This week on The Real Stuff, our guest is Natalie from Natalies Outlet. She is one of the ORIGINAL YouTubers who grew her channel during those peak years of being a YouTube creator, and in this episode, we talk all about balancing the limelight of YouTube fame with our quieter, more introspective areas of personal growth and self-discovery. Listen in as Natalie shares her evolution from the shy, artistic spirit in the back of the classroom to a social media powerhouse. We peel back the layers of an identity crafted in the public eye, touching on the irony of how many online extroverts, including Natalie, are intrinsically introverted. It's a conversation that explores the balance between nurturing a massive digital community and fostering the crucial moments of offline reflection. We also dive into her marriage (she works with her husband) and discuss how working with a spouse can impact your relationship. 

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I am pregnant with baby #2! Come inside my first-trimester pregnancy diaries, where I've been popping on the microphone weekly and providing real-time updates throughout this entire trimester. As I navigate the labyrinth of expecting our second child, I pull back the curtain on the decision-making process, the wavering between reluctance and readiness, and the early physical telltales of pregnancy. It's not just a countdown of 249 days until our new arrival; it’s an invitation to walk alongside me through each tender, taxing moment as we prepare to welcome another life into our fold.

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To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

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This episode contains references to sexual abuse that some listeners may find upsetting.

Join me as I connect with Parvathy Thiruvothu, an Indian actor and activist (and a longtime friend of mine) whose voice resonates with heartfelt authenticity. Listen in as Parvathy and I navigate the complexities of international friendships, how a simple message exchange blossomed into a profound digital companionship, and the beautiful realities of social media's power to bring people together. Parvathy is both a fascinating artist and an open book of human experiences, and I so deeply appreciate her insights about her income, sexuality, and her life’s journey thus far.

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX 

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

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When I first decided that the podcast would bring on audience callers as guests, I was hoping my friend Alanah Dixon would apply. She is in a lesbian marriage and is currently the mother of 2 children, both of whom she carried (one came from her egg and the other from her wife's). Join us for a heartfelt conversation as she shares her poignant moments of self-discovery and her liberating experience of coming out as a lesbian, juxtaposed against her earlier relationships with men. Our discussion also embraces the warm acceptance of her family and the joyous serendipity of meeting her wife, marking the beginning of her loving, five-year union.

We’ll talk about the complex path to parenthood faced by same-sex couples, tackling everything from the emotional to the logistical. We discuss the initial decisions, such as choosing who will carry the child, and the emotional intricacies of using donor sperm, including an amusing story about the unconventional funding of their sperm purchase. The conversation also highlights the vital support and shared responsibilities during the postpartum period, the non-biological partner's nurturing role, and the significant emotional and financial investment in starting a family.

We’ll dive into the nuanced landscape of LGBTQ+ parenting and family dynamics, where the ordinary challenges of raising children meet the unique hurdles faced by gay parents. We talk about the societal assumptions, the heartfelt moments of inclusion, and the quest for diverse, accepting communities for our children. So tune in for an episode that celebrates love, intention, and the true essence of family beyond biological ties.

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Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

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Join me for a heart-to-heart with none other than the rock and roll king, my dad, Jimmy Fink. In this special episode, I sit down with my dad to unravel the tales of a life deeply intertwined with music history. We embark on a personal journey from the heady days of Woodstock and Studio 54 to the intimate moments that have defined our father-daughter bond. The laughter, the struggles, and even the recording snafus of this podcast episode itself stitch together a story that's as rich and vibrant as the music he's played. As we explore his experiences, you're transported to a time of free love, cultural revolution, and the birth of a music legacy. We also get an inside look at the era's drug culture, its impact on the industry, and the stark contrast between public personas and private lives. Jimmy's tales from this transformative period in music are not just nostalgia; they're a testament to the power of radio and its enduring connection to listeners. 

Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX

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To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

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In today's episode, I'm sharing every salary I've ever made and every amount of rent I've ever paid in my NYC apartments. For some reason, these topics are incredibly taboo and I've been through my entire media career thus far without sharing this. As the host of this podcast, however, I've decided to practice what I preach and OPEN UP. I once believed that an influencer's worth was directly measured by their follower count – but that myth is quickly dispelled when you step behind the scenes of the content creation world. This episode unpacks the financial landscape of the influencer industry, where numbers don't always mean worth and follower engagement can be deceiving. I recount my own evolution from an eager intern at a prestigious advertising firm to becoming one of the faces of Refinery29, offering a frank examination of how privilege can influence the trajectory of success in this unpredictable digital realm. Our exploration doesn't end there. I invite you to walk with me through the pivotal chapters of my career. From the first spark of interest in stop motion videos to founding Lucie Fink Media, I share the struggles and triumphs of placing value on my work and realizing its worth in the market. Reflecting on my financial journey, I discuss the powerful milestone of nearing seven-figure gross revenue and how personal life transitions, like sharing a home with my partner Michael, have intertwined with my professional growth. Join me to redefine openness and redefine the boundaries of what we can share, as we collectively navigate the unspoken intricacies of our lives.

Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. 

I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

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This episode contains a reference to suicide that some listeners may find upsetting. Listener discretion is advised. If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts or a crisis, please reach out immediately to the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988. 

In the first audience caller episode of The Real Stuff podcast, join us for a heartfelt journey into the complex world of parenthood and relationships. We're breaking new ground by bringing our audience into the conversation, featuring personal stories that reveal the profound impact a new baby can have on a couple's life. From the dissolution of partnerships to the strengthening of bonds, our guests share their raw and diverse experiences. We navigate through the euphoria and the turmoil, presenting an honest look at how children can both test and transform the relationships of their parents. We'll explore the multifaceted challenges that can arise in post-baby marriages, including the strains of postpartum depression, diverging parenting styles, infidelity, and more. We'll unravel the importance of maintaining connection, the hurdles in seeking quality time, and the resilience required to co-parent effectively through separation. Each story guides us through the emotional extremes and provides solace in the shared struggles of parenthood. 

Find Isabella on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/isabellaeisenmann/

Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX [youtube.com]

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply [luciefink.com] and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod [instagram.com]

Find Lucie here:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/[instagram.com]

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink [tiktok.com]

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink [youtube.com]

Website: https://luciefink.com/[luciefink.com]

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Join me as I sit down with the multifaceted Mike Johnson, whose journey from "The Bachelorette" fame to a career in sexology has been anything but conventional. Listen in as we explore Mike's unexpected transition into the spotlight and how his distinct background informs his current passion for promoting sexual and mental well-being. In this episode, we peel back the layers when it comes to the influence of childhood experiences and how they shape our aspirations for parenthood and legacy. We round off with a deep exploration into the realms of intimacy, tantric practices, and the delicate interplay between socioeconomic backgrounds and financial mindsets. Mike and I tackle the taboos of sexual pleasure and communication, shedding light on gender perspectives and the importance of connection beyond the physical. As we discuss the intricacies of balancing money, career, and gender roles in the field of sexology, you're invited to gain a new understanding of the importance of open and healthy discourse around intimacy. 

This episode contains references to sexual assault that some listeners may find upsetting. Listener discretion is advised.

Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone. 

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod 

Find Lucie here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink 

Website: https://luciefink.com/ 

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To properly introduce you to The Real Stuff podcast, I’m sitting down and diving into all the dirty details. In today's solo episode, you'll learn everything from the driving force behind the series to the line of questioning I plan on asking my guests, the show's format, and more. This series has been a long time coming, and there's never been a better time for these important conversations to unfold.

What’s inside?

- Why I chose to record a solo episode for episode 1

- How my platforms have changed and evolved over the years since my Refinery29 days

- What types of conversations I’m interested in having

- The format each future episode will take

- Some boundaries I’ve set in my life and how I plan to explore them in future episodes

- The types of questions I want to ask my guests in the realms of sex, money, and mental health

- The story of how I wound up sharing my business’s revenue on social media

- How you can apply to be a guest on the show (anonymously, if you wish)

- How I anticipate future guests feeling uncomfortable or rejecting my offer to come on the show

- The story of one creator who already backed out of an interview with me

- How I feel about connecting with people from my audience and community

- Why podcasting feels like the best medium for me at this moment in time

- My goals for the podcast (pssst. it’s not monetization)


Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX [youtube.com]

To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply [luciefink.com] and send us your story. I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.

Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod [instagram.com]

Find Lucie here:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ [instagram.com]

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink [tiktok.com]

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink [youtube.com]

Website: https://luciefink.com/ [luciefink.com]

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Welcome to The Real Stuff is a weekly podcast series hosted by Lucie Fink who has spent the past decade getting curious and creating engaging and educational content for an audience of millions. On this show, you won’t hear your favorite guests talk about things they typically share — rather, Lucie pulls them deep into some of the world’s most taboo topics, asking intensely personal questions about sex, money, and mental health, all in an effort to help you feel less alone as you navigate through the world. And the best part: we want to invite YOU onto the show. Apply to call in as an anonymous guest at luciefink.com/apply. Pop in your voyeuristic headphones, or call in and spill your secrets! Visit Lucie on Instagram (@luciebfink) and find the show across social media @therealstuffpod. 

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