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Am I the problem? It’s a question we’ve all asked ourselves–and if you haven’t, you probably should. This week, some introspective Valley girls share their struggles with deciding if they’re in the wrong. One is suspicious of her husband using Snapchat to chat with his work wife. Another wonders if she can ask her sister to cover up her Star Wars tattoo at her wedding. If there’s one thing you’ll learn from this episode, it’s that it never hurts to look in the mirror and ask the hard question...

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What’s the point of all this Love Island talk lately if nobody is getting married?! This week on the What We Said Podcast, listeners share their craziest stories from the best part of any wedding: the bachelorette party. A weekend full of fun with just the girls? Yes, please! Those rules, however, didn’t apply to one bride, who invited a straight man on the sacred girls-only retreat. Then there’s the bridesmaid who canceled her attendance that was planned months in advance (after everyone had already paid). A true nightmare, the group rental car that gets towed following a late night out on the town, and they couldn’t get it back. Don’t worry ladies it gets even worse, tune in for tips on what NOT to do when celebrating your bestie’s big decision!

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 (In Iain Stirling's voice): The girls kick this week off with another round of Love Island chat, and they’ve got Sincere squarely in their crosshairs. They’ve officially had it up to ~here~ with his games and lies, and they’re breaking down everything happening in the villa. There's a study on the girls and boys entering Casa Amor and how they have to behave so differently to be picked to stay in the Villa. Do the men on the show, and in real life, get way too much grace to do whatever they want under the excuse of “boys will be boys”? And why are the women being villainized this season for doing the exact same things Zach, Dylan, KC, and of course Sincere, have been doing? Things wrap up with discussions of what is going on behind the scenes in Fiji, like contestants that might never enter, and entire seasons filmed before the real deal just so producers can make sure everything runs smoothly. Jaci recaps her family reunion in Tennessee, including the bugs that apparently decided she was their new home, while Chelsey shares some photo drama that’s threatening to tear a family apart.

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Jaci and Chelsey recently celebrated eight years of the What We Said Podcast! It’s been a wild ride full of unexpected turns. From advice columns and horror stories to tender moments and jaw-dropping drama, the girls have shared so much alongside you, their listeners. Along the way, Jaci and Chelsey have learned a lot, and they’re using today’s episode to share some of the lessons that have genuinely made a positive impact on their lives. If you're new here, welcome. If you’ve been listening from the start, thank you for sticking through it all with us. And to everyone, cheers to many more episodes to come!

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Coming off last week’s Love Island recap, Jaci and Chelsey are craving all the sizzling summer romance. They asked you to send in your favorite summer fling stories, and you absolutely delivered. We’re talking sneaking away with your secret vacation man every summer for years (yes, years), flying across the world to visit that dreamy beach boy studying abroad in hopes he finally gets the hint to put a ring on it, and one we’ve all secretly dreamed about: the hot guy walking down the airplane aisle, only to stop… and take the seat right next to you. Summer is officially heating up, ladies. ☀️💕

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Jaci and Chelsey have heard your cries for their thoughts on the current season of Love Island USA, and they’re finally here. The girls kick things off by breaking down the villa after Casa Amor turned everything upside down. Almost every relationship (if you could even call it that) is hanging by a thread, so there’s lot’s to discuss! Then they move into something just about every boy on that show could use: an advice column. Listeners wrote in asking for help with husbands hitting on them, debating whether moving back in with your parents is the right move, and—surprise!—another garbage husband who just can’t stop killing the vibe.

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This week on the What We Said Podcast, Jaci and Chelsey are sharing listener submissions about wedding days that went up in flames. No, like literally—one of the weddings actually caught on fire. The rest are metaphorical: heinous comments from in-laws on the day of the ceremony, getting ostracized for not going into debt to attend a destination wedding, being fat-shamed by the bridal seamstress, and bridesmaids treating the wedding like Love Island. If you’ve got a wedding coming up, tune in for a few tips on how to keep your big day from crashing and burning. And if you don’t have one coming up, you should still listen, you might just learn how not to ruin someone else’s (looking at you MILs).

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Home sweet home. This week, the girls finish recapping their Italy trip, and let’s just say the travel chaos wasn’t quite over yet. Chelsey gets stranded again, done dirty by the London airport for a second time before finding herself stuck in Dallas too. Jaci also falls victim to the London airport, but manages to turn the setback into bonus vacation time with an extended stay in Italy and a stop in Denmark. Once they finally touch down stateside, it’s time for June Favorites. The girls share everything they’ve been loving lately, including music from a new fav pop artist, shoe recommendations, a few beauty finds (featuring eye patches + a face mask that are truly the best) and more! If you’re looking for your next summer obsession, this episode has plenty of contenders.

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The girls are back at it again, coming to you from their Italian villa. This week, they’re sharing their summer must-haves, do’s, eats, and sees. You’ll notice some are heavily inspired by their current vacation, like hanging laundry out to dry in the open air, and then some wild cards, like unique ice molds and fresh recipes to keep you feeling refreshed and healthy all summer long. Maybe this week you can tune in from your patio, or on a towel in the grass at the park, and properly kick off your summer with the What We Said Podcast. This year it's all about getting out and soaking up the sun!

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Ciao from Italy! Jaci and Chelsey are finally reunited in Capri — but not before a series of very unfortunate events. The girls are recapping their Euro summer adventures so far, and much like the island they’re recording from, the trip has come with some very high highs and some sea-level lows. Chelsey shares the saga of getting stranded at London Heathrow (worst airport ever?) and how she eventually managed to make the most of an unexpected detour, while Jaci reflects on her picturesque time in the Cotswolds and all the charm of the English countryside. They also compare notes on traveling internationally with young kids, navigating the inevitable hiccups along the way, and their first impressions of Capri together. Despite the travel chaos, these two Valley girls are living and loving life together in Italy. Now somebody pass the pasta…

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