Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

30 Questions to Ask Yourself to Find Love


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You’re not single because you’re broken—maybe you’re just asking the wrong questions.


In this deeply personal and hilariously honest solo episode, I share 30 questions you need to ask yourself if you’re serious about finding real love—not the situationship, not the trauma-bond, not the 2-week high followed by ghosting. We're talking love that lasts.


I also open up for the first time about being deaf—how it’s made me feel small, different, and deeply afraid of being pitied… and how I moved past it.


This is the episode where we stop waiting to be "healed enough" for love—and finally figure out what we actually want and deserve.

Tune in if:

  • You keep attracting the same wrong person in a different font
  • You’re overthinking love to death
  • You’re ready to be loved without fixing every flaw first


Listen ‘til the end for the story that might just change how you see yourself—and love—forever.


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