Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

Prepare to be shocked because Violetta is diving deep into a collection of jaw-dropping confessions from the depths of Reddit. From the shocking tale of catching a girlfriend in the act with a so-called "friend" (on their own bed, no less!) to the heart-wrenching confession of accidentally causing harm to a best friend's baby, Violetta's reactions will keep you on the edge of your seat.  

But it's not all doom and gloom – she's got an eye-opening story of road rage that ended with a twist involving a savvy lawyer. Throughout this episode, you'll experience the full spectrum of human behavior, from the darkest moments to unexpected redemption. 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:48 I caught my girlfriend scr*wing my friend on our bed
• 13:29 I accidentally killed my best friend's baby
• 16:50 I’m a victim of road rage and got myself a good lawyer

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Get ready for a delightful and insightful episode of Almost Adulting with Violetta Benson as she chats with the wonderful Tara Schuster! You'll be intrigued by the backstory of Tara's book title, "Buy The F*cking Lilies," and how it resonated with countless readers. They dive into the contents of the book, exploring chapters like "When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong." 

Tara candidly shares her journey, highlighting the challenges of writing about her relationship with her father, offering valuable insights on self-improvement and setting boundaries. You'll discover how vulnerability has played a vital role in Tara's ability to connect with people, and how active journaling can transform your life.Her revelations about the far-reaching impact of our actions on the world will leave you with a profound sense of responsibility and the understanding that we're not here to merely suffer but to learn how to savor every moment of life. 

Together, Violetta and Tara will inspire you to make the shift towards a positive and self-loving mindset. Tune in and soak up the positive vibes!   

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:10 The story behind Buy The F*cking Lilies book title
• 07:27 Why did it resonate with a lot of people?
• 10:38 Chapter: When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong
• 14:08 The hardest chapter to write was the relationship with her dad
• 18:59 If we want to change for the better, we can
• 22:03 How can setting boundaries have a profound impact in your life?
• 27:53 You have to make you love yourself
• 31:37 How being vulnerable allowed you to connect with people
• 35:39 Complication after egg retrieval procedure
• 47:51 The benefits of active journaling
• 56:46 Mindset shift towards self improvement
• 01:05:20 Whatever you put out in the world affects everyone around you
• 01:06:31 We aren’t here to suffer, we need learn how to enjoy life  

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• https://twitter.com/taraschustar 

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Hold onto your hats, Besties! It's been a rollercoaster of a week, and Violetta is here to spill the tea on all the wild and wacky adventures she's been on. From the quirks of getting paid in the entertainment biz (seriously, why does it take forever?), to some dental dilemmas involving root canals and plate implants (who knew teeth could be so eventful?), she's got stories that'll have you laughing, cringing, and shaking your head in disbelief.

But it doesn't stop there! Ever wondered what it's like when your Facebook account gets hacked? Well, Violetta’s got the lowdown on that too. Buckle up, because this episode is a whirlwind of anecdotes and unexpected twists that'll leave you wondering, "Is this real life?" So, join us for a hilarious and slightly chaotic ride through the ups and downs of Violet's week – you won't want to miss it!  

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:34 It’s just that type of week
• 02:55 Let me tell you about my week
• 05:57 Getting paid in the entertainment industry sometimes take months 
• 07:52 Have you ever had plate implants?
• 12:37 Despite everything, why am I not crying right now?
• 16:12 Why did I need a new root canal?
• 19:13 And so, my Facebook account got hacked
• 27:43 Everything that happened, I did it to myself

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Besties! Buckle up, because today we're diving into all things love, personal growth, and relationships with Radhi Devlukia. Radhi is an influencer who shares recipes with her followers on social media and on her website.

Radhi gets candid about her journey from being a Daddy's girl to discovering wisdom in the Bhagavad Gita. Together with Violetta, she shares some of the best advice her dad ever gave her and takes you on a heartfelt exploration of holding onto anger and resentment. Let's uncover what it feels like to push boundaries on cultural expectations for women and explore the complexities of personal journeys in the shadow of successful partners.

And if that's not enough, we're digging into what makes a partnership thrive, how to handle conflict as a couple, and the fine balance between prioritizing your relationship and nurturing your individual growth. Radhi also talks about the fear of failure, the origins of feeling not good enough, and finding those beautiful connections with others. It's a rollercoaster of love, self-discovery, and embracing life at your own pace.   

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:13 Grateful for the loving people around you
• 02:45 Something most people don’t know about you
• 04:40 We forget to ask people how they are doing
• 06:06 Sustaining a positive attitude
• 08:41 Growing up, I was a Daddy’s girl
• 10:20 The Bhagavad Gita
• 12:13 Best advice from your dad
• 15:25 Holding onto resentment
• 17:41 Have you struggled to let go of anger and resentment?
• 20:26 When you feel invisible
• 24:09 Pushing the boundaries on cultural expectations for women
• 30:17 Figuring out your own journey when you have a successful partner
• 32:37 Having a supportive partner
• 35:58 We all function in our own pace in life 
• 39:34 Do you have the fear of failure?
• 41:18 Where does feeling not good enough come from?
• 47:27 How do you connect better to others?
• 50:28 What's your definition of love? 
• 54:30 Least favorite thing about yourself
• 56:17 How Radhi saw Jay at the beginning of their relationship
• 58:56 How do you handle conflict as a couple?
• 01:02:39 Difference between putting something first and feeling neglected
• 01:06:47 How do you make your relationship a priority?
• 01:09:45 Take time alone to figure yourself out 

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Get ready for some juicy tea, because in this episode of Almost Adulting with Violet Benson, we're spilling all the Love Is Blind Reunion gossip! Violetta is serving up her unfiltered thoughts and hilarious commentary on the latest couple drama. With only two pairs making it down the aisle, she's questioning the notion of unconditional love and tackling the ever-important credit score conversation. From Lydia and Milton's heartwarming union to the surprising turn of events for Chris and Johnie, there's no shortage of opinions in this review. So, if you want the inside scoop on this season's most buzzworthy moments, this episode is a must-listen!  

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:10 Uche is an energy vampire
• 03:26 I’m on my period for 3 weeks now
• 04:54 Just look at their eyes to know if they're intoxicated
• 06:03 When couple worry too much about other couple’s relationship
• 07:46 Only two couples ended in a marriage
• 08:58 Izzy and Stacy didn’t make it to the wedding
• 14:12 Asking for an unconditional love from your partner is delusional
• 16:05 “Yes, credit score matters, Izzy!”
• 18:21 Happy ending for Milton and Lydia
• 22:53 Chris and Johnie didn’t end up together
• 24:08 Lydia did Aaliyah a favor
• 26:13 Stacy being a mean girl to Johnie
• 30:55 No one respects people who bring people down

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Hey there, Besties! Well, we've got a treat for you today – and it's all about getting real and having a blast. Today, we welcome influencer and YouTuber Amanda McCants for a hilarious chat with Violetta.

So, ever thought about the fakest thing people might have noticed about you? You're not alone! We'll get to hear about Amanda's cameo in a Key Glock music video and that memorable first meeting with Violetta. It's a whirlwind of empowerment and support for rising talents, coupled with some zodiac sign insights and a deep dive into the influencer life. And, oh boy, get ready for the dating adventures, including setting up girls to date the guy she's dating! But there's more – Amanda's Vogue: 73 Questions experience is on the menu, too! 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:56 What is the fakest thing about you?
• 03:34 Part of Key Glock music video
• 05:43 Violetta and Amanda’s first meeting
• 06:32 Diagnosed with being in the spectrum
• 07:46 Being helpful to other rising talents
• 11:09 Zodiac signs
• 13:29 How did the influencer life started
• 15:24 Putting your self-worth in someone else
• 19:46 Supporting for your ex’s new girl
• 22:54 Setting up girls to date the guy I’m dating
• 24:09 The Vogue: 73 Questions
• 31:41 Everyone is depressed
• 36:15 He gave me STI
• 41:51 It’s over, I’m done…
• 43:26 I always know what I want to do
• 45:43 Imposter syndrome
• 46:11 What it feels not to have social cues
• 49:46 Craziest job you had
• 54:54 Getting a lot of hate
• 58:11 Dealing with extreme backlash
• 01:00:41 The worst more embarrassing day you can laugh about
• 01:09:20 I like your teeth!

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• https://www.tiktok.com/@amandamccants  

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Hey there, Besties! Ready to catch up on some fun and thoughtful moments from my life? Well, here we go! So, lately, I've been all about embracing spontaneity. I mean, life's too short to not do the occasional crazy thing, right? From wild adventures to trying out new hairstyles, it's been a whirlwind of excitement. But you know what they say, even your hair holds memories. It's like a little time capsule on top of your head!

Now, speaking of memories, I've stumbled upon some pretty awesome quotes lately that got me thinking about life in a whole new way. But it's not all about the philosophical stuff. I also surprised my parents with a fantastic vacation trip, and boy, that was something! On the family front, my dad's the ultimate pessimist while my mom, well, she's the eternal optimist. It's like living in a sitcom sometimes! So, if you're wondering why I'm all about staying open and vulnerable, despite life's ups and downs, stick around. There's a whole lot of candid conversation coming your way.  

If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:42 What is the craziest thing that I've done recently?
• 06:14 They say your hair keeps memories
• 07:26 What’s a good quote you recently heard?
• 10:50 Surprising my parents with a vacation trip
• 13:32 You create your own reality
• 17:34 My dad is a pessimist and my mom is an optimist
• 19:50 Why do you need to be vulnerable and not shut yourself off?   

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Hey, Besties! It's a brand-new day and a fresh episode. Today, we've got a special treat for you as Violetta spills the beans on how she met the fabulous Apryl Jones, and let's just say, it's a story for the ages. But, it's not all fun and games – we're diving deep into the world of self-work and therapy. Ever wondered how to spot someone who's been on a journey of self-discovery? Violetta's got the inside scoop, and it's more insightful than you might think. 

But wait, there's more! We're exploring the intricate realms of love – from redefining it to dealing with it as parents and beyond. We've got all the wisdom you need on co-parenting, dating again, and even dating in the public eye (oh, the drama!). Plus, you won't want to miss the best and worst love advice and the ultimate secret to attracting better things into your life. So cozy up and let's get deep and real with Violetta and Apryl!  

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:04 How Violetta met Apryl
• 05:12 You can tell when someone is going to therapy
• 06:46 What’s your definition of love?
• 08:50 How do you deal with your kids?
• 13:56 Forgiving your parents for not knowing any better
• 17:40 Not looking at anyone different
• 18:49 Reflect on your life, sit with yourself, and not play the victim
• 22:01 Have you ever done shadow work?
• 23:19 When you don’t love yourself enough
• 25:26 Always open to learning
• 28:31 Having children is much bigger than us
• 33:18 You have to be real and honest with yourself
• 35:56 How do you successfully co-parent?
• 38:35 How do you start dating again?
• 41:50 It started with an Instagram DM
• 45:58 Best and worst advice about love
• 48:25 Conscious dating when you have kids
• 51:55 Is it difficult to date in the public eye?
• 55:02 Privacy is still important because we’re all human
• 57:27 Do you forgive someone for yourself?
• 01:02:45 Learn how to see yourself first
• 01:07:48 How do you become more kind to yourself?
• 01:09:43 Choose to be a better human to attract better things in life 
• 01:12:57 Three Questions with Apryl Jones

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• https://twitter.com/aprylsjones 
• https://www.facebook.com/OfficialAprylJones/ 
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Hey there, Besties! Get ready to dive into another jam-packed review of Love Is Blind S5, Episode 5, 6, and 7. We're not just spilling the tea today; we're pouring a whole kettle of it! 

Violetta talks briefly about last weeks' Thursday episode, 4 Steps to Love Yourself where she shares steps to help you embrace and adore the amazing person you are, because who doesn't need a little extra self-love in their life, right?

Love Is Blind fans, Violetta's got the latest scoop on who's walking down the aisle – and trust us, there are some surprises. Plus, we're dissecting the awkwardness between Taylor and JP and taking a closer look at relationships on the show. Is Lydia onto something, or is Uche playing with fire? And hold onto your Instagram accounts because we're talking about following (or maybe not following) random girls. Are your social media habits revealing more than you think? Tune in for laughter, revelations, and some good old-fashioned reality TV chatter.  

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:50 Four steps to love yourself
• 03:27 Love Is Blind S - who’s getting married?
• 05:29 Why are Taylor and JP so awkward?
• 12:16 When reality sets in for Izzy and Stacy  
• 17:05 Lydia and Milton’s relationship seems very surface level
• 18:49 Is Uche gaslighting Aaliyah?
• 24:25 Maybe Lydia knew that Uche will be in S5
• 31:42 You’ll know a partner’s bad for you when…
• 34:41 Still following random girls on IG   

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Alright, gather 'round, folks! We are ending September with this, "Choose to love yourself every single day." Yep, that's right, loving yourself should be as normal as your morning coffee. 

Today, Violetta will share the four steps to amp up that self-love game. There are four steps you  need in your life: setting up boundaries, becoming self-aware, getting to know yourself more, and changing your perspective. You've always got a choice. So, whether you're on a self-discovery journey or just need a little nudge to love yourself more, this episode is like a warm hug from your podcast pal, guiding you toward a brighter, self-love-filled future.  

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:21 Choose to love yourself every single day
• 06:05 Step #1: Start setting boundaries for yourself
• 10:21 Step #2: Be more self aware and know when to walk away
• 18:34 Step #3: Know who you are and be at peace with yourself
• 26:55 Step #4: Change your perspective, you always have a choice to have a better life

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