Earn Your Happy

With a lot of speaking engagements going on for me right now and in the near future, I’ve had to really stop and observe my anxious tendencies and the thoughts that often go along with them. It’s amazing how powerful our thoughts and inner dialogue can be. Today’s episode is all about freeing yourself from the labels that hold you back and knowing that you’re the only one who has that power to do so.

How often have you heard, “I have such anxiety when it comes to speaking in front of people”? Hand raised over here because I’ve definitely said it to myself before. But here’s where we change it. We don’t “have” anxiety. We “do” anxiety. We don’t “have” no energy. We “do” no energy. And it’s in this doing that we have the choice as to what we do or don’t do. See where I’m going with this?

I’d like you to do a quick exercise to take back your power. First, write what you “have.”

            Example: I have anxiety.

Now cross that out and write DO instead.

            I have anxiety. I DO anxiety.

Now describe how you “do” anxiety right now? What actions are supporting this feeling? What thoughts?

            I’m drinking coffee. I’m checking messages right when I wake up. I’m eating crappy food and isolating myself. I keep telling myself how nervous I am and that            I’m going to forget what I’m saying on stage.

Take notice of the conversation in your mind and watch how you’re talking to yourself. If you’re anxious, reframe and tell yourself how excited you are and why. Replace your thoughts with better thoughts and take your control back!

No lie, it doesn’t always go fast. But keep trying on different feelings until it does feel good.

“Choose how you feel.”

Tell yourself, “I can undo any feeling I don’t want to be in.”

And remember, once you start putting out these better feelings, you’ll notice that you’re attracting more too.

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In This Episode Lori talks about:

• Freeing yourself from labels that hold you back
• Taking ownership of your thoughts
• Why you don’t “have” anxiety, you “do” anxiety

Resources:

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When you have conversations like the one I had with founder and CEO of MakeItHappen.Life, Henry Ammar, you can’t help but leave a better human. Pure goodness exudes from Henry and it’s no wonder since he’s made it his mission to boost self-love and self-confidence by creating practical transformative experiences through fun dynamic events that infuse pop culture with empowerment.

Experiencing firsthand in his younger years an ongoing lack of self-confidence and self-love, Henry now wants to help the younger generation today, because they’re still not seeing the beauty and truth of who they are.

Listen in to hear all about Henry’s journey thus far, what he’s doing to help others, what’s coming up and what he sees happening down the road. I personally cannot wait to see all of this ideas and partnerships come to fruition, because any event with him will make a huge impact on the masses.

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Question Highlights:

• How did you recently come to speak in front of 50,000 people?
• How did you realize music was the modality for you and that you were going to use it for good?
• How did you get in touch with believing in signs?
• What was your tipping point that made you ditch your limiting beliefs?
• Where are you at right now with your projects? What’s happening next?

In This Episode We Talk about:

• How a series of low-probability happenings led to Henry speaking in Serbia to 50,000 people
• Why Henry feels music is unifying
• Henry’s career journey from music to entrepreneur to USC to corporate real estate
• Creating a practical transformative experience through pop culture
• Having real conversations in a loving and empowering way
• Why Henry is obsessed with truth and love
• Listening to your inner voice
• The carrot, egg and tea bag analogy
• The power/gift of choice
• Using fear as self-awareness and for elevation
• VIZing
• The power of perspective
• Comfort zone expansion
• And so much more…

Quotes

“Change the frequency of humanity through mass media.”

“Let’s make self-awareness and self-love cool.”

“Do what you feel is right despite how you feel about it.”

“Fear is enslaving and I want to live a liberated life.”

“If I’m filled with self-love and freedom then I can give people that same gift.”

“Fear is an imagined future.”

“Use imagination and creativity to project something more empowering.”

“Nothing magical happens in your comfort zone.”

“I am here to love, serve and grow.”

“Know the beauty and truth of who you are.”

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Henry Ammar, founder and CEO of MakeItHappen.Life, is an award-winning empowerment coach, an impact entrepreneur, a creative, and a visionary leader with in-depth experience in the personal development, business leadership, entertainment, real estate, and education industries. Henry is published in Forbes.

As a keynote speaker and empowerment coach, he has positively impacted hundreds of thousands of lives internationally. He has spoken to audiences as big as 40,000+ people at a time internationally.

In his professional career, Henry has performed on a Grammy Award-winning album and traveled the world sharing the stage with legends. Henry went from creating music to creating businesses growing them locally from Los Angeles to international successes in just one year.

His podcast, “Making It Happen with Henry Ammar,” has reached #1 in the Training Category and #6 in the Education Category on Apple Podcasts.

He went on to graduate Magna Cum Laude from the University of Southern California, Marshall School of Business. Upon graduating, he put his knowledge to use by overseeing the investment and management of over $2 billion dollars in real estate in just three years.

Henry’s true passion lies in the privilege to use his leadership, strengths, and successes to positively impact individuals, businesses, and community.

His most recent brainchild, MakeItHappen.Life, was created to inspire and give energetic and real-world strategies which lead to an exhilarating, authentic life full of empowerment and success.

Henry is a Certified Life Transformation Coach, Neuro-Linguistic Life Coach, TimeLine Coach & Trauma Release Specialist, Clinical Hypnotherapist, Reiki I & II, and a recipient of top leadership and life coaching awards.

Resources:

MakeItHappen.Life

IG: @henryammar

IG @makeithappen.life

YouTube: MakeItHappen.Life

Making It Happen Podcast

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/making-it-happen-with-henry-ammar/id1313648725?mt=2

Lori’s Interview on Making It Happen:

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/19-blissful-living-with-lori-harder/id1313648725?i=1000418692803&mt=2

Check out my website at loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.

Just a head’s up that today’s topic may be a touch overwhelming for some, but I don’t want anyone to get too worried, because when it comes to shifting and changing a person’s beliefs – it’s actually never-ending.

I’ve discovered recently just how important it is to take inventory of one’s tribe, aka the people who we’re spending the most time with. Keep in mind that this can be actual people, television, podcasts etc. I like to also call them reinforcers.

I want you to do a quick exercise and write down the following:

1. List five people who you’re around the most.
2. What is the main belief, habit or limiting belief or thing that they are reinforcing in your life?

When completed, review and determine if these habits and beliefs are reflecting back at you. Are they holding you back? Don’t panic if it’s not what you thought. I’m certainly not here to tell you who to hang out with and I certainly won’t tell you to ditch friends who aren’t “positive” enough. But I am telling you that you may want to load the other portions of your “plate” with more positive or up-leveling people. Crowd out your plate in a positive direction.

Maybe that means joining a new group or mastermind? Maybe it’s adding more podcasts, books or self-development events to your life. Whatever it is, just make sure to, “set up a life and tribe that reflects where you’re going and not where you’re at.”

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In This Episode Lori talks about:

• Taking a tribe inventory
• Shifting and changing belief systems
• Why we need more positive reinforcers in our lives

Resources:

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Thrive Event | Sept. 14-16, 2018, Las Vegas

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Money doesn’t guarantee fulfillment and today’s guest, Patrice Washington, is hoping more women catch on. As an award-winning author, transformational speaker, hope-restoring coach, and media personality, she started her first 7-figure mortgage-brokering business with her husband before graduating college. Their business was wildly successful until the recession crashed and they lost everything.

Picking herself up after this experience, she realized that she had a lot of knowledge but needed to seek more wisdom. She dug deep and knew it was more important to chase her purpose – not money. She discovered that life is about so much more – relationships, your well-being and your faith to name a few. Recognizing the power of this discovery, she created the 6 Pillars of Redefining Wealth, and now teaches others how they can tie each pillar back to producing wealth – and stay true to who they’re called to be.

I had such a great time talking with Patrice – she is such a down-to-earth, purpose-driven woman who relies on faith and her own unique calling to help others find theirs as well. I hope this episode empowers you to break free from any limiting beliefs that you have about yourself and helps you step into your highest purpose and calling.

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Question Highlights:

• What were some things you took back from your recent trip to France?
• Does the thought of working with your husband again scare you?
• What is lighting you up right now in your life?
• What is something you would say to someone who’s ignoring a redefining moment?
• How do you trust? What do you rely on to push past fear?
• What are the 6 Pillars of Redefining Wealth?
• What’s something that helps build your faith foundation?
• What mindset do you keep through the dark times?
• What’s a message on your heart right now?

In This Episode We Talk about:

• How Patrice’s recent trip to France impacted her
• How Patrice and her husband are merging their interests to work together
• Being driven by purpose
• The shift that happened in Patrice’s life after her and her husband lost their 7-figure business when the recession hit
• The difference between knowledge and wisdom
• Why Patrice initially started a blog
• How Patrice broke out of the box she (and others) had put herself in
• Why there’s more to money than budgets and credit reports
• Patrice’s 6 Pillars of Redefining Wealth (Fit, People, Space, Faith, Work and Money)
• Protecting the vessel needed to create the vision
• Creating relationships that matter
• The Redefining Wealth Podcast
• And so much more…

Quotes

“The purpose that we’re being called into is greater than any pain that will come with it.”

“Create a lane where you can be all you.”

“I’m committed to the vision but not attached to how I get there.”

“If it was done before, it can be done again.”

“Everything can go bad with money, but if your mind is in the right place, you can always rebuild.”

“You know who you used to be, so before you allow someone to take you back there, give yourself time.”

“You can decide to not decide anything until you’re ready to decide.”

“Choose peace powerfully.”

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Patrice Washington is an award-winning author, transformational speaker, hope-restoring coach, and media personality.

Patrice got her start as your favorite personal finance expert, “America’s Money Maven,” having tremendous success with her “mindset approach” to personal finance. She has since expanded her brand and mission, encouraging women to chase purpose, not money.

Patrice is committed to redefining the word “wealth,” using its original meaning, “well-being.” She encourages women to have “wealth” in all aspects of their lives by pursuing their purpose, being fulfilled, and earning more without ever chasing money. Through her teachings, Patrice empowers women to look at life through the lens of abundance and opportunity, instead of lack and scarcity.

As the founder of Redefining Wealth and The Earn More Money Movement for Women, Patrice has built a thriving community of high-achieving women committed to creating a powerful life vision – in their careers, home, health, and personal finances.  

Resources:

PatriceWashington.com

IG: @seekwisdompcw

The Redefining Wealth Podcast on iTunes:

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/redefining-wealth-with-patrice-washington/id1281824139?mt=2

Listen to Lori’s interview on The Redefining Wealth Podcast here:

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/lori-harder-you-need-a-tribe/id1281824139?i=1000417911740&mt=2 

Check out my website at loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.

“You have everything you need inside of you.”

You may have read or heard this quote from me before, but if I’m being honest, the first time I heard this quote I called BS on it. I mean sure, it’s an empowering concept, but if you don’t know how to look at it from all sides (which I didn’t when I first heard it), it’s disempowering.

But here’s where it does hold true. You do have everything you need right now to start asking questions and to be resourceful. How empowering is that?

“You have all you need to in order to create whatever you’re desiring in your life.”

For example, when I first started my podcast, I knew nothing…I mean nothing about starting a podcast. So I started researching (Google) and finding others who could help me get it off the ground. I was not meant to create all the things by myself. For this particular endeavor, I had the idea and it was up to me to move it forward. It was literally a matter of asking the right questions.

All that’s left to do is start! After all, “pure bliss is becoming the person that you knew you were meant to be.” But it’s up to you to create the experiences in order to bring that person into reality. 

Now to all my over-thinkers out there (you know who you are), you may be coming up with a list a mile long of all the reasons you just can’t do it. But here’s my advice: start now! If you don’t take action, you won’t fulfill your purpose. It sounds harsh, but it’s true.

Don’t worry if things don’t go as planned. Know that it’s all a part of the process and that the universe will provide a soft landing. And even if you feel that sometimes your actions are selfish, know that you’re making progress and it’s somehow affecting someone in a beautiful way.  

Are you with me? Let’s start taking action – big and small steps – now!

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In This Episode Lori talks about:

• Why everything you need isn’t inside of you
• Being resourceful
• Creating experiences to help you step into your highest purpose

Resources:

Join Lori, Oprah Magazine’s staff and other thought leaders on the Oprah Magazine Cruise to the Bahamas | Oct. 28-Nov. 4!

Go here for details: https://www.hollandamerica.com/en_US/cruise-ships/ms-nieuw-statendam/oprah-caribbean-adventure-of-your-life.html

Thrive Event | Sept. 14-16, 2018, Las Vegas

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Go to ATribeCalledBliss.com to find out the latest on Lori’s book tour and join the world’s biggest tribe book club

A Tribe Called Bliss by Lori Harder

Now available at loriharder.com/amazon or ATribeCalledBliss.com

Join me on the A Tribe Called Bliss Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1571018952966750/

Check out my website at loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.

Having grown up in a broken but happy family, today’s guest, Cayla Craft, knew she was meant to do big things and help people. However, she first had to change the lens she was viewing her life through. In order for her to create what she wanted out of life, she had to ditch the mentality of “I am nothing,” and instead share her story to help others.

Once Cayla realized that there was no need to compare her journey with someone else’s, she could stop trying to please everyone, find her purpose, dictate how she lived her life and make herself a priority. And that’s just what she did.

As a result, today Cayla is a self-made millionaire and now teaches other entrepreneurial women how to do the same. She gives women the tools and resources they need to have an abundant mindset and shamelessly pursue their ambitions while still enjoying life.

There were so many moments I related to throughout our conversation and I have a feeling many of you will as well. I would love to hear what those moments are! Happy listening!

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Question Highlights:

• Did you always know that you were going to do big things and help a lot of people?
• What is something you would say to someone who is still in that push phase or exhausting themselves?
• When did you know your story was the most powerful thing you could share?
• What do you tell someone to get started on in order to feel fulfilled and successful?
• Why is it so important to make sure you’re creating new relationships and leaving old ones behind?
• Why do we feel like we need to please others and how do we break ourselves from that mindset?
• If someone is on the verge of having a difficult conversation, what would you tell them?
• Have you ever experienced “imposter syndrome,” and if so, how did you deal with it?
• What are your fears right now and how do you handle them?
• What do you think is the biggest difference between people who are creating the life they love and stepping into their authentic truth and those who aren’t?

In This Episode We Talk about:

• Cayla’s upbringing in a broken, but happy home
• Why Cayla felt like a warrior for so long
• Removing the lens of “I am nothing.”
• Why self-awareness is the first step of transformation
• The importance of doing the internal work
• Reframing your story and finding your purpose
• Creating new relationships and leaving behind old relationships that aren’t serving you behind
• Making yourself a priority
• Allowing others to feel uncomfortable so they can grow
• Why we can never take anything personally
• How Cayla preps when she needs to have difficult/uncomfortable conversations
• Different perceptions of reality
• Putting your focus on serving others
• How Cayla’s raising kids that live empowered and inspired lives
• Mommy Millionaire Podcast
• And so much more…

Quotes

“You’ve already done enough; now it’s time for your message to be heard.”

“You have to change the story – you have to rewrite what you want out of your life.”

“Self-awareness is the first key to transformation.”

“Stop living your life for an audience that doesn’t exist.”

“Stop looking outward and start looking inward.”

“I don’t need to Google – the answers are already inside of me.”

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Cayla Craft is a mom of 3, self-made millionaire, and lifestyle entrepreneur. The California native went from saving lives in the ER as a nurse working 9-5 to helping women pursue a passion for owning their own business. Her first taste of success began when she created an organization of 60k+ people for Isagenix, a company that sells health and wellness supplements. From that platform she branched out into business coaching and found incomparable satisfaction from helping others achieve success.

Cayla has helped thousands of women start to believe in themselves as entrepreneurs and business women. Her goal is to help mothers gain insight and confidence in their entrepreneurial endeavors, and grow their business to 7 figures! She gives women the tools and resources they need to have an abundant mindset and shamelessly pursue their ambitions while still enjoying life as a mom.

Cayla created Mommy Millionaire to fill a void of community driven by women searching to grow from good to great. Mommy Millionaire seeks to pour out practical tips and business know-how that is current and relevant to what is working today. Cayla is an expert in speaking about sales, culture, and online marketing with experience in keynote speeches on connecting.

Resources:

MommyMillionaire.co

IG: @cayla.craft 

Mommy Millionaire Podcast on iTunes:

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/mommy-millionaire/id1370982175?mt=2

Listen to Lori’s interview on the Mommy Millionaire podcast here:

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/002-tribe-called-bliss-how-women-can-lift-each-other/id1370982175?i=1000408886233&mt=2

Check out my website at loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.

I want to start off by saying a huge thank you to all who listen and follow this podcast. As we fly into 8 million downloads, I have to keep pinching myself to ensure it’s all real. I couldn’t do this without you all and I am so, so grateful that you choose to spend part of your day listening.

A couple months back, I heard the phrase “I am blissfully dissatisfied with my life,” from the amazing Ed Mylett. And I love the balance of the two words because it means being blissfully happy with where you’re at while being equally dissatisfied with wanting more or knowing you have more to give.

“In order to be a happy human, we have to make progress.”

Whether it’s in terms of your health, family, relationships or your business, progress keeps us alive! The other day the idea of being blissfully dissatisfied was brought back into my life when I received a message from a follower. Upon first glance this woman looked like someone I could be friends with – she was a yogi, into wellness etc. – but upon reading the first sentence (I’m going to have to unfollow you because you seem to have a ‘deep dissatisfaction’ with your life), I don’t think we’ll be friends anytime soon. I close the message before I could read the whole thing because honestly, I was breathing fire! Then I took a moment, went back, blocked her and deleted the message. Sure, I could have responded, but people with energy like that are not for me.

So anyway, this message got me thinking back to what Ed Mylett had said and I honestly thought… I am equal parts satisfied and dissatisfied – and I’m totally OK with that. You see, as humans, we’re not wired to be happy. We have a need to be better – for ourselves and others. But in order to find this balance, we can’t be focused on satisfaction in ALL areas at ALL times. We must give ourselves grace in the areas that aren’t the priority and pour ourselves into the other areas despite potential side effects.

So yes, I will never be satisfied, but I will ALWAYS be blissful. And I will always strive to show as much love, grace and compassion to all those who think I feel otherwise.  

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In This Episode Lori talks about:

• Why progressing is crucial for our happiness
• How she dealt with an unkind message
• Giving yourself grace 

Resources:

Join Lori, Oprah Magazine’s staff and other thought leaders on the Oprah Magazine Cruise to the Bahamas | Oct. 28-Nov. 4!

Go here for details: https://www.hollandamerica.com/en_US/cruise-ships/ms-nieuw-statendam/oprah-caribbean-adventure-of-your-life.html

Thrive Event | Sept. 14-16, 2018, Las Vegas

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Go to ATribeCalledBliss.com to find out the latest on Lori’s book tour and join the world’s biggest tribe book club

A Tribe Called Bliss by Lori Harder

Now available at loriharder.com/amazon or ATribeCalledBliss.com

Join me on the A Tribe Called Bliss Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1571018952966750/

Check out my website at loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.

I’ve been stalking following today’s guest, Jaclyn Johnson’s @createcultivate IG page for quite some time now. In fact, before I knew her personally, her event photos helped inspire me to create my own stage for The Bliss Project. But here’s the thing, Jaclyn’s events are way more than a gorgeous stage – they’re all about collaboration and helping other women create and cultivate the career of their dreams.

Don’t be fooled though, Create & Cultivate conferences aren’t just for entrepreneurs – they’re for all women who are looking for a refresh of inspiration in all things business.

Jaclyn and I talk about her rough start as a naïve 23-year-old entrepreneur who didn’t know what she was doing, the lessons she learned from it and why it helped her become the wildly successful CEO Creative & Cultivate she is today. Jaclyn also shares why Creative & Cultivate is thriving and why she hopes to help others with her new book, WorkParty, by providing tips on how to run a business, how to start thinking like an entrepreneur and how to maintain friendships, relationships and partnerships along the way. Since this interview I’ve completed her book and it’s definitely an inspirational must-read!  

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Question Highlights:

• Where are you at right now and how did you get there?
• What would you tell someone who’s looking for the next thing to get started and take the leap?
• What’s a question you’ve never been asked that you think people should ask when they’re starting a business or in a business?
• What does white space mean?
• What is a lesson that’s been painful and awesome?
• How did you learn not to take things personal?
• What do you do for yourself in order to make decisions and implement the culture you want?
• What is something you’re most excited about and something you’re working through right now?
• What is something you do with your team every single week to keep your team cohesive?
• What are the most important messages of your book, WorkParty?
• Who is someone you look up to right now for inspiration?
• What are your Creative & Cultivate events/conferences like?
• How do you let go of people/relationships that aren’t serving you?
• Why this book right now and who needs it?

In This Episode We Talk about:

• How Jaclyn’s entrepreneurial journey started and lead to founding Create & Cultivate
• Why we tend to be more creative when we have nothing to lose
• Runway and goal-setting
• Jaclyn’s definition of “white space” in the business world
• The importance of getting things in writing in terms of getting serious and legalities
• Friendships and business
• Approaching business from a human perspective by not escalating and remaining level-headed and fair
• Why work is part of Jaclyn’s self-care
• Keeping separation between business and those friends who are near and dear
• Scaling and growing a business while maintaining authenticity of the brand
• The most important messages of Jaclyn’s book, WorkParty

Quotes

“The reason I was wildly successful was because I didn’t play by the rules.”

“You’ll never know unless you just do it.”

“Start by just starting.”

“Collaboration over competition.”

“So much more can happen if we’re on the same team.”

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Jaclyn Johnson is a powerhouse entrepreneur. By the time she was 28, she had sold her first business, (No Subject), invested in one of the country’s top female owned startups, Away, and launched her second multimillion dollar company, Create & Cultivate.

Johnson recognized a gap in resources for female millennial entrepreneurs and responded with solutions, Create & Cultivate and now, WorkParty. In the process, Jaclyn’s own philosophy, built on female empowerment, hustling-hard and innovation have propelled her voice to the forefront of the discussion on career, a new thought-leader for millennial women and Gen-Z-ers.

Known for her powerful messaging and often imitated never duplicated style of digital and experiential marketing, Johnson is reshaping attitudes on female entrepreneurialism, work culture and the gig economy for women all over the world.

In August, Jaclyn’s new book, WorkParty releases via Simon & Schuster, offering her rallying cry for women in the workplace.

Resources:

CreateCultivate.com

WorkParty.com

IG: @jaclynrjohnson

IG: @createcultivate

Book: WorkParty by Jaclyn Johnson - Order Now on Amazon

WorkParty on iTunes 

Check out my website at loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.

Today’s episode is a super special quickie and it involves something I’ve been manifesting for years. While I was wrapping up my three-week European vacation I received notice that I was selected to be a speaker on one of the Oprah Magazine Cruises – yes, THE Oprah! My mind is still whirling from this news.

I firmly believe that this opportunity came up after I finally cleared enough stuff to make room for it while I allowed myself to recharge and get away on my trip. And honestly, as odd as it sounds, once I was able to actually “let go” of my dream to meet Oprah (there was literally a dream where it happened – listen to hear about it) and know that either way, I’m OK – it happened. It’s all about living into your gifts.

Here’s a little Manifestation 101 on how I was able to live into my Oprah manifestation:

1. You have to put the work in, believe in a little bit of magic and have faith. Allow that dream to look different and probably the most important – be patient.
2. Focus on why you’re awesome and what you love about yourself. Who or what brings out that part of you?
3. Be the energy you want to attract. Raise your vibration to get there.
4. Get clear and declare it. If you’ve been following me for a while, you’ve likely heard my Oprah dream quite a few times. ;)
5. Release it. You are significant and loved regardless of whether or not this dream happens.

I would love to see you on the Oprah Cruise (to the Bahamas) with me! Check out the link in the resources and let’s fill that ship up with the highest-vibing people ever! It will be like a boat version of Bliss Project! Be sure to message or tag me on Instagram if you’re in – I cannot wait!  

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In This Episode Lori talks about:

• Lori’s keynote speaker opportunity on an Oprah Magazine Cruise
• Letting go of dreams to allow them to happen
• Lori’s five tips to help you manifest what you desire 

Resources:

Join Lori, Oprah Magazine’s staff and other thought leaders on the Oprah Magazine Cruise to the Bahamas | Oct. 28-Nov. 4!

Go here for details: https://www.hollandamerica.com/en_US/cruise-ships/ms-nieuw-statendam/oprah-caribbean-adventure-of-your-life.html

Thrive Event | Sept. 14-16, 2018, Las Vegas

AttendThrive.com

Go to ATribeCalledBliss.com to find out the latest on Lori’s book tour and join the world’s biggest tribe book club

A Tribe Called Bliss by Lori Harder

Now available at loriharder.com/amazon or ATribeCalledBliss.com

Join me on the A Tribe Called Bliss Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1571018952966750/

Check out my website at loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.

You’re going to love today’s guest, Angie Lee, as she’s a wise old soul at the core but not even 30 years old! She and I go back 10 years to a fitness camp we attended together. Since that time she’s become this powerhouse business woman who loves sharing her light and knowledge with others.

Today, we’re dialing into the present and talking about Angie’s upcoming book, Raise Your Hand as well as her Pays to Be Brave event in October – and all the fears and doubts that come up as a result. She believes that being bold is key and that “no’s” are imperative to anyone’s journey.

I hope you enjoy a good mixture of silliness and seriousness because you’ll get a big dose of both in this episode! Don’t be surprised if you’re ready to write your own book or host an event after listening! 

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Question Highlights:

• What is the most exciting thing in your life right now?
• What is the journey your event is taking you on and reflecting back at you right now?
• What is your new book about?
• Why aren’t women “raising their hands?”
• How can we deal with getting no’s?
• What is something right now that’s pushing on your solar plexus that you have to ask for?
• Can you share one of your “what was I thinking” moments that’s also helped you grow?
• How do we tell the difference between a gut check and fear?

In This Episode We Talk about:

• How Angie’s upcoming event, “Pays to Be Brave,” blends both woo-woo and business together
• Intuitive organic marketing
• Battling and pushing through fear
• Why being bold is one of the most important qualities a woman can have
• Putting a value on what you have to offer and how that correlates with your worth
• Money as an energy exchange
• Handing off (or hiring out) things that aren’t in your zone of genius
• Dealing with negative feedback
• Why polarity is necessary
• The difference between the skillsets of an entrepreneur vs. a leader
• The importance of gut checks and not just what’s on paper
• And so much more…

Quotes

“I treat the marketing and numbers like they’re real people.”

“It’s OK to hear no because it also may be a yes down the road.”

“It’s never as bad as we make it out to be.”

“The business doesn’t grow unless the team grows.”

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Angie Lee is the hilarious + wicked smart business bestie you've always wanted. A serial entrepreneur, vibrant speaker, life coach & business mentor, Angie's genius is helping women embrace fear, take messy action and monetize their passion. 

Corporate + College dropout, $100k in debt to 7-figure entrepreneur under 30, Angie's passion runs deep for helping women unlock their full potential to finally create the income and life they desire. Angie is the host of the top-rated The Angie Lee Show, the Founder of Pays to Be Brave Summit and the upcoming self-published author of Raise Your Hand.

Her Wellpreneur Mastermind teaches wellness professionals how to grow their social brand and close sales with ease. Angie's cracked the code for organic marketing by successfully producing multiple 6- and 7-figure product launches, with no paid advertising or complicated funnels. She now teaches her loyal community how to grow and scale their online business with standout branding, authentic messaging and intuitive marketing. 

Resources:

AngieLee.com

IG: @AngieLeeShow

Book: Raise Your Hand by Angie Lee (Coming later in 2018)

Pays to Be Brave Summit

Oct. 20-21, 2018  •  San Diego, CA

The Angie Lee Show on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/angie-lee-show-entrepreneurship-marketing-social-media/id1178232410?mt=2

Check out my website at loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.