Seeing Other People

Adrian, a self-identified 27-year-old male nerd from Canberra, Australia, shares his experiences and insights on dating, offering a male perspective. He discusses his dating history, including early high school relationships and the impact of a serious breakup at age 18. Adrian explains his cautious approach to dating apps and reflects on the challenges of dating as an introvert. He emphasizes the importance of taking risks in dating, inspired by a quote from the movie 'We Bought a Zoo.' Adrian also addresses the common dating adage 'if he wanted to, he would' and shares his thoughts on modern dating pressures and misconceptions.

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The incredible Suzy Welch joins us today to discuss how uncovering your values can help you find and build lasting relationships. Suzy is a public speaker, author, and professor of NYU's infamous "Becoming You" course. Suzy shares her journey of self-discovery through her 'Becoming You' methodology along with her life-changing decision making method 10-10-10 (yes, you can apply it to making decisions in dating!)

We discuss the potential impacts of value misalignment in relationships, and how understanding of one's values can inform personal and professional life decisions, leading to greater fulfillment.

Follow Suzy on Instagram @suzywelch and check out the Becoming You podcast on Spotify.

03:34 - 03:34 The Concept of Values and Their Importance

03:54 - 07:12 Developing the 'Becoming You' Methodology

07:12 - 08:28 Values in Relationships and Personal Growth

08:28 - 14:15 The Values Bridge Tool and Its Applications

24:19 - 26:03 High Scope vs. Low Scope Values in Relationships

26:03 - 30:06 Work Centrism: Balancing Career and Family

30:06 - 37:28 The 10-10-10 Decision-Making Method

37:28 - 41:47 The Velvet Coffin: Avoiding Complacency

41:47 - 46:19 Whose Life Do You Want Anyway?

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Brandon shares his story of how his marriage to the love of his life ended in divorce. He opens up about his growth and healing journey post-divorce, and what it was like to reenter the dating world as a man in his early 30s who hadn’t dated someone new since 2010. Brandon shares how he has since moved halfway across the country and started a new job while navigating the complexities of modern dating. Tune in for a conversation where we explore relationship dynamics and discuss the importance of self-awareness and patience.

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You're probably wondering why there's a new episode on your Seeing Other People feed! I wanted to take a second to introduce you to one of my favorite new podcasts, Live, Laugh, Lies. I'm sharing my favorite episode where host Susie Evans reunites with her ex, Clayton Echard, the 26th Bachelor, for a raw and unfiltered conversation about Clayton's paternity scandal. If you like what you hear, go to Spotify, Apple or wherever you get your podcasts to listen to other juicy stories with Mayci Neeley from The Secret Lives of Mormon Lives, Reesa Teesa, the woman behind the 50 part "Who The F*** Did I Marry," TikTok scandal and so much more. Follow Live, Laugh, Lies on Instagram or TikTok!

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In this episode Ilana chats with Gab Saper, a personal stylist who focuses on building confidence and body acceptance through fashion. They discuss the challenges millennials face due to past diet cultures and explore dressing for body types without aiming to look skinnier or taller. Gab shares her unique love story, beginning with a childhood camp romance that rekindled years later in New York, despite challenges like ghosting. She explains how eventually forgiving her now husband led to a deep relationship. Gab also talks about her journey into fashion styling, giving tips on dressing authentically, and how clothes are tied to self-expression and dating. They conclude with a discussion on the importance of wearing comfortable, authentic clothing and recognizing the significance of quality undergarments.

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01:07 Dressing for Your Body

03:30 Parallels Between Fashion and Dating

04:06 A Love Story: Meeting Her Husband

11:03 The Ghosting Incident

22:06 The Proposal

25:01 Wardrobe Styling Career

25:08 Early Fashion Memories

26:09 Turning Passion into a Business

27:53 Fashion and Dating

28:49 Breaking Fashion Myths

30:46 Finding Your Style

32:04 Dressing for Confidence

35:48 Comfort Over Trends

38:38 The Importance of Proper Fit

47:03 Advice for Men

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In this warm and engaging episode, Ilana welcomes her parents, Barbara and Chuck, to share their charming courtship story, personal insights on love and marriage, and how they met on a hot summer night at an Israeli bond fundraiser. Reflecting on their journey together, they discuss relationship dynamics, parenting, and the evolving landscape of dating from their pre-internet days to the present. They offer valuable advice on navigating the modern dating world, staying hopeful, and the importance of being true to oneself in love. The episode also touches upon Ilana's recent wedding planning experience and fond family memories, making it a heartfelt exploration of love across generations.

00:00 Introduction and Welcoming Parents

00:11 First Impressions and Initial Reactions

01:10 How They Met: A Love Story

05:53 Navigating Early Relationship Challenges

17:58 The Proposal and Engagement

21:45 Adapting to Life Changes and Parenthood

24:36 Balancing Personal Interests and Family Life

26:41 A Memorable Vegas Trip

28:33 Lost and Found Wallets

29:13 Listener Questions: Favorite Nephew

30:41 Advice for Single Women

33:45 Reflecting on Love and Relationships

39:18 Alana's Career Journey

47:41 Wedding Planning Insights

51:50 Final Thoughts and Advice

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In this insightful episode, relationship coach Lucy Price discusses navigating the emotional turbulence of breakups and finding empowerment. Lucy shares her journey from corporate marketing to becoming a breakup expert. The episode covers processing feelings, challenging self-blaming thoughts, and creating closure independently. Lucy offers practical advice for gaining emotional regulation and support during tough encounters, such as seeing an ex at social events. This conversation is essential listening for anyone looking to move forward and reclaim their power after a breakup.

00:00 - 00:37 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:37 - 04:56 Lucy's Journey to Relationship Coaching

04:56 - 09:14 The First 24 Hours After a Breakup

09:14 - 16:16 Understanding and Processing Breakups

16:16 - 24:46 Moving Forward and Self-Reflection

24:46 - 26:01 Navigating Post-Breakup Grief

26:01 - 28:37 Challenging Self-Blame After a Breakup

28:37 - 35:29 Finding Positives and Lessons in Past Relationships

35:29 - 40:45 Creating Closure and Acceptance

40:45 - 46:09 Preparing for Encounters with Your Ex

46:09 - 48:50 Best Relationship Advice and Conclusion

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Ilana catches you guys up on her travels, her personal wins, and what she took away from a recent experience. Then, Ilana and bff Carly Silverman dissect historical dating rules to see which stood the test of time. Then they go through more modern, viral dating rules they've heard of and debate where they stand on them. 33 minutes in, they share dating rules that they broke when they found love. 

Want more dating advice? Check out this playlist filled with episodes and guests covering the dating advice you need to hear.

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In today's episode, I'm thrilled to have Lindsey Schafer, a licensed couples and sex therapist, with us. Lindsey delves into the importance of normalizing conversations about intimacy, relationships, and sexuality. She shares her personal journey of overcoming her embarrassment about her unique initials to embracing her identity. We explore the dynamics of name changes after marriage, the stigma around sex and couples therapy, and practical advice for reigniting emotional intimacy in long-term relationships. Lindsey answers listener questions on managing differing sex drives and rebuilding trust after infidelity, offering insightful strategies to strengthen connection and communication.

Lindsey is accepting new clients! Reach out on lindseyschafer.com or follow Lindsey on Instagram!

01:30 Journey to Becoming a Therapist

06:14 Defining Intimacy

11:54 Common Relationship Issues

14:43 Approaching Therapy and Stigmas

22:40 The Importance of Relatable Education

24:29 Addressing Sexual Confidence and Intimacy

26:37 The Rewards of Being a Sex Therapist

28:37 Listener Questions: Navigating Relationship Challenges

38:39 Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity

Want to hear more of our episodes with therapists? This playlist has them all!

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In this solo episode, answer listener questions covering the intricacies of dating, such as how to deal with texting anxieties, ending relationships respectfully, and managing the dynamics of dating someone within your friend group. I also dive into how to handle relationships when dealing with controlling in-laws and the importance of setting boundaries.

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