SoberFitGirl

On this SoberFitGirl episode, Kathryn and Ewa sit down with Kristen Bear, the founder of Creative Sobriety, who opens up about her journey to sobriety and the challenges that came with it.

Kristen got sober in February of 2020, but the path wasn’t easy. She shares honestly about what stopped working, the emotional and mental hurdles she faced after removing alcohol, and what surprised her most about early sobriety. From identity shifts to learning how to sit with discomfort, this conversation goes beyond the highlight reel and into the real work of staying sober.

Kristen also reflects on how sobriety gave her the space to re-evaluate her life, relationships, and patterns — and how choosing not to drink ultimately became the most transformative decision she’s ever made.

This episode is for anyone who’s sober, sober-curious, or in the thick of it — wondering if the struggle is worth it, and needing reassurance that it truly does get better.

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An Everyday Guide to a Sober Curious Lifestyle

Coming January 19, 2027

Real stories, tough love, and simple next steps to help you stop the moderation cycle, rebuild confidence and fitness, and build a sober life that lasts.

It's about finding the woman alcohol has been keeping from you.

⁠Booze-Free SoberFitGirl Boisson Bundle ✨⁠⁠ Use code SOBERFITGIRL10 at checkout for savings on the entire Boisson website.

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📞 Sober Curious? Join the SoberFitGirl Community & Mentorship

What’s Included: 📱 Daily 1:1 Chat with Your Mentors 💬 6 Weekly Live Group Calls 💪 Custom Workout & Nutrition Plans 💖 A Supportive Sober Curious Fitness Community

🎯 ⁠Book a free call ⁠with the SoberFitGirl team to explore 1:1 mentorship.

In this episode, Ewa is joined by Abby Calabrese of @alcoholfreeabby and host of The Alcohol-Free Rebellion podcast for a deeply honest conversation about what it really looks like to live alcohol free in a world where drinking is often the norm. Abby opens up about how her relationship with alcohol changed over time—from casual and social, to questioning its role in her life—and the pivotal moments that led her to step away from it altogether.

We explore the emotional, mental, and lifestyle shifts that came with her decision, including navigating social situations, identity changes, and the internal work of listening to your intuition. Abby shares the challenges she faced along the way, but also the unexpected freedom, clarity, and self-trust she gained by choosing a life without alcohol.

Throughout the conversation, Abby reminds us that this journey isn’t about labels, perfection, or putting yourself into a box. It’s about curiosity, self-awareness, and giving yourself permission to evolve. Whether you’re sober curious, alcohol free, or simply reflecting on your own habits, this episode offers encouragement, relatability, and hope that you’re allowed to create a life that feels aligned—on your own terms.

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An Everyday Guide to a Sober Curious Lifestyle

Coming January 19, 2027

Real stories, tough love, and simple next steps to help you stop the moderation cycle, rebuild confidence and fitness, and build a sober life that lasts.

It's about finding the woman alcohol has been keeping from you.

⁠Booze-Free SoberFitGirl Boisson Bundle ✨⁠⁠ Use code SOBERFITGIRL10 at checkout for savings on the entire Boisson website.

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📞 Sober Curious? Join the SoberFitGirl Community & Mentorship

What’s Included: 📱 Daily 1:1 Chat with Your Mentors 💬 6 Weekly Live Group Calls 💪 Custom Workout & Nutrition Plans 💖 A Supportive Sober Curious Fitness Community

🎯 ⁠Book a free call ⁠with the SoberFitGirl team to explore 1:1 mentorship.

This week on The SoberFitGirl Podcast, head coach and co-host Ewa sits down to share the story she’s never told in full: how she walked away from the party version of herself, stopped living for everyone else, and finally learned to choose herself.

Ewa opens up about the years she spent wrapped in her party identity—the girl who always showed up, always went harder, always said yes. Behind it all was a deep pattern of people-pleasing: keeping the peace, keeping the fun going, keeping up an image that exhausted her and was getting her closer and closer to rock bottom.

Sobriety forced her to slow down and face what she’d been avoiding. She talks about the uncomfortable but liberating process of stepping back from old relationships, rewriting her boundaries, and sitting with the silence that used to scare her. She shares what it was like to look at past relationships through sober eyes and finally understand the “why” behind so many of her choices.

And then she brings us into her present — a place where she feels grounded, proud, and connected to herself in a way she never imagined.Today, Ewa stands in a version of her life she once couldn’t imagine—one built on self-respect, boundaries, and a calm confidence that comes from sobriety.

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An Everyday Guide to a Sober Curious Lifestyle

Coming January 19, 2027

Real stories, tough love, and simple next steps to help you stop the moderation cycle, rebuild confidence and fitness, and build a sober life that lasts.

It's about finding the woman alcohol has been keeping from you.

⁠Booze-Free SoberFitGirl Boisson Bundle ✨⁠⁠ Use code SOBERFITGIRL10 at checkout for savings on the entire Boisson website.

⬇️SOBERFITGIRL LINKS⬇️

📞 Sober Curious? Join the SoberFitGirl Community & Mentorship

What’s Included: 📱 Daily 1:1 Chat with Your Mentors 💬 6 Weekly Live Group Calls 💪 Custom Workout & Nutrition Plans 💖 A Supportive Sober Curious Fitness Community

🎯 ⁠Book a free call ⁠with the SoberFitGirl team to explore 1:1 mentorship.

In this episode of The SoberFitGirl Podcast, host and SoberFitGirl founder Kathryn gets real about her story. She kicks things off by looking back at the turning points and hidden struggles that shaped her life long before she decided to get sober.

Kathryn chats about what those years actually felt like—the constant hustle, the exhaustion she kept brushing off, and the pressure to appear fine even when things felt messy underneath. She opens up about losing her father, a loss that shook the foundation of her life and amplified everything she had been avoiding. Kathryn shares how his passing forced her to confront the grief she’d been numbing, the emotions she didn’t feel equipped to face, and the ways that pain quietly influenced her relationship with alcohol.

She talks about the moments that made her realize something needed to change and how finally choosing to step away from alcohol became the start of a completely different chapter. Sobriety, for her, wasn’t just about removing something—it became the doorway to healing, processing her loss, and beginning to rebuild herself with honesty and compassion.

Kathryn then shares how sobriety transformed her life from the inside out—helping her rebuild confidence, find clarity, reconnect with her body, and show up more fully in every part of her life. She also opens up about how her journey inspired the creation of the SoberFitGirl community, a space built for support, real conversations, and celebrating every win, big or small.

If you’re sober-curious, questioning your relationship with alcohol, or just in need of a little inspiration, this episode is a reminder that change doesn’t have to be perfect to be powerful—and that life can get a whole lot better than you imagined.

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An Everyday Guide to a Sober Curious Lifestyle

Coming January 19, 2027

Real stories, tough love, and simple next steps to help you stop the moderation cycle, rebuild confidence and fitness, and build a sober life that lasts.

It's about finding the woman alcohol has been keeping from you.

⁠Booze-Free SoberFitGirl Boisson Bundle ✨⁠⁠ Use code SOBERFITGIRL10 at checkout for savings on the entire Boisson website.

⬇️SOBERFITGIRL LINKS⬇️

📞 Sober Curious? Join the SoberFitGirl Community & Mentorship

What’s Included: 📱 Daily 1:1 Chat with Your Mentors 💬 6 Weekly Live Group Calls 💪 Custom Workout & Nutrition Plans 💖 A Supportive Sober Curious Fitness Community

🎯 ⁠Book a free call ⁠with the SoberFitGirl team to explore 1:1 mentorship.

In this episode of the SoberFitGirl Podcast, Kathryn and Ewa unpack one of the most common conversations in the sober space — the difference between being sober curious and being fully sober, and how to track your progress without falling into the shame spiral of perfectionism.

They talk about how comparison can sneak in — whether you’re on day 3 or day 300 — and why sobriety isn’t a competition or a straight line. You’ll hear real talk about the purpose behind day counting, how to use it as motivation (not punishment), and what to do if you drink or “reset” without getting stuck in guilt.

This episode is a reminder that every single day of awareness counts. Whether you’re just starting to question your drinking, exploring moderation, or fully alcohol-free, you’re showing up for yourself — and that matters.

 In this episode:

Sobriety isn’t about perfection — it’s about honesty, growth, and learning to trust yourself again.

⁠⁠⁠⁠PREORDER SOBER FIT GIRL (Click here to preorder⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠)

An Everyday Guide to a Sober Curious Lifestyle

Coming January 19, 2027

Real stories, tough love, and simple next steps to help you stop the moderation cycle, rebuild confidence and fitness, and build a sober life that lasts.

It's about finding the woman alcohol has been keeping from you.

⁠Booze-Free SoberFitGirl Boisson Bundle ✨⁠⁠ Use code SOBERFITGIRL10 at checkout for savings on the entire Boisson website.

⬇️SOBERFITGIRL LINKS⬇️

📞 Sober Curious? Join the SoberFitGirl Community & Mentorship

What’s Included: 📱 Daily 1:1 Chat with Your Mentors 💬 6 Weekly Live Group Calls 💪 Custom Workout & Nutrition Plans 💖 A Supportive Sober Curious Fitness Community

🎯 ⁠Book a free call ⁠with the SoberFitGirl team to explore 1:1 mentorship.

In this episode, Kathryn and Ewa break down how to stay sober, confident, and grounded during the holidays. This season brings pressure, family dynamics, old habits, and expectations that can make not drinking feel harder than usual. The SoberFitGirls walk you through exactly how to prepare, what to expect, and how to handle social situations without compromising your goals.

You’ll learn how to understand your holiday triggers, set clear boundaries, make a plan before you go out, and stay connected to your “why” when things feel overwhelming. We also cover two of the most effective sobriety tools: Play the Tape Forward and Play the Tape Backward. These mindset practices help you see the real outcome of drinking before it happens and build self-trust after you move through a craving sober.

This episode will help you show up as the version of yourself you want to be, protect your peace, and get through holiday events without alcohol. If you want to enter the new year feeling proud, clear, and consistent, this conversation will support you every step of the way.

⁠⁠⁠⁠PREORDER SOBER FIT GIRL (Click here to preorder⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠)

An Everyday Guide to a Sober Curious Lifestyle

Coming January 19, 2027

Real stories, tough love, and simple next steps to help you stop the moderation cycle, rebuild confidence and fitness, and build a sober life that lasts.

It's about finding the woman alcohol has been keeping from you.

⁠Booze-Free SoberFitGirl Boisson Bundle ✨⁠⁠ Use code SOBERFITGIRL10 at checkout for savings on the entire Boisson website.

⬇️SOBERFITGIRL LINKS⬇️

📞 Sober Curious? Join the SoberFitGirl Community & Mentorship

What’s Included: 📱 Daily 1:1 Chat with Your Mentors 💬 6 Weekly Live Group Calls 💪 Custom Workout & Nutrition Plans 💖 A Supportive Sober Curious Fitness Community

🎯 ⁠Book a free call ⁠with the SoberFitGirl team to explore 1:1 mentorship.

In this episode of the SoberFitGirl Podcast, Kathryn and Ewa explore one of the hardest parts of sobriety — letting go of the guilt and shame from the past.

We all have a version of ourselves we cringe thinking about:

the drunk nights, the decisions we regret, the people we chased, the moments we abandoned ourselves.

But instead of living in shame, what if we chose gratitude?

What if the version of you who drank, numbed, binged, or checked out…

was actually the one who kept you alive long enough to become the version you are now?

In this episode, we talk about:

You don’t heal by hating who you used to be.

You heal by thanking her.

Because she was doing the best she could with what she had.

She survived - so YOU could grow.

Tune in to learn how to forgive yourself, let go, and move into your sober era with compassion, softness, and gratitude.

⁠⁠⁠⁠PREORDER SOBER FIT GIRL (Click here to preorder⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠)

An Everyday Guide to a Sober Curious Lifestyle

Coming January 19, 2027

Real stories, tough love, and simple next steps to help you stop the moderation cycle, rebuild confidence and fitness, and build a sober life that lasts.

It's about finding the woman alcohol has been keeping from you.

⁠Booze-Free SoberFitGirl Boisson Bundle ✨⁠⁠ Use code SOBERFITGIRL10 at checkout for savings on the entire Boisson website.

⬇️SOBERFITGIRL LINKS⬇️

📞 Sober Curious? Join the SoberFitGirl Community & Mentorship

What’s Included: 📱 Daily 1:1 Chat with Your Mentors 💬 6 Weekly Live Group Calls 💪 Custom Workout & Nutrition Plans 💖 A Supportive Sober Curious Fitness Community

🎯 ⁠Book a free call ⁠with the SoberFitGirl team to explore 1:1 mentorship.

In this episode of the SoberFitGirl Podcast, Kathryn and Ewa break down what it really means to choose yourself in sobriety — even when it feels uncomfortable, selfish, or unfamiliar.

For so many of us, drinking was tied to people pleasing:

Sobriety forces you to face the truth:

You don’t have a drinking problem — you have a self-abandonment problem.

Kathryn and Ewa share real stories about:

This episode is your permission slip to take up space, protect your peace, and build a life that makes you genuinely happy — not just liked.

Because choosing yourself isn’t selfish.

It’s self-respect.

⁠Booze-Free SoberFitGirl Boisson Bundle ✨⁠⁠ Use code SOBERFITGIRL10 at checkout for savings on the entire Boisson website.

⁠⁠⁠⁠PREORDER SOBER FIT GIRL (Click here to preorder⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠)

An Everyday Guide to a Sober Curious Lifestyle

Coming January 19, 2027

Real stories, tough love, and simple next steps to help you stop the moderation cycle, rebuild confidence and fitness, and build a sober life that lasts.

It's about finding the woman alcohol has been keeping from you.

⬇️SOBERFITGIRL LINKS⬇️

📞 Sober Curious? Join the SoberFitGirl Community & Mentorship

What’s Included: 📱 Daily 1:1 Chat with Your Mentors 💬 6 Weekly Live Group Calls 💪 Custom Workout & Nutrition Plans 💖 A Supportive Sober Curious Fitness Community

🎯 ⁠Book a free call ⁠with the SoberFitGirl team to explore 1:1 mentorship.

In this episode, Kathryn and Ewa get real about the connection between food and alcohol — the habits, the emotional triggers, and the way both can show up when we’re stressed, lonely, overwhelmed, or trying to feel something.

They talk about how drinking and eating can become coping mechanisms, the “all-or-nothing” mindset, and that moment when alcohol lowers your inhibitions and suddenly you're elbows-deep in Uber Eats, snacks, or binge eating. They share their own stories — from late-night emotional eating after drinking to waking up with anxiety, shame, and cravings that weren’t even about hunger.

Together, they break down:

You’ll learn how to reconnect to your body, build trust with yourself, and create routines that support feeling good — without restricting or obsessing.

This episode reminds you that food isn’t the enemy. Alcohol isn’t the solution.

Feeling good is the goal.

⁠⁠⁠⁠PREORDER SOBER FIT GIRL (Click here to preorder⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠)

An Everyday Guide to a Sober Curious Lifestyle

Coming January 19, 2027

Real stories, tough love, and simple next steps to help you stop the moderation cycle, rebuild confidence and fitness, and build a sober life that lasts.

It's about finding the woman alcohol has been keeping from you.

⁠Booze-Free SoberFitGirl Boisson Bundle ✨⁠⁠ Use code SOBERFITGIRL10 at checkout for savings on the entire Boisson website.

⬇️SOBERFITGIRL LINKS⬇️

📞 Sober Curious? Join the SoberFitGirl Community & Mentorship

What’s Included: 📱 Daily 1:1 Chat with Your Mentors 💬 6 Weekly Live Group Calls 💪 Custom Workout & Nutrition Plans 💖 A Supportive Sober Curious Fitness Community

🎯 ⁠Book a free call ⁠with the SoberFitGirl team to explore 1:1 mentorship.

In this episode, Kathryn and Ewa dive into one of the most powerful parts of getting and staying sober — defining your why. It’s easy to say you want to stop drinking, but lasting change happens when you get brutally honest about what’s at stake — and what your life could look like in five years if you don’t make a change.

They share their own personal “whys” and how fear, rock-bottom moments, and brutal honesty became the wake-up calls that got them sober. Together, they unpack the difference between surface goals (“I don’t want hangovers”) and the deeper truth underneath (“I want peace, confidence, and self-respect”).

 Tune in to hear:

⁠⁠⁠⁠PREORDER SOBER FIT GIRL (Click here to preorder⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠)

An Everyday Guide to a Sober Curious Lifestyle

Coming January 19, 2027

Real stories, tough love, and simple next steps to help you stop the moderation cycle, rebuild confidence and fitness, and build a sober life that lasts.

It's about finding the woman alcohol has been keeping from you.

⁠Booze-Free SoberFitGirl Boisson Bundle ✨⁠⁠ Use code SOBERFITGIRL10 at checkout for savings on the entire Boisson website.

⬇️SOBERFITGIRL LINKS⬇️

📞 Sober Curious? Join the SoberFitGirl Community & Mentorship

What’s Included: 📱 Daily 1:1 Chat with Your Mentors 💬 6 Weekly Live Group Calls 💪 Custom Workout & Nutrition Plans 💖 A Supportive Sober Curious Fitness Community

🎯 ⁠Book a free call ⁠with the SoberFitGirl team to explore 1:1 mentorship.