Whether we’re talking sigils, somatics, or the neuroscience of orgasm, this episode drives home one truth: your body holds wisdom, your desires matter, and your sexual energy is a force that can heal, transform, and manifest the life you want.

In this intimate and eye-opening episode of the HEAL with Kelly podcast, I sit down with world-renowned sex, love, and relationship therapist Dr. Laura Berman to explore the transformative principles behind her latest book, Sex Magic — a guide to harnessing your sexual energy to consciously create the life you crave. With over 30 years of experience, a PhD from NYU, multiple New York Times bestsellers, and regular appearances on The Oprah Winfrey Show, OWN, and Showtime, Dr. Berman brings unmatched wisdom, heart, and depth to this liberating conversation.

Together, we unpack how women can reclaim desire beyond societal conditioning, move from performative intimacy to sacred connection, and why emotional safety — not just physical stimulation — is the true foundation of erotic fulfillment. Dr. Berman shares practical tools for cultivating quantum intimacy in long-term relationships and explains why chasing dopamine highs often leaves us empty —and what to do instead.

But this episode doesn’t stop at sex—it dives into the soul. Dr. Berman vulnerably shares the heartbreaking loss of her son, the metaphysical experience that followed, and how that grief cracked her open to a new level of embodiment, frequency healing, and spiritual awakening. Her journey through somatic release, emotional alchemy, and full-body “yes” living is as inspiring as it is instructive.

If you’re ready to rewire your relationship with pleasure, power, and presence — this one’s for you.

Key Moments You'll Love:

🔥 [2:55] The Pandemic Porn Problem

How free Pornhub created a dopamine addiction crisis that's destroying real intimacy and requiring increasingly extreme content.

✨ [8:11] What You Really Want

The secret behind "spicing it up": why couples seek excited intensity and how sex magic creates it from within instead of external novelty.

🌟 [18:03] Sigil Creation Process

A step-by-step guide to turning your intentions into powerful visual symbols charged with sexual energy for manifestation.

🗣️ [28:38] The Communication Revolution

Why 75% of women fake orgasms and how honest feedback serves everyone (plus the magic words that change everything).

⚡ [34:46] Divine Masculine & Feminine

Understanding healthy energetic dynamics and how to hold your own frequency instead of codependent matching.

🧠 [37:47] The Situationship Lesson

Why you attract partners at your same energetic frequency and how healing changes who you call in.

💔 [54:31] Feeling vs. Numbing

Dr. Berman's profound wisdom after losing her son: why we must feel fully to heal completely and reach the "sandbar."

🎭 [57:43] The Full Body Yes

How tragedy taught her to only say yes to experiences that light up every cell in her body (the ultimate life filter).

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