The release of messages apparently sent to professional surfer, Sarah Brady by her ex Jonah Hill has sparked a conversation online and in this week's Unveiled. In the texts, he attempted to set boundaries for their relationship which included things like her not surfing with men, having 'boundaryless inappropriate friendships with men', or posting pictures of herself in a bathing suit.

Mary Hayes, Too Into You Project Lead joined Niamh and Nessa to chat about red flags in relationships, emotional abuse and the difference between setting boundaries and being controlling.

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