Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

Struggling with your goals? then listen to this.

Today we dive into my dumpster fire of a life before diving into the science of habit formation with a sprinkle of sarcasm. We’re breaking down the game-changing insights from James Clear's Atomic Habits to help you build habits that actually stick. I'll walk you through the four simple steps to form habits that work for you, not against you. It’s educational, it’s real, and eye opening. Tune in to stop overthinking and start automating your way to a better life. Listen now, and thank me later.

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What do you do when your hot‑girl era turns into a medical horror story?

I broke my foot on a date, got a UTI, and spent the day being gaslit by the ER - who sent me home TWICE with a literal displaced fracture… but not before charging me for wasting my time. I can’t walk for two months, might need surgery, and now I’m side‑eyeing my friends because my scorpio senses are tingling that one of them definitely gave me the evil eye. It’s giving delusion, humiliation, and the American healthcare system at its finest.

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Start with the PSA - it’s your biology lesson in detachment. Send it to every girl who caught feelings after he came inside her.

Then we dive into vag myths, s@x lies & the patriarchy - we’re breaking down everything men still get wrong about women’s bodies.

• What’s the craziest thing a woman’s admitted about her taco?
• The biggest myth men still believe in 2025?
• And is it true a fishy taco is actually HIS fault?

Yeah, I asked all of it and more. :) The founders of Winx Health join me for the most unfiltered, chaotic, and actually-educational convo about women’s bodies you’ll ever hear.

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It was supposed to be a romantic Vegas trip… until I got hemorrhoids, threw up in a $900 suite, did shrooms (allegedly), and had second thoughts about Bookman.

Why? Because this man did the unthinkable… he texted back, planned dates, opened doors, used empathy, and was willing to change. Is this too good to be true… or have I met my match? You tell me.

Welcome to Part 1 of Finding My Husband: Vegas - where romance meets chaos, Russian standards meet American men, and emotionally stable men are the new red flag. I said what I said.

(dating podcast • Vegas trip chaos • attachment theory • love bomber or match • relationship overthinking • female hosted podcast)

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The trip ended, the lessons didn’t.

In Part 2 of Finding My Husband: Vegas, I’m talking about the real game:

• how to keep him hooked without losing yourself
• Why even healthy love will still drive you a little insane sometimes
• How to self-regulate before you self-sabotage
• From overthinking to attachment theory
• Everything you need to know about dating an avoidant
• And how to actually win an avoidant over

(dating podcast • attachment styles • relationship advice • how to love an avoidant • female-hosted podcast)

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Thinking about starting that business, becoming an influencer, or finally posting that video?? If the only thing standing between you and your dreams is worrying what people might think.. then this episode is about to set you FREE.

Truth is, other people’s opinions are keeping you Broke & boring babe.. which is why today, we’re unpacking Mel Robbins’ Let Them Think Bad Thoughts. And once you get it, you’ll realise other people’s opinions have zero power over you. This is your permission slip to post, build, create, and live unapologetically.

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Do you pick the billionaire with private jets and a family fortune, or the guy who makes you feel safe but probably flies coach? In Part 6 of “Finding My Husband,” the universe drops a literal billionaire into my life right as I’m about to take things with Bookman to the next level. I unpack lust vs. stability, attachment wounds, and the messy decisions that follow… and by the end, I make a huge choice.

WHO WOULD YOU CHOOSE, BESTIE?

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(Dating podcast • relationship advice • modern love • situationship • dating stories)

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Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This September, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Libra man obsessed with YOU.

Get ready to discover:

🔥 How to charm the ultimate romantic and keep him captivated by you.

🔥 Foolproof ways to balance his love for beauty, harmony, and connection.

🔥 What he values most in a relationship (and what will tip the scales against you).

🔥 The signs he’s pulling away—and how to bring back the spark.

🔥 Strategies to win him back if things have gone off course.

Whether you’re drawn to his charm and sophistication or working to reignite his passion, this episode will give you the tools to master the art of loving a Libra man.

Hit play now and make sure to save this episode to make this September all about claiming the heart of the zodiac’s ultimate charmer! ✨

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Think you’ve had the worst date ever? Try going out with a musician… WORST. DATE. FINAL. BOSS.

From men wearing my Skims to guys with kids my age, the dating pool isn’t just in hell… it’s swimming in piss and UTIs.  Welcome to Part 5, besties. Buckle up because this episode is UNHINGED and will have you laughing your socks off. 

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Welcome to the narcissist playbook

Think you’ve never dated a narcissist? Think again. From love bombing to gaslighting to the classic “I’m sorry you feel that way” non-apology—these are the Top 5 Mind Games Narcissists Play that’ll have you questioning your reality, your group chat, and maybe even your sanity.

On today's episode, Violetta is breaking down their playbook, exposing every trick, and telling you exactly how to spot the BS before it wrecks your self-esteem. If you’ve ever left a date wondering if you’re crazy… spoiler: you’re not. He’s just a narcissist.

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