學英語環遊世界

现在在清迈的医院和大家分享这段心情，希望可以帮助也正在受伤的人！It’s okay to be not okay! 过得不好也没关系！If you don’t die in the disaster, you will get bigger blessing in the future! 大难不死必有后福！

"Love is a journey, and regardless of the distance, it's important to cherish the scenery and beautiful moments along the way."爱情是一段旅程，不论远近，都应该珍惜途中的风景和美好时刻。你是否梦想成为下一个成功的主播？或者构建一个属于自己的学英语环游世界的生活方式？这里是你摆脱焦虑、实现自由人生的起点！我们即将于7月3日开始的迷你退休营，将为你提供宝贵的资源和指导，让你在短短六周内达成这些梦想。现在就透过我们的节目文本预订一个30分钟的免费谘询通话，了解更多详情并开启你的转变之旅。https://flywithlily.com/discover准备好迎接属于你的自由人生吗？立即订阅我们的Podcast，让我们一起探索、学习、成长，打造一个充满爱、自由和丰盛的生活！ It was a rainy Monday afternoon in Kansas City, I just got out of my pedicure appointment and realized it would be taking a bit longer for me to ride a bus to our meeting. I got a text from you that you were already in the bar where we were about to meet for the first time. For some reason, you finished work early and decided to go to the bar a bit ahead of our arranged time. So I took an Uber to the Plaza.这是一个下着雨的星期一下午，我刚刚修完脚，意识到我坐公交车去我们约定见面的地方会花费更长的时间。我收到了你的短信，说你已经在我们第一次见面的酒吧了。出于某种原因，你提前下班并决定提前去酒吧。所以我打了一辆优步去广场。 I was relieved that I was only 10 minutes late for our previously arranged time. But when I arrived at the bar, my heart was still pounding uncontrollably, hoping being late wouldn’t make a bad impression of me. At the same time, I was very delighted to be able to hear a story from the Uber driver, his name was Steve (who I’m guessing was in his 60s) still celebrates anniversaries by enjoying a chocolate cake with his wife every month. Having just gone through a recent break up with my ex, I was still wondering if I would ever meet someone great. After sharing this with Steve, he assured me that I would and that whoever I ended up meeting would be an even greater relationship. Having been on the way to meet you and still nervous, Steve had helped calm me as was very nice.我为自己只晚了10分钟感到宽慰。但当我到达酒吧时，我的心仍然不受控制地怦怦跳动，希望我的迟到不会给你留下不好的印象。与此同时，我很高兴能够听到一位优步司机的故事，他叫史蒂夫（我猜他六十多岁了），他每个月都和妻子一起享用巧克力蛋糕来庆祝结婚纪念日。我刚刚和前任分手，仍然在想是否会遇到一个很棒的人。在向史蒂夫倾诉之后，他向我保证我会遇到一个更好的人，并且与我相处的关系会更好。在去见你的路上，我仍然很紧张，但史蒂夫的帮助让我感到平静和友善。I first saw you sitting patiently waiting for me, dressed in a nice light water blue shirt with a glass of red wine at our table in the corner. I came to say hi, apologizing for being late, and sat down across from you. The bar you picked was called Granfalloon, being a sports bar with large screens around the room, it looked classy. I really liked the decor. That day I was wearing a red flowery off-shoulder dress, and the end of the skirt covered my ankles. However, my new toe nails were bright orange which go well with my new world map tattoo on the top of my feet I got just last week.首先我看到你耐心地等着我，穿着一件很好看的淡蓝色衬衫，桌子上有一杯红酒。我走过去打招呼，道歉说我迟到了，并坐在你的对面。你选择的这家酒吧叫做Granfalloon，是一家装饰高雅的运动酒吧，房间里有大屏幕。我真的很喜欢这个装饰。那天我穿着一条红色的花朵露肩长裙，裙摆盖到了脚踝。不过，我的新脚趾甲是鲜艳的橙色，与我上周刚纹的世界地图纹身很搭配。 When I sat down across from you, my heart was still pounding really fast. I figured it was due to your good looks. You were cordial and polite. After I ordered, you asked a series of questions and how my weekend went. Suddenly my head went blank. All I could remember and share was that my friend Addi, and I drank lots of shots of Tequilas and went partying on Saturday night. Oops, at the time you probably thought I was a party animal. Yet, just as I thought that I had ruined your impression of me you seemed to sense it and calmed me down by complimenting my nails. I then directed your eyes to see my new tattoo. We talked a lot about our travels. Your eyes sparkled when you shared your proudest adventures, your plans of moving to Florida, and dreams to buy a sailboat to learn how to sail the world. (I’m so proud of you. In less than a year during the time I’ve known you, you’ve accomplished everything you said you would do.)当我坐在你的对面时，我的心还在怦怦跳。我觉得这是因为你长得很帅。你很礼貌。在我点了酒之后，你问了一连串的问题，询问我的周末过得如何。突然间，我的头脑一片空白。我只记得我和朋友艾蒂喝了很多龙舌兰酒，然后在周六晚上狂欢。哎呀，当时你可能觉得我是个派对动物。然而，就在我以为我毁了你对我的印象时，你似乎察觉到了，并通过称赞我的指甲来安抚我。然后，我引导你看到我的新纹身。我们谈了很多关于旅行的话题。当你分享你最自豪的冒险、搬到佛罗里达的计划以及学习航海环游世界的梦想时，你的眼睛闪闪发光（我为你感到骄傲。在我认识你的这段时间里，不到一年的时间里，你实现了你说过的一切）。 Aside from how achieved and successful you were when you shared in our conv

"Enjoy the present moment, don't worry about the future or dwell on the past, fully immerse yourself in the interaction with your date, creating beautiful memories.""享受当下的美好时刻，不要担心未来或过去，让自己完全投入到与约会对象的互动中，创造美好的回忆。"你是否梦想成为下一个成功的主播？或者构建一个属于自己的学英语环游世界的生活方式？这里是你摆脱焦虑、实现自由人生的起点！我们即将于7月3日开始的迷你退休营，将为你提供宝贵的资源和指导，让你在短短六周内达成这些梦想。现在就透过我们的节目文本预订一个30分钟的免费谘询通话，了解更多详情并开启你的转变之旅。https://flywithlily.com/discover准备好迎接属于你的自由人生吗？立即订阅我们的Podcast，让我们一起探索、学习、成长，打造一个充满爱、自由和丰盛的生活！（8:02 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 8:02）So Omar, do you remember our first date? Yeah. We went out for a drink, didn't we? Yeah. Exactly. Yeah, exactly and then do we just go home after that? I think I took you out since it was going well, and I was having fun talking with you. I think we went to another place and got something to eat if I remember right mm-hmm. Yeah, was that all? It's been a while. What else did we do? I think we got another drink after that. We drank a lot. Yeah, we drank a lot. What's going on? Thirsty. You were just very asking all the questions. Very thirsty. Did you follow that 30/70 rule on me as well? I think I was pretty close, if I remember right. Yeah, we both contributed on that. Exactly. Well, that's what you get when you date a famous podcaster. There's going to be a lot of conversation and questions. Yeah.噢，对了，你还记得我们第一次约会吗？没错，我们一起去喝酒了，对吧？没错，确切地说，我们一起去了酒吧。然后我们回家了吗？不太记得了。我记得我们在酒吧喝了一些，然后可能去了另一个地方吃东西。对，那是什么地方来着？好像有一段时间了，我不太记得具体的地方了。我们还做了其他什么吗？我记得我们在那之后又喝了一杯。我们确实喝了不少酒。是的，我们喝得挺多的。嗯，可能因为当时口渴吧。你好像问了很多问题。嗯，的确渴了。你是说我们都遵守了30/70的规则吗？我记得我们都做出了一些贡献。没错。好吧，这就是和著名播主约会的结果，会有很多对话和问题。没错。加入新一期開營的第四期迷你退休營/早起訓練營，請填寫問卷預約30分鐘免費諮詢：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）我的IG：flywithlily微信：iflywithlily

Once in a while, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairy tale. 偶尔在平凡的生活中，因为爱情，给我们带来了一个童话。（18:58 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 18:58）你是否梦想成为下一个成功的主播？或者构建一个属于自己的学英语环游世界的生活方式？这里是你摆脱焦虑、实现自由人生的起点！我们即将于7月3日开始的迷你退休营，将为你提供宝贵的资源和指导，让你在短短六周内达成这些梦想。现在就透过我们的节目文本预订一个30分钟的免费谘询通话，了解更多详情并开启你的转变之旅。https://flywithlily.com/discover准备好迎接属于你的自由人生吗？立即订阅我们的Podcast，让我们一起探索、学习、成长，打造一个充满爱、自由和丰盛的生活！的确，爱情有时候可以在平凡的生活中创造出童话般的奇迹。它可以改变我们的世界观，让我们感受到无比的喜悦和幸福。当爱情降临时，我们的心境瞬间变得明亮起来，生活充满了美好的色彩。爱情让我们体验到浪漫和惊喜，就像童话故事中的主角一样。它能够将我们从现实的压力和琐碎中解放出来，带领我们进入一个完全不同的世界。在爱情的陪伴下，我们能够感受到心灵的宁静和温暖。爱情也能够激发我们内心深处的渴望和勇气，让我们敢于追求梦想和冒险。它鼓励我们勇往直前，克服困难和挑战，就像童话故事中的英雄一样。爱情给予我们力量，让我们相信奇迹和美好的存在。无论我们是否相信童话故事，爱情总是能够在我们的生活中创造出美丽的瞬间和回忆。它是一种神奇的力量，能够使我们感受到人生的惊喜和无尽的可能性。所以，让我们在平凡的日子里保持对爱情的开放和渴望，让它给我们带来一个属于自己的童话故事。无论爱情如何改变我们的生活，让我们记住，每个人都值得拥有属于自己的童话结局。This one is actually a question I want to know about: What is the ideal first date for an American man？ An ideal first date for an American man? Well, it really depends and I'll say it depends on how you met and your relationship prior to that. If this is someone you met on online dating, usually I think it's best just to meet for something very quick, like a cup of coffee or a drink at happy hour. Something where there's not like a really long commitment that lasts maybe 20 minutes and you can kind of get to meet the person in real life and then if it's going well you can always extend it or agree to meet like later that week. I just feel like it's been putting yourself in a situation when you commit to going out to dinner or an all-day event on Saturday with somebody you've never really met in real life, is a bit of a large commitment. 理想的第一次约会对于美国男性来说，实际上是一个视情况而定的问题。它取决于你们是如何认识的，以及在约会前是否已经建立了一定的关系基础。一个常见的选择是在轻松愉快的氛围中相约喝杯酒或享受美食。这样的约会通常不会太长，大约持续20分钟到几个小时不等。这样的约会可以让你们在现实生活中见面，并进一步探索彼此的兴趣和相处方式。如果约会进展顺利，你们可以随时延长约会时间或安排更多的见面。重要的是，不要对自己设定太大的承诺压力，毕竟这只是第一次约会而已。让约会自然流动，并随着时间的推移逐渐发展更深入的关系。1.Depends on 取决2.Prior to 先前的3.Online dating 线上约会4.Extend 延长5.Commitment 承诺Now if it's somebody that you, like say a co-worker or somebody that you are childhood friends with or that is a friend of a friend and you already know that person, then just meeting for a cup of coffee or a drink might be not enough. Maybe it's something a little bit more intensive that's going to last a few hours. But yeah, it really depends on how you met that person and your relationship before that. Yeah. 你提到的情况确实可能需要更长时间的约会，特别是如果你与对方已经有某种程度的熟悉或者共同的背景。如果你和对方是同事、儿时朋友或朋友的朋友，那么你们可能已经有一些共同点和话题可以聊天。在这种情况下，约会可以更深入，时间可能会更长，因为你们有更多的事情可以讨论和分享。例如，你可以选择去一家舒适的咖啡厅或酒吧，让你们有足够的时间进行真实而深入的对话。你们可以讨论过去的回忆、共同的兴趣、工作或学业等话题。这样的约会可以让你们更好地了解彼此，并且有机会建立更深厚的关系。重要的是，选择一个场所和活动，能够让你们两个都能感到轻松自在并且有良好的交流氛围。无论约会持续多长时间，最重要的是在约会期间保持真实和开放，并尊重彼此的舒适范围。当然，这只是一些建议，最终约会的具体形式和长度还是要根据你和对方的喜好和情况来定。记得放松、享受约会，并让事情自然发展。祝你顺利！6.Coworker 同事7.Childhood 童年8.Intensive 密集的加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营，请填写问卷预约30分钟免费谘询：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）我的IG：flywithlily微信：iflywithlily

加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）Dating is not a game, but a process of discovery. Be open, be yourself, and let the journey unfold naturally.约会不是游戏，而是一个探索的过程。保持开放，做真实的自己，让旅程自然展开。（8:20 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 8:20）How important is having a great conversation in a date? Well, I think it's very important. You know, everybody's different and everybody has different chemistry and different ways. But one of the best ways to build rapport with somebody is through conversation and through asking about them and their life and what they care about. And it's, at least in Western culture, I've heard that generally speaking you should try to ask ask... the conversation split should be 70-30. So you should be asking... you should be talking 30% of the time and your date should be talking 70% of the time. Seriously? There's a law. Well, it's not really a law, but it's... Do you follow that as well? I try to. I mean, if you find yourself talking most of the date, it's probably not going well. Because that means you're mostly just talking about yourself and not really learning about them. So if I find myself in a situation where I feel like I've been doing most of the talking, I try to just start asking them questions to learn more about them. 在约会中进行愉快的交谈有多重要？嗯，我认为这很重要。你知道，每个人都是不同的，每个人都有不同的化学反应和不同的方式。但与某人建立融洽关系的最佳方式之一是通过交谈并询问他们和他们的生活以及他们关心的事情。而且，至少在西方文化中，我听说一般来说你应该试着问问……谈话的比例应该是 70-30。所以你应该问……你应该有 30% 的时间在说话，而你的约会对象应该有 70% 的时间在说话。严重地？有一条法律。嗯，这不是真正的法律，但它是......你也遵守吗？我试着。我的意思是，如果你发现自己在约会的大部分时间里都在说话，那可能进展不顺利。因为这意味着你主要只是在谈论你自己，而不是真正了解他们。因此，如果我发现自己处在一种感觉大部分时间都是我在说话的情况下，我会试着开始向他们提问，以了解更多关于他们的信息。1.Chemistry 化学反应2.Rapport 融洽关系 加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营，请填写问卷预约30分钟免费谘询：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）我的IG：flywithlily微信：iflywithlily

加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）"Dating is not about finding the perfect person but about finding an imperfect person and seeing them perfectly."约会不仅仅是寻找完美的人，而是寻找一个不完美的人并完美地看待他们。（6:43 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 6:43）Oh this one I also heard a lot, and actually I heard my friend, he complained to me that once he had his Chinese colleague saying like you look tired and you look fat. Yeah so obviously you know these kind of statements when said by your family or your really good friends you know it's a lot more common you should definitely never ever say these to a person that you're going on a date with or have interest in. Rather than saying those phrases, you should say nothing. Nothing is the best policy. Yes, that is. And I mean if they look like one of those things and you find that undesirable, then maybe just don't go on a date with them again. Well, you know why they say that? I totally understand. It's because you look tired. Can I do something for you to help you not feel so tired? You know, usually it's like care. Yeah, and I understand that. However, there's not really anything you can do for them in the moment of them being tired. They just need to go take a nap. And really it's a pointless statement because you can't help them, and the next time you see them they may not be tired. They are just insults to their look. So yeah, just say nothing. 哦，这个我也听到很多，实际上我听到我的朋友，他向我抱怨说有一次他的中国同事说你看起来很累，你看起来很胖。是的，很明显，当你的家人或你真正的好朋友说这些话时，你知道这种说法更为常见，但你绝对不应该对要与之约会或感兴趣的人说这些话. 与其说那些话，不如什么都不说。什么都不说是最好的政策。对。我的意思是，如果他们看起来累或胖，而你发现那是不是你喜欢的，那么也许就不要再和他们约会了。你知道他们为什么这么说吗？我完全明白。那是因为我说你看起来很累，是不是我可以为你做点什么让你不那么累吗？你知道，通常这就像关心。是的，我明白这一点。然而，在他们疲倦的那一刻，你真的无能为力。他们只需要去小睡一下。这真的是一个毫无意义的声明，因为你无法帮助他们，只是在侮辱他们的外表。下次你见到他们时，他们可能不会感到疲倦。所以最好什么都不说。1.Complain 抱怨2.Common 常见3.Policy 政策4.Take a nap 小睡一下5.Pointless 毫无意义6.Insults 侮辱加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营，请填写问卷预约30分钟免费谘询：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）我的IG：flywithlily微信：iflywithlily

加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）You're more than just a body. 你不仅仅是身体而已。（16:43 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 16:43）Alright, this is another one that I often hear and I find it can be a little bit offensive, it's like complimenting body parts. For example, like you have very beautiful legs or... Or other parts. Yeah, or other beautiful parts. Yeah, so yes, that can be, in Western culture, that can be seen as very forward, very aggressive, and almost without fail, any woman that you ask that to is going to kind of seize up and get very defensive and want to go away from you. For a woman asking a man that, it's not nearly as bad, but it's still, I wouldn't consider it very appropriate or very polite. For example, like feeling a guy's arm and then saying that, oh, you have muscle. Yeah. I mean, it's not as bad as the other way around, definitely. But it still wouldn't, generally, be received very well. 好吧，这是我经常听到的另一个，我发现它可能有点冒犯，就像赞美身体部位一样。比如你有很漂亮的腿或者……或者其他部位。是的，或其他美丽的部位。是的，所以是的，在西方文化中，这可以被视为非常直接，非常有侵略性，而且几乎毫无例外，你要求的任何女人都会变得冷酷并变得非常防御并想要离开你。对于一个女人如果对一个男人这样说，这并没有那么糟糕，但我认为这仍不是很合适或很有礼貌。例如，感觉一个男人的手臂然后说，哇，你有肌肉。是的。我的意思是，绝对没有像男生对女生这样说那么糟糕。但总的来说，它仍然不会被很好地接受。1.Offensive 冒犯的2.Compliment 赞美3.Aggressive 有侵略性的4.Without fail 毫无意外5.Seize up 失灵，不动的、变得冷酷6.Defensive 防御的7.Appropriate 恰当的So a better way to compliment somebody and get their attention would be to compliment their clothes or their hair. Accessories. Accessories, yes, correct. Because you think about it in a sense of the person can't really change their body parts. That's just who they are. But a person can... they woke up that morning and they chose to put those clothes on. They chose to style their hair that way. So in a sense, you are complimenting their choices, not their person. And that will be received much more favorably. Yeah, and before we recorded and you told me that it's okay to say someone is beautiful or someone is handsome Yes, that's okay but that's also a very generic term, you know, why are they beautiful? Why are they handsome? Is it their body parts or is it their clothes? Is it their makeup? Is it their hair? That's a lot more general, so that's not necessarily a bad statement, but it's also nice to be specific. So, oh, I really like your hair. I really like that dress you're wearing, or something to that like. 因此，赞美某人并引起他们注意的更好方法是赞美他们的衣服或头发。或是配件，是的，正确的。因为你从某种意义上考虑，人无法真正改变他们的身体部位。他们就是这样。但是一个人可以……他们那天早上醒来，他们选择穿上那些衣服。他们选择那样设计头发。所以从某种意义上说，你是在赞美他们的选择，而不是他们的人。这将受到更多的欢迎。是的，在我们录制之前你告诉我可以说某人很漂亮或某人很帅是的，没关系但这也是一个非常通用的语言，你知道，他们为什么漂亮？他们为什么帅？是他们的身体部位还是他们的衣服？是她们的妆吗？是他们的头发吗？这更笼统，所以这不一定是一个糟糕的陈述，但具体一点也很好。所以，哦，我真的很喜欢你的头发。我真的很喜欢你穿的那件衣服，或者类似的东西。8.Accessory 配件9.Generic 通用的10.Statement 描述加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营，请填写问卷预约30分钟免费谘询：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）我的IG：flywithlily微信：iflywithlily

加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）The best relationships start off as friendships.最好的男女关系就是从朋友开始的关系。（7:24 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 7:24）1.Start off 从什么开始Another question is I often heard when people are hanging out in a bar and then they see a foreigner and then they are also super excited and then chat them up and then they will come up with this question. It's like “Can I practice English with you?” So, generally speaking, now that's again, that's not a terrible question that maybe something that people are very receptive to. However, it's usually best to offer something rather than to ask for something. And this goes with anything relating to relationships or business or friendship. It's always best to give before you take. And even something as simple as just asking someone to help practice a language perceived as taking their time or just... you could be met with resistance. 2.Practice 练习3.Receptive 接受的4.Offer 提供5.Perceive as 被认为6.Resistance 抗拒So a better option would be saying, hey, can I teach you Mandarin? Or can I help you? Would you like to learn some phrases in Mandarin? Or whatever language or whatever you're offering. Or would you like to learn how to cook Chinese food? Yes, so basically it switches from asking someone for something versus offering someone for something. And almost always, it's going to be, you're going to be the recipient of that as well. If you offer to teach them Mandarin, a few phrases in Mandarin, they're very likely going to be willing to ask you if you want to practice your English. Exactly, that's what I thought as well. I also like to offer, like showing my friend around… This is my goal to practice English with you. Exactly, and Lily Wong offers to show me around Taiwan and assists to practice all of her English. She's so sneaky. 7.Option 选择8.Mandarin 中文/普通话9.Phrases 句子10.Switches from 从...转换11.Recipient 收信/件的人12.Sneaky 狡猾的另一个问题是我经常听到人们在酒吧闲逛，然后他们看到一个外国人，然后他们也非常兴奋，他们过去谈话搭讪，他们会问这个问题：我可以和你一起练习英语吗？所以一般来说，这不是一个可怕的问题，这可能是人们非常容易接受的问题。但是，通常最好提供一些东西而不是索取一些东西。这适用于任何与人际关系、商业或友谊有关的事情。在你接受之前给予总是最好的。甚至一些简单的事情，比如只是要求某人帮助练习一种语言，你可能会遇到阻力。所以更好的选择是说，嘿，我可以教你普通话吗？或者我可以帮你吗？你想学习一些普通话短语吗？或者你提供的任何语言或任何内容。或者你想学习如何烹饪中国菜吗？是的，所以基本上他从向某人索取某物转变为向某人提供某物。几乎总是，你也将成为他的接受者。如果你主动教他们普通话，几句普通话，他们很可能会问你是否想练习英语。没错，我也是这么想的。我也喜欢提供，像是带我朋友玩，其实这样和你一起练习英语是我的目标。没错，Lily Wong 带我参观台湾并协助练习她所有的英语。她太狡猾了。加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营，请填写问卷预约30分钟免费谘询：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）我的IG：flywithlily微信：iflywithlily

加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）You are my Nemo. If you get lost in the great, big ocean, I’ll find you.你是我的尼莫。即使你丢失在广大的海洋里，我也会找到你。（8:50 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 8:50）Nemo 有一部电影叫做海底总动员，描述一个过度保护孩子的父亲寻找孩子的故事（剧情：在澳洲大堡礁的深海中，小丑鱼爸爸玛林和儿子尼莫简单幸福的生活着，可是爸爸做事常常畏首畏尾，是个胆小鬼，尼莫觉得爸爸很不勇敢，甚至有点看不起自己的爸爸。小尼莫却天不怕地不怕，跟同伴们去水面玩耍的时候，竟然被渔网捞了起来，辗转被卖到一家牙医诊所。玛林对儿子的生死未卜感到十分的担忧，就算平时不能大胆行事，为了儿子也要勇敢豁出去了。可是在路上遇到了很多艰难与恐惧，令他十分胆怯。幸好他遇到了好心的多瑞，一路与他作伴。父子俩都遇到了很多热心的帮助，最终都能重逢，玛林也从此成为儿子以及大家心中的英雄。）1.Get lost 迷路2.Ocean 海洋Also, I heard this from my students a lot, when they meet a foreign person, or they like them, and then they would say something like, can I be your friend? I always find it a little bit bizarre. Yeah, so, you know, being, coming right out and saying, can I be your friend, is a little direct and, you know, I don't think it's a terrible thing, but, you know, there's a lot of people that would be just a little turned off and defensive when someone comes and asks that question so directly. Especially if it's somebody that you have never met before and it's just a stranger on the street coming up and saying that, or even just a first date. So a better question, a better way to ask that would be, would you like to meet for coffee? Or would you like to meet for a drink? Or can I take you out to dinner? All of those are a lot softer, more subtle. It's an invitation to get a chance to get to know them, to be their friend, rather than just a direct question. 3.Bizzare 奇异4.Direct 直接5.Turn off 倒胃口6.Defensive 防御的7.Subtle 微妙8.Invitation 邀请9.Rather than 而不是还有，我经常听我的学生说，当他们遇到一个外国人，或者他们喜欢那个外国朋友，然后他们会说，我可以做你的朋友吗？我总觉得有点奇怪。是的，所以，你知道，直接出来说，我可以做你的朋友吗，有点直接，但我不认为这是一件很糟的事情，但是，有很多人当有人来这么直接地问这个问题时，有些人可能会有点倒胃口和防御。尤其是如果对方是你以前从未见过的人，而这只是街上的一个陌生人走过来说，甚至只是第一次约会。所以一个更好的提问方式是：你想见面喝咖啡吗？或者你想见见喝一杯？或者我可以带你出去吃晚饭吗？所有这些都更柔和、更微妙。这是一个了解他们、成为他们朋友的机会的邀请，而不仅仅是一个直接的问题。加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营，请填写问卷预约30分钟免费谘询：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）我的IG：flywithlily微信：iflywithlily

加入七月新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）If you aren't happy single, you won't be happy taken. Happiness comes from within, not from a relationship status.如果你单身不快乐，那你有男朋友也不会快乐。快乐是来自内心，而不是来自妳的情感关系状态。（8:49 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 8:49）1.Single 单身2.Taken 已经有男女朋友/老公老婆，有对象的3.Within 内心How do we ask about the past relationship or the current status? Do we just go ahead and ask them, are you married? Do you have a girlfriend? What is a better way for that? Well, hopefully if you're out on a date with somebody, they're not married and have a girlfriend. But you never know these days. So I would say sometimes it's a little forward asking them directly about their ex, especially if you're just getting to know them. A lot of people just kind of, if they're out dating again, they kind of want to move past that. So a better way to ask about that is to ask about their family. So ask about if it's an older person or someone who likely has maybe been in relationships before, someone in their late 20s, 30s, 40s, you can maybe ask if they have any kids. And that will kind of lead you into that discussion where they may just volunteer information of their previous relationship if you really want to know. If it's a younger person, maybe you just ask about their family. Ask about if they have any brothers or sisters for their friends, or things like that. That may come up at that point then as well. And of course, if they make indications about, hey, I got to get home from this date, my wife's waiting for me, then maybe you just should think hard if you want to go out with them again. But there are people who probably can accept this kind of situation. There absolutely are, but I guess that's up to you to decide. Right. 4.Forward 直接5.Ex 前任6.Make indications 表示7.Think hard 再三考虑8.Up to you 由你决定（跟美国人约会的时候）我们如何询问过去的感情关系或当前感情状态？我们可以直接问他们，你结婚了吗？你有女朋友吗？有没有更好的方法呢？好吧，希望如果你和某人正在约会，他们既没有结婚也没有女朋友。但是在现在这个时候你或许永远不会知道。所以我想说有时候直接问他们关于他们前任的事是有点直接，尤其是当你刚刚认识他们的时候。很多人可能才开始重新约会，所以他们只想将过去的感情一言带去。因此，更好的询问方式是询问他们的家人。所以询问年长的人或之前可能有过恋爱关系的人，像20 多岁、30 多岁、40 多岁的人，你也许可以问他们是否有孩子。如果你真的想知道更多，这也会引导你进入这个话题的讨论，他们可能自愿提供他们以前感情关系的信息。如果是年轻人，也许你只是问问他们的家庭情况。询问他们是否有任何兄弟姐妹或他们的或他们的朋友，或诸如此类的事情。那么过去的情感关系话题也可能在那个时候出现。当然，如果他们表示，我必须回家，我老婆在等我，那么如果你想再次和他们出去约会，也许你应该好好想想。但也有人大概能接受这种情况。绝对有，但我想这取决于你的决定。加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营，请填写问卷预约30分钟免费谘询：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）我的FB/IG：@flywithlily连结是https://instagram.com/flywithlily微信：iflywithlily