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This episode is brought to you by Fatty15.
Have you ever wondered why we often think others like us less than they actually do? In this episode, we explore this fascinating topic with award-winning science writer David Robson. We dive into the psychological phenomenon known as the "liking gap" and unpack why we underestimate our likability after initial conversations. Drawing from philosophy, neuroscience, and psychology, David reveals actionable strategies to break down these mental barriers and enhance our social interactions. We also delve into the impact of modern distractions like technology on our ability to connect meaningfully.
We also examine the heavy toll that secrets, especially in the context of LGBTQ+ experiences, can take on our mental and physical health. Through self-reflection and forgiveness, we can lighten our emotional load and foster more genuine connections.
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In this episode we discuss...
(00:00) Building Better Relationships
(08:28) Embracing Vulnerability and Self-Compassion
(10:30) Cultivating Openness and Vulnerability
(15:14) Overcoming the Liking Gap
(24:39) Authentic Connection Through Spontaneity
(30:36) Navigating Conversations With Self-Absorbed Individuals
(35:03) The Weight of Secrets
(39:17) Exploring Secrets and Self-Reflection
(47:22) Diminishing Returns in Expressiveness
(51:59) The Power of Forgiveness in Relationships
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Episode resources:
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This episode is brought to you by Fatty15.
Have you ever wondered why we often think others like us less than they actually do? In this episode, we explore this fascinating topic with award-winning science writer David Robson. We dive into the psychological phenomenon known as the "liking gap" and unpack why we underestimate our likability after initial conversations. Drawing from philosophy, neuroscience, and psychology, David reveals actionable strategies to break down these mental barriers and enhance our social interactions. We also delve into the impact of modern distractions like technology on our ability to connect meaningfully.
We also examine the heavy toll that secrets, especially in the context of LGBTQ+ experiences, can take on our mental and physical health. Through self-reflection and forgiveness, we can lighten our emotional load and foster more genuine connections.
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In this episode we discuss...
(00:00) Building Better Relationships
(08:28) Embracing Vulnerability and Self-Compassion
(10:30) Cultivating Openness and Vulnerability
(15:14) Overcoming the Liking Gap
(24:39) Authentic Connection Through Spontaneity
(30:36) Navigating Conversations With Self-Absorbed Individuals
(35:03) The Weight of Secrets
(39:17) Exploring Secrets and Self-Reflection
(47:22) Diminishing Returns in Expressiveness
(51:59) The Power of Forgiveness in Relationships
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