This week on The Wrong Ones, we're talking about what happens when your growth becomes a threat to someone who once claimed to love you.

Why do so many women feel the need to dim their light to protect a man's ego? Why is a woman's ambition seen as disruptive rather than magnetic? And why is it still considered "special" when a man supports his partner's success—but simply expected when women do the same?

In this episode, we dive deep into the psychology, social conditioning, and nervous system toll behind the invisible labor women carry in heterosexual relationships. We unpack the emotional and biological costs of self-silencing, the dynamics of threatened masculinity, and how internalized patriarchy quietly rewrites our sense of worth.

Featuring personal stories, pop culture case studies (hi, Paige DeSorbo, Beyoncé, Molly-Mae), and grounded clinical insights—this episode is part manifesto, part mirror, and full permission to take up space without guilt.

Topics We Cover:

• Why women are conditioned to shrink in relationships

• The "Support Paradox" and public reactions to female success

• How male insecurity shows up as withdrawal, criticism, or silence

• The psychology of identity threat, reactive devaluation & attachment theory

• The nervous system effects of self-silencing & chronic suppression

• Intermittent reinforcement and emotional addiction

• What secure, emotionally mature support actually looks like

• How to stop making yourself small to feel lovable

Reflection Question of The Week: What would your life look like if you stopped apologizing for your ambition? ----- As always: if you're enjoying the show, please take a moment to follow, rate, and subscribe — it truly helps us grow and reach more listeners.

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