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加入新一期七月即将开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）Any guy can spoil you with materialistic things, but the right man can do way more than just that... He can spoil you with understanding, listening, honesty, loyalty, affection, communication, and he can spoil you with happiness.（7:11 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 7:11）任何男人都可以用物质的东西宠你，但是对的人能做的更多。他可以用理解你、聆听你、忠诚不二、爱还有良好的沟通来宠你，他能让妳非常幸福。1.Spoil 宠2.Loyalty 忠诚3.Affection 爱Hello, you're listening to Fly With Lily and right beside me is Omar and we are going to try to go deep on dating questions, dating etiquette. Sounds good, Lily. Yes. Okay, so we have a couple of questions from our listeners. They really, really want to know if they are out with an American guy, who should pay? Well, society has gotten a lot more progressive as of late, and so I've heard a lot of stories about dates being split by both parties. However, I'm a bit traditional, and I know a lot of the people I hang out with and associate with are very traditional, and this goes for guys and girls. Generally speaking, I think the man should pay, at least for the first couple of dates. And then, I guess, as time moves on, then if they decide they want to start splitting things, that's up to them. But I'm a firm believer that, especially early on, the man should be the one who just picks up the check without question. Do you ever think about why? Well, I think that usually, I mean historically speaking, men have been the ones to generally ask the women out. And if the men are the ones asking them out and planning the date, well then they're kind of the ones that should be paying for the date. But like I said, times do change, but this is one where I feel pretty strongly that it should just be the man paying for things to start with.你好，你正在听 Fly With Lily，我旁边是 Omar，我们将尝试深入探讨约会问题和约会礼仪。听起来不错，莉莉。是的。好的，我们的听众有几个问题。他们真的非常想知道如果他们和一个美国人出去，谁应该付钱？好吧，最近社会进步了很多，所以我听到了很多关于双方分开买单约会的故事。然而，我有点传统，我知道很多和我一起出去玩和交往的人都非常传统，这对男孩和女孩都适用。一般来说，我认为男人应该付钱，至少在前几次约会是这样。然后，我想，随着时间的推移，如果他们决定要开始拆分，那取决于他们。但我坚信，尤其是在早期，男人应该是毫无疑问地主动买单的人。你有没有想过为什么？好吧，我认为通常，我的意思是从历史上看，男性通常是邀请女性出去的人。如果男人是约他们出去并计划约会的人，那么他们就是应该为约会买单的人。但就像我说的，时代确实在变，但这是我强烈认为一开始就应该由男人买单。4.Etiquette 礼仪5.Progressive 进步6.Split 分开7.Traditional 传统的8.Firm believer 坚信加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营，请填写问卷预约30分钟免费谘询：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）我的IG：flywithlily微信：iflywithlily

加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）I don’t want your money, I don’t need to be taken care of, I don’t need to be spoiled with gifts. Make me laugh, respect my choices, and be a gentleman, some of us don’t ask much. 我不要你的钱，我也不需要被照顾，我也不需要太多的礼物被你宠坏。我就只要你让我大笑，尊重我的决定，然后成为一个绅士。我们有些人要求并不多。（7:29 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 7:29）单词记忆：1. Spoil 宠2. Respect 尊敬Is it okay to ask them to pay for dates? Well, you know, every culture is a little bit different, and even within Western cultures, people have very different opinions of that. Generally speaking, it's commonly accepted, at least in the United States where I live, that the man typically takes the lead on that and asks the woman out and therefore pays for the date. Now, there's an ever-growing trend with more and more women that want to contribute and pay for half the date, but I'm kind of an old-school person. I always, you know, unless they absolutely insist, and even then, I still pretty much prefer that I just pay for the date. 可以要求美国男人支付约会费用吗？好吧，你知道，每种文化都有点不同，即使在西方文化中，人们对此也有非常不同的看法。一般而言，人们普遍认为，至少在我居住的美国，男人通常会带头约女人出去，并支付约会费用。现在，越来越多的女性想要贡献并支付一半约会的费用，这是一种不断增长的趋势，但我是一个守旧派的人。我总是，除非他们绝对坚持，即使那样，我仍然宁愿我来支付约会的费用。3. Opinion 意见4. Accept 接受5. Take the lead 带头主动6. Trend 趋势7. Contribute 贡献8. Old-school 守旧的9. Insist 坚持10. Prefer 宁愿、偏好结论：我觉得男生在首次约会的时候主动付款是一个非常绅士的表现！我想不会有人不喜欢会为女生买单的女权主义者。我记得和Omar初次约会的时候，一整天他买单了两次，第三次我就坚持买单了！后面他都会坚持要买单，除非是我找他出去吃饭，或者感谢他给我的帮忙，当然我也会主动说要给他煮饭，我当然不会计较买菜的钱！加入新一期开营的第四期迷你退休营/早起训练营，请填写问卷预约30分钟免费谘询：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）我的IG：flywithlily微信：iflywithlily

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加入5月22日开营的第三期迷你退休营：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）“In the end there doesn’t have to be anyone who understands you. There just has to be someone who wants to.” 一段时间过去后，其实你不需要有人了解你，只需要有人愿意去了解你。（19：46 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 19:46）Hello everybody, you are listening to the Fly with Lily podcast here. And then right now beside me is Omar. Omar is visiting me in Taiwan and we just had a couple of days here. He is visiting here and enjoying food and traveling around Taiwan island. And we also talked about doing a podcast together. So we have come up with this idea of like bad first date question. How do we turn them into good first date question? Because I have a lot of students, they want to date foreigners, but they don't know how to. Usually they don't know what to ask. Or the questions I heard were pretty ridiculous. So I would like to help my audience on that. So Omar, say hi to our audience. Hello everyone, glad to be here with you and with Lily. Yay! So, let's get started. Alright.大家好，你正在收听 Fly with Lily 播客。然后现在在我旁边的是Omar。Omar正在台湾拜访我，我们刚刚在这里待了几天。他正在这里参观，享受美食并环游台湾岛。我们还讨论了一起做一个播客。所以我们想出了糟糕的第一次约会问题的想法。我们如何将它们变成好的初次约会问题？因为我有很多学生，他们想和外国人约会，但他们不知道怎么办。通常他们不知道该问什么。或者我听到的问题非常荒谬。所以我想在这方面帮助我的听众。Omar，向我们的听众问好。大家好，很高兴和你们在一起，和莉莉在一起。耶！那么，让我们开始吧。1. foreigners 外国人｜Westerners 西方人2. ridiculous 荒谬3. audience 听众/观众Okay, the first one is, usually this is pretty common, women (are) attracted to success. So they want to know, like, how much is your salary? Yeah, so at least in Western culture, that's not really an appropriate question to ask. It's just very personal, and a lot of people may find offense to that. But it still is an important thing to know. But there's a lot of other subtle ways that you can ask that where you'll still get the answer you need, but you won't really offend someone. So a way that you can ask is are, what are your career goals? Or where do you see your career in the next five years? And based on those answers, you can probably ascertain about where that person's career is headed and what kind of lifestyle they live. 好吧。好的，第一个是，通常这很常见，女性被成功所吸引。所以他们想知道，比如，你的薪水是多少？是的，所以至少在西方文化中，这不是一个合适的问题。这是非常私人的，很多人可能会觉得冒犯。但这仍然是一件重要的事情。但是还有很多其他微妙的方式来问，仍然会得到你需要的答案，但你不会真正冒犯别人。所以你可以问的一种方式是，你的职业目标是什么？或者你如何看待未来五年的职业生涯？根据这些答案，你可能可以确定此人的职业发展方向以及他们过着什么样的生活方式。***比起“How much is your salary?”更好的问题是“what are your career goals? Or where do you see your career in the next five years?”4. are attracted to 被…吸引5. salary 薪水6. Western culture 西方文化7. offense/offend/offensive 冒犯8. subtle 微妙的9. career goals 职涯目标10. ascertain 弄清、确定Okay, so can we do an example? Yes, so for example, yeah, so like if you're on a date and someone says, well, you know, I don't really have any career goals, I'm just happy working as a janitor cleaning toilets. There's no disrespect in that position, but you kind of get an idea of like where they might be at, versus if you ask the same question someone says oh, I'm the Vice President of a bank and then in the next five years I want to be the CEO of the bank You can tell they're definitely on a different career path than the previous example. So, you know like I said, the most important thing with dating someone is you know that you get along personally and you enjoy that person not so much the career, but it's also sometimes good to know. 好的，我们可以举个例子吗？是的，例如，就像我们约会时有人说，好吧，我真的没有任何职业目标，我只是很高兴做清洁厕所的工人。我们不是不尊重做清洁工的人，但你会知道他们的职业生涯，如果你问同样的问题，有人说哦，我是一家银行的副总裁，然后在接下来的五年里我想要成为银行的首席执行官，你可以看出他们的职业道路与前面的例子完全不同。所以，就像我说的，与某人约会最重要的是你知道你个人相处融洽，你喜欢那个人而不是事业，但同时也很高兴知道他们的职涯规划。11. janitor 清洁工12. Vice President 副总裁13. get along 与...相处融洽For sure. But, when can I really know their salary? Well, I think that, at least in Western culture, that usually comes up after you get to know each other pretty well and are maybe considering moving in together or renting an apartment together or even buying a house together. Once you get to a point to where you might be making a large purchase together, then that kind of b

加入5月22日开营的第三期迷你退休营：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）The best way to predict the future is to create it. 最好预测未来的方式就是去创造它。About Money/Career 关于Lily的金钱和职涯的运势Bella: So you're gonna have very intense year. So I think you're gonna have a lot of, once that planet moves out of your money making house, you're gonna have a lot more money. Money making opportunities. And then Pluto. So Pluto is a planet that changes signs every 20 years. So it's been in Capricorn for 20 years and it's moving into Aquarius. And Pluto is the planet of power, of intensity, of transformation, of just anything that's very deep and transformative and death and rebirth. And it's moving into Aquarius, which rules your money house. So I'm very interested to see how that plays out for you because I think that you could gain a lot of power and make crazy amounts of money. I don't know, there could be a lot of opportunities. Your whole relationship with money is gonna transform the way you think about it, how you earn it. There's a lot of potential for you. It's gonna get a lot better. Cuz I feel like it might have been just not fun and more of a struggle in the past since the pandemicish when Saturn moved into Aquarius. Cuz that's your money house. I feel like money has not been flowing. You want it. So yeah, pay attention to that cuz that could really change.所以你会度过非常激烈的一年。一旦那颗行星离开你的赚钱宫，你就会有更多赚钱的机会。然后是冥王星。冥王星是一颗每 20 年改变一次星座的行星。所以它在摩羯座已经20年了，它正在进入水瓶座。冥王星是代表力量、强度、转变的行星，代表任何非常深刻和转变、死亡和重生的事物。它正在进入水瓶座，它掌管着你的金钱宫。所以我很想知道这对你有什么影响，因为我认为你可以获得很多权力并赚到非常多的钱。我是不知道啦，但你可能会有很多机会。你与金钱的整个关系将改变你对金钱的看法，以及你赚钱的方式。你会有很大的潜力，而且会变得更好。因为我觉得自从土星进入水瓶座和这场大流行以来，这在过去对你来说赚钱可能并不是轻松有趣的事，更多的是一场斗争。因为那是你的钱宫。我感觉你的钱一直没有流动。所以注意下接下来可能会有很大的变化。Lily: Exactly! What I actually feel that because I've just registered this business in Europe and then I used to have all my money in China and then now they change policy and then China's becoming really difficult. And then yeah, you are right. My money wasn't flowing. But I do feel like ever since I registered this business and I'm thinking about expanding my morning club, my coaching business, and I have this new product I'm going to launch soon. So I'm just really, really excited and I feel like there's so many different opportunities. And now I'm doing this new podcast series, introducing my friends and then talking about really positive stuff. 真的耶！我的真实感受是，因为我刚刚在欧洲注册了这家公司，我之前是把所有的钱都放在中国，然后现在他们改变了政策，然后我在中国赚钱变得非常困难。然后是的，你是对的。我的钱并没有流动。但我确实觉得，自从我注册了这家公司，我就在考虑扩大我的早起具乐部、我的教练业务，而且我很快就会推出一款新产品。所以我真的非常非常兴奋，我觉得有很多不同的机会。现在我正在做这个新的播客系列，介绍我的朋友，然后谈论非常积极的东西。Bella: That’s really exciting. Oh my god, I see that. Yeah. So by March things are gonna start flowing a lot better. And then by May you're gonna have chance for love and romance. But it's like, it's not just a short transit. I cannot remember how many months Jupiter's gonna be there, but it's gonna be there for at least the rest of the year. It's a long, maybe even longer. This is the most benefit planet in one of the best houses, which represents fun, romance, children, creativity, all those things. So you're gonna get a boost in that area of life. So what better area to get a boost in than the house of love, romance, and creativity. So you're gonna be feeling really, really good. That's a really good transit to have. And Saturn will be moving into your third house, which will make you really focused on becoming a better speaker, a better writer, a better presenter. But, and you're gonna be putting in a lot of effort and hard work into that area of your life too.这真的很令人兴奋。天哪，我明白了。是的。所以到三月，事情会开始好很多。然后到五月，你将有机会获得爱情和浪漫。但这不仅仅是一个短期的转变。我不记得木星会在那里待多少个月，但它至少今年都待在那里。甚至更久。这是最好的宫位之一中最有益的行星，它代表着乐趣、浪漫、孩子、创造力，所有这些东西。所以你会在生活的那个领域得到提升。那么还有什么比爱、浪漫和创造力更能让一个人感觉生气勃勃的呢。所以你会感觉非常非常好。这是一个非常好的转变。土星将进入你的第三宫，这会让你真正专注于成为更好的演讲者、更好的作家、更好的主持人。但是，你也会在你生活的那个领域付出很多努力。Lily: Wow. These three career that you just mentioned, they are my goals in life actually.哇。你刚才说的这三个职业，其实就是我的人生目标。Bella: Amazing. Yeah, you're gonna be su

加入5月22日开营的第三期迷你退休营：https://flywithlily.com/discover 或加主播微信：iflywithlily 验证消息：报名）If you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans. 如果你想要让老天爷笑，你就告诉他你的计划。Everything will be alright in the end. If it’s not alright; it’s not the end. 事情最终都会好的。如果不好，代表还不是终点。God doesn’t give us what we want; he gives us what we need. 老天爷不会给我们要的；他给我们需要的。（English Interview from 9:23）What about love??? Lily2023年的爱情运势呢？Bella: That sounds like it makes sense. See what's going on currently with the planets. Oh, there'll be plenty of opportunities for love for you. Plenty. But they might not come right away, to be honest. You might have to wait a little bit. Let's see, you might have to wait a little bit. I think now you're really focused on, so when Capricorn season starts, you are gonna be shining. You're gonna be the best version of yourself. You're gonna be glowing because all the planets are moving into your first house of self. You're gonna have Venus there. So you're gonna look more beautiful. You're gonna be more radiant than ever. People are gonna be drawn to you. So this could be a good time for flirtation, for putting yourself out there for having fun. People will be very drawn to you and magnetized to you. So it could be a good thing.这听起来很有道理。查看行星当前正在发生的事情。哦，你会有很多爱的机会。很多。但老实说，他们可能不会马上来。 你可能需要稍等片刻。让我们看看，你可能需要稍等片刻。我想现在你真的很专注，所以当摩羯座季节开始时，你会发光。 你会成为最好的自己。 你会发光，因为所有的行星都在进入你的第一宫。 你会在那里有金星守护。 所以你会看起来更漂亮。你会比以往任何时候都更加容光焕发。人们会被你吸引。因此，这可能是调情的好时机，让自己尽情享受乐趣。 人们会被你深深吸引。 所以这可能是一件好事。But I would say that now you are gonna be focused on your business, very much so. You may have had… you may have felt like money wasn't flowing as easily as maybe you would want it to, or maybe as easily as it was in a pastime that's gonna change next year because you had something blocking your money house, which was kind of frustrating for you. So maybe you weren't getting cash flow as easily. But once this Saturn leaves your house of wealth, you're gonna start to see more abundance in your life, more success. You're gonna also wanna be thinking about putting down roots somewhere. Do you think that you're gonna keep traveling for a while? Or are you focusing on maybe staying in one place?但我要说的是，现在你将专注于你的事业。你可能有过这样的经历，你可能觉得钱不像你希望的那样容易流动，或者可能像过去一样容易流动，明年（2023年）会改变，因为你有一些东西阻碍了你的金钱宫，这让你有点沮丧。所以也许你没有那么容易地获得现金流。但是一旦土星离开你的财富宫，你就会开始看到你的生活更加丰富，更加成功。你也会想在某个地方扎根。 你认为你会继续旅行一段时间吗？ 还是你专注于待在一个地方？Lily: I’m going to travel. Yeah. Oh, I have listed all the countries that I want to travel next year already.我要去旅行。 是的。 哦，我已经把明年想去的国家都列出来了。Bella: Really? Oh, what are they? 真的吗？是哪些呢？Lily: Five, six countries in Asia. So I'm leaving Guatemala before Christmas. So I'm going back to Iceland for a couple days, hanging out with my friends, celebrating Christmas. And then I will go to Japan. And from Japan, three months in Japan, probably one or two months in Korea. I want to move down to Vietnam, probably Thailand a little bit. I heard it's a great place for digital nomads. And then mm-hmm , go to Indonesia, maybe visit the Philippines, maybe go to India.亚洲五或六国。 所以我要在圣诞节前离开危地马拉。 所以我要回冰岛几天，和我的朋友出去玩，庆祝圣诞节。 然后我会去日本。 而来自日本，在日本三个月，在韩国大概一两个月。 我想搬到越南，可能是泰国。 我听说这是数字游牧的好地方。 然后去印尼，也许拜访菲律宾，或者去印度。Bella: Well maybe I'll join you in one of these places. That sounds amazing. Oh wait, I just saw something. Okay. In May of next year. Can you wait that long? Yes. You have Jupiter moving into your fifth house of love and romance and Jupiter. Woohoo. Yes. Jupiter is the planet of expansion, of luck, abundance. You're gonna feel very flirty. You're gonna wanna have a lot of fun. This is the perfect time to go out to date. That's the best time for love when Jupiter's in the fifth house. So that's gonna happen around May. If you can wait six more months, I mean it could happen before, but then there's gonna be a very strong potential for it. This is gonna be a great time.好吧，也许我会在这些地方之一加入你，听起来很棒。 哦，等等，我刚刚看到了什么。 好的。 明年（2023年）五月。 你能等那么久吗？你有木星进入你的第五宫爱情和浪漫和木星。 哇哦。 是的。 木星是扩张、幸运、丰富的行星。 你会觉得春天来了。 你会想玩得很开心的。 这是约会的最佳时机。 当木星在第五宫

"When you know yourself you are empowered. When you accept yourself you are invincible.”当你认识自己你就变得有力量了。当你接受自己你就无敌了！Lily’s birth ChartLily: so you have something for me, right? 你有东西要给我对不对？Bella: I do. I actually pulled up your birth chart. Yay. Because I wanted to know more about you now, what a birth chart is. It is a map of the stars and the planets on in the moment that you took your first breath on this planet on earth. So it's showing where the planets were exactly in that moment with the time, the date, the location, everything. And this birth chart can tell you a lot about who you are as a person. And as you know, you are a Sagittarius Sun. You were born during Sagittarius season when the sun was in that sign. But what's really interesting about it is we have three zodiac signs that really define who we are, which are called our big three, which is the sun, the moon, and the rising. So the moon, where the moon was on that particular day also gives you insight on who you are as a person. Now your moon was in Capricorn on the day you were born, and based on the time you were born, your rising sign is also Capricorn. So have you ever felt like you were not a full Sagittarius?对的。 事实上我调出了你的出生图。 因为我现在想更多地了解你。出生图是什么？它是您在地球上的这个星球上第一次呼吸时的恒星和行星地图。 所以它显示了行星在那个时刻的确切位置以及时间、日期、位置和所有内容。 这个出生图可以告诉你很多关于你是谁的信息。 就所知，您是射手座太阳。 您出生在射手座季节，当时太阳在射手座。 但真正有趣的是，我们有三个真正定义我们是谁的星座，它们被称为我们的三大星座，即太阳、月亮和上升。 所以月亮，那个特定日子的月亮也让你洞察到你是谁。 现在你出生那天月亮在摩羯座，根据你出生的时间，你的上升星座也是摩羯座。 那么你有没有觉得自己不是十足的射手座呢？Lily: Yes, exactly. I know I have a lot of Capricorns in my life. 是的，我知道在我的生命里（星盘）有很多的摩羯座。Bella: You have a lot of planets in Capricorn, which is great because that's Capricorn is an earth sign. And that makes you super grounded, super practical, super ambitious. Someone who's going to go after the thing that they want. Ok. So you have an advantage, , you have an advantage. And it's interesting though, because Sagittarius is one of the most optimistic signs. But Capricorn on the other hand is more of a pessimist, . So you could go both ways, , but that's good because it's like you're not too overly positive and optimistic. Your Capricorn energy comes in and puts things in check. So you're very grounded. Capricorn is a self-starter. They're all about starting new things, new ideas, projects, putting things into action. So it's very interesting how your Sagittarius sun with a Capricorn rising and moon and your rising sign is also how you look. And the thing about Capricorn risings, they get hotter and hotter as they age. They look better and better. , I actually made a video about that, about Capricorn Risings, they’re the ones who are gonna be flirting by the time they're gonna reach their prime when they're in their eighties , they're gonna be flirting with everyone at the你有很多的行星落在摩羯座，这很好，因为摩羯座是土象星座。 这让你超级脚踏实地，超级实用，超级雄心勃勃。 会去追求他们想要的东西的人。 所以你有优势，你有优势。 不过这很有趣，因为射手座是最乐观的星座之一。 但另一方面，摩羯座更像是一个悲观主义者。 所以你可以两全其美，但这很好，因为你似乎并不过分积极和乐观。 你的摩羯座能量进来并控制一切。 所以你很接地气。 摩羯座是一个主动的人。 他们都是关于开始新事物、新想法、新项目，并将事情付诸行动。 所以非常有趣的是，你的射手座太阳与摩羯座上升和月亮以及你的上升星座也是你的样子。 还有关于摩羯座上升的事情，随着年龄的增长，他们会变得越来越性感。 他们看起来状态会越来越好。 事实上，我制作了一个视频是关于上升星座落在摩羯座的人，那些在 80 岁达到巅峰时，会调情的人 ，他们会和所有人调情。Lily: Well. That’s what I’ve been telling my friends, I often think if I was a man, I would probably win over so many ladies. I would be like ladies boy, ladies is a ladies boy. ladies man. I would be ladies man. Yeah, just like I, I'm such a flirt, but as a woman I'm kind of more reserved. But I also see that I am more flirtatious when I get older now. I'm more confident. More confident. Yeah.这也是我一直告诉我的朋友的话，我经常想如果我是一个男人，我可能会赢得那么多女士。 我会像是一个花花公子。 我很会调情，但作为一个女人，我又比较内向害羞。 但我也发现，我现在年纪大了，更爱打情骂俏，因为我更有信心了。Bella: Well the thing about Capricorns is they're not very confident when they're young, but they develop their confidence through their accomplishments throughout life. So the more that they develop and mature and accomplish things, the better they feel about themselves. So that confidence definitely shows as they mature. So it's a re

加入5月8日开营的第三期迷你退休营：https://flywithlily.com/discoverAn unexamined life is not worth living.未经审视的生活是不值得过的。Socrates believed that living a life where you live under the rules of others, in a continuous routine without examining what you actually want out of it is not worth living. This illustration of a lifestyle is what Socrates would describe an unexamined life. 苏格拉底相信如果你活出别人给的规则或日复一日的生活而不去审视自己在生命中想要获得什么的话，这样的生活是不值得活的。How did you get into astrology?（英语访谈4:50开始）Lily: Okay, tell us more about yourself. 和我们多说下自己。Bella: All right. Well as you know, I have many dreams and many passions, , but astrology has always been something that fascinated me. But it felt, it never felt within reach. I always felt I needed to find someone, an astrologer to give me the answers. And it was really frustrating cuz I had gone to a few different astrologers and they all kind of had their own opinions, but conflicting views. And I'm like, why is this so difficult to just find answers? And I remember one day was, it was during 2020, I had always known about astrology, but I didn't study it deeply until the pandemic. There was some great conjunction of two planets coming together and I knew nothing about it. But all of a sudden I was so excited about these planets coming together. I was telling everyone, I was like, these planets are gonna align and da da da.好的。 如你所知，我有很多梦想和很多爱好，但占星术一直是让我着迷的东西。 它从未感觉触手可及。 我一直觉得我需要找一个人，一个占星家来给我答案。我去了几个不同的占星家，他们都有自己的观点，但观点相互矛盾，这真的很令人沮丧。 我就在想，为什么找到答案这么难？ 我记得有一天，那是在 2020 年期间，直到大流行之前我才深入研究这个我一直了解的占星术。 我发现了两颗行星发生了某种伟大的合相，而我之前对此一无所知。 但是突然之间，我对这些行星的聚集感到非常兴奋。 我告诉大家，我当时想，这些行星会对齐，哒哒哒。And I got so passionate and people were like, well, what does it mean? I was like, well, I'm not really sure, but I'm so excited that the planets are coming together. And then I stopped for a second and I'm like, wait a minute. Where is this excitement coming from? Where is this enthusiasm coming from? There has to be something to this. So I'm like, well, why don't I just become my own astrologer? Why don't I start studying and figure out what all these planetary alignments mean? Cuz there's obviously something in me that it's sparking this fire in me that I should follow. And I always knew that you should just follow the things that bring you joy, that bring you excitement. And that's exactly what I did. And I never knew it was gonna lead to what it has led to for me. So I'm really happy that I went after that.我变得如此热情，人们就像，嗯，这是什么意思？ 我当时想，好吧，我不太确定，但我很兴奋行星会聚在一起。 然后我停了一秒钟，我想，等一下。 这种兴奋从何而来？ 这种热情从何而来？ 这一定是有原因的。 所以我想，好吧，为什么我不成为我自己的占星家呢？ 我为什么不开始研究并弄清楚所有这些行星排列的含义呢？ 因为很明显，我内心有某种东西正在点燃我内心的火焰，我应该追随它。 我一直都知道，你应该追随那些带给你快乐、兴奋的事情。 而这正是我所做的。 而且我从来不知道它会导致它为我带来的结果。 所以我真的很高兴我在那之后去了。I explored that enthusiasm. I was like, where is this coming from? So that's how I got into astrology. But also just through dating and real feeling out, there's certain signs that I just connect with and it's always the same signs. And then there's certain signs that I just feel were on a different dimension or plane and it’s always the same sign. I'm like, there has to be something to this too. Why is it that I only get along with certain signs? It just opened up this Pandora's box. And then I learned so much more about myself, more about others. Now I feel more understanding and compassionate towards people because of astrology. And a lot of people, they don't believe in it or whatever. But once you get really deep and you start looking into the history of it and see how so many different crazy historical events happened while these planets were aligned, you start to notice patterns and then you learn about yourself and you're like, wow, this explains so much.我探索了那种热情。 我当时想，这是从哪里来的？ 这就是我进入占星术的方式。 但也只是通过约会和进入现实去真正感受的时候，我才接触到某些星座，而且总是相同的星座。 然后有一些星座表明我只是觉得在不同的维度或平面上，而我总是同一个星座。 我想，这也必须有一些东西。 为什么我只与某些星座相处比较融洽？ 它只是打开了这个潘多拉魔盒。 然后我对自己有了更多的了解，对他人的了解也更多了。 现在因为占星术，我对人有了更多的理解和同情。 很多人，他们不相信它或其他什么。 但是一旦你真正深入，你开始研究它的历史，看看当这些行星对齐时发生了多少不同的疯狂历史事件，你开始注意到模式，然后你了解你自己，你就像，哇， 这解释了很多。Now I know myself

I don’t believe in astrology; I’m a Sagittarius and we’re skeptical. - Arthur C. Clarke我不相信占星学；我是射手座的，我们都不轻易相信一件事。英语访谈：（3.45）Lily: Exactly. Exactly. But you know what before Guatemala, I was actually in Iceland. Iceland is the first world and it’s clean have everything. And then I was there doing volunteer work, but I was treated really nicely. I had my own room and people give food, three meals a day, even taking me out for dinner. And I was spoiled. And then since I got to Guatemala, I just have different challenges after the honeymoon you say the honeymoon period or honeymoon phase past. And in November I had so many difficult stuff that happened. First it’s, I was really glad that I made the move. I registered my company in Europe finally. But then two days later I found out that I lost 70,000 subscribers. Oh my God. It's a news newsletter that I was developing was doing, was making newsletters almost every week. And I lost, now lost it all, lost 70,000 subscribers.的确。但你知道在危地马拉之前，我实际上在冰岛。冰岛是第一世界的国家，而且很干净，什么都有。然后我在那里做志愿者工作，但我受到了很好的对待。我有自己的房间，人们提供食物，一日三餐，甚至带我出去吃晚饭。我被宠坏了。然后自从我到了危地马拉，蜜月期之后我遇到了不同的挑战。在 11 月，我遇到了很多困难的事情。首先，我真的很高兴我采取了行动。我终于在欧洲注册了我的公司。但两天后我发现我失去了 70,000 名订阅者。我的天啊。那是我开发的一个公众号，以前我几乎每周都在制作一条订阅文字。我失去了，失去了一切，失去了 70,000 名订阅者。And now I'm just a little bit worried how I'm going to survive with my new company. I was depending on that list, but since I'm working with other company, so I don't have that list anymore. And then I was just a little bit desperate. And then the school that I was studying with they changed my teacher. So I was angry with the school. And then I was angry with my teacher. My teacher didn't come to class and then was standing me up. She said she would come, but she never did. And then I had some problem with the family, so I had to move out, really in quickly. So I moved out. So I'm find a new place, but which is 15 minutes away from the center. So of course I'm very appreciative of this place, Guatemala. But I was in a really weird mood.现在我就有点担心我将如何让我的新公司生存下去。我之前依赖订阅号，但由于我现在有了其他公司合作，所以我不再有该订阅号了。然后我有点绝望。然后我就读的学校换了我的老师。所以我对学校很生气。然后我对我的老师很生气。我的老师没有来上课，还放我鸽子了。她说她会来，但她从来没有来。然后我和寄宿家庭发生了一些问题，所以我不得不搬出去，然后的搬离那个地方。所以我搬了出去。我找到了一个新地方，但距离市中心有 15 分钟的路程。所以我当然非常感谢危地马拉这个地方。但我的心情真的很奇怪。I was just like, oh, everything is just on top of me. And then on top of that, I broke up with my boyfriend in Iceland. He probably didn't think that I was his girlfriend, but I was always thinking that he's the boy that I really like. I would rather call him my boyfriend. But then just he ghosted me like three weeks. And then finally one day I got this text, he said that, oh, he was never meant to be serious with me. And then he had a good time and blah blah blah. So that was it. Yeah, I got really hurt. Another time to be broken up on the text was pretty horrible. But when I started to feel that he was ghosting me, I was watching your video. I remember that date. It was a November 25th , actually the November 24th. I feel like something is not right. But I actually got off the phone with him and then we had a really good chat on 21st, but it's really weird. 24th, I had this feeling that I don't know, something is probably not right. And then on the 25th I saw your video and I was just like, oh, you see this energy? Can you just kinda brushing up for us? 就在感觉事情不可能再更糟的时候，我又我在冰岛的男朋友分手了。他可能不认为我是他的女朋友，但我一直认为他是我真正喜欢的男孩。我宁愿称他为我的男朋友。但后来他就没有和我联系了三个星期。然后终于有一天我收到了他的短信，他说：他从来没有打算对我认真，但他玩得很开心，等等等等。就是这样。我真的很受伤。又一次在手机简信上被分手真是太可怕了。但当我开始觉得他故意不和我联系的时候，我就看到你的视频。我记得那个日期。那是 11 月 25 日 ，实际上是 11 月 24 日，我就觉得有些不对劲。但实际上我和他最后一次进行了非常愉快的通话在 21 日，但这真的很奇怪就在 24日的时候，我就有一种我说不上来的感觉，感觉到可能有些地方不对劲。然后在 25 日，我就看到了你的视频，我就恍然大悟了，你有看到这种能量了吗？你能帮我们梳理一下吗？Bella: Yeah. Oh, okay. Oh, okay, so there was a new moon. 好的，那是新月的时候。Lily: Yeah. You said that someone who is leaving at this time is never meant to be the person. 是的。你说那个时候离开的人，就不是真命天子。Bella: Exactly, exactly. Because we had just gone through eclipse season and in astrology, eclipses are the most powerful astrological

Remember, perspective can cause two people to look at the same thing and see two totally different things. 请记住，观点可以让两个人看一件事然后看到了两种截然不同的事。（英语访谈8:13开始）How was the Guatemala trip?Lily: Yeah. So I also just mentioned, you also mentioned that you were quite sick, almost like most of your trip in Guatemala. So how was the trip Guatemala for you now you are back home for almost a month now, right?是的。所以我刚才也提到，你也提到你病得很重，几乎在危地马拉旅行的大部分时间。现在你已经回家快一个月了，危地马拉之行对你来说感觉如何？Bella: Yeah, I've been back for a while. I wanted to go to Guatemala cause I went there in college for a study abroad and it changed my life. It was such a positive experience. But this time I went by myself first time traveling alone. I've traveled alone but on retreats to meet up with groups. But I was solo the whole time. First day I got there I got sick food poisoning or I might have accidentally had tap water. Who knows, maybe the ice throwing up. It是的，我已经回来一段时间了。我想去危地马拉，是因为我在大学里去那里留学，它改变了我的生命，一次非常积极的经历。但是这次我是一个人去的，第一次一个人旅行。我虽然曾独自旅行，但只有在静修会上与团体会面。但这次我一直都是一个人。我到那儿的第一天就得了食物中毒，或者我可能不小心喝了自来水。谁知道呢，也有可能是水里的冰。Lily: It is the welcome of Guatemala, everybody has to be sick. I had a goodbye gift the first time I was here. I had a goodbye gift, which I was having food poisoning on the last day. 这就是危地马拉的欢迎礼物，人人都有。生病。我第一次来这里时是收到了一份告别礼物。在我来离开之前我就食物中毒了。Bella: Oh my God. Apparently a nasty one. Oh no, you've been there before.我的天啊。不用说这真的很令人讨厌一个礼物。不会吧，你以前去过那里（危地马拉）。Lily: I was in Guatemala six, six years ago. 六年前我来过危地马拉。Bella: Oh my God, how interesting. And I went 10 years ago. It's funny how it brings people back.哦，天哪，多么有趣。我10年前去过。有趣的是它如何让人们回归。Lily: Yeah, definitely. 就是啊。Bella: It’s also Lake Atitlan where we were is also known to be a vortex if you've heard.你有听说过，我们所在的亚蒂特兰湖也是众所周知的能量的漩涡Lily: And you told me that. Yeah, I like that idea.你告诉我的。是的，我喜欢这个想法。Bella: Well I felt like it is because the energy felt very intense. I was feeling everything at a higher level, more strongly, more intensely. And I think that that's part of me getting sick. I think I was releasing something. I needed to purge some energy that was trapped in me because despite getting sick and having such a hard time, I did feel like a new person after the trip.我觉得因为我感觉能量非常强烈。我感觉一切都在更高的层次上，更强烈，更为激烈。我认为那是导致我生病的一部分原因。我想我在释放一些东西。我需要清除一些被困在我身上的能量，因为尽管生病了而且经历了如此艰难的时光，但旅行后我确实感觉像一个新人。Lily: Amazing. You did the perfect advertising there. 好棒啊。你甚至为危地马拉旅游做了完美的广告。Bella: . Yeah, sometimes we need to learn lessons hard in harder ways. Sometimes they're more valuable that way when we learn them through going through something because I feel much stronger after having that experience because I feel like I can survive anything now. Because being alone in a place where there's not a lot of people, there aren't many stores. I was on a very small, small village away from 是的，有时我们需要以更艰难的方式努力吸取教训。有时，当我们通过经历某些事情来学习它们时，这种方式会更有价值，因为在经历了那次体验后我感觉更强大了，因为我觉得我现在可以在任何事情上生存下来。因为我一个人在一个人不多的地方、一个没有很多商店的小村庄远离家乡去生活。Lily: Santa Cruz. 圣塔克鲁兹。Bella: Santa Cruz, yes. And there were no markets. Everything closed at five. There was no one at my Airbnb. It was the off season. So there weren't a lot of travelers and I was dying. It happened three times I got sick and finally I just said, I'm gonna go home. But I do, I felt like I survived some epic challenge or I just went through Survivor being on that show.圣塔克鲁兹，是的。而且没有市场。一切都在五点关门。我住的 Airbnb 民宿也没有其他人。因为正临淡季。所以没有很多旅人，我都快死了。我生病了三次，最后我只好说，我要回家了。但以我回家了，我觉得我在某种史诗般的挑战中幸存下来，就好像我刚刚经历了那个实境秀“幸存者”一样。Lily: . Wow, nice. So how's the life back since you got back to Los Angeles? You said that it was a lot of energy here, but is it changed since you got back?喔，不错哟。你回到洛杉矶后的生活怎么样？你说这里的能量很大，但是你回家后有变化吗？Bella: Well, something interesting happened and it's the same thing that happened the last time I visited Guatemala. I came back with this new appreciation for life and for all of the amenities and conveniences that we have in a city like Los Angeles that you often take for granted. Because when you go off to a small villag