Earn Your Happy

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

• Where Heather came from and who she is
• What redirected Heather
• Sharing your story
• Moving in to an entrepreneurial space
• Manifesting
• Upleveling your thoughts
• Running multiple pipelines
• Discovering your superpower
• Tips to grow confidence
• Reflecting on failure
• Committing to confidence

Resources:

• Learn more: heathermonahan.com ; bossinheels.com

Show Notes

The amazing Heather Monahan joins me today on the podcast! Heather is a best-selling author, keynote speaker with the Harry Walker Agency, entrepreneur and founder of Boss In Heels. Heather’s best-selling book, Confidence Creator, is all about busting the myths on confidence. In our conversation, that’s just what Heather and I talk about! Heather shares all of her tools and tips on getting the confidence you need.

Question Highlights:

• Did you get to a point where you needed something else?
• How did you get confidence around sharing your story?
• What is the recipe right now for you to get the confidence that you need?
• How do you make sure that you are upleveling your thoughts?
• What do you to help people recognize and discover their value?
• What the questions we aren’t asking but should be around confidence?
• What is your theory around trying to make something work when you shouldn’t?
• What are some of the things you feel people should know about stepping into a more confident you?
• How do you commit to confidence?

Heather Monahan is a best-selling author, keynote speaker with the Harry Walker Agency, entrepreneur and founder of Boss In Heels. Having successfully climbed the corporate ladder for nearly 20 years, Heather Monahan is one of the few women to break the glass ceiling and claim her spot in the C-suite.  As a Chief Revenue Officer in Media, Heather Monahan is a Glass Ceiling Award winner, named one of the most Influential Women in Radio in 2017 and Thrive Global named her a Limit Breaking Female Founder in 2018. Heather’s new book Confidence Creator shot to #1 on Amazon’s Business Biographies and Business Motivation lists the first week it debuted on Amazon.  Heather is a confidence expert and is currently working with Fortune 500 companies and professional sports to develop confidence in the workplace and on the court. She’s also a member of Florida International University’s Advisory Council to further serve as a mentor and leader in the South Florida Community. Heather and her son Dylan reside in Miami.

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In This Episode You Will Learn About:

• A quote that really spoke to me
• The tough love lie
• The grace exercise

Resources:

• Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019

Show Notes

Today I’m talking all about grace. I feel like we are all in a place of wanting to reach our goals, be better humans, and make 2019 an incredible year, right? I think it’s super important for us to remember that in all of this work we are doing, that we remember to give ourselves grace. Today I am going to share what grace means to me, and how to be sure we take that precious time to give ourselves the grace we need.

Question Highlights:

• What does grace mean to you?
• What kind of grace do you need?

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In This Episode You Will Learn About:

• How Chris and I celebrate New Years
• What I’m proud of accomplishing this past year
• Why I started a podcast
• My greatest lesson
• The lesson I’m still learning

Resources:

• Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019

Review of the Week:

“This podcast is casual and fun! Lori manages to be informative and empowering without being preachy. Best of all, she makes the content RELATABLE. It’s a breath of fresh air to gain perspectives that are practical and applicable in many areas of my life (that’s the biggest problem I’ve had with other self-help podcasts). Keep up the good work Lori, you’ve gained a new fan in me!” SaraA123

Question Highlights:

• @diy.twy What made you start your podcast?
• @sydneygo “What is the greatest lesson learned in your life so far and what is one that you are still learning?”

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In This Episode You Will Learn About:

• Who Winn is and how he started his energy in business
• Asking questions to a mentor
• Overlapping the different areas of your life
• Creating culture + excitement
• Intentionally creating a better mindset
• Overcoming blocks and fears
• Disappointing people
• Leadership and learning
• Transitional periods in life
• Healing inner turmoil
• Showing up

Resources:

• Learn more: winnclaybaugh.com

Show Notes

Today Winn Claybaugh joins me on the podcast! Winn is the dean and cofounder of Paul Mitchell Schools, the author of Be Nice (Or Else!), and the founder and host of MASTERS Audio Club. Winn is such an amazing human, and such a motivational rockstar! His philosophy, ethics, and all around mindset is so high energy and wonderful. You are all in for a total treat today, because Winn shares just how to raise your energy, and determine what you are actually in the business of, PLUS, how to overcome blocks.

Question Highlights:

• What did the beginning of showing up look like for you?
• How you start asking questions to mentors?
• What is something that can help build a better culture, and have people stay excited?
• What do you do intentionally to help you get into a better headspace?
• What are some big blocks that people have when they work with you, and how do you help?
• What do you do when you receive criticism or rude encounters?
• Where do you let it be okay to disappoint people?
• What do you share about the transitional period of friend groups or family changing?
• How do you heal your inner turmoil?

Bio

Winn Claybaugh is the author of Be Nice (Or Else!); the host of MASTERS Audio Club, a popular beauty-industry audio series with worldwide subscribers; and “one of the best motivational speakers in the country,” according to CNN’s Larry King, who wrote the foreword for Winn’s book. A national speaker for major corporations, Winn has helped thousands of businesses build their brands and create successful working cultures. His clients include Southwest Airlines, Hyatt Hotels, the Irvine Company, Vidal Sassoon, Entertainment Tonight, Mattel, For Rent magazine, and many others. A business owner for more than 30 years with over 16,000 people in his organization, Winn is the founder, co-owner, and dean of hair care giant Paul Mitchell’s school division.

Recognizing his immense contributions to that industry, in 2016 American Salon named Winn one of the five “Industry Leaders Who Helped Revolutionize Education.” Recognizing his leadership of the Paul Mitchell Schools’ annual FUNraising campaign, Winn was named Humanitarian of the Year by Friendly House in 2013 and he received Thirst Project’s Vision Award in 2015. In 2017 he received the Ellis Island Medal of Honor, which ranks among the nation’s most renowned awards and recognizes individuals who have made it their mission to share their wealth of knowledge, indomitable courage, boundless compassion, unique talents, and selfless generosity with those less fortunate.

In 2018, Winn received the Coalition to Abolish Slavery and Trafficking’s (CAST) Visionary Leadership Award. Under his leadership and in keeping with their unique culture of giving back and building self-esteem, the 110-plus Paul Mitchell Schools have donated countless volunteer hours and raised more than $19.7 million for multiple charitable organizations. For more information, visit www.winnclaybaugh.com.

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In This Episode You Will Learn About:

• Flipping perspective of an excuse
• Overcoming the initial story
• Looking for solutions
• Making peace with choices

Resources:

• Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019

Show Notes

Take a minute to celebrate a little win today. You have to acknowledge these things! It is the time of year where we tend to have more excuses for ourselves, especially after the New Year. While we all have valid reasons behind our excuses, there is always a way out to change the situation that you are in. Today, we are going to talk about how you’re going to flip the script from excuses to solutions.

Question Highlights:

• What are the main things coming up in your head when you think about your goals?
• What is the story I am telling myself that is possible for my life?
• What is the story I am telling myself that is NOT possible for my life?
• What is the main goal you’d like to accomplish this year?
• What is the main fear you have around that goal?

Quotes

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In This Episode You Will Learn About:

• Evans and I researching our names
• Quotes of the moment
• Being optimistic
• Making new friends
• Releasing anxiety
• Building confidence

Resources:

• Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019

Review of the Week:

“I just listened to Lori’s Go All In episode and my soul is literally shook. I shared it with my entire team for some daily inspiration and I cannot wait for them to listen. I have been feeling very anxious in the past couple of weeks and days because I am definitely living in the grey and Lori’s podcast shook me, made me realize that what is keeping me from my island paradise is the boat I am currently living on. She has inspired me to close all the windows, get down to work (for a while) and I will definitely use this episode as motivation when I am doubting myself as I embark to put in some hard work to reach my island! Can’t wait to check out other podcasts soon! Great work Lori Harder and thank you!”

Caitlin S Wheeler

Question Highlights:

• @adrianneraewebster “What is your number one tool to release anxiety?”
• @teresaheinzofficial “Best way to build confidence when feeling judged all the time and also getting anxiety?”

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In This Episode You Will Learn About:

• Gerards journey
• Making his first million dollars
• Losing his money
• His mom’s beautiful advice
• How Elite Daily was born
• Finding his purpose again
• Creating world-class leaders
• Fear
• Giving yourself credit
• What 2019 looks like for Gerard

Resources:

• Learn more: gerardadams.com

Show Notes

Gerard Adams is on the podcast today! I have been wanting to have Gerard on the show for quite a while now. Gerard lives SUCH a full life, doing things that he absolutely loves – being an entrepreneur, investor, speaker, mentor and more. Gerard is most known for being the cofounder of the Emmy-winning, Elite Daily. Today we talk a lot about mindset, growth, and coming back from what most may consider devastating failure. Gerard is a total pioneer for creators, thought-leaders, and entrepreneurs – this episode was just fantastic, I can’t wait for you to listen.

Question Highlights:

• What is your journey, and how did you get to where you are now?
• What did it feel like to hit the million dollar mark?
• How did you start to gain clarity and create more meaning in your life again?
• What are the foundational pieces of creating a world-class leader?
• Are you moving through fear in your life?
• How do you let go of the outcome but still seek fulfillment in your life?

Gerard Adams is an entrepreneur, philanthropist, angel investor, documentarian, and a mentor to this generation of Millennials. Most notably known for co-founding the Emmy winning, Elite Daily, which sold for $50 million in 2015, Gerard has been pioneering the way for entrepreneurs, thought-leaders, and creators. Gerard believes a world-class leader doesn't just lead the way but instead creates more leaders to make a more significant impact.

He shares this truth on the web series titled, Leaders Create Leaders, which gives trailblazers of our generation a platform to share their story and ignite the passion in others. Leaders Create Leaders, an Original YouTube Series, has generated over 20 million views and is syndicated by Entrepreneur Magazine. Gerard has most recently taken his love for storytelling and joined forces with Inc. Magazine to host a documentary-style series called Grey Area.

With a portfolio of over a dozen startups, accolades that include Magic Johnson’s 32 under 32, Newark’s 2017 Entrepreneur of the Year, and partnerships with brands such as Sprint, Amex, HP, Marriott and more; he’s fueled by his deep knowing that this generation has the opportunity to be the most impactful of all time. Currently, he's focused on coaching game-changers to become World-Class Leaders and live out their dream lifestyle while building a lasting legacy.

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In This Episode You Will Learn About:

• All of the life happening around us
• How divorce is just a word
• Mentally participating
• Considering cooperation
• The two beliefs

Resources:

• Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019

Show Notes

In today’s solo episode, I really wanted to talk about participation. Think about it. Are you participating with life in the way that you truly want? Life is happening all around you, and I’d really like for us all to think about how we’d like to participate in it. Today we are going to really dive into just what participating in life looks like, both in our minds and in our words.

Question Highlights:

• Are you participating with life in the way that you truly want?
• What is easiest in your life?

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In This Episode You Will Learn About:

• Our favorite quotes of the moment
• Managing mental + emotional breakdowns
• Social anxiety

Resources:

• Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019

Show Notes

That’s right, it’s Q&A Day! Listen in as Evans and I share our favorite quotes of the moment, the review of the week, and as we go through and answer questions that you have sent in. We talk about the holiday season, bottling up emotions, and overcoming social anxiety.

Review of the Week:

leangela nola girl “Lori: I must say how much your podcast has helped me. A couple months ago I decided to take the journey of finding my true self. Your podcast is taking me on this journey. I’m so thankful for your wisdom and insight. You are helping me to accept the fact that I’m in control of my reality and my reality is my responsibility. I’m taking what I want and I’m anointing myself. Women need to hear your message. Thanks a ton.”

Question Highlights:

• Michelle asks.. I have a Q for Lori, how does one have less and less mental breakdowns per week, per month, per year. I am trying to improve my life by having less mental/emotional breakdowns. I feel like sometimes I don’t ask for what I need or I bottle up emotions so that leads to them. I would love your personal take on this! Thank you!!! Love you Lori!!!
• Alissa asks… My question is about social anxiety because I've realized that this is something I suffer from when I'm around new people.
• Do you have any tips for overcoming social anxiety and how to feel confident in a room with people you don't know well?

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In This Episode You Will Learn About:

• How Natalie got her entrepreneurial start
• Where BossBabe came into Natalie’s life
• Experiencing burn-out
• Deciding to take a stand for her health
• Balancing self-care and high standards
• Finding the right type of integrator for your business
• Creating more space
• Being direct and honest in conversations
• The biggest thing Natalie learned this year
• Moving forward together as a couple
• Growing quickly as a business
• What female entrepreneurs should be asking themselves
• Fears and dealing with them
• What Natalie is most excited for

Resources:

• Check out: The Bliss Project March 2019

Show Notes

I am SO excited for today’s episode, because the original boss babe, Natalie Ellis is joining me! Natale is the CEO and co-founder of BossBabe, an online community inspiring women and championing collaboration over competition. She is a total powerhouse in creating connection and helping women move forward in their businesses. Natalie has a passion with helping women get out of feeling stuck, all while showing them how to be empowered and free to build their own businesses. She is a strategic serial entrepreneur, who gets out there and makes her goals and dreams HAPPEN. Have a pen and paper handy, because Natalie offers countless words of wisdom and advice!

Question Highlights:

• What has it taken to get where you are growth-wise?
• In what ways did you begin to realize you needed to do something different?
• How do you maintain high achievement and high standards, while still trying to balance self-care?
• How do you look for and hire someone who is an implementer?
• What do you need most in order to get what you want in this next year?
• How do you deal with having to say no, in order to make space for the great things?
• How do you approach and prepare for conversations around topics that are difficult?
• What was your biggest learning lesson from this last year? Challenge?
• What is scaring you in your life right now?
• What should female entrepreneurs be asking in order to get them where they want to be?
• What are some tactics that you have to use around fear?
• What is the most exciting thing coming up for you?

Quotes

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Armed with a degree in Business Management, Natalie Is a successful serial entrepreneur with a love for business strategy, psychology and entrepreneurship. Natalie has worked with academic institutions and government organizations to advise on young entrepreneurship, as well as winning over 11 national awards for her work in the space. Natalie’s passion Iles in empowering and supporting women to have the confidence and skills to build and run successful businesses.

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