After Bedtime with Big Little Feelings

'F*ck Around and Find Out' Parenting Is Trending… Should You Try It?


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This week, The Wall Street Journal declared the death of gentle parenting and the rise of “F*ck Around and Find Out” discipline. One mom proudly threw her teenager, fully clothed, into a pond for spraying her with a water gun. Another claimed, “My kid is tougher than yours.” The internet is eating it up. Gentle parenting is getting dragged. FAFO parenting is trending. And if you’re a parent in 2025? You’re probably wondering:
What actually works?


In this episode, we cut through the noise with the science. You’ll learn:


• What the WSJ article got right - and what it missed


• The truth about authoritarian, permissive, and authoritative parenting


• Why fear-based parenting shuts down your child’s brain


• How to raise resilient, emotionally healthy kids without swinging to extremes


No hot takes. No TikTok drama. Just decades of research turned into real-life parenting you can actually do that builds better behavior and long term resilience.


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