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In this episode, we will explore how the subconscious mind plays a crucial role in recovering from the impact of emotional abuse and rediscovering your voice.

Emotional abuse can leave lasting imprints on our subconscious mind, often leading to patterns of silence and self-doubt. In this episode, we will delve into techniques and strategies to break free from these patterns by reframing the words we use and the meanings we assign to other people's behaviors. We will explore how language and perception can shape our reality and influence our sense of self. We will discuss practical tips on how to reframe negative self-talk, challenge limiting beliefs, and harness the power of your subconscious mind to rebuild your self-esteem and regain your voice.

Join us as we delve into the empowering journey of using your subconscious mind to break the patterns of silence, redefine your narrative, and reclaim your voice after emotional abuse. Whether you are a survivor of emotional abuse, or someone interested in personal growth, this episode will provide you with valuable insights and practical tools to facilitate healing, growth, and self-expression.

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In this episode, I'll be diving into the topic of closure and why it may not be as necessary as we once thought. Many of us have been conditioned to believe that closure is essential to moving on from emotional and narcissistic abuse, but what if I told you that closure is actually a myth? We'll be exploring why closure may not be possible or even desirable in some cases, and instead, offer alternative ways to heal from trauma and move forward with your life. Join as I discuss how you can still find peace and healing without relying on closure.

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Today I am interviewing a mother and her young adult daughter who experienced emotional abuse by the same man. We explore the hidden signs of abuse and journey along with them both as they share their personal traumas and how it has affected them. 

On their way to healing from narcissistic abuse, both mom and her daughter have such positive outlooks for their lives. Their stories are informational and inspiring. This is such an important topic because many people feel that it's only the mom, wife, girlfriend who is impacted, while the children are seen in a different light. 

However, the children are always watching and being influence and affected, even if the abuse doesn't seem to be directly pointed at them.

I hope this episode leaves you with things to consider, especially if you have your own children as well as a gentle and kind approach to healing yourself from guilt and possible regret. 

Remember, we can't heal ourselves if we are judging ourselves...If you find compassion for this mother, try to find that same compassion for yourself.

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A lot of people say, "Don't put your thoughts and energy into him and what he's doing."
They say, "Focus on yourself to heal."

And though these people are well-meaning and right, it IS NOT always that simple.

Our brains are keeping us stuck! So, if you were in a relationship with a narcissist and now are seeing that the new supply is being treated better than you were...you're going to want to listen to this.

I am sharing the source of why this happens AND how to start processing your emotions so you can move yourself out of anger, jealousy, sadness or any other unwanted feeling you might have.

You do not have to be at the mercy of your emotions. You can take control of how you feel and stop those awful feelings when you see that this new person is getting better treatment than you.

Then, you can stop thinking about it...you can stop dwelling on the injustices and pain...you can start living your life full of peace and indifference toward your ex!

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We've all done this...but when we take things personally, we feel bad inside. And you know the goal here is to feel good! So today, I am giving you 3 Easy Steps to Stop Taking Things Personally with lots of other information to help move you from feeling stuck to set free.

Whether you've experienced this in the past from a narcissistic relationship or are currently struggling with your emotions related to taking things personally, I want you to know...it is possible to stop. 

A lot of times we do this because of our programming from childhood and even throughout adulthood. For most people it stems from insecurities and feelings of low self worth. That means, we can change it and start seeing things objectively as information and not take it personally.

Emotional abuse can often cause us to have these feelings of low self worth and the abuser/narcissist has found a lot of success blaming you for everything. What happens is, we create a pattern in our brain that points the finger back to us, even when it isn't our fault or has nothing to do with us at all!

So, listen in today for your 3 Easy Steps to Stop Taking Things Personally so you can show up with confidence and inner peace...and not be negatively affected by what goes on around you.

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Why do you still miss someone who hurt you?

You've left the emotionally abusive relationship. You know how much pain they caused you. You may even know that leaving was the right decision.

So why do you still feel that longing?

Missing someone who emotionally abused you can be incredibly confusing, especially when you're trying to move forward with your life.

But what if it's not actually your ex that you're missing?

In this episode, we're exploring why you may still feel emotionally attached to someone who hurt you and how to uncover what you're really longing for.

Through a series of personal reflection questions, I'll help you look beneath those feelings and consider whether what you're missing is the person, the relationship you hoped to have, or something else entirely.

Because sometimes, what we're holding onto isn't the person themselves, but what we believed they could give us.

If you've already left a toxic or emotionally abusive relationship but still find yourself thinking about your ex, missing them, or struggling to let go, this episode will help you explore those feelings from a different perspective.

Understanding what you're really missing can be an important step toward releasing that longing, rebuilding your sense of self, and moving forward.

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If you've been emotionally abused you know that memory is something directly affected. Today, I am interviewing my memory health coach, Francine Waskavitz. 

She is giving tips and information about how to help repair your memory after emotional abuse. So, if you've been thinking there is no help for your memory, you're going to want to listen in! Our brain's are neuroplastic so that means we can absolutely change our brains and improve our memories!

Whether you encountered a narcissist or not, emotional abuse has devastating affects our our brains and our memory. But I want you to be hopeful that you can absolutely improve this even after a toxic relationship.

Francine Waskavitz is a Speech-Language Pathologist turned Memory Health Coach for women. After years of treating memory dysfunction in the traditional healthcare setting, Francine recognized a huge gap in the system that left women with ADHD, anxiety, menopause changes and/or trauma without any support to work on focus and memory problems. 

Francine went back to school to become an Integrative Health and Nutrition coach and leverages her expertise in memory with her passion for brain health and intentional living to help women feel more focused and less forgetful. 

You can find Francine on Instagram @FrancineWaskavitz. Currently, Francine helps women with 1:1 coaching and offers a free consultation call to share your concerns and learn more about how she can help. 
Her website is www.FrancineWaskavitz.com.

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Having support along your healing journey is going to set you up for success. There are so many things you can do to make sure you have the best possible outcomes for your emotional well being. I want to share some things I learned that can help you too!

Even if you feel like you're all alone, there might be things you haven't thought of to help you assemble more support for yourself. The better off you are in all areas, the better you can be for yourself, your needs, and your family!

In this episode I reference open ended questions you can ask and I've included them here below! Listen in to hear all the details!

Therapist/Mental Heath/Coach Advocate Questions:
1. What type of experience do you have working with victims of emotional trauma?

2. How often do you think you see patients who have CPTSD?

3. What are you thoughts about narcissistic abuse?

4. What are your expertise areas for therapy?

5. What are your favorite areas to work in regarding mental health and why?

Attorney Questions:
1. What do you know about narcissistic abuse?

2. How many clients do you think you have represented who have been abused by a narcissist?

3. What is your retainer fee? What is your hourly rate?

4. Where do you feel like you shine? Mediation or the Courtroom? 

5. How often can I expect to hear back from you after I try reaching out for a question? 

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Some people tell you just to forget this past...but is this really possible?
And if you can't forget the past and erase your memories, what can you do to lessen the pain?

In today's episode I'll be sharing some important information on forgetting the past and lessening the painful memories. So, if you've experienced narcissistic abuse, a toxic relationship, emotional abuse or emotional trauma, you're not going to want to miss this!

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Healing is a process. We all know that. And there isn't a finish line. Healing happens in waves and comes and goes. It's very complex at times and easy at others. But one thing is for sure, sometimes we need a little kick in the pants to get started. 

In today's episode I am sharing 4 quick tips so you can jump start your healing. Even if you've already began, you might need a little boost and that is what I'm going to cover today. So, if you have experienced emotional abuse, psychological abuse, domestic violence of any kind, or narcissistic abuse...tune in for some actionable tips you can put into place today!

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If you've left an emotionally abusive relationship but still struggle with self-doubt, emotional triggers, or feeling stuck, personalized mentorship can help you move forward.

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Explore Private Mentorship: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=25254715&appointmentType=63611986

Ready to stop coping, start real healing and start feeling like yourself again?
Get your Free seat at the NEXT Stop Coping Start Healing LIVE Training @7p EST. Replays available to all who register:⬇️

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*Formerly The Emotional Abuse Recovery Podcast*