What if manifestation isn’t about trying harder, visualizing more, or controlling every outcome but about who you’re being while you move through the unknown?

In this episode, I share the real-time story of how I manifested my dream home in my dream city-not by forcing, hustling, or micromanaging the process, but by learning how to play with the universe through trust, embodied action, and detached involvement.

I walk you through the exact energetic shifts, decisions, and actions that led to this manifestation, including the moments where everything could have fallen apart, and why it didn’t.

Inside this episode, we explore:

• Why you are always manifesting, whether you realize it or not
• The difference between operating from creation vs. survival
• What “detached involvement” really means (and how to practice it)
• Why the unknown isn’t scary and what it actually enables us to do 
• How embodiment and the nervous system shape what you call in
• Why action is the bridge between vision and manifestation
• How letting go of control actually creates faster, cleaner results

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If you’ve done all the work, read the books, hired the coaches, uncovered the patterns, but still find yourself freezing, procrastinating, or repeating the same cycles… this episode is for you.

In this episode, we’re diving into The Choice Method-the embodiment-based framework that explains why knowing better doesn’t automatically lead to doing differently, and how real transformation happens at the level of the nervous system, identity, and micro-moment choices.

You’ll learn why breakthroughs alone don’t change the trajectory of your life, why your current self can’t lead you into your next level, and how to stop abandoning yourself in the exact moments that matter most.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why there’s a massive difference between knowing better and doing differently
• How old identity patterns get activated in micro moments and quietly shape your future
• Why transformation doesn’t live in the mind, but in the body and nervous system
• What it actually means to “let your future self lead”
• Why change only happens at the speed of safety
• How to stop repeating Groundhog Day cycles in your business, relationships, and life
• The four core elements of the Choice Method for sustainable identity evolution
• How to move from intellectual growth into embodied, aligned action

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What if boredom isn’t laziness but fear in disguise?

In this episode, Tracy sits down with Julie Cabezas, a multi-million dollar creative, world-renowned brand expert, and a copywriter to the stars.

Julie has mastered strategy, built extraordinary success, and spent over a decade immersed in spiritual and personal development. Yet, despite doing “all the work,” something still felt incomplete. In this episode, she shares the realization that changed everything: spiritual growth without embodiment can quietly create separation, disconnection, and avoidance in real life.

If you are a high-achieving woman, founder, or creative who feels successful on the outside but subtly disconnected on the inside, this episode will speak directly to you.

Tune in to hear:

• Why doing the inner work isn’t enough without embodiment
• How fear shows up as procrastination, boredom, and avoidance
• The hidden cost of spiritual growth that keeps you separate from people
• What it means to lead while staying grounded in your humanity
• Why self-referral is a critical shift for women in leadership
• How the nervous system and body play a role in creativity and self-expression
• Why creativity is not a talent problem, but a permission problem
• How to stop accommodating others at the expense of yourself
• The difference between spiritual bypassing and real integration
• A powerful reminder every woman needs to hear about her worth

Connect with Julie: 

Website: selfmadesales.com 

Julie’s Substack "Body Language”: substack.com/@julieccabezas

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What if the reason you feel stuck is because you are still filtering who you really are?

 

In this episode, you'll hear the replay of day 1 of The Disco Ball Effect, where Tracy invites you into a visceral, embodied experience of what it means to be fully expressed. This is not about becoming louder, shinier, or more performative. It is about returning to your truest state and reclaiming the safety to be who you are everywhere you go.

 

Through nervous system work, embodied practices, and unapologetic truth, Tracy breaks down why shrinking, hedging, and shape shifting are not personality traits, they are inherited survival patterns. And more importantly, she shows you how full expression is the missing link to wealth, intimacy, leadership, and fulfillment.

 

Tune in to hear:

• The hidden cost of shrinking that most high achieving women never name
• Why your body knows the truth before your mind ever catches up
• How generational conditioning taught women to dim, and how to consciously end the inheritance
• The connection between self abandonment and resentment in relationships
• Why your fullest expression is not optional, it is the medicine
• How to stop negotiating against yourself in money, love, and leadership
• What changes when you become unavailable for anything that requires betraying yourself
• The nervous system reason playing it safe keeps you stuck
• Why you cannot be deeply loved if you are not fully seen
• How becoming fully expressed creates a ripple effect far beyond you

 

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Are you outgrowing the version of yourself that built your current success?

In this episode, Tracy sits down with Gaby Abrams, six-figure founder, certified hypnotherapist, and creator of Subconscious Marketing, to explore the identity evolution that happens behind real success. From visibility and leadership to cultural authority and creative expression, this episode pulls back the curtain on the inner work most entrepreneurs feel but can’t quite name.

Together, they examine why growth often feels uncomfortable before it feels aligned, how shedding old identities is part of expansion, and what it actually takes to become a category of one in a rapidly changing world.

Tune in to hear:

• Why growth often feels disorienting before it feels expansive
• The difference between visibility and feeling safe being seen
• How identity shifts shape business success more than strategy ever could
• Why every up-level requires letting go of old versions of yourself
• What it really means to become a category of one
• How cultural authority is built through alignment, not performance
• Why simplicity, not more effort, is the true marker of evolution
• How entrepreneurship becomes the medium for personal transformation
• Why the dreams you once thought were “too big” may actually be too small
• What it looks like to lead, create, and communicate from your next level

Connect with Gaby:

• Download The Gaby Edit (digital magazine experience): https://www.gabyabrams.com/the-gaby-edit/
• Connect with Gaby on Instagram: @gabyabrams
• Learn more about Gaby’s work: https://www.gabyabrams.com/ 

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What if the reason change hasn’t stuck isn’t a lack of discipline, motivation, or strategy but your nervous system?

In this episode, Tracy unpacks why so many high-performing women find themselves repeating the same patterns year after year, even when they’re doing “all the right things.” From burnout and plateaus to visibility fears and chronic self-editing, this conversation goes beneath mindset and productivity to the real driver of sustainable change: identity and nervous system regulation.

Tune in to hear:

• Why change doesn’t stick without a shift in identity and nervous system safety
• The difference between being visible and actually feeling safe being seen
• How your nervous system subconsciously pulls you back to what feels familiar, even when it’s draining
• Why burnout and plateaus aren’t time or strategy problems
• How shrinking, self-editing, and softening your message are learned survival patterns
• Why high-performing women often feel stuck despite external success
• What it means to stop chasing the light and become the source of it
• Why embodiment creates faster, more sustainable results than force or hustle
• How fully expressed leadership becomes your greatest advantage in this next era

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"When a woman is in her body, she is in her power. And in order to be in your body, you have to be willing to start to feel." - Tracy Litt

Today on The School of Becoming:

• Reclaiming the joy of play after a lifetime of performing, achieving, and proving your worth.
• Realizing that slowing down isn’t laziness—it’s the sacred rebellion that brings you back to your body.
• Understanding that healing doesn’t happen in one breakthrough—it lives in how you embody it every day.
• Meeting the anger you’ve suppressed under perfectionism—and letting it become your teacher, not your shame.
• Choosing to stop outsourcing your growth and instead root into earth, sisterhood, and your own sacred timing.



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• IG: @heidistevens
• Podcast: Feet on the Grass
• Web: www.heidistevens.co

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"The reason why we control is because we feel out of control internally." - Tracy Litt

Today on The School of Becoming:

• Realizing that self-abandonment was never a flaw, but a survival strategy you learned to be loved—and it’s safe to let it go now.
• Seeing how your desire to overfunction for everyone else was just a way to avoid the fear of your own unmet needs.
• Understanding that emotional grit isn’t about pushing harder—it’s about choosing discomfort in service of your aliveness.
• Remembering that boundaries aren’t walls; they’re the deepest form of love—for yourself, and for those you’re guiding.
• Choosing, over and over again, to no longer outsource your power—and to build your life from alignment, not approval.

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• Website: https://theschoolofbecoming.com/

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• IG: @heatherchauvin_
• YouTube: http://youtube.com/user/heatherchauvin
• Website: https://www.heatherchauvin.com/press
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"There is nothing about you in your identity that is fixed. And that's amazing." - Tracy Litt

Today on The School of Becoming:

• Realizing that your core beliefs were shaped before you even knew you had a choice—and most of them were based on someone else’s pain, not your truth.
• Witnessing how the innocent meaning a five-year-old made turned into the adult identity you’re still carrying today.
• Feeling the weight of the “I’m not enough” lie—and finally understanding it was never yours to begin with.
• Learning that everything you thought was fixed about you is actually fluid—and that transformation happens when the nervous system feels safe enough to believe it.
• Choosing to become the version of you who no longer builds a life from the lie, but from the knowing that you’ve always been whole.

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• Website: https://theschoolofbecoming.com/

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“None of this is real and we're not getting out alive.” - Tracy Litt

Today on The School of Becoming:

• Witnessing a younger and older self at once—a mirror into who we’re becoming and who we’ll someday leave behind.
• Dropping the illusion of control and letting mortality sharpen our clarity in ways nothing else can.
• Remembering that time won’t wait, and neither should we—because presence is the real currency of a rich life.
• Living from the knowing that none of this is real, and still choosing to lean in, risk more, and love deeper.
• Becoming the version of you who stopped tolerating less and started honoring the preciousness of it all.

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