This week on The SoberFitGirl Podcast, head coach and co-host Ewa sits down to share the story she’s never told in full: how she walked away from the party version of herself, stopped living for everyone else, and finally learned to choose herself.

Ewa opens up about the years she spent wrapped in her party identity—the girl who always showed up, always went harder, always said yes. Behind it all was a deep pattern of people-pleasing: keeping the peace, keeping the fun going, keeping up an image that exhausted her and was getting her closer and closer to rock bottom.

Sobriety forced her to slow down and face what she’d been avoiding. She talks about the uncomfortable but liberating process of stepping back from old relationships, rewriting her boundaries, and sitting with the silence that used to scare her. She shares what it was like to look at past relationships through sober eyes and finally understand the “why” behind so many of her choices.

And then she brings us into her present — a place where she feels grounded, proud, and connected to herself in a way she never imagined.Today, Ewa stands in a version of her life she once couldn’t imagine—one built on self-respect, boundaries, and a calm confidence that comes from sobriety.

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In this episode of The SoberFitGirl Podcast, host and SoberFitGirl founder Kathryn gets real about her story. She kicks things off by looking back at the turning points and hidden struggles that shaped her life long before she decided to get sober.

Kathryn chats about what those years actually felt like—the constant hustle, the exhaustion she kept brushing off, and the pressure to appear fine even when things felt messy underneath. She opens up about losing her father, a loss that shook the foundation of her life and amplified everything she had been avoiding. Kathryn shares how his passing forced her to confront the grief she’d been numbing, the emotions she didn’t feel equipped to face, and the ways that pain quietly influenced her relationship with alcohol.

She talks about the moments that made her realize something needed to change and how finally choosing to step away from alcohol became the start of a completely different chapter. Sobriety, for her, wasn’t just about removing something—it became the doorway to healing, processing her loss, and beginning to rebuild herself with honesty and compassion.

Kathryn then shares how sobriety transformed her life from the inside out—helping her rebuild confidence, find clarity, reconnect with her body, and show up more fully in every part of her life. She also opens up about how her journey inspired the creation of the SoberFitGirl community, a space built for support, real conversations, and celebrating every win, big or small.

If you’re sober-curious, questioning your relationship with alcohol, or just in need of a little inspiration, this episode is a reminder that change doesn’t have to be perfect to be powerful—and that life can get a whole lot better than you imagined.

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In this episode of the SoberFitGirl Podcast, Kathryn and Ewa unpack one of the most common conversations in the sober space — the difference between being sober curious and being fully sober, and how to track your progress without falling into the shame spiral of perfectionism.

They talk about how comparison can sneak in — whether you’re on day 3 or day 300 — and why sobriety isn’t a competition or a straight line. You’ll hear real talk about the purpose behind day counting, how to use it as motivation (not punishment), and what to do if you drink or “reset” without getting stuck in guilt.

This episode is a reminder that every single day of awareness counts. Whether you’re just starting to question your drinking, exploring moderation, or fully alcohol-free, you’re showing up for yourself — and that matters.

 In this episode:

Sobriety isn’t about perfection — it’s about honesty, growth, and learning to trust yourself again.

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In this episode, Kathryn and Ewa break down how to stay sober, confident, and grounded during the holidays. This season brings pressure, family dynamics, old habits, and expectations that can make not drinking feel harder than usual. The SoberFitGirls walk you through exactly how to prepare, what to expect, and how to handle social situations without compromising your goals.

You’ll learn how to understand your holiday triggers, set clear boundaries, make a plan before you go out, and stay connected to your “why” when things feel overwhelming. We also cover two of the most effective sobriety tools: Play the Tape Forward and Play the Tape Backward. These mindset practices help you see the real outcome of drinking before it happens and build self-trust after you move through a craving sober.

This episode will help you show up as the version of yourself you want to be, protect your peace, and get through holiday events without alcohol. If you want to enter the new year feeling proud, clear, and consistent, this conversation will support you every step of the way.

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In this episode of the SoberFitGirl Podcast, Kathryn and Ewa explore one of the hardest parts of sobriety — letting go of the guilt and shame from the past.

We all have a version of ourselves we cringe thinking about:

the drunk nights, the decisions we regret, the people we chased, the moments we abandoned ourselves.

But instead of living in shame, what if we chose gratitude?

What if the version of you who drank, numbed, binged, or checked out…

was actually the one who kept you alive long enough to become the version you are now?

In this episode, we talk about:

You don’t heal by hating who you used to be.

You heal by thanking her.

Because she was doing the best she could with what she had.

She survived - so YOU could grow.

Tune in to learn how to forgive yourself, let go, and move into your sober era with compassion, softness, and gratitude.

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In this episode of the SoberFitGirl Podcast, Kathryn and Ewa break down what it really means to choose yourself in sobriety — even when it feels uncomfortable, selfish, or unfamiliar.

For so many of us, drinking was tied to people pleasing:

Sobriety forces you to face the truth:

You don’t have a drinking problem — you have a self-abandonment problem.

Kathryn and Ewa share real stories about:

This episode is your permission slip to take up space, protect your peace, and build a life that makes you genuinely happy — not just liked.

Because choosing yourself isn’t selfish.

It’s self-respect.

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In this episode, Kathryn and Ewa get real about the connection between food and alcohol — the habits, the emotional triggers, and the way both can show up when we’re stressed, lonely, overwhelmed, or trying to feel something.

They talk about how drinking and eating can become coping mechanisms, the “all-or-nothing” mindset, and that moment when alcohol lowers your inhibitions and suddenly you're elbows-deep in Uber Eats, snacks, or binge eating. They share their own stories — from late-night emotional eating after drinking to waking up with anxiety, shame, and cravings that weren’t even about hunger.

Together, they break down:

You’ll learn how to reconnect to your body, build trust with yourself, and create routines that support feeling good — without restricting or obsessing.

This episode reminds you that food isn’t the enemy. Alcohol isn’t the solution.

Feeling good is the goal.

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In this episode, Kathryn and Ewa dive into one of the most powerful parts of getting and staying sober — defining your why. It’s easy to say you want to stop drinking, but lasting change happens when you get brutally honest about what’s at stake — and what your life could look like in five years if you don’t make a change.

They share their own personal “whys” and how fear, rock-bottom moments, and brutal honesty became the wake-up calls that got them sober. Together, they unpack the difference between surface goals (“I don’t want hangovers”) and the deeper truth underneath (“I want peace, confidence, and self-respect”).

 Tune in to hear:

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In this episode, Kathryn, Ewa, and Maria Margolies (@holixtic) have a real, unfiltered conversation about sex, intimacy, and connection in sobriety at the Drinks With Benefits Festival. They talk about how early experiences shaped the way they approached relationships, and what it’s like to explore physical and emotional connection without alcohol in the mix.

Maria shares how her journey with movement and body awareness helped her rebuild confidence and trust in herself, while Kathryn and Ewa open up about how sobriety has changed the way they date, communicate, and experience intimacy.

✨ Tune in to hear:

How sobriety changes sex and dating

The truth about early sexual experiences and self-worth

What real connection feels like without alcohol

How to feel confident and comfortable in your body again

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In this episode, we sit down at the Drinks with Benefits Festival in NYC with Sabrina Rudin—founder of Spring Café Aspen and the voice behind @springbysabrina. Sabrina grew up in a holistic household where alcohol wasn’t really part of the picture, which shaped how she thinks about health today. She opens up about what it’s like to be judged in social settings for not drinking, and how she’s learned to stay true to herself in those moments.

But most of all, we dive into food—how she feeds her kids and herself with healthy, nourishing meals (but always leaves room for a sweet treat here and there), and how she focuses on eating in a way that feels good, not restrictive. From the kitchen to her business, Sabrina brings a natural, balanced vibe that makes wellness feel approachable and real. 

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