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In this episode of The Be A Better You Podcast, I explore the challenging yet crucial topic of victim mentality and its impact on emotional healing after emotional abuse and narcissistic abuse. We explore what victim mentality is, how it differs from simply being a victim, and the common characteristics that define this mindset. We discuss how maintaining a victim mentality can drain your emotional, mental, and physical energy, making recovery and personal growth difficult.
Listeners will learn to identify subtle signs of being in victim mode, even when they might not realize it, and will be provided with self-reflection exercises to help uncover these patterns. I share actionable steps and empowering techniques to shift from a victim to a victor mindset.
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Thank you for joining us on this episode, and remember, you have the power to transform your life and break free from the chains of victim mentality. Stay tuned for our next episode, where we'll continue to explore ways to be a better you.
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In this powerful episode, I am diving into the often overlooked but crucial phase of emotional abuse recovery. Using the swamp analogy, we explore the deep, murky waters of despair that many survivors find themselves in even after escaping an abusive relationship. I discuss common feelings of isolation, relationship turmoil, and the fear of losing one's identity. These struggles are real and valid, but there is hope for healing.
I uncover practical steps to shift out of the swamp and into the light, focusing on techniques to feel emotionally empowered, stop rumination, and manage triggers using the power of the subconscious mind. From mindfulness practices to visualization exercises, you'll gain valuable insights on how to start your journey toward emotional freedom.
Are you ready to take the first step out of the swamp?
***FREE 20-minute chats with me are not currently available, schedule a free 30 call to learn how we can work together using the link below instead
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If you've left an emotionally abusive relationship but still struggle with self-doubt, emotional triggers, or feeling stuck, personalized mentorship can help you move forward.
Explore my Private Coaching Program and schedule a complimentary Alignment Call to see if we're a good fit.
Explore Private Mentorship: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=25254715&appointmentType=63611986
Ready to stop coping, start real healing and start feeling like yourself again?
Get your Free seat at the NEXT Stop Coping Start Healing LIVE Training @7p EST. Replays available to all who register:⬇️
https://www.radiatenrise.com/stop-coping-start-healing-free-training-dec-15
Website: www.radiatenrise.com
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In this powerful episode, "The Myths of Trauma Bonds and How to Break Them," I dive into the complex world of trauma bonds, a common yet often misunderstood consequence of emotional abuse and narcissism. Trauma bonds are emotional connections that form between abuser and victim, making it incredibly challenging for the victim to break free. Many women struggling with these bonds believe they are weak or powerless, but this couldn't be further from the truth.
Join as I debunk the pervasive myths surrounding trauma bonds and explore the psychological underpinnings of these intense connections. We'll discuss how trauma bonds are formed through cycles of emotional abuse and manipulation, creating a powerful grip on the victim's emotions and self-worth. Learn why breaking free from a trauma bond is not a reflection of personal strength but rather a journey of understanding and healing. This episode will guide you through the process of shifting your beliefs, reclaiming your power, and ultimately breaking the cycle of abuse. Whether you've experienced narcissistic abuse or emotional trauma, this episode is a crucial step towards regaining control over your life and finding the path to true emotional freedom. Tune in for actionable insights and inspirational stories of transformation that will empower you to take the first step towards healing.
Email: [email protected]
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To learn more about my Programs visit the website
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Today I am offering something a little different, yet no doubt insightful. I am speaking with my friend Riessa Monique and we are opening up our conversation with YOU. We are talking about a lot of different things so you get a peek into how our personal chats go when we get together. Riessa is a life coach who helps women in technology and she is one of the wisest people I know! She is full of life and deep insight and has helped me immensely on my journey. We are touching on subjects like "parts work" and "deep listening" and you get to join us to get an inside peek at how we interact with each other and how that would look for you too if you were to connect with us! So, whether you are a women in tech or just on a personal recovery or development journey you are sure to find something impactful in this conversation.
20 MINUTE CHATS ARE NO LONGER AVAILABLE> Please use the link below for a free 30 minute call to see how we can work together.
To listen to Riessa's podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2255547
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Schedule your complimentary Alignment Call here: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=25254715&appointmentType=63611986
Register for the FREE Stop Coping, Start Healing Training:
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Support the show
Ready to Heal Beyond the Podcast?
If you've left an emotionally abusive relationship but still struggle with self-doubt, emotional triggers, or feeling stuck, personalized mentorship can help you move forward.
Explore my Private Coaching Program and schedule a complimentary Alignment Call to see if we're a good fit.
Explore Private Mentorship: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=25254715&appointmentType=63611986
Ready to stop coping, start real healing and start feeling like yourself again?
Get your Free seat at the NEXT Stop Coping Start Healing LIVE Training @7p EST. Replays available to all who register:⬇️
https://www.radiatenrise.com/stop-coping-start-healing-free-training-dec-15
Website: www.radiatenrise.com
Email: [email protected]
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allisonkdagney/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allisonkdagney/
*Formerly The Emotional Abuse Recovery Podcast*
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Are you curious about unlocking the true potential of your identity, love, and life's direction? Join me in this enlightening episode as I dive into the G Center in Human Design—a powerful core of your being that holds the key to your authentic self. Discover the intriguing concept of the Magnetic Monopole and how it shapes your experiences and relationships. Whether you have a defined or undefined/open G Center, learn how to harness its energy, overcome common struggles, and decondition aspects of yourself that don't align with who you're meant to be. Tune in for practical tips, reflective questions, and transformative insights that will help you embrace your unique journey with confidence and clarity. Don't miss this chance to magnetize your life and attract the experiences you truly desire!
*I no longer offer the human design chart tool, but there are many places online you can get this in a google search, or just ask me!
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To learn more about my Programs visit the website
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Today I am sharing the difference between a subconscious belief and a subconscious block and why it's important to identify and clear them out. I give you 12 indicators that you might have a subconscious block limiting you and keeping you from the life of your dreams. Whether you have been in a narcissistic/abusive relationship, were raised through trauma or simply had a picture perfect life--you still have subconscious limitations! So, let's dive into this and figure out what yours are so you can start to get them out of your way.
Schedule your complimentary Alignment Call here: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=25254715&appointmentType=63611986
Register for the FREE Stop Coping, Start Healing Training:
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Support the show
Ready to Heal Beyond the Podcast?
If you've left an emotionally abusive relationship but still struggle with self-doubt, emotional triggers, or feeling stuck, personalized mentorship can help you move forward.
Explore my Private Coaching Program and schedule a complimentary Alignment Call to see if we're a good fit.
Explore Private Mentorship: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=25254715&appointmentType=63611986
Ready to stop coping, start real healing and start feeling like yourself again?
Get your Free seat at the NEXT Stop Coping Start Healing LIVE Training @7p EST. Replays available to all who register:⬇️
https://www.radiatenrise.com/stop-coping-start-healing-free-training-dec-15
Website: www.radiatenrise.com
Email: [email protected]
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allisonkdagney/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allisonkdagney/
*Formerly The Emotional Abuse Recovery Podcast*
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Today I am sharing the difference between a subconscious belief and a subconscious block and why it's important to identify and clear them out. I give you 12 indicators that you might have a subconscious block limiting you and keeping you from the life of your dreams. Whether you have been in a narcissistic/abusive relationship, were raised through trauma or simply had a picture perfect life--you still have subconscious limitations! So, let's dive into this and figure out what yours are so you can start to get them out of your way.
Email: [email protected]
Join Radiate and Rise Together - Survivor Healing Community
FREE 20 Minute Chat
FREE Consultation to see if my coaching programs are a fit for you
To send a DM, visit Allison's profiles on
Instagram and Facebook
https://www.instagram.com/allisonkdagney/
https://www.facebook.com/allisonkdagney/
To learn more about my Programs visit the website
www.radiatenrise.com
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Join us in this enlightening episode of 'The Be A Better You' Podcast as we explore the transformative power of self-love with Elizabeth Foster, the Founder of 'For the Love of Self' Coaching. Elizabeth, a passionate advocate for empowerment, shares her journey as a Transformative Self-Love Coach, helping individuals silence their inner critics and embrace their true worth. Elizabeth's insights reflect her mission to empower women, fostering personal growth and contributing to a more equitable world where women learn the power of Self Love. Tune in for inspiring stories and practical tips on embracing self-love and standing in your power!
https://fortheloveofself.coach/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elizabethfortheloveofself
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Schedule a FREE Demo: https://calendly.com/elizabeth-fortheloveofself/the-self-love-lounge-demo
Join the Self Love Lounge: https://for-the-love-of-self.myflodesk.com/selflovelounge
Schedule your complimentary Alignment Call here: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=25254715&appointmentType=63611986
Register for the FREE Stop Coping, Start Healing Training:
https://www.radiatenrise.com/stop-coping-start-healing-free-training-dec-15
Support the show
Ready to Heal Beyond the Podcast?
If you've left an emotionally abusive relationship but still struggle with self-doubt, emotional triggers, or feeling stuck, personalized mentorship can help you move forward.
Explore my Private Coaching Program and schedule a complimentary Alignment Call to see if we're a good fit.
Explore Private Mentorship: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=25254715&appointmentType=63611986
Ready to stop coping, start real healing and start feeling like yourself again?
Get your Free seat at the NEXT Stop Coping Start Healing LIVE Training @7p EST. Replays available to all who register:⬇️
https://www.radiatenrise.com/stop-coping-start-healing-free-training-dec-15
Website: www.radiatenrise.com
Email: [email protected]
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allisonkdagney/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allisonkdagney/
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In this empowering episode, we delve into the complex terrain of overcoming past traumas and the triggers they create, especially when they continue to impact our present lives. We discuss the importance of recognizing signs such as fear, self-doubt, and negative thought patterns as indicators that healing is needed. Through mindset shifts, self-care practices, and building resilience, we explore actionable strategies to help listeners navigate these challenges. From reframing past experiences to prioritizing self-compassion and setting healthy boundaries, this episode offers practical tips for reclaiming confidence and making empowered decisions in relationships and careers. Remember, healing is a journey, and by taking small steps and seeking support when needed, we can break free from old patterns and embrace a more fulfilling and resilient life.
Self Love Lounge Details for Community Support: https://linktr.ee/fortheloveofselfcoach
Free 20 Min Chats with Allison: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule/dfb503aa/appointment/62233354/calendar/6492588?appointmentTypeIds%5B%5D=62233354
Email: [email protected]
Join Radiate and Rise Together - Survivor Healing Community
FREE 20 Minute Chat
FREE Consultation to see if my coaching programs are a fit for you
To send a DM, visit Allison's profiles on
Instagram and Facebook
https://www.instagram.com/allisonkdagney/
https://www.facebook.com/allisonkdagney/
To learn more about my Programs visit the website
www.radiatenrise.com
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In this episode of I dive into the intricate world of Human Design Centers, uncovering how these centers shape our personalities and interactions with the world around us. Understanding your unique Human Design is like having a personalized roadmap to navigate life's complexities with clarity and purpose. Each center, from the Head to the Root, plays a crucial role in defining our traits, decision-making processes, and overall well-being.
***I no longer offer a free personalized Human Design report on my website but you can visit many online sites where you can get your report for free. Feel free to message me if you need direction on where to get yours.
Schedule your complimentary Alignment Call here: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=25254715&appointmentType=63611986
Register for the FREE Stop Coping, Start Healing Training:
https://www.radiatenrise.com/stop-coping-start-healing-free-training-dec-15
Support the show
Ready to Heal Beyond the Podcast?
If you've left an emotionally abusive relationship but still struggle with self-doubt, emotional triggers, or feeling stuck, personalized mentorship can help you move forward.
Explore my Private Coaching Program and schedule a complimentary Alignment Call to see if we're a good fit.
Explore Private Mentorship: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=25254715&appointmentType=63611986
Ready to stop coping, start real healing and start feeling like yourself again?
Get your Free seat at the NEXT Stop Coping Start Healing LIVE Training @7p EST. Replays available to all who register:⬇️
https://www.radiatenrise.com/stop-coping-start-healing-free-training-dec-15
Website: www.radiatenrise.com
Email: [email protected]
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allisonkdagney/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allisonkdagney/
*Formerly The Emotional Abuse Recovery Podcast*
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The Be a Better You Podcast (formerly The Emotional Abuse Recovery Podcast) is hosted by Best Selling Author and Certified Rapid Reprogramming™ Coach, Allison K. Dagney. As a young adult, I…
I escaped, and I turned my personal story of transformation into a memoir. And now I coach women all over the world to help them transform their pain into empowerment, experience peace and joy, and start living life like never before.
The views and opinions expressed by podcast guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect my personal views, opinions, or professional positions.

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