Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

WELCOME TO WHAT I LEARNED THIS WEEK - He Ain't The One

A 5 minute bonus episode for my besties that don't do podcasts or have the time!

This week I learned the truth about right guy, wrong time. So here's a 5 minute pep talk that will change your LIFE.... from your big sis, aka me, Violet Benson. :)

Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, follow our youtube chanel, and tune in this Thursday, as we cover why men need therapy. See you Thursday besties! <3

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"What makes love so valuable is the grief that is accompanied with the possibility of losing it."

Episode #3 of May’s Mental Health Month.

All right, Besties, it’s time for part 2, and the title says it all – today’s episode is all about healing! Breakups are never easy, but you need to stop chasing someone who doesn’t want you and choose yourself. Choose yourself first. Love yourself first. 

Mark Groves is back on the podcast today, and he shares his tips for recognizing when someone isn’t right for you, how to spot patterns in your dating life, and how trust can be rebuilt after it’s been broken. Pull out a pen and paper and take some notes - they might just change your life. 

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 01:28 This “I wasn’t enough!” lens
• 05:42 Stop chasing someone who isn’t chasing you back
• 06:46 When you feel like you can’t openly share your emotions
• 09:10 How do you know someone is right for you?
• 17:19 Awareness of your patterns when dating
• 23:49 Relational outcomes are separate from our self worth
• 28:19 There is no psychological safety in conflict
• 33:04 Forgiveness is earned, trust is rebuilt
• 39:05 “I should be looking at the pattern with my mother”

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• Create the Love

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Episode #2 of May’s Mental Health Month.

"It's always the people that never loved us that teach us the most about love."

If you’ve lost yourself in your last relationship, let me hand you the roadmap to finding yourself again.

In today’s episode, Human Connections Specialist, Mark Groves, teaches us all about prioritizing yourself and your healing after a breakup. If you’re not over the last guy that ghosted you, it’s okay because neither am I. The only thing that’s not okay is not loving yourself. I know, it’s easier said than done. But remember, pain might occur in a relationship, but so does healing.

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In honor of May's #MentalHealthMonth, we open the month with a dear episode of mine where I cover all sides of depression and my own battle with it.

On today's episode, I share one of the darkest times of my life. As I choke up and cry, I share my painful story of shame, battling clinical depression 6 years ago, and how I almost didn't think I'd survive. I also discuss the difference between being sad, feeling depressed, and having actual clinical depression.

PERSONAL MESSAGE TO MY BESTIES OUT THERE:

Please know that you are not alone, you are loved, and I'm so proud of you for getting out of bed today! The pain you are feeling won't last forever... I promise. The sun will rise tomorrow and we will try again. <3

If you or anyone you know is battling with depression or having suicidal thoughts, please speak up.

HOTLINES:

Self Harm Hotline: 1-800-366-8288

Substance Abuse and Mental Health Administration (SAMHSA)

Helpline:1-800-662-4357

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255

Trevor Project Lifeline: 1-866-488-7386

National Hopeline Network:1-800-442-4673

LGBT National Hotline: 1-888-843-4564

The Friendship Line: 1-800-971-0016

Los Angeles County Suicide Prevention Center - 1-877-727-4747

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Hey, Besties! Welcome to Part 2 with Nicole Behnam. Now that we’re done talking about CRYPTO, NFT, and the confusing jargon for dummies, let’s move on to how you can excel in a toxic, manipulative workplace and setting boundaries for yourself at work. And let’s not forget how having a good MENTOR can help improve your career. If you get the chance, get one! 

And then, we also cover the highs and lows of relationships, being okay with showing emotions and expressions of love, why LOVE BOMBING isn’t gonna work, the RED FLAGS of future bad behavior in your partner, and many more love and relationship lessons from two women who’s seen and been in bad and crazy relationships!

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And I’m back! Last week I talked about how Daddy Issues was created and how a career shift changed my life. Today, we’re pivoting to something interesting that most rich guys are investing in, CRYPTO currency! 

I sit down with Nicole Behnam, a Crypto, NFT, and Tech investor and advisor to discuss the very basic fundamentals of NFT and crypto, the jargons that are a bit confusing but totally cool when you learn and understand them, and the ins and outs of moving your money around the space. 

Yeah, it’s a lot to take in but I promise, you need this in your life. You gotta learn about Web 3 and where to invest your money.  

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 02:16 How Nicole and I met
• 06:19 NFT: Non-fungible token 
• 13:47 Owning an NFT on a block chain
• 15:02 What is a block chain?
• 25:24 All emotions are valid, all reactions are not
• 35:21 How can you buy an NFT?
• 40:39 Where to invest in crypto?
• 49:45 Let’s talk about Discord
• 54:10 The true believers build during a bare market

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Before anything else, let me put this out here, THIS episode talks about BULLYING in the office space and losing yourself in the process because the BULLIES made you believe that you’re supposed to take it all in.

Last week, we talked about how to succeed in life and get THE dream job. Today, we will focus on WHY it’s okay to ditch your dream job when it’s making you miserable and unhappy. I started Daddy Issues because I was bullied and even though this alter ego is a completely different person, she is happy. She conquered her world and she thrived in the social circles she wanted to be a part of. 

So yes, Bestie! You can do it even if others think you can’t. Believe in what YOU can do!

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Hey Besties! We got another 2-part Solo episode. This time though, we will talk about serious stuff, like life lessons, getting a job, and having a career. Surprise! Surprise!

High school didn’t have any notable academic achievements but I did have a degree in Accounting and studied business law undergrad. Why am I talking about this? Well, the LIFE LESSONS I’m going to talk about is to show you how a high school underachiever got an internship with the District Attorney’s office, got a new job position created in an accounting firm, and got to compete with overly qualified men for a promotion. You gotta work that ass, bestie!

As my Dad had said to an 11-year-old Violet, “All you will have is your education and your career. So you better think smart and you better start now!”

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 02:40 Sometimes, it’s really nice to feel appreciated
• 03:46 I was invited to a Coachella private party 
• 06:43 This is my theory about short men…
• 08:54 On to more celebrity news
• 12:31 Let me tell you about this British guy
• 16:33 That’s how bad I was in school
• 24:23 Lesson #1: How to get a YES
• 30:16 Lesson #2: When you hear a NO, find a way to get a YES
• 36:39 Lesson #3: How do you perfect an interview?
• 43:06 Lesson #4: How do you get a promotion

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After the steamy 2-part episode with Dr. Emily Morse, let’s pivot a little bit and talk about life updates! Let’s talk serious, adulting stuff!

So, I start the episode with finally answering why I had to leave behind TOO TIRED TO BE CRAZY for a new podcast name, the personal issues I had to address with my Daddy Issues persona, convo with my mom, and exciting DEALS and PROMOS in the podcast for you guys!

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It's time for PART 2, b*tches! :) We ended Part 1 with how to give your man a good head and the #1 Oral Method to make a girl cum. 

Now listen up as Emily shows me the best way to find the REAL G-Spot. We end the episode with tips to not c*m too fast, hilarious fan sex stories and how I ended up in the ER after fingering gone wrong.

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• Sex with Emily Podcast

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