Seeing Other People

Counselor Ken Reid joins us for an insightful discussion on attachment styles, particularly focusing on avoidant attachment. Ken delves into the complexities of avoidant and fearful-avoidant attachment styles, explaining their origins and how they manifest in adult relationships. He shares his personal journey and professional expertise, highlighting the importance of self-awareness and the challenges of healing from developmental trauma. The episode offers practical advice for those struggling with attachment issues, emphasizing the value of therapy and the need for a supportive network.

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01:57 Personal Journey into Counseling

04:10 Experiences with Avoidant Partners

09:55 Attachment Styles Overview

19:08 Challenges in Relationships with Avoidant Partners

22:11 Communicating with Avoidant Partners

25:06 Doing the Inner Work

30:10 Understanding Avoidant Attachment

31:06 The Importance of an Accountability Team

33:01 Challenges in Therapy for Avoidant Attachments

34:22 Finding Problems with Partners

39:01 Attachment Styles and Adult Relationships

47:47 Self-Sabotage and Healing Attachment Wounds

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Ryan P. Hall joins the podcast to discuss his experiences dating and maintaining relationships as a busy 44-year-old single professional. He reflects on his 13-year relationship, and shares the challenges of balancing work and personal life. Ryan also touches on growing up with a single mother, the impact of his demanding career on his social and dating life, and offers his best piece of dating advice.

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04:04 Career and Personal Life Balance

06:20 Challenges of Maintaining Relationships

12:52 Current Dating Life and Career Demands

17:58 Lessons from a Single Mom

19:16 Balancing Work and Fun

20:15 Dating in Your 40s vs. 20s

24:47 Finding Joy in Life

31:40 The Importance of Listening

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Bradley Steven Perry, known for his roles on Disney Channel's 'Good Luck Charlie' and 'Mighty Med' and cohost of The Sit and Chat podcast joins us to discuss his journey as a child actor, his love for acting, and how he keeps himself creatively engaged. Bradley touches on the unpredictable nature of the acting industry and the importance of consistency in his life. He candidly shares his experiences with dating, relationships, and his current relationship with Natasha Bure. Bradley also delves into his biggest fears, his first kiss, dealing with heartbreak, and future aspirations.

01:16 Navigating the Acting Industry

03:43 Early Acting Experiences

04:55 College Life and Relationships

12:02 Meeting Natasha and Relationship Dynamics

21:05 Confidence and Overcoming Rejection

29:01 Moving to New York:

35:39 Bradley's crazy NYC story

40:36 First Kiss Memories

41:59 Fears and Future Aspirations

44:49 Celebrity Crushes and Industry Realities

47:01 Best Relationship Advice

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In this Unfiltered, our anonymous guest shares her journey through a confusing relationship that began as a friendship and turned toxic. Despite emotional attachment and unclear boundaries, the relationship was marked by lies, invalidated feelings, and constant back-and-forth. After years of trying to move on, a pivotal moment led her to finally break free and prioritize self-worth. Now thriving, she reflect on the importance of choosing yourself over toxic situations.

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In this episode, we welcome special guest Sabrina Zohar, a dating coach and host of The Sabrina Zohar Show. Sabrina shares her intriguing journey from a dissatisfied fashion professional to a dating maven and content creator. We discuss Sabrina's personal experiences with anxious attachment, the impact of her past relationships, and her transformative path through therapy and self-discovery. We touch on the importance of setting boundaries, dealing with rejection, and maintaining self-worth. This episode shares insights for managing dating anxiety, the significance of authentic self-presentation, and the value of continuous personal growth within relationships.

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00:57 Sabrina Zohar's Journey to Dating Coach

01:48 The Turning Point: Therapy and Self-Discovery

03:10 TikTok Success and Podcast Launch

03:41 Handling Trolls and Building a Community

05:42 Dealing with Rejection in Dating

14:28 Authenticity in Relationships

16:11 Personal Stories and Overcoming Challenges

22:19 Insights from Working at Hinge

27:01 Understanding Avoidant Behavior

31:05 Supporting a Friend with Anxious Attachment

33:16 Navigating Mixed Signals in Dating

43:48 Managing Anxiety in New Relationships

50:59 Best Dating Advice Ever Received

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On this Unfiltered, I'm joined by Sam, a man who opens up about his experience recognizing and accepting his asexuality. He shares what his early experiences with sex and dating were like and how he came to realize that sex isn't something he needs to feel connected to somebody. He shares his journey of finding himself and finding the love of his life. Plus, we hear about his experience coming out to friends and family and trying to find his place in the LGBTQIA+ community.

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Aleeza Ben Shalom, Coach, Matchmaker, and Host of Netflix’s Jewish Matchmaking, joins us to talk about what goes into finding a love that will last. Aleeza opens up about how she and her husband met, and how assumptions almost ruined their chances at a relationship. She shares her expertise on what holds people back from finding love, why you should “date ‘em till you hate ‘em,” the benefits of not touching for five dates, and so much more. 

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Danielle Farage joins us to share her experience leaving both a toxic relationship and a toxic work environment. We hear how all-consuming these situations were, how they dimmed her light, and why she felt trapped in them for so long. She shares how she realized she wasn’t in healthy situations and how she came to terms with walking away from both. We discuss what to do if you feel like your friend is in a toxic situation, and how to approach having those conversations.

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I’m joined by Dating & Relationship Anxiety Hypnotherapist Danielle Hatton to dive into rewiring you brain to feel calm and confident instead of anxious and panicked. Danielle opens up about how her decision to call off her engagement led to healing her codependency, exploring her independence, and becoming the best version of herself. We bust myths about hypnotherapy and discuss how to build our self worth, why we obsess over people and how to stop, how to not let your anxiety sabotoge a great dating situation, and what to do when they’re not texting you back. 

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I’m joined by a 30-year-old who opens up about the pain she went through when she and the person she thought she was meant to be with learned they had different plans for their futures. She shares advice for long distance relationships along with what she’s learned about getting through heartbreak over the past year. Plus, we hear about how she crushes the IRL dating game and she gives us hot tips for approaching people in the wild.

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