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This week, Valeria sits down with her friend, renowned relationship coach and author Jillian Turecki, as they delve into the hard truths of love, self-acceptance, and healing. Jillian shares deeply personal stories from her life, including the struggles of marriage, the failures of couples therapy, and how heartbreak inspired her to write her highly anticipated book, It Begins with You. Together, they explore the nine core truths from the book, such as why "no one is coming to save you," the difference between lust and love, and the importance of making peace with your parents.

From recognizing and overcoming childhood trauma to learning mindfulness and self-advocacy, Jillian offers practical tools for navigating the challenges of relationships. They discuss controlling the mind, communicating effectively, and why choosing yourself is key to finding connection, intimacy, and fulfillment. Whether you're single, married, or in the process of self-discovery, this episode offers actionable insights to repair your relationship with yourself and build the love you deserve. Don't miss this powerful discussion with one of today’s leading voices in relational healing.

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What we talked about: 

00:32 Jillian’s Personal Journey & Writing It Begins With You 

02:00 The Struggles of Marriage and Therapy

03:41 Healing Through Helping Others

05:31 The Challenges of Couples Therapy

08:51 The Hard Truths of Relationships

16:50 Making Peace with Your Parents

19:44 Recognizing and Overcoming Childhood Trauma

27:00 Choosing Yourself in Relationships

35:55 Controlling the Mind and Navigating Thoughts

40:59 Mindfulness in Relationships

41:17 Self-Awareness and Gaslighting

43:06 Differentiating Lust and Love

43:44 The Practice of Love

47:29 Understanding Love and Acceptance

01:01:22 The Importance of Self-Advocacy

01:08:48 Male Psychology in Relationships

01:12:24 Effective Communication Strategies

01:15:12 Empowerment and Change

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In this week’s episode, Valeria sits down with entrepreneur, author, and speaker Elena Cardone. Elena opens up about the challenges and realizations she encountered after getting married, including the shift from independence to partnership within a marriage. She highlights the importance of continuous personal and mutual growth and reflects on how she and her husband, Grant, have built their success over two decades, culminating in their “billionaire” status.

The conversation explores their journey through the 2008 financial crisis, the sacrifices made for their shared vision, and the dynamics of codependency in marriage. Elena also shares her thoughts on money, the evolving role of a supportive spouse, and the power of open communication. Their conversation also touches on parenting teenagers in a high-pressure environment, aligning professional goals with family life, and empowering women to discover their voice and strength in their marriages and personal growth.

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What we talked about: 

00:39 Welcoming Elena Cardone

01:00 Discovering Elena's Journey

02:38 The Reality of Marriage and Sacrifice

05:17 Challenging Traditional Beliefs

11:10 Navigating Resentment and Validation

18:14 Redefining Wealth and Money

25:44 The Continuous Creation of Marriage

34:24 Understanding Communication in Relationships

36:13 The Role of Tone in Effective Communication

37:54 Growth Through Challenges

39:46 Aligning Personal Ambitions and Relationships

40:03 The Importance of a Supportive Partner

41:39 Rejecting Normalcy and Embracing Growth

43:16 Encouraging Partner Growth

53:22 Raising Empowered Children

59:07 Managing Social Media with Teens

01:00:56 Integrating Professional and Personal Life

01:04:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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In today’s episode, we revisit a riveting conversation with actress, entrepreneur, and mother, Jessica Alba. Featuring new footage and an extended cut, this episode delves deeper into Jessica’s journey growing up in the entertainment industry, the impact of her upbringing, and how she navigates modern motherhood. Jessica shares her experiences with proving her worth in Hollywood, dealing with societal expectations of sexiness, and finding herself as a woman and mother. She delves into her childhood, the complexities of her multicultural family background, and the cultural challenges they faced. Jessica also talks about the balance between career and family, the creation of The Honest Company and the significance of having multiple roles beyond just motherhood. Together, Jessica and Valeria reveal their thoughts on parenting, the importance of routines, coping mechanisms, and how personal experiences and philosophy shaped their parenting styles.

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Items Mentioned: 

New Earth by Eckhart Tolle: https://a.co/d/2Me1AGt 

The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz: https://a.co/d/dvd9Dc1 

1984 by George Orwell: https://a.co/d/aSNeDEK 

Tarantula by Bob Dylan: https://a.co/d/fGIVFdF 

Metamorphosis by Franz Kafka: https://a.co/d/4Pu6pqU 

What We Talked About: 

00:00 Introduction and Early Career Struggles

01:27 Personal Background and Upbringing

02:06 Modern Motherhood and Upbringing Reflections

03:49 Family Dynamics and Cultural Influences

08:54 Navigating Identity and Motherhood

17:17 Creating The Honest Company

18:55 Balancing Motherhood and Personal Identity

31:40 Embracing Parenthood: Defining Moments

32:28 Lessons from the Past: Wisdom from Grandparents

33:55 Building a Business and Raising a Family

37:22 The Struggle for Balance and Overcoming Guilt

44:29 Parenting Insights: From Motherhood to Parenthood

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In this week’s episode, Valeria sits down with Valentina Milanova, founder of Daye, to discuss how women’s reproductive health is being transformed through innovation and advocacy. Valentina shares her journey of challenging gender bias in medical research and creating groundbreaking solutions, including pain-relieving CBD tampons and diagnostic tampons that detect STIs, HPV, and infections. They dive into topics like menstrual pain, vaginal microbiome health, cervical cancer prevention, and the systemic neglect of women’s health in clinical studies. With personal insights and a call for systemic change, this episode highlights the urgent need for better education, support, and care in gynecology. 

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01:06 Intro

01:14 Early Experiences with Women's Health

03:24 Challenges in Gynecological Health

10:54 Discovering the Vagina as a Drug Delivery Mechanism

13:47 The Gender Bias in Medical Research

19:57 Fundraising Challenges for Female Founders

30:34 Innovative Solutions for Women's Health

42:27 Building Trust and Securing Investors

43:32 Seizing Opportunities and Overcoming Shame

47:55 The Importance of the Vaginal Microbiome

55:00 Challenges in Tampon Manufacturing

01:01:52 Advocating for Women's Health

01:06:54 Future of Women's Health and Final Thoughts

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In this heartwarming and hilarious episode, Valeria sits down with her 10-year-old son, Ben, to explore the world through his sharp, curious, and quirky lens. From Ben's "geography phase" to his plans for world travel (starting with Norway, of course), they dive into everything from childhood dreams and sibling dynamics to the joys and misadventures of growing up. Plus, Ben shares his surprising take on adulthood, discipline, and the best way to handle a Taylor Swift superfan.

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Japanese music video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUATpY1wIDs 

Japanese music video story-time: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=THdvHbZxnxI 

Drew Binsky: https://www.youtube.com/c/drewbinsky 

Connor Price: https://www.youtube.com/@ConnorPrice_ 

GRAHAM: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeeUnpAt1r9O90Ko7ZyVYuw 

Blood on the River by Elisa Carbone: https://a.co/d/5HemqmC   

Mindset by Carol S. Dweck: https://a.co/d/ei6SgaA 

Baby 3 announcement/gender reveal: https://youtu.be/CkgFlcXiyVA?si=p_fCDVbfzs-nYCN- 

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:47 Reflecting on Age and Experience

02:12 Phases and Interests

02:29 Geography and World History

04:23 Travel Dreams and Cultural Fascinations

09:46 Family Travel Memories

20:37 Parenting Styles and Discipline

22:28 Sibling Dynamics

25:29 Personal Interests and Identity

34:05 Embarrassing Moments and Book Recommendations

34:41 Historical Fiction: Blood on the River

36:12 Future Plans: College or Travel?

37:34 Interactions with Fans

38:55 Podcast Ideas and Celebrity Guests

39:46 Lessons from Parents

47:50 School Subjects and Teachers

01:02:04 Handling Mean Boys and Personal Growth

01:05:38 Language Skills and Cultural Connections

01:08:01 Conclusion and Future Plans

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In this episode, Valeria sits down to chat with Dr. Amy Shah, aka @fastingmd. Dr. Shah is a renowned MD that specializes in nutrition and works in clinical medicine, allergy, and immunology. Together, they explore the importance of understanding female hormonal fluctuations, the vital role of gut health, and how women’s health has been historically under-researched. Dr. Shah shares actionable insights on circadian rhythm fasting, the benefits of gut-brain connectivity, and her 30-30-3 diet rule, along with essential supplements and stress management strategies. This empowering conversation provides practical advice to help women take charge of their health and begin a journey toward holistic healing.

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00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey

02:24 The Gap in Women's Health Research

04:20 Challenges in Medical Studies 

06:12 The Rise of Social Media and Books

06:51 Intermittent Fasting for Women

12:33 Gut-Brain Connection

21:11 Practical Tips for Women's Health

30:45 The Impact of Fasting on Heart Health

31:30 The Rise of Preventative Health Awareness

32:01 Cancer and Obesity: Unsolved Mysteries

32:57 Nutrition and Cancer: What We Know

34:28 Managing Stress and Recovery for Women

39:51 Navigating Body Image in the Social Media Age

45:24 Preparing for Menopause: Early Steps

50:13 Exercise and Longevity: A New Perspective

52:09 Preventing Burnout: Practical Tips

54:45 Back to Basics: Foundational Health Tips

57:11 Final Thoughts and Resources

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Today, Valeria sits down with Sascha Barboza, the powerhouse behind the Sasha Fitness brand. From her beginnings as a blogger in Venezuela to building a multimillion-dollar supplement empire, Sascha shares her entrepreneurial journey, rooted in passion, resilience, and authenticity. They delve into topics like navigating cultural shifts, the challenges of being a pioneer in the female fitness space, and the delicate balance of maintaining credibility in a fast-paced digital age. Sascha also opens up about her decision to prioritize quality over quantity, why her content strategy is about trust over trends, and how she balances her personal and professional identity.

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What We Talked About: 

00:00 Intro

02:35 Sasha's Journey to Fitness Fame

05:44 Early Life and Influences

07:33 Building a Business Empire

10:22 Family and Personal Values

14:20 Challenges and Successes

21:41 Partnership and Business Dynamics

32:01 Reflections on Venezuela and Future Goals

33:04 Challenges of Venezuelan Immigrants

34:45 Returning to Venezuela: Risks and Rewards

36:10 Cultural Differences: Miami vs. Venezuela

38:21 Parenting and Body Image

42:28 Evolving Fitness Philosophy

50:59 Hormonal Health and Aging

57:08 Therapy and Mental Health

01:03:29 Balancing Success and Personal Life

01:06:12 Conclusion

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In this episode, Valeria sits down with Lauren Berlingeri, co-founder and co-CEO of HigherDOSE, who shares her transition from a demanding modeling career to discovering a passion for holistic health and co-founding HigherDOSE. She opens up about battling severe hormonal imbalances, the pressures of perfectionism, and an intense lifestyle that culminated in a grand mal seizure—a turning point that transformed her approach to health and self-care. Valeria and Lauren bond over their experiences balancing career and motherhood, emphasizing the importance of letting go of control and embracing self-compassion. Lauren reflects on integrating recovery practices like infrared saunas and daily gratitude to shift from merely surviving to truly thriving. This episode provides an honest look at prioritizing self-care and intuition for meaningful personal and professional growth.

Lauren Berlingeri is dedicated to inspiring others through fitness and naturally-healthy lifestyle practices. After launching her career as an international model, Berlingeri went on to star in her own show, “Women vs. Workout”—grossing over 15 million views and receiving a Webby Award nomination for Best Host. This experience led to extreme sports hosting for brands such as UFC, EA Sports, and IMG. Having cemented her name within the fitness industry, Berlingeri decided to expand her expertise, earning a holistic nutritionist and health coach certification at The Institute of Integrative Nutrition. Lauren discovered the power of Infrared technology — specifically Infrared saunas — and saw an opportunity to bring the biohacking tool to the masses. Since co-founding HigherDOSE with Katie Kaps, the wellness brand has experienced meteoric success, boiling down to a true revolutionization of the spa business. Lauren brings a fresh perspective to a space that has been dominated by male voices from its inception, making it HigherDOSE’s core mission to educate women about their bio-individuality and give them the tools they need to reach their own best selves, with content designed to educate people on how to take control of their own wellness regimens.

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Woman vs. Workout: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL5C25A1F253EC28B7 

Biohack-HERS: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLtt3Vc8Sfqz2rWmxlkgDdcqUJp4fkWY1v 

Power vs. Force by David Hawkins: https://a.co/d/5THzhuu 

The Body Keeps the Score: https://a.co/d/cSkIXKP 

Dr. Mindy Pelz: https://www.instagram.com/dr.mindypelz/ 

Fast Like A Girl by Dr. Mindy Pelz: https://a.co/d/fk7adQC 

Dr. Stacy Sims: https://www.instagram.com/drstacysims/?hl=en

What We Talked About: 

00:00 Intro

00:32 First Impressions and Inspiration

01:34 Journey from Modeling to Fitness

02:48 Women Vs. Workout: Discovering Resilience

07:55 The Birth of Higher Dose

09:02 The Rise of Infrared Saunas

22:42 Navigating Wellness and Biohacking

30:42 The Importance of Self-Healing

31:19 Parenting and Trusting Yourself

32:04 Recognizing and Utilizing Tools

33:21 The Impact of Hormones on Health

35:35 The Journey of Motherhood and Self-Care

42:10 Balancing Work, Family, and Self

52:12 The Role of Biohacking in Women's Health

01:01:07 Embracing Aging and Redefining Beauty

01:07:16 Raising Confident and Empathetic Children

01:10:27 Final Thoughts and Resources

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In this episode, Valeria chats with her friend, supermodel, and wellness entrepreneur Miranda Kerr. They dive into her 25-year career; from becoming the first Australian Victoria’s Secret Angel to founding her beauty line Kora Organics. Miranda reflects on personal tragedies, including losing her boyfriend at 16 and family health struggles, and how those experiences shaped her approaches to gratitude, resilience, and holistic wellness. Delving into the science behind her products, Miranda highlights the benefits of certified organic ingredients, from turmeric to noni juice, which she’s used since she was 13! Hope you enjoy!

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Power vs. Force by David Hawkins: https://a.co/d/5THzhuu 

You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay https://a.co/d/bthtBZ6 

The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho https://a.co/d/bthtBZ6 

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What We Talked About: 

00:00 Introduction and Career Reflection

01:37 Personal Tragedy and Life Lessons

02:34 Health and Wellness Journey

08:00 Moving on from Victoria’s Secret

11:31 Parenting Philosophy and Challenges

21:10 Work-Life Integration

27:35 Parenting Challenges and Solutions

30:06 Balancing Motherhood and Career

32:44 The Journey of Kora Organics

34:43 Skincare Secrets and Innovations

37:16 The Philosophy Behind Kora Organics

43:48 Personal Reflections and Future Plans

48:18 Miranda’s Book Recommendations

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In this solo episode, Valeria opens up about her journey as a millennial mother learning to trust her instincts in the age of overwhelming advice. She shares a recent story of deciding to unfollow parenting accounts on social media, explaining how their well-meaning tips often triggered feelings of judgment and inadequacy. Reflecting on her personal experience, Valeria explores the pressure millennial parents face, constantly bombarded with expert advice on how to parent “correctly.” She advocates for tuning into one's intuition, highlighting how true empowerment as a mother often comes from within, not from outside voices. Through humor and honesty, she invites fellow moms to embrace their unique parenting path and let go of societal expectations.

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