Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

Have you ever wondered what it's like to struggle with infertility? Infertility affects millions of people around the world and can be caused by a variety of factors, including age, genetics, medical conditions, and lifestyle choices. Coping with infertility can be a lonely and isolating experience, but it's important for those struggling to know that they're not alone.    

Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Dr. Shahin Ghadir. As a founding partner of Southern California Reproductive Center, Dr. Ghadiris board-certified in both Obstetrics and Gynecology and Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility. He is currently an assistant clinical professor in the department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at the David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA and at the Keck School of Medicine at USC.

Dr. Ghadir debunks the most common myths about egg freezing, the truth about infertility in women and men and the causes behind it, and what it takes for an IVF pregnancy to succeed. 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:45 Fertility affects both men and women
• 02:28 The most common infertility causes
• 04:09 Biggest myths in the use of birth control
• 05:15 Infertility in men
• 07:20 Fertility is different for every woman
• 08:18 Choosing to delay having children
• 10:49 Myth #1: It’s only for women who wants to delay motherhood
• 17:47 Myth #2: You need to freeze a lot of eggs
• 19:23 Myth #3: Frozen eggs last forever
• 20:25 The success rate of egg freezing
• 27:26 The average cost of the entire process
• 28:42 The biggest side effects
• 31:14 Success stories
• 33:47 Which couples are a good candidate for IVF?
• 33:24 What is IVF?
• 38:39 Who undergoes IVF?
• 39:17 Is IVF unethical?
• 40:19 Emotional impact of IVF on couples
• 43:27 Helping women ovulate

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How can one navigate the difficult and emotional process of dealing with grief and family problems? Coping with grief, conflicts with family members, or other familial issues can be emotionally draining and can take a toll on an individual's mental health. 

Today, Violetta sits down to share a very personal situation that she and her family are currently going through. No light-hearted moments, no well-thought advice. Just raw and vulnerable moments with her during this difficult and challenging time. 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:35 Something’s wrong with my mom…
• 09:12 Don’t hold back from sharing when you’re struggling
• 11:27 We were all doing our best not to cry…
• 16:40 We all have bad days and you’re not alone
• 20:10 The hardest thing we do when we’re grieving
• 21:49 You’ll never know when is your last time with someone

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Have you ever wondered if height really matters? According to one wise mom, what men lack in height, they make up for in other ways. But is it enough to make a difference?   

Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome internet personality, comedian, and podcast host Trevor Wallace! Violetta and Trevor start their conversation with a random but hilariously funny game, the rapid fire questions. Then, the duo talk about situational dating scenarios where they pitch in their thoughts and opinions with a little bit of p*rn talk on the side, sexual preferences, and the do’s and don’ts of casual and long-term dating.

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:50 I’m like a Kardashan but I wasn’t in the front line
• 04:36 What do people don’t know most about you?
• 06:30 Let’s do Rapid Fire Questions
• 14:05 Why can’t we tickle ourselves?
• 15:51 Where is the cl*toris?
• 18:37 What should girls do when you’re licking her down there?
• 19:40 Do you get things faster with *9?
• 21:18 You're on a deserted island, what will you bring?
• 23:24 When you go back in time…
• 23:59 Is it safer to drink your urine or saliva?
• 25:35 What comes first: cereal or milk?
• 28:14 She’s a 10 but…
• 52:26 Suspicion - the biggest turn offs for guys
• 53:05 Is physical attraction everything?
• 54:38 What’s your biggest icks?
• 56:25 What is the most obvious sign that he likes you? 
• 01:01:46 Biggest red flags to look out for
• 01:06:57 Porn is like a fantasy land 
• 01:09:43 What keeps you up at night?
• 01:10:37 Have you learned anything now that you’re thirty?

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• https://www.youtube.com/@StiffSocks 

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WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!

Have you ever had a sexual experience that left you in stitches? Well, you're not alone! We're all about sharing the most hilarious and unforgettable tales of sexual misadventures.    

Today, Violetta is joined by her friend Steeven Zuleta for another round of funny sex stories. From a breakup s*x that turned out to be a weird kink your partner never told you about to accidentally farting on your partner’s face while he’s eating you up! We got all sorts of fan stories you won’t get enough of. So tune in and laugh with us!

If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner episode, call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 04:40 Story #1: We decided to have breakup s*x
• 25:04 Story #2: He was eating me and I farted!
• 30:56 Story #3: I didn’t wipe all the way and we we’re having a doggy

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Whether you're an introvert who needs alone time or a social butterfly who thrives on interactions, there's no one-size-fits-all approach to dating.   

Today on Almost Adulting,we welcome back internet personality, comedienne, and podcast host Hannah Berner! Violetta and Hannah explain why guys with addiction problems are the best partners because they love deeply and intensely but can be unhealthy and unsustainable in the long run and how emotional stress and pain will eventually affect your body and your overall well-being. The duo encourages listeners to figure out their own ways of dating and relationships that work for them.   

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:55 Would you give Dan Bazarian a bj?
• 04:01 Calm dudes have big d*ck energy
• 05:58 What happened to your arm?
• 10:19 When you’re a good people pleaser
• 16:32 No one cares for your internal struggles
• 19:00 Emotional pain leads to physical pain
• 21:50 What else people don’t know about you?
• 22:35 Happiness is also a passing emotion
• 25:14 Surprising things when you date a sober guy
• 27:06 What’s married life like?
• 31:00 When you don’t realize you’ve been ghosted
• 34:40 The dumbest thing you can laugh at now
• 41:01 Tips to dating 
• 43:24 Guys who love licking you down there    

Connect with Hannah on:

• https://hannahberner.com/
• https://www.tiktok.com/@hannah_berner
• https://www.instagram.com/hannahberner/
• Berning in Hell Podcast
• Giggly Squad Podcast

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Hey Besties! Welcome back to another Benson Knows Best Q&A session. What would you do if you were ghosted by the person you thought was into you?

Today, Violetta discusses how clinging to one another is an important part of intimacy, but only if it's a two-way street, the importance of self-awareness in relationships and how our reactions can impact their outcome, and why you need to raise your standards and not settle for being valued solely for your looks.

If you want to be featured on the next Benson Knows Best episode and call in to have a live conversation with Violetta, send a DM now!

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:03 Exciting updates!
• 03:36 This is what happened in my recent trip
• 14:34 Is it wrong to be clingy?
• 18:39 We don’t have a label
• 22:41 He ghosted you and then he comes back

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Why is talking about sex in the early stages of dating such a challenge? Could it be the fear of rejection or judgment? Or maybe it's those pesky societal norms telling us to keep things hush-hush.  

Today on Almost Adulting, sex and relationships therapist Todd Baratz is back! Violetta and Todd explores the ways to break down societal norms and overcome the shame associated with sex, practical tips for having open and comfortable conversations about sex with potential partners, how pornography and media influences our views about sex, and offers insights on navigating this sensitive topic with your partner. If you're ready to take your sexual relationships to the next level, don't miss out on the latest insights and expert advice!

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:55 I went to this event last night…
• 04:18 Do not be too bothered by the society’s standards
• 06:05 How do you get past s*xual shame?
• 07:35 Why is it difficult to have initial conversations about s*x?
• 13:04 Should you disclose your s*xual history to your current partner?
• 15:44 Have conversations about your expectations right at the beginning
• 23:25 Sexual chemistry versus attraction
• 26:07 How do you bring back attraction?
• 33:57 How movies and p*rn have influenced our views about s*x
• 37:16 Fact: Not everyone can org*sm
• 42:24 Do you expect your partner to not watch p*rn?
• 46:45 When is watching p*rn considered detrimental?
• 52:32 When should you discuss kinks?
• 54:17 How soon should you open up about having a child?
• 57:57 How necessary is your kink for you?
• 01:00:16 Expressing discomfort about kinks isn’t offensive
• 01:02:56 Skills is a skill you constantly practice
• 01:07:04 The relationship you have with yourself in s*xual relationships

Connect with Todd on:

• https://www.instagram.com/yourdiagnonsense/
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• https://www.tiktok.com/@yourdiagnonsense
• https://www.toddsbaratz.com/
• Your Diagnonsense Podcast

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WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!

This week, we are going to feature bad, worse, and funny s*x stories. And since we couldn’t get enough of the revelations and teas spilled last Thursday, Francesca Farago is joining us again today!  

Join Violet and Francesca as they react to fan stories about getting infection over a forgotten tampon, from getting embarrassed over v*ginal farts to getting horrified over your partner accidentally sh*tting on the bed, and finding out that pushy guy you dated was actually a gay p*rn star. Listen in to find out how these stories played out!

If you want to be featured on the next Confession Corner call Violet at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 01:08 Story #1: Queefing and sh*tting on the bed
• 10:34 Story #2: It’s the size of a pinky
• 18:56 Story #3: Turns out he was a gay p*rn star
• 23:48 Story #4: I thought I lost my nuva ring
• 27:26 Story #5: The forgotten tampon
• 39:09 He booked another girl in the next room

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Welcome to another episode of Benson Knows Best!

This week, due to public demand, we’re going to be sharing a few top Hollywood secrets you’d never find out through the media. The keyword being top secret, no name dropping anything. Just facts that are common in the industry but not open to the public.

Today, Violetta sits down to answer questions you guys sent in. She’ll start with 8 Hollywood secrets that are so shocking you’ll start to wonder how they were able to keep them hidden from the radar of the public eye. She answers a few more questions about keeping your emotions in check and more tips on how to harmlessly flirt with a guy and get him getting interested in you. Interested to know more Hollywood secrets? Tune in and be the first to know! 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 05:17 Question #1: 8 best kept secrets in Hollywood
• 21:58 Unknown facts about me 
• 29:31 Question #2: How do I not become a bitter person?
• 36:47 Question #3: How can you make a guy chase you? 

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Hey Besties! Love month is almost over. And as we come close to the end of February, let’s wrap it up with self love!

Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome body confidence advocate, speaker, writer, and host of The Papaya Podcast, Sarah Landry. Violetta and Sarah focus on self-love as an essential aspect of our emotional, mental, and physical well-being. They share their thoughts on how we can develop a positive self-image, improve our relationships with others, and reduce stress and anxiety by cultivating self-love. Rebuilding self-confidence can be challenging but taking small steps such as practicing self-compassion, setting realistic goals, and celebrating small accomplishments can help us regain a sense of empowerment and self-assurance. Listen in because it’s never too late to start loving yourself more!

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 01:07 What was your original last name?
• 03:37 Self love before anything else
• 06:57 Physical manifestation of anxiety
• 11:15 We have to listen to others as well
• 13:46 Losing 100lbs
• 19:09 A woman’s body changes throughout her life
• 27:31 Body insecurities
• 31:51 Love is an action
• 34:03 Your body is majestic
• 39:40 S*xless pregnancy
• 44:54 There wasn’t a lot of thinking about ‘me’
• 46:07 You can’t build the same house again
• 49:20 Your partner as your best friend
• 56:04 It’s okay to ask for help
• 01:00:02 Divorce is always on the table
• 01:02:17 The biggest lessons learned
• 01:05:19 Childhood dream
• 01:11:00 Learn to love yourself while loving someone else

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• The Birds Papaya
• The Papaya Podcast
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