Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

She's a Narcissist w/ Scheana Shay (Vanderpump Rules)


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Hey Besties! Today, Vanderpump Rules cast Scheana Shay joins Violetta for an exciting and at the same time heart-tugging conversation. Throughout her time on "Vanderpump Rules," Scheana became known for her outgoing personality, dramatic relationships, and candid portrayal of her personal life on the show. In addition to her work on reality television, she has pursued acting and music endeavors. She has appeared in several television shows and films, as well as releasing her own music singles.

Violetta and talk about the complexities of childcare, the challenges of maintaining friendships, and a potential sneak peek of Vanderpump Season 11. Plus the duo spills the tea on lost friendships, potential redemption arcs, and the behind-the-scenes drama you won't hear anywhere else. On a serious note, bravely shares her experiences with postpartum OCD, the healing power of EMDR therapy, and the heartbreaking reality of pregnancy loss. It's a raw and vulnerable exploration of mental health, friendship dynamics, and the bittersweet journey of self-discovery. 

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What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 01:27 What’s one thing people misunderstood about you in the show?
  • 02:30 How did motherhood change you? 
  • 04:13 What’s your biggest fear around getting help with babysitting your child?
  • 07:06 Have you had support from other new moms?
  • 07:45 What’s a question someone has never asked you?
  • 08:30 “I’m never the favorite of this show.” 
  • 12:18 Hopes for Season 11
  • 13:17 Losing a friendship of 15 years
  • 17:09 Is the new season setting the stage for Sandoval’s redemption arc?
  • 19:16 Are you the friend that flip-flops?
  • 20:38 Figuring out a way to not breakdown in front of your child
  • 22:24 Friendship pact with Katie  
  • 24:37 What can people look forward to this season?
  • 26:05 Is Billie Lee in love with Tom Sandoval?
  • 33:31 Postpartum OCD
  • 39:39 EMDR Therapy 
  • 43:35 Pregnancy loss and traumatic labor
  • 45:13 Severe intrusive thoughts
  • 47:07 Signs of OCD before pregnancy
  • 50:54 Thinking of death everyday


Connect with Scheana on:

  • https://www.instagram.com/scheana/ 
  • https://twitter.com/scheana 
  • https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9jgdbAu8PZMmfYZBj2xnog 
  • https://www.tiktok.com/@scheana 


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