Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

Surviving a break-in is like being catapulted into an action movie you never auditioned for. In that moment, time seems to stand still as you navigate a maze of emotions - fear, shock, and a newfound appreciation for every breath you take. It's like a wake-up call that shakes you to your core, reminding you of the fragility of life and the resilience that resides within you. Despite the chaos and uncertainty, surviving that harrowing experience empowers you like nothing else.

Today, Violetta is going to share what transpired during her recent trip to St. Tropez. The energy is electric as she tries her best to get close to her newfound friends and then realizing that despite the initial connections, something feels off. From worse to worst, the house she had been staying with the group had been robbed! The realization hits like a tidal wave - the house had been robbed. But amidst the trauma and the missing personal belongings, there's a glimmer of gratitude. She's safe, unharmed, and reminded of the irreplaceable value of life.

St. Tropez may have thrown unexpected twists her way, but she's determined to let this experience shape her into a woman who cherishes every moment, holds onto what truly matters, and never takes her safety and well-being for granted.

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:19 The seven of swords from the tarot card
• 04:49 Meeting new girlies in St. Tropez
• 05:35 And the gossip started
• 08:40 She dropped her glass on my foot
• 11:53 The girls I partied with last night think I hate them
• 15:24 No one has power over you, except yourself
• 17:50 The more I wanted to hang out with the girls, the more I was told to stay away from them
• 19:01 I walked into the house, the alarm didn’t go off
• 21:14 We found out there were two break-ins in the house
• 24:54 No one asked if I was okay and I thought I didn’t get robbed
• 29:29 I finally realized that I was robbed
• 33:23 I learned a lot about myself during the St. Tropez trip 

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Step into a world of dating wisdom, gorgeous! In this eye-opening and empowering episode, we're diving headfirst into the realm of relationships, self-discovery, and personal growth. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions as we navigate the complexities of love. 

Today, Violetta sits down with dating expert Anna Kai. Anna's insights transcend the conventional narratives surrounding dating and offer a deeper understanding of the barriers to authentic connections. With a keen eye for patterns and a compassionate approach, she sheds light on the common obstacles that prevent individuals from forging fulfilling relationships.

From recognizing red flags and embracing our self-worth to understanding the importance of effective communication, this episode is a guidebook for the modern woman seeking fulfillment in her relationships. We'll delve into the power of intuition, the significance of relationship labels, and the transformative journey of healing from childhood trauma. Along the way, we'll share personal stories of heartbreak and growth, debunk myths surrounding singlehood, and empower you to embrace new beginnings.

Get ready to rewrite the rules of dating, Besties, and step into a world of endless possibilities.    

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:48 The most common question you always get asked?
• 04:05 We fight to make up not to break up
• 05:31 Don’t ignore the red flags
• 08:43 How do you stop being that girl that guys wanted to date but not commit to?
• 11:52 Do you now like relationship labels?
• 13:57 How would you know if someone is serious about you?
• 17:16 5 things that can save you from ending up with the wrong guy
• 18:26 All your friends and family hate him but you don’t see it
• 20:03 Why do you keep other ‘platonic’ relationships around?
• 22:32 Childhood trauma
• 26:13 “Okay, I’m done chasing these guys.”
• 28:44 You need to be dumped by the man you love to become the woman you deserved
• 35:49 Leaving the man you love for the man you deserve
• 43:03 Why do some women remain single?
• 47:30 Every breakup is actually just the beginning of another chapter of your life
• 52:41 He didn’t change, he just stopped pretending
• 55:47 Why you should not accept his apology
• 01:02:26 Every guy that dumped you, led you to the guy are with right now
• 01:04:22 Best/worst advice you've gotten

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Hey, Besties! Today, we welcome back Farha Khalidi for part two of the conversation I had with her last week. Get ready for candid conversations, personal stories, and the sparks of intellectual curiosity as we delve into the realms of love, self-worth, and communication. 

From debunking misconceptions surrounding OnlyFans to exploring the complexities of dating in the digital age, this episode dives into various intriguing chapters. It celebrates the power of communication, challenges harmful ideologies, and delves into controversial topics such as the Red Pill movement and cannibalism laws. With personal stories, insightful discussions, and a touch of controversy, this episode empowers listeners to embrace their authenticity, honor their boundaries, and foster understanding in a world filled with assumptions and judgment. 

Get ready to be inspired, uplifted, and encouraged to unleash your inner warrior as we embark on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment.   

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:21 What is the most common assumption from people?
• 02:54 What made you decide to wait?
• 04:50 What does your virginity mean for you?
• 15:26 Losing my virginity during high school
• 20:16 TikTok and OF
• 22:07 Misconceptions about OF
• 26:34 Being a virgin and doing OF
• 29:03 Would you date a guy who has slept with lots of women?
• 31:08 Dating a guy chatting with a OF model
• 33:53 Guys going to strip clubs
• 35:19 How do you define p*rn addiction
• 37:52 Do you have a good relationship with your parents?
• 41:40 Would you lose your V-card for money?
• 42:45 Red Pill movement
• 48:23 Dealing with hate
• 52:24 Do men have lizard brains?
• 55:13 Did you know that cannibalism isn’t illegal in some states?
• 56:22 Sharing of passwords
• 01:03:08 They are not you, so communicate
• 01:08:43 Sharing of location

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Welcome, Besties, to an episode filled with thought-provoking discussions and empowering insights that'll leave you feeling empowered and ready to conquer the world. Introducing Farha Khalidi, a TikToker, comedian, and OnlyFans model known for her political comedy videos where she combines her comedic talents with a political edge to create content that challenges commonly held conservative beliefs.       

First up, Violetta and Farha talk about her guest appearance on  popular manosphere podcasts such as the Whatever Podcast and Fresh&Fit where she fearlessly confronts the hosts' purportedly problematic and sexist viewpoints. The duo challenge the notion of basing our value solely on our bodies and encourage a holistic approach to self-acceptance and discuss the art of reading between the lines, trusting our intuition, and making informed decisions.     

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:16 Red Pill community
• 07:16 What made you join these podcasts?
• 12:19 They are nicer on the show, period!
• 14:05 How they think they can get women
• 18:11 My ex just wants me to stay at home
• 23:27 Get to know his mom
• 27:40 Empathizing with their struggles
• 29:32 The main purpose of the Whatever podcast
• 32:53 Would you have sex without emotional attachment?
• 38:53 Basing your value on your body
• 41:09 Is the third date the default?
• 45:03 Pay attention to the signs

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Hey there! We've got a lineup of juicy topics that'll leave you wanting more as we say goodbye to June. Adelaide Kane is back for a part 2 of the amazing conversation she and Violetta had last week. 

First up, Violetta asks Adelaide to reveal the one thing most people don't know about her. The duo also talk about what makes them happy these days, their egg freezing journey and the body changes that no one talks about after the egg extraction, the pros and cons of birth control, and so much more! Get ready to glow, babe, because this episode is all about women!

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:08 What’s the one thing most people don’t know about you?
• 04:28 One question you get asked a lot?
• 05:00 Are you happy?
• 07:37 What’s your happiest moment this year?
• 11:55 Egg freezing journey
• 18:54 Lack of information on the reproductive process
• 22:43 Getting off of birth control
• 24:23 Body sensitivity to medication

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Get ready to close out the sizzling month of June, also known as Hookup Month, with a bang! We're bringing you a very special guest who's ready to spice up the conversation and take us on a journey of passion, connection, and unforgettable moments. 

The gorgeous Adelaide Kane joins Violetta today for heartfelt conversations and empowering messages. The pair talk about how you can chase your dreams while still making time for yourself and those special people in your life, how love evolves, grows, and surprises us along the way, and how love is love but we're here to celebrate all the beautiful colors of the rainbow.

Also, both of them will explore how life's twists and turns shape us, guide us, and lead us to incredible moments of growth and happiness. Trust the journey, babe, and know that every step has a purpose.

So, grab your favorite cocktail, turn up the heat, and join us as we bid farewell to June in the most unforgettable way. 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:35 Maintaining balance between work and personal life
• 08:20 Friendship time
• 16:42 When your friends are sharing, check in first
• 20:39 Have your definition of love changed?
• 26:55 What’s your love language?
• 39:27 Keeping your relationship private
• 45:09 Let’s talk about sexual preference
• 49:24 Coming out and how people reacted
• 59:48 No pressure when the platform isn’t monetized
• 01:03:48 Being more perfectly imperfect
• 01:11:05 Everything happens for a reason

Connect with Adelaide on:

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• https://twitter.com/adelaidekane
• https://www.facebook.com/TheRealAdelaideKane/ 

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Hey there, Besties! For our last episode of the hookup month, let's dive into the bittersweet journey of letting go. We know, it can be extra tough to let go when you're caught up in the heat of the moment. Trust your instincts and know that you deserve a love that ignites passion and brings you joy. It's all about finding the courage to embrace your worth, celebrate your fabulous self, and create space for the unexpected. 

Violetta shares a story of loss and heartache, where we explore the raw vulnerability of sudden loss, to the emotional weight that comes when a family member falls ill. She also talks about the trap of comparison and helps you break free from that toxic cycle. Join us for a packed episode filled with helpful insights, self-love reminders, and positive vibes to leave you feeling unstoppable. 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:52 Story of the day: He’s father suddenly passed
• 13:37 Don’t sit there and blame yourself
• 15:06 It takes a toll on you when a family member gets sick
• 19:44 How you’re feeling about a situation is valid
• 24:26 He just wasted your time
• 28:47 With time, you’ll start comparing yourself to other people

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Your go to guide on how to survive the first 3 months of dating and turn it into a committed relationship!!

What are the pros and cons of those thrilling first stages of dating? It's common to experience feelings of uncertainty, anxiety, and even fear of rejection. The pressure to make a good impression and the ambiguity of early intentions can also add to the mix. Well, let's take a closer look. 

Today, Violetta explores the mixed emotions that come with the exciting yet nerve-wracking journey of the beginning stages of dating. From the thrill of new connections to the underlying fears and insecurities, the common struggles of anxiety, doubt, seeking validation, withdrawal, and battling our own insecurities to the value of authentic connection, how it can lead to a fulfilling and lasting relationship, and challenging the perception of negative emotions and highlight their potential for growth and transformation.  

Tune in to this enlightening episode as we navigate the ups and downs of dating, uncover the lessons that relationships teach us, and explore how vulnerability and communication can lead to authentic and thriving connections. 

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:44 The beginning stages of dating is fun but also scary
• 05:01 The biggest teachers are those who didn’t truly love us
• 06:29 There’s no perfect partner, but a person who truly wants to be with you will stay
• 08:53 We are the worst narrators of our own lives
• 11:29 Pause and ask yourself, “Why am I reacting like this?”
• 16:41 Instead of pushing your partner away, communicate
• 19:08 Our reactions are hurting our partner as well
• 24:59 Negative emotions can be helpful
• 26:39 A healthy relationships happens when you show up for each other

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Hey, Besties! Let's talk about the magic of vulnerability when you're diving into the world of dating. I know, it can be a little scary to let your guard down and show your true emotions, but trust me, it's worth it! Opening up and being vulnerable allows for a deeper connection and a chance for someone to see the real you. It's about sharing your fears, dreams, and even those adorable quirks that make you, well, you. 

Today, in another Benson Knows Best episode, Violetta it's important to keep an eye out for those sneaky red flags that might signal potential trouble ahead as you venture back into the dating scene, how to give yourself time to heal and reflect if you find yourself in a relationship that didn't end horribly but just didn't work, and how by embracing vulnerability you create a safe space for both you and your potential partner to truly connect on a deeper level. Remember, the end of one chapter opens the door to new and exciting possibilities. You've got this, gorgeous!

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:36 They’re probably not really that into you
• 04:45 Red flags in the beginning of dating
• 09:27 Why should we become vulnerable and not shut off?
• 17:06 How to move on from a relationship that did not end horribly?
• 23:11 What does it mean when he tells you that he’s rooting for you?

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Hey there, Besties! Let's talk about something that's super important: knowing your worth and becoming the ultimate prize, not just some side chick. You deserve to be cherished, adored, and treated like the queen you are. So, girl, don't settle for being someone's afterthought or hidden secret. 

Today, Violetta is here to tell you that instead of wasting time telling guys about how badly you were treated by your ex, it's time to focus on yourself and your own value. Love yourself fiercely, more than anything else in this world, embrace your flaws, celebrate your strengths, and never settle for anything less than you deserve. When you radiate that self-confidence, trust me, the right guys will flock to you like bees to honey. So, go out there, strut your stuff, and let everyone know that you're a woman who deserves nothing less than the best!

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What to Listen For:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:16 Here’s why you should always be the leading lady in your own story
• 05:27 Don’t tell them how sh*tty your ex is
• 07:59 How do you view yourself as a prize?
• 11:30 The mistake you’re always doing
• 13:57 Change your perspective: You’re the price
• 15:42 Real interest does not peak, it only rises
• 17:54 Dating is a journey of self discovery and growth
• 19:04 Remember, love yourself fiercely

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