with Marianna

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Living with a lifelong medical condition is like taking on life's twists and turns with an extra load. It's not always easy, but people dealing with this challenge are like everyday heroes. They show us that no matter what life throws at you, there's a way to keep moving forward. 

Valeria sits down with Brazilian-American fashion mogul, beauty influencer, and entrepreneur, Camila Coelho. 

In this conversation filled with unexpected twists and remarkable resilience, Camila shares her battle with the heavy stigma that often surrounds epilepsy, the restrictions it imposed and her very first seizure at school made her feel incredibly different from her peers. But what truly shines in her story is her unwavering determination. She takes us through the challenging path of managing epilepsy while pursuing her dream of starting a family. 

Camila tirelessly advocates for epilepsy awareness and fights against its stigma. This episode is more than just a personal journey; it's a compelling call for change and compassion. It reminds us all to confront prejudices, embrace vulnerability, and find strength in a supportive community. 

Connect with Camila on:

https://www.tiktok.com/@camilacoelho 

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDl9AK32Xzr_2UOxjt03f6w 

https://www.instagram.com/camilacoelho/ 

https://www.elaluz.com/ 

https://camilacoelho.com/ 

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Why is it difficult to find one’s self? Many of us often struggle with this, feeling unsure about who we truly are or feeling a bit lost in the process. Our lives keep changing – so how do we really find our true selves? 

Valeria sits down with existential psychotherapist, Sara Kuburic. They talk about Sara's upcoming book, "It's On Me," and delve into what existential therapy is all about. They also discuss how we can let go of our old selves, how we end up losing our identity, and how we can find ourselves even when life gets messy and complicated. Join us for this insightful conversation that'll not only get you thinking but also provide valuable insights into navigating the complexities of life and self-discovery.

It’s On Me by Sara Kuburic: https://www.amazon.com/Its-Me-Accept-Truths-Discover/dp/B0BZZV3G1L 

You can find Sara on: 

https://www.instagram.com/millennial.therapist/?hl=en

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In life's evolving journey, there often comes a moment when the relentless pursuit of happiness and external validation begins to feel unfulfilling. It’s a point we hit where all that chasing after happiness and the need for others' approval just doesn't satisfy us like it used to. That's when the quest for meaning steps into the spotlight. It's like looking inward and asking, 'What really matters to me?' This shift is about digging deep, finding what you're passionate about and what aligns with your values. It might not be as flashy as chasing happiness, but it's like discovering a hidden treasure – a sense of fulfillment that stays with you for the long haul. Of course, the occasional like and comment on social media feels good, but now they're just one part of a bigger, more meaningful picture

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How do you manage loss? Or navigate endings? Can we avoid falling into despair when confronted with grief? In this episode, Valeria explores her own responses to difficult emotions. She talks with fashion designer and podcast host Whitney Port and trauma psychotherapist Hilary Jacobs Hendel about coping with endings. Join the conversation to learn more about the complex ways our minds and our bodies respond to change, loss, and grief. 

You can find Whitney Port on Instagram, YouTube, Twitter, and TikTok, and Hilary Jacobs Hendel on Instagram, YouTube, and Twitter. 

This Not Alone episode is sponsored by Crown Affair. Get 20% off you Crown Affair order when you enter code VALERIA20 at checkout. That’s crownaffair.com using the code VALERIA20 to get 20% off your entire order!

Not Alone is produced in partnership with FRQNCY Media.

Producer: Lizzie Stewart 

Associate Producer: Emily Krumberger

Supervising Producer: Enna Garkusha 

Executive Producer: Michelle Khouri

Script written by: William Cagle

Script editors: Isabel Moncloa Daly and Jessica Olivier

Mixer and sound designer: Claire Bidigare-Curtis

Session engineering: DonTaé Hodge. 

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