Abe and Erin sit down with Omani & Jeanie Carson—partners for 43 years—to unpack what actually sustains a long relationship: losing and re-finding yourself, taking space (they separated for three years), and then doing the hard work to come back stronger. We go inside their five-hour, therapist-guided MDMA-assisted session—how prep, boundaries, and integration dropped defenses and reignited intimacy—and why they now help other couples pursue similar, medically supervised healing at Carson Healing Ranch and the Heartland Gathering. We also hit practicals: why moms can’t “disappear” into motherhood, men’s mental health and vulnerability, and a simple practice they swear by—the “Perfect Year” exercise. Candid, useful, and very human. (Psychedelic therapy is discussed; this episode isn’t medical advice.)

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This week, Erin and Abe chat with Vanessa and Xander Marin, a couple of 18 years who’ve turned their expertise in sex therapy into a mission to help long-term couples keep their spark alive. Vanessa, a sex therapist, and Xander, a former Google guy turned business partner, share their insights on how to maintain intimacy and connection through simple practices like communication, eye contact, and non-sexual touch. They also tackle the myths around spontaneous sex and dive into how AI (Abe's favorite) is shaping modern relationships.

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In this episode, Erin and Abe are joined by intimacy expert Shan Boodram to talk about Arya—the service that’s blending AI with real expertise to give couples fresh ways to connect (yes, really). They dive into the wild world of male and female sexuality, how modern tech is shaking things up in relationships, and how to keep things spicy without the cringe. The trio also shares personal stories and expert advice on creating a judgment-free zone when it comes to intimacy, while exploring how breaking old norms can lead to a more fulfilling sex life. 

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Leah Van Dale (formerly WWE’s Carmella) joins Erin and Abe to talk about postpartum recovery, blended family dynamics, and how her own experience led her to create Snatch, a platform for women navigating life after birth. They also get into life behind the scenes of reality TV—and Abe does his best to explain why he refuses to get a vasectomy.

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Everyone knows the best part of any night out is the pre-game. You know the vibes – feels like a hype session in the bathroom mirror. From group chat debriefs to deep dives into the latest headlines (with a drink in hand, of course). The Pre-Game with Kayla Nicole is exactly that: the party before the party. Each week, we’re diving into all the things you and your homegirls actually talk about, from pop culture tea and beauty secrets to those ‘what would you do?’ scenarios that have you screaming at your phone.It’s unfiltered, hilarious, and has just the right amount of chaos, served with a splash of tequila and zero apologies. So grab your gloss, pour up, and let’s pre-game.

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What do HDMI cables, reality TV, and nanny trauma have in common? This episode. Erin and Abe unpack a nightmare child care situation, NYC parenting hacks, and their surprising take on faith, tradition, and why sometimes you should test your partner’s love with a little crazy.

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In this week's episode, Erin and Abe tackle the chaos of moving, parenthood, and grief. Erin opens up about her journey with grief and how it’s starting to catch up with her, while Abe shares his own reflections. They also talk about the shift in their relationship post-baby and balancing it all with four kids. It’s real, raw, and a reminder that sometimes, you still might end up crying on your birthday – and that’s okay.

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From the early days of Instagram memes to building a national beverage brand, Ben Soffer has seen it all. In this episode, he joins Abe to talk about turning “Boy With No Job” into a launchpad for Spritz Society, the secrets to scaling without VCs, and how being married to Claudia Oshry sharpened his edge and grounded his life. They get into the social media shift, why TikTok is both genius and dangerous, and what it really means to balance love, business, and a brand that actually sells.

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The existential dread is real. The mishaps? Never funnier. And the social anxiety? Cranked to eleven.

LIVE FROM BED with Jade Iovine is your weekly permission slip to spiral out loud—a show that celebrates our worst traits, bad habits, and internal monologues that would make our therapists nervous.

Each week, host Jade Iovine dives into no-holds-barred heart-to-hearts with guests about the questionable choices, brutal lessons, and deeply mortifying moments that keep us tossing and turning at night. Friendship breakups? Family drama? To medicate or not to medicate? We’re here to commiserate—without preaching advice or pretending there’s an instruction manual for next time.

Say goodnight to the suffocating grip of aspiration, get to know the people we idolize like never before, and revel in the comfort of knowing we’d all rather be in bed.

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Author and chef Jake Cohen opens up about his marriage, divorce, partying in Berlin, and what it means to love deeply while still evolving. Erin and Jake unpack relationship dynamics, sexual freedom, emotional growth—and yes, what’s in Jake’s fridge after a hookup.

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