Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading from Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power - Law #9: Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Arguments. Discover why winning through your actions rather than arguments can lead to more meaningful victories and why saying less can actually get you more. Whether you're going through tricky social situations or just trying to get ahead in life, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you master the art of keeping it cool and collected. Tune in for less talk, more action!

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• 00:00 Intro
• 01:44 Win through your actions, not through arguments
• 14:42 Always say less than necessary

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Hey Besties! It’s 2024 and we’re done being nice girls. Violetta breaks down the SECRET to dating men - getting him to commit and learning the difference between a nice girl and a b*tch.

GIRLLL, all you ever did was take care of him, be nice to him, and put him on a pedestal, and now you don’t understand why you got dumped…well, maybe that IS the problem – you’re too nice! In this episode, Violetta teaches you how to stop being too available and how to become the b*tch that men will go crazy for. So get ready to be the main event and how you can make men work so hard for that front seat!

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 04:01 What is a nice girl?
• 06:22 What is a b*tch?
• 07:13 Why do men prefer b*tches?
• 08:30 Become a prize
• 10:02 Men always want what they can’t have
• 13:53 Conditions to set when dating
• 15:51 The Madonna-Wh*re Complex
• 17:02 The difference between a nice girl, a woman who acts like a b*tch, and an actual b*tch
• 21:40 Men are scared to lose control and their freedom
• 23:21 Men want to feel that you chose to be with them

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Hey Besties! Today is another Benson Book Club Tuesday! Let’s take another look at 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Ever catch yourself thinking, "I don't know what I’m doing with my life"? You're not alone! In this episode, we dive into 20 signs that you're actually doing better than you think. We'll explore what it truly means to lead a good life, challenging societal metrics and embracing the idea that a great life is made up of a series of small, meaningful moments.

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00:00 Intro

01:28 “I don’t know what I’m doing with my life.”

04:32 20 signs you’re doing better that you think you are

11:32 How do we measure a good life?

17:14 A great life a series of small moments put together

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Hello and welcome to my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Today you will get a glimpse from Saturay's premium podcast episode where we discuss how to handle conflict, especially for people who struggle with it. Hope you enjoy!

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Hey Besties! Today, we discuss the PSYCHOLOGY, the SCIENCE, and the SPIRITUALITY behind Success along with a few calls to actions to make it happen for you!!

Let’s listen to some life lessons about what success truly means and unravel the paradox between failure and success, all with a dash of Violetta's flair. Discover actionable tips to halt self-sabotage and uncover traits common among successful people. We'll explore the synergy of passion and perseverance, why willpower isn't your only ally, the transformation from a fixed to a growth mindset, and how to ignite your motivation for success. Plus, don't miss our top tips for attracting success in your life!

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00:00 Intro

02:00 What does success mean to you?

03:28 The failure and success paradox

07:53 Tips to stop self sabotaging

10:14 Quantum physics

15:57 What do most successful people have in common?

20:16 Passion and perseverance

24:20 Don’t rely too much on willpower

28:08 Switching from fixed mindset to a growth mindset

30:30 Tips to get motivated to become successful

32:56 Top tips to attract success

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Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts or CONFESSIONS with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.

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Hey Besties! Today, for another reading session of Benson Book Club, we will take a peek into How to Win Friends & Influence People written by Dale Carnegie - a book about ways to make people like you, how to win people to your way of thinking, and how to change people without arousing resentment.

Together with Violetta, we get to hear practical tips on winning people over instantly, incredible stories of people who mastered the art of being likable, and how to arm yourself with six foolproof strategies to make a lasting impression and cultivate meaningful connections.  

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• 00:00 Intro
• 01:26 How to make people like you instantly?
• 07:36 The story of Hall Caine   
• 11:37 “This is our dream house.”
• 14:56 The judge who loves dogs
• 16:29 Famous people still crave a little recognition
• 22:33 Six ways to make people like you

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Hey Besties! We're diving headfirst into the complexities of self-sabotage. Why do we often self-sabotage? How do we snap out of the self-defeat funk? Embrace the beauty of failure, kick negative thinking to the curb, and discover 18 tips to boost your spirits. It's all about flipping the script, surrounding yourself with positive vibes, and quitting the blame game. Get ready to transform your perspective and sprinkle some fab into your life! 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:20 Why do we self sabotage?
• 04:02 How to stop this cycle of self defeat?
• 07:05 Sometimes, failure is good
• 11:39 When we sink into negative thinking our brain seeks to confirm it
• 14:23 How do you stay motivated during hard times?
• 19:48 How to change your perspective
• 24:20 18 quick advice to cheer you up
• 28:18 Surround yourself with positivity
• 31:08 We often blame our circumstances     

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Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading a part of Chapter 19: When To Have Sex from the book Men Don’t Love Women Like You! by G.L Lambert, and will be sharing her thoughts on when to take things to the bedroom, decoding men's real dating agendas, and identifying the tell-tale signs of true romantic victory. Ever regretted going too far, too fast? We're breaking it all down and guiding you to date on your own terms. Let's get real about romance, empowerment, and finding what truly clicks for you in the world of love!

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:53 Chapter 19: When To Have Sex 
• 03:28 “I wish I never had s*x with him.”
• 06:44 Why do men date?
• 09:58 What has he shown you?
• 13:14 Signs you’ve genuinely won a man over
• 16:33 Can you enjoy each others company without s*x?
• 19:19 Focus on what works for you   

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Hey Besties! Welcome to episode TWO of Dating University available ONLY on the PREMIUM podcast.

Violetta is going to get real about everything from pimple patches to our 'pick me' girl pasts. It's all about embracing your fabulous self, finding that rock-solid confidence, and saying goodbye to people and habits that just don't spark joy anymore. And let's chat about relationships - why it's crucial to know what you want and how not to fall for those oh-so-tempting but totally empty flatteries. Remember, comparison is the thief of joy, especially when it comes to other women. So, let's believe in our own allure and walk this journey of self-love and empowerment together. 

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