#114. How well do you know yourself, REALLY? One of the most important lessons I’ve learned in my 20s is that knowing, loving, and supporting yourself is the key to confidence (and possibly an underrated antidote to loneliness). In this episode, we are talking about becoming your own best friend in 4 crucial steps. 




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A Guide To Becoming Your Own Best Friend

From Q&A’s and break up tips to simply navigating every stage of life, influencer-turned-entrepreneur Payton Sartain brings you the sisterly advice you didn’t know you needed and honest conversations you’ve always wanted. Whether it’s Payton alone or a conversation with a friend, Note to Self is a space to get grounded, explore new perspectives, and ultimately, empower yourself and others. Grab some wine or a mocktail and enjoy the conversation!

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#148. Today’s episode is a little darker than normal, but I need to discuss a topic that’s weighing heavily on me as of late: what to do when you’re at a mental health ‘rock bottom.’ Whether it’s you or someone else you know, having mental health lulls happens, especially in the world we live in today. Life can get overwhelming, so let’s talk about my plan to pull myself out of a mental low-point. 




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5 Steps To Take When You’re Mentally Struggling

#147. My much-anticipated episode with one of my best friend’s since college, Laurel Carrell Marsh is FINALLY here. In this ep, Laurel, one of the coolest, most confident people I’ve ever met is, teaching us how to practice confidence in dating, work, & everyday life. We talk about unapologetically going after what you want, and what that actually looks like IRL. We love Lallie! 




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It-Girl’s Guide to Confidence, with the Infamous Laurel Marsh

#146. Have you ever met someone who is just f*cking COOL? Just effortlessly themselves? When I think of the coolest people I know (namely, my friends), I realize they have a few personality traits in common. In this episode, I’m detailing specific traits that the coolest people I know possess, so you and I can join their ranks. 




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How To Become The Coolest Person You Know

#145. Tenured professor and Sex & Relationship Expert, Dr. Tara is on NTS to answer listener questions about sex, ranging from sweet to raunchy. This is an extra spicy episode y’all are going to love. 




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Your Spicy Sex Questions, Answered with Dr. Tara, Sex & Relationship Expert

#144. We’re doing a deep dive into acne & aging in today’s episode, thanks to the expertise of Danielle Gronich & Kayleigh Christina, founders of CLEARSTEM, one of my forever favorite skincare brands. We’re sharing how to audit your skincare routine and giving the step-by-step to your best skin ever.

 

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A Guide To Becoming Your Own Best Friend

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