Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

Ever wondered about the hidden stories that weave the tapestry of human existence? Brace yourselves, because in this episode, we're peeling back the layers and delving into stories that challenge our perceptions, tug at our emotions, and remind us of the complexities that make us undeniably human.

Today, Violetta is back with another batch of Reddit confessions. From sacrificing parental rights to confronting the aftermath of a child's devastating lie about assault, and even exploring the unexpected dynamics of sibling relationships, get ready to listen through emotions that are as intense as they are relatable and somehow insanely eye rolling. Get ready to be moved, captivated, and reminded that beneath the surface, we're all navigating our own stories that shape who we are.

If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:43 Story #1: I was asked to give up my parental rights
• 13:19 Story #2: A child lied about being assaulted by his mother’s boyfriend
• 20:35 Story #3: My older brother and I were sleeping together

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Welcome back, Besties! Have you ever wondered what lies behind the facade, the moments that define us beyond the spotlight? It's a natural curiosity to wonder about the authentic stories that unfold in the quieter corners of our lives. Beyond the glamorous exterior that we often project to the world, there are those raw, unfiltered moments that truly define who we are – the struggles, triumphs, and personal revelations that shape us in profound ways. 

Today, Violetta welcomes Sasha Pieterse - American actress, singer, and model who gained significant recognition for her role as Alison DiLaurentis on the popular TV series "Pretty Little Liars." 

The duo dive into an intimate conversation that's all about embracing authenticity, overcoming challenges, and finding strength within ourselves. They offer a rare glimpse into the dynamics of fame and authenticity, the art of gracefully handling criticism, and insights into building trust and finding strength amidst motherhood. Let's celebrate vulnerability, growth, and the power of communication. 

If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:44 Most people don’t know about you
• 04:53 Fulfilling moments in the industry
• 06:35 When roles rub off on you in real life
• 11:09 Do you miss Pretty Little Liars?
• 13:16 Starting young in the industry
• 15:58 Advice for your younger self?
• 16:44 How do you handle criticism
• 19:52 Diagnosed with PCOS
• 26:59 Every woman had different needs
• 30:48 Have people around you can trust
• 31:57 Physically and mentally stronger as a mother
• 36:13 You can’t be another person
• 39:57 Your purpose should be what you love doing
• 44:00 Remember people as a whole, not just the positives
• 47:37 Talking is important even when it’s not fun 

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• https://www.tiktok.com/@sashapieterse 
• https://www.threads.net/@sashapieterse 

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And we're back! Hold onto your hats because we've got a whirlwind of exciting stories and insights to share with you in another Benson Knows Best episode.

Violetta excitedly shares how she unexpectedly crossed paths with her 'future' husband just last weekend. But that's just the tip of the iceberg! And she's peeling back the layers of being a "placeholder" for someone else and learning how to read in between the pages and know your worth in your partner's future plans. Plus, men often categorize the women they meet. In what category do you fall under? Listen up and find out!

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:20 I ran into my future husband this past weekend
• 09:19 What is one thing you will never do again?
• 10:52 Men and women look for different things
• 12:41 You’re just a placeholder
• 20:19 Three categories men have for the women they met
• 20:31 Where do I buy my clothes?

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How often do we find ourselves tangled in misconceptions about love, and what impact does this have on our relationships? Could redefining our understanding of love lead us to more fulfilling and authentic connections? 

As we navigate this emotional landscape, Violetta is up for a candid conversation that dismantles these misconceptions and leads us toward a more profound understanding of love's essence. It's time to bid farewell to those who don't see our value and make space for the ones who do. Let's take a look into the practical steps to mend our wounded hearts and how fall in love with ourselves once again. Afterall, it's a journey of rediscovery, embracing our worth, and rekindling our self-love flame.  

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:11 A man’s interest only grows in time, not disappear
• 05:12 The biggest mistake we make is the idea of love
• 07:38 Close your door to someone who won’t love you
• 10:21 We lie to ourselves and think they’re the right person
• 13:14 Who hurts more after the breakup?
• 16:12 How to get over a heartbreak?
• 20:28 Why does heartbreak hurt so much?
• 24:11 Fall in love with yourself again

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Hey there, gorgeous souls! Hold onto your seats as we unveil the raw and riveting stories for another Confession Corner. We're here to dish out the juiciest details and sizzling discussions.

Violetta gets candid on the complexity of relationships and emotions with the intricacies of postpartum depression and its impact on a relationship, a confession involving sibling rivalry, perceptions, and the pursuit of fairness. But we're not stopping there! We're peeling back the layers on the intoxicating world of friendship and attraction and those moments that make your heart skip a beat. 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:01 Confession #1: I cheated on my wife while she had postpartum depression
• 12:10 Confession #2: My sister Angela is obsessed with making me the bad person
• 20:34 Confession #3: I ended having a crush with one of my guy friends

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As your go-to gal for all things fun and motivational, I'm sharing with you today the conversation I had with Hannah Berner in her podcast, Berning in Hell. 

In this episode, Hannah and I dive into the humorous world of pet allergies and discuss the empowered choice of not having s*x by choice. From navigating emotions around watching prn to the empowering journey of reclaiming virginity, we're here to embrace every aspect of ourselves! We'll share some vulnerable moments, from the impact of getting off birth control to potentially losing hearing, reminding us to stay resilient. And, of course, we'll talk about the power of laughter and funny skiing stories that'll leave us in stitches!  

It's time to live our best lives, Besties – you're in for a treat!  

If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 03:42 I’m so allergic to my cat…
• 07:24 By choice, you’re not having s*x?
• 14:56 Working on your people-pleasing habits
• 18:05 When something bad happens, find the fun in it
• 23:43 How does watching p*rn make you feel?
• 26:40 Are you a v*rgin again?
• 28:10 Why did you get off birth control?
• 31:23 I could potentially lose hearing in left ear
• 37:57 The happiest times in your life isn’t always about a milestone
• 44:59 Let’s talk about some funny skiing stories   

Connect with Hannah on:

• https://hannahberner.com/
• https://www.tiktok.com/@hannah_berner
• https://www.instagram.com/hannahberner/
• Berning in Hell Podcast
• Giggly Squad Podcast

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Welcome back, Besties! It's a brand new Benson Knows Best episode. Get ready for exciting announcements and juicy discussions as we dive into some burning questions from you guys! 

In this episode, Violetta is keeping it real with a candid conversation about hormones that haven't gone back to normal, the complexities of love and relationships as we address some questions you guys sent including how to get over a guy friend you developed feelings for – trust me, we've all been there, a possible narcissistic prick, who keeps you around for their ego boost, and a break down of why some men treat us poorly and how to break free from that cycle of disappointment.

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:10 I have a few announcements
• 04:09 Make sure to check in with your friends and family
• 06:31 My hormones have not gone back to normal
• 13:07 Question #1: How to get over a guy friend you developed feelings for?
• 17:57 Question #2: Is he a narcissist prick who’s trying to keep me around to make him feel better?
• 28:08 Question #3: I’m at a loss as to why men treat me so badly?

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• https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/
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Welcome, lovely souls to an enchanting podcast episode filled with the captivating realms of manifesting and tarot card reading. From debunking misconceptions about manifesting to unlocking the secrets of a powerful practice, we'll delve into the art of embracing abundance and love in our lives.

Today, Violetta is joined by Sarah Perl a.k.a. Hot High Priestess. Sarah is a tarot card reader, manifestation coach, TikToker, and an entrepreneur. The duo will show us how to properly manifest your desires and tap into your intuition while also exploring the mindset required for a fulfilling practice, the irresistible love letter method to make someone obsessed with you, and some laughter as they recount hilarious stories from their teen years.

As they venture into the divine practice of tarot card reading, they will unveil the basic principles behind this mystical art and even conduct love readings for the fabulous listeners. With insights into breaking old patterns and the empowering whisper method, let's manifest our wildest dreams and unleash the magic within. 

If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to [email protected] or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!

What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:23 How did you get into manifesting and tarot card reading?
• 04:54 What's one thing you wish the people understood better when it came to manifesting?
• 06:29 How do you manifest properly?
• 07:54 How can you tap into your own intuition?
• 13:28 What mindset do you need to be in before practicing manifestation?
• 17:52 Walk around with an identity that would make people treat you better
• 19:38 How do you get someone obsessed over you?
• 23:29 What is the love letter method?
• 24:33 Give them a chance to think about you
• 28:17 Affirmations for the next 21 days to attract abundance in your life
• 29:27 Funny story when I was 13 years old
• 32:29 What are the basic principles behind tarot card reading?
• 33:33 Let’s do love reading for the listeners
• 39:58 Love reading for Violetta
• 46:30 Is it working for you to repeat old patterns?
• 47:18 What is the whisper method? 

Connect with Hot High Priestess on:

• https://www.youtube.com/c/HotHighPriestess 
• https://www.instagram.com/hothighpriestess/ 
• https://www.tiktok.com/@hothighpriestess 

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Hey, Besties! Welcome to another Confession Corner episode! Let's talk about something important – emotional neglect.  It's something many of us may have experienced without even realizing it. Emotional neglect happens when our feelings, needs, and emotions are consistently ignored or invalidated, leaving us feeling unheard and unseen. It can be tough, but remember, you are not alone in this.

Violetta shares her personal story with her friend and how the act of opening up to that friend unplugged so many pent up emotion, highlighting the importance of talking about feelings and embracing vulnerability. We will explore the impact of taking accountability for everything and the power of vulnerability in strengthening our connections. Crying becomes a powerhouse tool for emotional healing as we validate our emotions. Plus, find reassurance that time heals all wounds and love will find you again. 

Get ready to embrace your emotions, love yourself fiercely.

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:24 Taking accountability to a fault
• 06:38 How can you tell when someone cares?
• 11:18 Channeling your anger onto the wrong things
• 15:02 How can people learn to love you when you’re not letting them in?
• 19:29 Adam from Reddit said: “Scientific facts imply that crying is actually healthy.”
• 23:06 Do you still think about the ex that you left?

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Get ready for a transformative and heartwarming journey with your caring big sister, Violetta. In this empowering podcast episode, we'll explore the magical world of shadow work, where hidden thoughts and desires reside. Join us as we uncover the top three places to encounter your shadow self and learn how relationships serve as mirrors for personal growth. Embrace the power of self-awareness and engage in an inner dialogue to face your shadow with compassion and curiosity. 

We'll travel back to our childhood to understand the root of our shadows and explore the four most common patterns of childhood wounds. Through integration and acceptance, we'll celebrate our wholeness and emerge stronger, wiser, and more compassionate than ever before. So, cozy up, my lovely sisters, and embark on this empowering journey of self-discovery and growth. Your big sister is here to guide you every step of the way!

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:39 The shadow is where we keep our most hidden thoughts and desires
• 02:06 What is shadow work?
• 04:18 Top 3 places you will meet your shadow self
• 09:47 There’s nothing worse than trying to work on yourself but people kept blaming you
• 12:08 When we're dating people, we end up holding a mirror to ourselves 
• 17:58 First step is to acknowledge the existence of the shadow 
• 19:31 Second step is cultivate self awareness
• 22:34 How do we bring our shadows to the surface?
• 23:17 Third step is face your shadow and engage in an inner dialogue
• 28:00 Fourth step is to do a childhood analysis and meet your inner child
• 30:34 Four most common patterns of childhood wounds
• 33:24 Fifth step is integrating the shadow and embracing compassion and acceptance

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