Ever Forward Radio with Chase Chewning

EFR 648: Overcoming Betrayal, The Common Denominator Theory, and Setting Healthy Boundaries in Relationships with May Yazdi Chewning


Listen Later

In today's episode, Chase and May talk about relationships, boundary setting, and healing. We will all encounter people in our lives that test our boundaries or share different values from us. On top of that, we are all constantly changing and healing, which can create friction in our relationships. You may love someone deeply, but if they cannot meet you where you are, it's hard to maintain a healthy dynamic. Ending relationships is not a failure, and it is okay to leave space in your heart for people while realizing they cannot be in your life right now.

May shares how she took stock of her relationships in order to identify what wasn't working for her. Furthermore, she discusses how she developed boundaries to protect her wellbeing and maintain a positive attitude toward others. 

Additionally, Chase and May discuss how healing is a continuous process. The two will discuss how their foundation of radical honesty and communication has enabled them to communicate where they are emotionally in order to know what to do individually to support each other, and when to focus on themselves alone.

 

Follow May @mayyazdi

Follow Chase on Instagram @chase_chewning

Follow him on Twitter @chasechewning

 

Key Highlights

  • May talks about what she calls, “the common denominator”- the idea that it helps to notice the patterns and trends in your life. May shares how she took inventory of her life and analyzed her relationships after feeling betrayed by people close to her.
  • Chase and May talk about the importance of setting boundaries. May talks about how she tends to view all people as innately good and how she had to look at her life through a different lens in order to establish the boundaries with people and not get taken advantage of.
  • It is normal for people in your life to serve different purposes, and one person cannot meet all your needs. May talks about managing her expectations for people and how she categorizes people now.
  • It is okay to let go of people who are not serving you in your life. Chase and May talk about their views on setting boundaries, moving on from some people, even family, and their thoughts on divorce as a solution to relationship problems.
  • Chase and May talk about their individual healing journeys and define what healing means to them. When does healing start, and what does it look like? How do you support yourself, your partner, and your joint relationship as each person heals and grows individually?

Episode resources:

  • Save 15% on any Zen and CBN with code EVERFORWARD at https://www.CuredNutrition.com 
  • Save 20% on Wild Health with code EVERFORWARD at https://www.WildHealth.com 
  • Listen to May's podcast May's Anatomy
  • Learn more about Field Trip Health
...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Ever Forward Radio with Chase ChewningBy Operation Podcast

  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5

5

860 ratings


More shows like Ever Forward Radio with Chase Chewning

View all
The Human Upgrade with Dave Asprey by Dave Asprey

The Human Upgrade with Dave Asprey

7,170 Listeners

The School of Greatness by Lewis Howes

The School of Greatness

21,275 Listeners

The Model Health Show by Shawn Stevenson

The Model Health Show

7,318 Listeners

Align Podcast by Aaron Alexander

Align Podcast

884 Listeners

The mindbodygreen Podcast by mindbodygreen

The mindbodygreen Podcast

2,088 Listeners

The Genius Life by Max Lugavere

The Genius Life

4,873 Listeners

Heal Thy Self with Dr. G by Heal Thy Self

Heal Thy Self with Dr. G

1,547 Listeners

Passion Love Pursuit Podcast by Erica Lippy

Passion Love Pursuit Podcast

124 Listeners

What's The Juice by Olivia Amitrano

What's The Juice

2,114 Listeners

The Adversity Advantage with Doug Bopst by Doug Bopst

The Adversity Advantage with Doug Bopst

348 Listeners

Realfoodology by Courtney Swan

Realfoodology

1,483 Listeners

HEAL with Kelly by Best In Wellness

HEAL with Kelly

397 Listeners

The Dr. Gabrielle Lyon Show by Dr. Gabrielle Lyon

The Dr. Gabrielle Lyon Show

1,138 Listeners

Align with Jenna Zoe: The Human Design Podcast by My Human Design

Align with Jenna Zoe: The Human Design Podcast

412 Listeners

Biohacking Bestie with Aggie Lal by Aggie Lal

Biohacking Bestie with Aggie Lal

50 Listeners