Good Moms Bad Choices

Welcome back! Erica and Milah are officially entering a new era of motherhood: raising daughters through middle school, puberty, changing bodies, and conversations about sex and consent.

As their girls grow up, the Good Moms unpack what it means to parent differently than they were parented. They talk about body autonomy, boundaries, pleasure, sexual shame, safety, and how to have honest, age-appropriate conversations with your kids even when you don't have all the answers yourself.

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

• Milah’s emotional first middle-school drop-off

• Navigating puberty while co-parenting

• Why you might need to be your kid’s first “gentle bully”

• Teaching kids about consent, boundaries, and unsafe behavior

• Why “stranger danger” doesn't tell kids the whole story

• Raising girls without shame around their bodies and sexuality

• Talking about crushes, pleasure, and self-exploration

• Breaking generational patterns around sex and womanhood

• Why boy moms need to be having these conversations too

• Back-to-school baby daddy drama, middle-school memories, and gray pubes

Because the “sex talk” isn't really one talk, and waiting until your kids are ready to have it might mean waiting too long.

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Happy Hump Day, Tribe 💛

After being on the road for over a month, the Good Moms are finally recording from the comfort of their own homes, and they have A LOT to catch up on. Erica and Milah settle back in, decompress from a very eventful summer, and get into all the weird, wild, vulnerable, and hilarious things that happened while they were away.

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

• Erica’s haunted hotel experience in Ohio + the vivid dreams that followed

• Feeling unprotected by men in spaces where you thought you were safe

• Learning to speak up for yourself, your safety, and your body

• Why you probably shouldn’t f**k your baby daddy

• Erica considers officially entering the foot pic economy

• Milah and Orlando contemplate a very NSFW retirement plan

• Milah survives camping with kids, bears, and 100+ degree weather

• The kids are heading back to school and entering new chapters

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This week, Good Moms are joined by comedian, digital creator, host on the syndicated morning radio show "The Breakfast Club", and author Jess Hilarious. The ladies talk about navigating co-parenting with exes, setting boundaries in new relationships, and balancing independence with partnership. They also get into communication, accountability, and recognizing patterns in both parenting and dating.

You can expect to hear:

• Accountability and recognizing personal patterns in love and parenting
• Gender roles and shifting expectations in modern relationships
• Parenting styles, discipline, and raising kids with structure vs flexibility
• Protecting children while still allowing them to grow and learn
• The influence of social media on relationships and parenting decisions
• Public perception vs real-life identity
• Managing privacy while living a public-facing life
• Emotional awareness and maturity in adult relationships
• Healing from past relationship experiences
• Lifestyle habits, including health, wellness routines, and body maintenance
• Financial responsibility and stability within relationships
• Friendship dynamics and support systems
• Navigating trust, loyalty, and respect in partnerships
• A listener story focused on relationship decision-making and consequences

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Summary: 

Before Jess Hilarious ever had dreams of telling jokes in front of sold-out arenas across the country, being featured on Wild-’n-Out, or becoming a cohost on The Breakfast Club, Jess dreamt of marrying her high school sweetheart and raising a family together in their hometown of Baltimore, Maryland. In hopes that having her partner’s child would solidify this outcome, Jess became pregnant at nineteen but begrudgingly learned that the vision she had for her life—as a wife and mother—would have to be reimagined.

After multiple attempts at a relationship between her and her son’s father failed, Jess accepted that, while they would never get married, they were forever linked by the lifetime commitment of raising a child together. With her trademark wit and perspective, Jess shares her experiences with valuable and vulnerable insight for coparents who struggle with what it means to put their children first while protecting them from the ups and downs of adult relationships. ’Til Death Do We Parent is an inspirational journey to coparenting with ease and humor.

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Happy Hump Day, Tribe! We're coming to you from the heart of Costa Rica, where we're in the middle of hosting our 22nd Good Vibes Retreat. Surrounded by nature and our incredible community, this conversation is an honest reflection on healing, heartbreak, friendship, and giving yourself permission to grow. So settle in, take a deep breath, and join us for another Jungle Edition of Good Moms Bad Choices.

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

• Behind the scenes of the 22nd Good Vibes Retreat
• Heartbreak, healing, and "crashing out"
• Why shame steals joy—and how giving yourself more grace changes everything
• Learning to trust yourself instead of living in fear
• How constantly saying "be careful" may be limiting our children
• The importance of speaking life into other women instead of tearing them down
• This week's Bad Choices, Tarot, and more

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It's HUMP DAY and the Good Moms are joined by artist, fashion designer, creative director, and single mother Aazhia for a raw conversation about motherhood, femininity, ambition, and refusing to lose yourself after becoming a parent.

Together, they unpack why women are expected to sacrifice their identity for motherhood, how single moms navigate dating and independence, and why being a great mother doesn't require becoming a smaller version of yourself. From ADHD and creativity to relationships, sexuality, and raising sons, this conversation is an honest reminder that women deserve to be fully expressed in every season of life.

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

• Why motherhood shouldn't cost you your identity
• Dating as a single mom and choosing yourself
• The pressure women feel to sacrifice for relationships
• Raising sons while embracing your femininity
• Creativity, entrepreneurship, and building your own path
• ADHD, mental health, and finding your flow
• Why women are conditioned to shrink themselves
• Learning to love being single
• Balancing sensuality with motherhood
• Bad Decisions, dating horror stories, and teenage chaos

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@GoodMoms_BadChoices

@Good.GoodMedia

@WatchErica

@MILAH_MAPP

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Body count. It's one of the internet's favorite debates—but who actually benefits from the conversation?

In this bonus episode of Good Moms Bad Choices, the hosts unpack the double standards behind "body count" culture, why women continue to be shamed for their sexuality, and how that stigma distracts from what really matters: safe sex, honest conversations, and knowing your status.

They share personal experiences with sexual shame, challenge outdated ideas about purity and worth, and remind listeners that confidence, consent, and sexual wellness will always matter more than a number.

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This week, the Good Moms are joined by comedians, creators, and Dam Internet, You Scary! hosts Patrick Cloud and Tahir Moore for one of the funniest episodes of the season. The four dive into internet culture, conspiracy theories, dating, polyamory, strip clubs, masturbation, marriage, fatherhood, and the wild rabbit holes that somehow become everyday conversations.

What starts as a conversation about building a podcast from two iPhones quickly spirals into hilarious debates about aliens, OnlyFans, red flags, church's chicken, and why the internet has everyone questioning reality.

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

• How Patrick & Tahir built Dam Internet, You Scary! from scratch
• The craziest internet rabbit holes they've fallen into
• Aliens, conspiracy theories & the Mandela Effect
• Polyamory, open relationships & modern dating
• Honest conversations about marriage and commitment
• The funniest strip club stories you've ever heard
• Masturbation, sex toys & guilty pleasures
• Trigger Roulette: rapid-fire takes on feminism, patriarchy, fatherhood, cannabis & more
• Why the internet is both entertaining and absolutely exhausting
• Horror stories that prove truth is stranger than fiction

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Your 20s are full of lessons—but some don't have to be learned the hard way.

In this bonus episode of Good Moms Bad Choices, the hosts share five things they wish they had known in their 20s. From learning the power of saying "no" and recognizing what low self-esteem really looks like, to rethinking hypersexuality, honoring your body, and understanding that you're already enough, this conversation is packed with honest reflections and hard-earned wisdom.

They also discuss why knowing your HIV status, getting tested regularly, and understanding prevention options are essential acts of self-love—regardless of your relationship status. Whether you're in your 20s or simply reflecting on the journey, this episode is a reminder that healing starts with knowing yourself, trusting your voice, and choosing yourself first.

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It’s hump day and the Good Moms are joined by Winter Blanco and Chy Fontenette, hosts of the Behind the Likes podcast, for a hilarious, unfiltered conversation about friendship breakups, unexpected pregnancy, sex, cheating, boundaries, and why women will fight harder for a man than they will for their female friendships.

The four get into the six-month fallout that almost ended Winter and Chy's relationship, whether men and women can actually be "just friends," pregnancy hormones, porn, Plan B, and what it takes to build a successful business without losing your best friend in the process.

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

• The friendship breakup that almost ended Behind the Likes
• Why women give men more grace than their female friends
• Winter's unexpected pregnancy and the conversations that changed everything
• Can men and women ever really be just friends?
• Porn, pregnancy hormones, sex, and dating while your life is changing
• Building a business with your best friend without ruining the friendship
• Trigger: rapid-fire takes on friendship, motherhood, relationships, and more
• Bad Choice of the Week + Tarot + Affirmations

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Body count. It's one of the internet's favorite debates—but who actually benefits from the conversation?

In this bonus episode of Good Moms Bad Choices, the hosts unpack the double standards behind "body count" culture, why women continue to be shamed for their sexuality, and how that stigma distracts from what really matters: safe sex, honest conversations, and knowing your status.

They share personal experiences with sexual shame, challenge outdated ideas about purity and worth, and remind listeners that confidence, consent, and sexual wellness will always matter more than a number.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.