This episode of  Narcissistic Relationship Dynamics  delves deeper into the intricate dance of narcissistic dynamics, revealing a carefully crafted blueprint of elevation and devaluation with a hidden purpose. The focus shifts to the psychology of  narcissistic relating, addressing the question of what needs to happen for improvement to occur. The episode provides a detailed case study, showcasing tools and techniques employed to facilitate a transformation from narcissistic ways of relating to a more loving approach. The emphasis is on moving from perceiving others as part objects to whole objects, demonstrating a tangible path to healthier relationship dynamics.

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For more information about Dr. Mazzella’s psychoanalytic affiliations and membership in The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA) -which is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training- please click here

For a deeper dive into narcissism, I now offer courses approved for continuing education credits, available [here]. As a NYS Education Department-approved provider (#SW-0211), licensed social workers in New York can earn credits through these programs. Also, these courses are a wonderful opportunity for those who may simply want to further educate themselves on all issues related to narcissistic and personality disorder dynamics.

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In this episode, Dr. Anthony Mazzella explores the concept of the omnipotent narcissistic object relationship and how it affects relationships. He provides examples of omnipotent narcissistic relating and discusses the origins of this way of relating. Dr. Mazzella also delves into psychoanalytic theory and social media content to gain a deeper understanding of narcissistic relationships. He examines the shift from "love bombing" to devaluing. The importance of sustaining the omnipotent narcissistic object relationship is emphasized, along with the undercurrent of separation. Dr. Mazzella concludes by discussing how to work with and change the narcissistic object relationship.

Takeaways

Narcissists have a grandiose sense of self and relate to others as need-gratifying objects.

The shift from a blissful union to devaluing often occurs due to a sense of vulnerability and a need to destroy loving efforts.

Understanding childhood experiences and the undercurrent of separation is crucial in working with and changing the narcissistic object relationship.

Higher Listenings: Joy for Educators
A new podcast from Top Hat delivering ideas, relief, and joy to the future of teaching.

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To read more about the various facets of narcissism please click here

If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.

For more information about Dr. Mazzella’s psychoanalytic affiliations and membership in The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA) -which is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training- please click here

For a deeper dive into narcissism, I now offer courses approved for continuing education credits, available [here]. As a NYS Education Department-approved provider (#SW-0211), licensed social workers in New York can earn credits through these programs. Also, these courses are a wonderful opportunity for those who may simply want to further educate themselves on all issues related to narcissistic and personality disorder dynamics.

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In this episode, I delve into the characteristics of paranoid narcissism, emphasizing their treatability and offering insights on how to relate to individuals with this personality type. I highlight their unique blend of narcissistic traits and pronounced signs of suspiciousness. Drawing from psychoanalytic theory, I explore the origins of paranoid narcissism, which sheds light on the early experiences that contribute to this personality cluster. Ultimately, the episode underscores the importance of addressing feelings of shame and humiliation as a key aspect of treatment for individuals with paranoid narcissistic tendencies.

Higher Listenings: Joy for Educators
A new podcast from Top Hat delivering ideas, relief, and joy to the future of teaching.

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

To read more about the various facets of narcissism please click here

If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.

For more information about Dr. Mazzella’s psychoanalytic affiliations and membership in The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA) -which is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training- please click here

For a deeper dive into narcissism, I now offer courses approved for continuing education credits, available [here]. As a NYS Education Department-approved provider (#SW-0211), licensed social workers in New York can earn credits through these programs. Also, these courses are a wonderful opportunity for those who may simply want to further educate themselves on all issues related to narcissistic and personality disorder dynamics.

You can follow The Narcissism Decoder on:

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Relating to Covert Narcissists: Insights and Strategies delves deep into the world of covert narcissism through a psychoanalytic lens. Join me as I explore the descriptive factors, analyze the underlying causes from a psychoanalytic perspective, and shed light on the lifesaving mode of narcissistic repair. Gain valuable insights on how to navigate relationships with these individuals. 

Higher Listenings: Joy for Educators
A new podcast from Top Hat delivering ideas, relief, and joy to the future of teaching.

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To read more about the various facets of narcissism please click here

If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.

For more information about Dr. Mazzella’s psychoanalytic affiliations and membership in The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA) -which is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training- please click here

For a deeper dive into narcissism, I now offer courses approved for continuing education credits, available [here]. As a NYS Education Department-approved provider (#SW-0211), licensed social workers in New York can earn credits through these programs. Also, these courses are a wonderful opportunity for those who may simply want to further educate themselves on all issues related to narcissistic and personality disorder dynamics.

You can follow The Narcissism Decoder on:

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In this episode, we delved into the origins and dynamics of the punitive superego, intricately linked with perfectionism, grandiosity and narcissism. Drawing on Bion's (renowned psychoanalyst)  theory of beta and alpha functioning, we illuminated how individuals may project inner conflicts onto external authorities, creating a fear of punitive consequences. By detailing the nuanced interplay between perfectionism, punitive superegos, and Bion's conceptual framework, we attempted to demonstrate the practical application of this theory.

Higher Listenings: Joy for Educators
A new podcast from Top Hat delivering ideas, relief, and joy to the future of teaching.

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

To read more about the various facets of narcissism please click here

If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.

For more information about Dr. Mazzella’s psychoanalytic affiliations and membership in The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA) -which is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training- please click here

For a deeper dive into narcissism, I now offer courses approved for continuing education credits, available [here]. As a NYS Education Department-approved provider (#SW-0211), licensed social workers in New York can earn credits through these programs. Also, these courses are a wonderful opportunity for those who may simply want to further educate themselves on all issues related to narcissistic and personality disorder dynamics.

You can follow The Narcissism Decoder on:

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In this episode on perfectionism, also known in psychoanalytic terms as grandiosity, we unraveled the complex dynamics of this enduring trait. Perfectionism, defined by relentless pursuit of flawlessness and self-worth contingent on meeting exceptionally high standards, is a predominate and pervasive narcissistic trait. Through a psychoanalytic lens, we delved into object constancy, integration, and drew from Margaret Mahler's separation-individuation theory.  An example was provided to illustrate how these theories come into play when interacting with someone exhibiting narcissistic traits.

Higher Listenings: Joy for Educators
A new podcast from Top Hat delivering ideas, relief, and joy to the future of teaching.

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

To read more about the various facets of narcissism please click here

If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.

For more information about Dr. Mazzella’s psychoanalytic affiliations and membership in The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA) -which is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training- please click here

For a deeper dive into narcissism, I now offer courses approved for continuing education credits, available [here]. As a NYS Education Department-approved provider (#SW-0211), licensed social workers in New York can earn credits through these programs. Also, these courses are a wonderful opportunity for those who may simply want to further educate themselves on all issues related to narcissistic and personality disorder dynamics.

You can follow The Narcissism Decoder on:

https://www.instagram.com/thenarcissism.decoder/

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A brief introduction to the goals and mission of the Narcissism Decoder Podcast is discussed. In each episode we will delve into a distinct facet of narcissism through a psychoanalytic lens. From this vantage point, we embark on a journey to unearth methods for nurturing empathy and comprehension while navigating relationships with individuals exhibiting narcissistic traits. Through thoughtful strategies, the ultimate goal is to foster personal growth and extend support to those impacted.

To read more about the various facets of narcissism please click here

If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.

For more information about Dr. Mazzella’s psychoanalytic affiliations and membership in The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA) -which is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training- please click here

For a deeper dive into narcissism, I now offer courses approved for continuing education credits, available [here]. As a NYS Education Department-approved provider (#SW-0211), licensed social workers in New York can earn credits through these programs. Also, these courses are a wonderful opportunity for those who may simply want to further educate themselves on all issues related to narcissistic and personality disorder dynamics.

You can follow The Narcissism Decoder on:

https://www.instagram.com/thenarcissism.decoder/

https://www.tiktok.com/@thenarcissismdecoder

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