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Gaslighting isn’t just a relationship issue—it happens at work too. In this powerful conversation, psychotherapist and author Farah Harris opens up about her own painful experience with a toxic hire who weaponized her teachings, blurred boundaries, and tried to undermine her confidence as a leader.
Buy The Book: The Color of Emotional Intelligence by Farah Harris
Fara's website: www.workingwelldaily.com
Together with Kwame Christian, Farah unpacks:
The subtle red flags of manipulation and gaslighting in the workplace
Why emotionally intelligent leaders are prime targets for toxic behavior
How to set healthy boundaries without losing your empathy
Practical tools to stay grounded, reclaim your power, and protect your well-being
If you’ve ever left a meeting or conversation feeling drained, confused, or doubting yourself—this episode is for you. Learn how to spot manipulation early, safeguard your leadership, and build healthier professional (and personal) relationships.
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Everything you've been told about reducing stress is wrong—and it might be making things worse.
In this episode, neuroscientist Rebecca Heiss reveals groundbreaking insights about why trying to eliminate stress at work often backfires. You'll learn the science-backed strategy to turn stress into your greatest professional advantage, how your beliefs about stress directly impact your health and performance, and practical tools you can start using immediately to transform workplace anxiety into lasting resilience. If you're tired of fighting a losing battle against stress, this conversation could change everything.
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I was recently a guest on Codie’s show, The Big Deal Podcast, and the episode turned out great. Codie generously let us repost that episode here, so all of you get to hear our conversation about negotiation, deal-making, leadership, entrepreneurship — and yes, relationships too. I know you’re going to love it. Without further ado, here’s my guest appearance with Codie Sanchez on The Big Deal Podcast.
If you’re ready to start owning businesses, escaping the rat race, and building your future, all the info is in the description. Get your tickets here https://contrarianthinking.biz/msmkwame and Use code KWAME100 to get a discount.
Most people fail in negotiations because they don’t prepare, confuse influence with persuasion, or push when they should pull—Giuseppe Conti, the world’s #1 Negotiation Guru, shows you how to avoid these mistakes.
Buy the book Negotiation + Influence = Success: Quick Lessons to Help You Win in Corporate Life
Connect with Giuseppe
Giuseppe's Website
Buy the book Negotiation + Influence = Success: Quick Lessons to Help You Win in Corporate Life
Link to the book: https://www.amazon.com/Negotiation-Influence-Success-Lessons-Corporate/dp/1761242334/ref=sr_1_1?crid=392XGR0AMO9T4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.F7HkXIft-5xkc6iRO_s8G6ynCUfOaIhZCA8vahRZDsz-HF19rS0Rm_J7VKmE7Rq6KDwJr6kz84JynlE4Vk8otIF0jUox0NwNuY-gv-OjigBP1tsPoq6zM7B6zOcwWVAmUtxjIoUCGyXvDUV2sJplAG3z3u29-fkPRMKoL4lw97Q7p9xve_k4T1HBGMjXXuYvytlqs-kRTB5Nb1zRAwYdLtA6lC4_Ib9FN1zSmA2X1fo.hvs0ljQBXf7KLPeldJNm-g3nqOdJagKRJkrFLbAdmAM&dib_tag=se&keywords=giuseppe+conti&qid=1757434164&sprefix=giuseppe+conti%2Caps%2C193&sr=8-1
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In this conversation with Kwame Christian, Giuseppe shares the proven strategies behind his decades of experience teaching negotiation and influence at top universities and advising Fortune 500 companies.
What you’ll learn in this episode:
The critical mindset shift between influencing internally vs. negotiating externally
Why lack of preparation is the #1 mistake people make—and how to fix it
How to balance anchoring with empathy to strengthen deals and relationships
The role of AI as your “smart intern” in negotiation preparation
Why making the other party feel satisfied can be as valuable as the deal itself
Why do we keep ending up in toxic relationships — even when we know better?
Buy the book Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--and How to Find Our Way Back
In this powerful conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with psychologist and trauma therapist Dr. Ingrid Clayton to explore the hidden reason behind this pattern: the fawning trauma response.
Ingrid shares how complex trauma rewires the nervous system, why simply “setting boundaries” often doesn’t work, and how shame keeps us stuck in cycles of people-pleasing. Together, they unpack the science of safety, what it really takes to break free, and why healing is less about quick tips and more about reconnecting with yourself.
If you’ve ever wondered why saying “no” feels impossible — or why you’re drawn to the very relationships that hurt you — this episode will change how you see yourself and your story.
Connect with Ingrid
BOOK: FAWNING: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--and How to Find Our Way Back
INSTAGRAM AND YOUTUBE:
https://www.instagram.com/ingridclaytonphd/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3PvWTgJMirURfgHWj3h28g
WEBSITE: https://www.ingridclayton.com/
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TL;DR what is folk?
folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build
real relationships and close deals.
Why is folk better?
folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use.
folk’s value proposition?
folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on
growing your service business.
folk’s tagline
folk, like the sales assistant your team never had
What product details will most excite your audience?
• Our seamless integrations with social channels
• Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y
ou
• Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up
s
Useful links & resources
• folk's website
• folk's Linkedin
• Simo, our CEO’s, LinkedIn
• folk's Youtube
Contact ANI
Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company
Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn
negotiateanything.com
Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The future of work is here — and it’s neurodivergent.
You’ll discover:
Why assumption is the risk when it comes to managing people
How neurodiversity shapes communication, conflict resolution, and innovation
The real reason some body language cues can be misleading — and how to avoid costly misreads
How leaders can build psychological safety so everyone can bring their authentic selves to work
What happens to companies that fail to adapt (and why Gen Z won’t work for them)
Whether you lead a team, negotiate deals, or simply want to understand people better, this episode will challenge the way you see communication forever.
Connect with Laura
lauraganthony.com
incompliance.com
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Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company
Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn
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Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if your body is sabotaging your negotiation — and you don’t even know it?
In this episode, legendary FBI agent and behavioral expert Joe Navarro reveals the subtle cues that expose confidence, weakness, and intent — long before words are spoken. With 25 years in the FBI, Joe shares stories from counterintelligence missions, elite spy-catching operations, and high-stakes negotiations where every movement mattered.
You’ll learn:
– The nonverbal mistake that ruins deals before they start
– How to command authority without saying a word
– Why “benign curiosity” is the ultimate secret weapon in difficult conversations
– The psychological patterns all powerful communicators share
Whether you’re negotiating with a client, a boss, or a narcissist — this episode will change how you see people… and how they see you.
Discount code
"KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months
TL;DR what is folk?
folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build
real relationships and close deals.
Why is folk better?
folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use.
folk’s value proposition?
folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on
growing your service business.
folk’s tagline
folk, like the sales assistant your team never had
What product details will most excite your audience?
• Our seamless integrations with social channels
• Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y
ou
• Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up
s
Useful links & resources
• folk's website
• folk's Linkedin
• Simo, our CEO’s, LinkedIn
• folk's Youtube
Connect with Joe
Be Exceptional Book
Follow Joe on LinkedIn
Contact ANI
Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company
Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn
negotiateanything.com
Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Colin M. Fisher, author of The Collective Edge: Unlocking the Secret Power of Groups, to explore the hidden psychology of group dynamics. From the dinner table to the boardroom, every group is a negotiation — balancing individual goals with collective success.
You’ll learn:
Why adding more brains to a meeting often creates more problems.
The “Goldilocks rule” for group size (and why 4–5 people may be perfect).
How psychological safety transforms conflict into collaboration.
Practical strategies to prevent disengagement and get real buy-in.
How family conflicts mirror team conflicts at work — and how to resolve both.
Whether you’re leading a team, joining a new group, or navigating tricky family dynamics, this conversation will help you see groups in a whole new way.
Connect with Colin M. Fisher
colinmfisher.com
Buy now: The Collective Edge - Unlocking the Secret Power of Groups
Contact ANI
Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company
Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn
negotiateanything.com
Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Discount code
"KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months
TL;DR what is folk?
folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build
real relationships and close deals.
Why is folk better?
folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use.
folk’s value proposition?
folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on
growing your service business.
folk’s tagline
folk, like the sales assistant your team never had
What product details will most excite your audience?
• Our seamless integrations with social channels
• Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y
ou
• Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up
s
Useful links & resources
• folk's website
• folk's Linkedin
• Simo, our CEO’s, LinkedIn
• folk's Youtube
Energy beats strategy — and former Siemens & Alcoa CEO Klaus Kleinfeld reveals the playbook to end burnout, regain focus, and execute at the highest level.
In this conversation, Klaus Kleinfeld breaks down why energy management—not tactics—separates elite leaders from exhausted teams. You’ll hear how to turn purpose into a “laser,” control emotions under pressure, win buy‑in without formal authority, and build routines that actually stick when life is chaotic.
Connect with Klaus Kleinfeld:
Buy the Book: Leading to Thrive: Mastering Strategies for Sustainable Success in Business and Life
Follow Klaus Kleinfeld on LinkedIn
Contact ANI
Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company
Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn
negotiateanything.com
Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Discount code
"KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months
TL;DR what is folk?
folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build
real relationships and close deals.
Why is folk better?
folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use.
folk’s value proposition?
folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on
growing your service business.
folk’s tagline
folk, like the sales assistant your team never had
What product details will most excite your audience?
• Our seamless integrations with social channels
• Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y
ou
• Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up
s
Useful links & resources
• folk's website
• folk's Linkedin
• Simo, our CEO’s, LinkedIn
• folk's Youtube
In this episode, you’ll learn:
The Energy Stack: body, mind (emotional + mental), and spirit—and how each fuels performance.
Purpose as a Force Multiplier: why purpose focuses energy like a laser and makes hard work feel lighter.
Emotion Control Under Fire: observer mindset (“interesting…”), the Buddha “gift” story, and box breathing (4‑4‑4‑4) you can use mid‑negotiation.
Beating Burnout with Micro‑Habits: morning training, sleep + light discipline, intermittent fasting, and travel resets that keep leaders sharp.
Compartmentalization & Presence: shutting the “monkey mind” to be fully with family or fully at work—on purpose.
Buy‑In Without Authority: build a burning platform (competition + customer reality), tell human stories, and pass the “Saturday morning” test.
#Leadership #Burnout #HighPerformance #Energy #Purpose #EmotionalIntelligence #Negotiation #ChangeManagement #TeamCulture #KlausKleinfeld #Siemens #Alcoa #CEO #Mindset #Routines
AI can write, edit, even cast—but it still can’t do what made TV legend Bonnie Hammer unstoppable: read the room.
In this candid conversation with Kwame Christian, Bonnie unpacks the human meta‑skill behind great leadership and negotiation—reading people and context in real time—and how it powered her “Blue Skies” era at USA & SYFY (Monk, Psych, Burn Notice). She shares why “fake it till you make it” fails (and what to do instead), how to hire for humility and team-first culture, why presence matters (“be in the room”), and how to build a spider‑web career that thrives through industry upheaval, streaming shakeups, and the rise of AI.
What you’ll learn
Reading the room: the irreplaceable skill that beats AI and drives better decisions, deals, and teams.
Face it till you make it: Bonnie’s upgrade to the old career cliché—and how to apply it immediately.
Hiring & culture: spotting humility, collaboration, and truth‑tellers (not cheerleaders).
Media shifts: streaming, bundling, budget pressure—and what creators should do now.
AI & guardrails: what to protect, what to embrace, and where human storytelling wins.
Presence & influence: first impressions, listening deeply, and speaking the language of the room.
Mentorship that works: why challenging mentors accelerate growth (Barry Diller story inside).
Women at work: the most damaging “lie” and how to replace it with actionable strategy.
Discount code
"KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months
TL;DR what is folk?
folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build
real relationships and close deals.
Why is folk better?
folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use.
folk’s value proposition?
folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on
growing your service business.
folk’s tagline
folk, like the sales assistant your team never had
What product details will most excite your audience?
• Our seamless integrations with social channels
• Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y
ou
• Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up
s
Useful links & resources
• folk's website
• folk's Linkedin
• Simo, our CEO’s, LinkedIn
• folk's Youtube
Keywords: Bonnie Hammer, reading the room, negotiation, leadership, team culture, hiring, mentorship, women at work, Blue Skies brand, USA Network, SYFY, Monk, Psych, Burn Notice, streaming strategy, AI in media, presence, career advice, spider‑web career, truth‑teller mentors, Kwame Christian, Negotiate Anything Podcast
Connect with Bonnie
Buy Bonnie's new book, 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work
bonnie-hammer.com
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Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company
Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn
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Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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