We’ve had some incredible episodes on intimacy these past few weeks, and today we're wrapping up the series with licensed marriage and family therapist Kamil Lewis.




Kamil’s work focuses on sex therapy and examines intersectional identity specifically with race, sexuality, and gender. She’s the CEO of the therapy practice The Expansive Group and co-host of the podcast Safe Word.




In this episode, we discuss ways to connect with ourselves and how the ability to connect with others really starts within. Kamil also shares some great tactical advice to help you build your connection skill set.




We Also Talk About…
The experience of intimacy as a Black Femme
Replacing the narrative that putting yourself first is selfish
Creating small, sustainable, moments of care in your life and giving your routines room to change
Cultivating a curious and playful relationship with masturbation
Having healthy conversations about pleasure with children and not just the dreaded “talk”
Kamil’s favorite self-care practices



Resources:
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Self-Intimacy: Prioritizing Pleasure and Connecting with Yourself with Kamil Lewis

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#235 Over the last decade, ‘girlboss’ culture has convinced us that we’re superwomen who can have it together all of the time. But that’s not always the reality, and we’re ready for open conversations that embrace the REAL qualities that lead to success!

Today, we’re welcoming award-winning journalist, entrepreneur, and author of “Simplify The Hustle,” Sherrell Dorsey for an in-depth conversation on how to simplify your approach to success through reframing productivity, prioritizing self-care, and creating space for yourself to win and reach your goals beyond just hard work.

We Also Talk About…Sherrell’s journey finding balance as a serial entrepreneurThe keys to building and distributing wealth amongst communitiesFirst-generation entrepreneurship and the challenges of building a business from the ground upThe difference between leveling up and selling outIntention-setting and how to practice self-care as an entrepreneurWhat it means to simplify the hustle and embrace efficiency


Resources:Follow Sherrell on Instagram @sherrell_dorseyRead “Upper Hand: The Future of Work for the Rest of Us” by Sherrell DorseyRead “Simplify The Hustle: A 21-Day Guide to Balancing Work With Ease & Intention” by Sherrell Dorsey


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How to Beat Hustle Culture and Avoid Burnout with Sherrell Dorsey

#234: Are you healing or are you coping? Today I’m sitting down with content creator and host of That Conversation, Tarek Ali for an honest chat about how to prioritize your mental health and take care yourself during hard times.

Whether you are in survival mode or in a season of rebuilding trust, Tarek offers amazing tips and tools on how to set new standards for yourself, be patient with your progress, and learn how to identify what your feeling in order to move forward.

We Also Talk About…Tarek’s career journey from dentistry to content creator to screenwriterWhat it means to come out of survival modeSeed mentality and making time for things that bring you joyHow to use journaling as a healing tool in difficult timesWhy it’s important to identify trust in relationshipsDaily stress and anxiety relieving techniques


Resources:Follow Tarek on Instagram @itstarekaliFollow Tarek on TikTok @itstarekaliSubscribe to Tarek’s YouTube Channel @TarekAliListen to Tarek’s podcast THAT ConversationListen to Tarek’s “Whole lotta SEX — Healing Body Trauma, Sexual Agency, & Growing Beyond Judgement” episodeVisit leapintohealing.com for more tools and resources for healing


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Mental Health Check-In: Tools to Support Your Healing with Tarek Ali (Part 2)

#233: At the beginning of the year, I moved to New York City and started working as a full-time podcaster and content creator.

In today’s solo episode, I’m opening up about the challenges I’ve experienced so far, what changes I’m making to support my mental health, and how I’m using new wellness tools to spark my next creative endeavor.

Catch up on my other solo episodes:Episode 220: How I Became A Full-Time PodcasterEpisode 222: How to Make Friends in A New City + Am I Oversharing with My Friends? [Q&A]


Resources:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchRead The Artist's Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher CreativityRead the NYTimes article on the Eldest Daughter Syndrome


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[Solo Episode] Mental Health Check-In: Challenges of Entrepreneurship and Life Updates (Part 1)

#232: What does it look like to be in your power? In some instances, power can be a bold proclamation, and at other times it can be a calm, quiet knowing. When we aren’t in our power, we can feel stuck, burned out, or like we aren’t living up to our potential. However, we can learn how to reframe our relationship with power to use it as a tool for growth.

Today I’m sitting down with entrepreneur, author, and founder of Woman Evolve, Sarah Jakes Roberts for a powerful conversation on how to build confidence, embrace flexibility, and make power moves.

We Also Talk About…Sarah’s experience stepping into her power in each area of her lifeWhat inspired Sarah’s new book “Power Moves: Ignite Your Confidence and Become a Force”The difference between being prepared and trying to control the outcomeFinding power in vulnerability and how to identify what you’re afraid ofWays to improve your decision-making skills when you’re feeling anxious or depressedHow to create a vision for yourself and find opportunities that empower youIntention setting and giving yourself permission to restTips for approaching burnout and ways to embrace flexibility


Resources:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchFollow Sarah on Instagram @sarahjakesrobertsFollow Sarah on Tiktok @realsarahjakesrobertsSubscribe to Sarah’s YouTube channel @SarahJakesRobertsGet Sarah’s book “Power Moves: Ignite Your Confidence and Become a Force”Listen to the Woman Evolve podcast hosted by Sarah Jakes RobertsFrom Sarah’s YouTube Channel — POV: I took my wig off while I was preaching


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How to Step Into Your Power, Build Confidence, and Align Yourself with Purpose with Sarah Jakes Roberts

Feel confused about all of the conflicting nutrition and wellness information out there? You’re not alone! It can be really overwhelming and confusing to figure out what will work best for you. Thankfully, nutrition can be a lot simpler than we think.

In today’s bonus episode I’m sitting down with registered dietitian and CEO of Culina Health, Vanessa Risetto for pro tips on how to make nutrition simple.

From protein intake to gut health issues, Vanessa and I get to the bottom of nutrition trends, and discuss ways you can improve your eating habits and relationship with food for a healthier lifestyle.




We Also Talk About…Vanessa’s experience as a Black woman running a venture-backed startup.Why working with a dietitian is more accessible than you thinkHow to understand and alleviate common gut health issues through dietThe pros and cons of taking weight loss medications like OzempicHow to avoid falling into the trap of fad diets and nutrition trendsHow to get health and nutrition assistance at a lower cost


Resources:Shop limited-edition Balanced Black Girl merchFollow Vanessa on Instagram @vanessarissettordFollow Culina Health on Instagram @culinahealthVisit start.culinahealth.com to sign up for insurance-covered nutrition care! If your insurance does not cover Culina, mention Balanced Black Girl for a special discount.


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Self-Intimacy: Prioritizing Pleasure and Connecting with Yourself with Kamil Lewis

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