#101. In this installment of ASK P, Payton answers listener questions about initial break-up anxiety, living with a partner with a different lifestyle, being stuck at a job you’re too good for, & more. Really, she’s just prescribing everyone a heavy dose of ‘villain era’ activity, as per usual. 




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From Q&A’s and break up tips to simply navigating every stage of life, influencer-turned-entrepreneur Payton Sartain brings you the sisterly advice you didn’t know you needed and honest conversations you’ve always wanted. Whether it’s Payton alone or a conversation with a friend, Note to Self is a space to get grounded, explore new perspectives, and ultimately, empower yourself and others. Grab some wine or a mocktail and enjoy the conversation!

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#146. Have you ever met someone who is just f*cking COOL? Just effortlessly themselves? When I think of the coolest people I know (namely, my friends), I realize they have a few personality traits in common. In this episode, I’m detailing specific traits that the coolest people I know possess, so you and I can join their ranks. 




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How To Become The Coolest Person You Know

#145. Tenured professor and Sex & Relationship Expert, Dr. Tara is on NTS to answer listener questions about sex, ranging from sweet to raunchy. This is an extra spicy episode y’all are going to love. 




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Your Spicy Sex Questions, Answered with Dr. Tara, Sex & Relationship Expert

#144. We’re doing a deep dive into acne & aging in today’s episode, thanks to the expertise of Danielle Gronich & Kayleigh Christina, founders of CLEARSTEM, one of my forever favorite skincare brands. We’re sharing how to audit your skincare routine and giving the step-by-step to your best skin ever.

 

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How To Get Your Best Skin Ever, with the Founders of CLEARSTEM, Danielle Gronich & Kayleigh Christina (BONUS EP)

#143. Note to Self’s 3rd birthday is in a couple days, and we are celebrating with an additional ASK P episode this month! We’re answering a few more questions than normal in this one, so buckle in. We talk relationships, kids, dating apps, and so much more. 




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Rebuilding Trust in a Relationship, Having Kids, Dating App Strategy, & More (ASK P)

#142. In today’s installment of ASK P, we’re fielding questions about workplace affairs, being a long-distance daughter, dating athletes and dealing with a life copycatter. 




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