In It: Raising Kids Who Learn Differently

Sibling dynamics are challenging for all families. But when one sibling has a learning and thinking difference and the other one doesn’t, things can be even tougher.  

In this episode of In It, hosts Gretchen Vierstra and Rachel Bozek talk with Becca. She’s a mom of two kids, one with ADHD and one without. Becca shares how she’s finding balance in parenting kids with different needs. And how her kids interact with one another.

This is part one of a two-part series. In the next episode, we’ll get tips on managing sibling dynamics from psychologist Dr. Ari Tuckman.  

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• How to talk with kids about their sibling’s challenges
• 7 ways to help kids build a strong relationship
• ADHD in high school: 4 signs you might see

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If your child is struggling at school or at home, and you think it may be related to ADHD or a learning difference, communication is key. Talking with your child’s pediatrician can be a first step to getting support. But sometimes it’s hard to know what to say to your child’s doctor.  

In this episode of In It, hosts Gretchen Vierstra and Rachel Bozek welcome behavioral pediatrician Dr. Nerissa Bauer. Dr. Bauer offers tips and strategies for talking with your child’s pediatrician about ADHD, anxiety, and more. Tune in to get her advice on questions to ask, materials to bring, and how to make the most of your appointment.

To find a transcript for this episode and more resources, visit the episode page at Understood. 

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• 5 steps to work with your pediatrician when your child is struggling
• How to organize your child’s IEP binder
• Learning disabilities and ADHD: Resources for patient education
• Take N.O.T.E.: Are you wondering why your child is struggling?
• Check out Dr. Nerissa’s website, Let’s Talk Kids Health 

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Tantrums and meltdowns are challenges all parents face. But for families of kids who learn and think differently, they can be even more of a struggle.

In this episode, hosts Gretchen Vierstra and Rachel Bozek welcome back Dr. Andrew Kahn, the host of the first season of Understood’s What Now? A Parent’s Guide to Tantrums and Meltdowns. Tune in to get his expert advice on dealing with tantrums and meltdowns. Learn how practicing strategies ahead of time can help you manage outbursts in the moment. And find out what calming techniques can help.

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• What Now? A Parent’s Guide to Tantrums and Meltdowns
• 5 tips for taking a mutual time-out with your child
• Check out Understood’s guide to tantrums and meltdowns

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Most parents start their parenting journey with ideas of what it will be like, and what their kids will be like. But what happens when your expectations don’t match reality? How do things change when you find out your child has a learning or thinking difference?  

In this episode, hosts Gretchen Vierstra and Rachel Bozek welcome Suzie Glassman, a writer and mom of two kids. Suzie shares how her parenting changed after her daughter was diagnosed with ADHD and dyslexia.  

Find out how she parents to meet the needs of the kids she has, rather than the kids she thought she’d have. Learn how she celebrates her kids for who they are, and how she’s letting go of parenting shame.

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• Parenting guilt: Tips to get past it
• Dyslexia: Ways to help your child at home

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Puberty can be a challenging time for kids and their families. But what about if your child going through puberty has ADHD? 

In this episode, hosts Gretchen Vierstra and Rachel Bozek take a deep dive into puberty and ADHD. First, they hear from three parents of teens with ADHD to find out what it’s like to be “in it.”

Then, they welcome returning guest Dr. Roberto Olivardia, a clinical psychologist and Understood expert. Listen in as he explains how ADHD and puberty can affect each other.

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• ADHD and puberty
• ADHD and mood swings
• 5 ways teens with ADHD take risks — and why
• Check out Understood’s collection of ADHD resources  
• Plus, hear more from Roberto on this In It episode: ADHD in the family: When your child’s diagnosis leads to your own

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From the talk-to-text feature on a phone to a lap desk, many people use assistive technology (AT) every day. For kids who learn and think differently, assistive tech can make learning easier. But how do you know if it’s something your child needs?  

In this episode, hosts Gretchen Vierstra and Rachel Bozek welcome returning guest Shira Moskovitz. Shira, a special education teacher and technology specialist, shares some of the ways assistive tech can help. Tune in to learn about the different types of AT, how they work, and how to figure out if they’re right for your child.

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• 5 questions to consider when choosing assistive technology tools
• Assistive technology: Questions to ask the school
• Check out Understood’s Assistive technology resource hub
• Shira Moskovitz on a Season 4 episode of In It: “Homework battles: What really matters”

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While the holiday season can be exciting, it can also stimulate the senses in a way that makes it less fun for some kids. For kids with sensory processing challenges, the holidays can be overwhelming.

In this episode, hosts Gretchen Vierstra and Rachel Bozek welcome returning guest Keri Wilmot. Keri, a pediatric occupational therapist, shares some of the ways the holidays can bring on sensory overload. From costumes to new foods and more, Keri has strategies to help you and your child enjoy the holidays.

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• How to make a sensory travel kit for your child
• Picky eating: Why it happens and how to help
• Sensory processing challenges fact sheet

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Bonus episode! Introducing Understood’s newest podcast: What Now? A Parent’s Guide. Tune in for a peek at Season 1, which is all about tantrums and meltdowns. Listen to host Dr. Andrew Kahn as he shares practical tips on how to project calm, even when you don’t feel it.  

Get a transcript of this show and check out more episodes from What Now? A Parent’s Guide at u.org/podcasts.  

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Why do some kids bully others? And why do some kids seem to be targets of bullying, time and time again?  

In this episode, hosts Gretchen Vierstra and Rachel Bozek talk with parenting coach Caroline Maguire, author of Why Will No One Play with Me?: The Play Better Plan to Help Children of All Ages Make Friends and Thrive. She specializes in social-emotional learning and raising kids with ADHD.  

Tune in to learn about both sides of bullying, and what families can do to help. Plus, hear Caroline share her own story of being bullied, and how that experience shapes her work.  

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• Bullying, learning differences, and how to help
• What to do when your child is the bully 
• StopBullying.gov
• Plus, check out Caroline’s book, Why Will No One Play With Me? 

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Why do kids sometimes refuse to go to school? And what can families do about it, both in the moment and to help avoid it in the future?

In this episode, hosts Gretchen Vierstra and Rachel Bozek hear from Erin, a returning guest whose family has struggled with school refusal challenges for years.  

The hosts also talk with psychologist and Understood expert Dr. Andrew Kahn, who shares some of the reasons that could be behind a child’s school refusal. He also offers tips and strategies for turning the situation around. 

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• Download: Find out why your child doesn’t like going to school
• Self-care for kids: 6 ways to self-regulate
• Listen to Erin’s first conversation on In It, about her son’s school refusal journey.

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